"The reality of our life is in love, in solidarity," said a tall, soft-eyed girl. "Love is the true condition of human life." Bedap shook his head. "No. Shev's right," he said. "Love's just one of the ways through, and it can go wrong, and miss. Pain never misses. But therefore we don't have much choice about enduring it! We will, whether we want to or not."