"I have a rule of thumb that allows me to judge--when time is pressing and one needs to make a snap judgment--whether some sexist bullshit is afoot. Obviously it's not 100 percent infallible but, by and large, it definitely points you in the right direction. And it's asking this question: "Are the men doing it? Are the men worrying about this as well? Is this taking up the men's time? Are the men told not to do this, as it's "letting our side down"? Are the men having to write bloody books about this exasperating, retarded, time-wasting bullshit? Is this making Jon Stewart feel insecure?" Almost always, the answer is: "No. The boys are not being told they have to be a certain way. They're just getting on with stuff."