If you're always thinking about what you want to say, then you're never really listening to what other people are saying. And that means you are missing out. Likewise in life, if you talk too much, you'll miss the chance to get to know other people properly and understand their points of view fully. Conversely, if you make sure the listening exceeds the talking, then when you do speak, you'll find that people will be far more interested in what you have to say. Firstly because they'll assume what you're saying is considered and of value, and secondly they won't be sick of the sound of your voice! People always value others who really listen to them. Quiet, considered and genuine listening is such a gift to give someone, and you will become recognized and loved for this skill.