" ... * Relax, relax, relax, and enjoy that honeymoon! * Don't panic if it takes some time to adjust to being married--it can take up to a year to find your marriage "sea legs." * Talk about feelings with your husband, not your friends. * Set aside time to be alone when you need it. * Have a date once a week (with your husband, of course). * Learn to pick your battles--remember, marriage is about compromise. * Schedule time with the girls, and allow him time with the boys. * Don't sweat the small stuff--Grits don't sweat...we glisten!"