"Having been battered by the world in his earlier years, he had come to rely on family and friends and never forgot that lesson. When he offered an appointment to a former St. Louis friend, the man felt obliged to point out that he was a Democrat. Grant waved away this concern. "Just before the Civil War," he said, "when I was standing on a street corner in St. Louis by a wagon loaded with wood, you approached and said: 'Captain, haven't you been able to sell your wood?' I answered: 'No.' Then you said: 'I'll buy it; and whenever you haul a load of wood to the city and can't sell it, just take it around to my residence . . . and I'll pay you for it.' I haven't forgotten it."