Finding and keeping a lifelong partner is a common dream of all girls, everywhere. Women love men (well, most of us, anyway--Ellen DeGeneres is a Louisiana Grits, after all!), and Grits are no exceptions. We think about true love as much as the next girl--maybe more, thanks to that romantic Southern atmosphere. Finding a man is like eating a meal: it's tasty, it's tempting, and it keeps you alive. Sometimes it's bad for you, sometimes it goes down wrong, but the most important thing is that you've tried everything on your plate. And once it's gone, there is simply no use in worrying about it. Go ahead and try to exercise off the effects, but remember: there's another one coming down the road, and it's going to be better (or at least more tempting) than the last. So tie on that napkin, darlin', and get ready to dig in!