The models we have of our relationships at work, with friends, in our families, and in our society are all even more complicated than our visual models. These constructs--call them personal models--shape what we perceive. But they are each unique to us--no one can see relationships quite the way we do. If only we could remember that! Most of us walk around thinking that our view is best--probably because it is the only one we really know. You'd think the fact that we all have major misunderstandings with people at times--squabbles over what was said or what was meant--would clue us in to the reality that so incredibly much is hidden from us. But, no. We have to learn, over and over again, that the perceptions and experiences of others are vastly different than our own. In a creative environment, those differences can be assets. But when we don't acknowledge and honor them, they can erode, rather than enrich, our creative work.