"She fell silent for a time, then slowly looked at me. "She was just so lonely, you know? It was painful. I told her to try one of those online matchmaking services. I pushed. Women like Amy can be--" She searched for the right word, but wasn't pleased with the result. "--persuaded. I talked her into it." "You think this is your fault." "Isn't it? I badgered. I nagged. She started swapping emails with someone. This is how I know there's a man. I was thrilled and I wanted to know all about him, but she wouldn't say anything. Don't you find that weird? I think it's weird. She told me he was interesting. She told me she liked him. And now here we are." "Maybe"