"David remembers an incident from this period when Brenda found a pair of her mother's black kid gloves in a closet. "They felt nice and soft inside," David says. "I put them on. They reminded me of those cool Italian race car gloves that you see in the movies. I was thinking, These would give a good grip on the steering wheel. All of a sudden I realized my mother was behind me. I looked around and she was smiling at me, and she said, 'Go ahead. If you want to wear them, go ahead.' She thought I was trying to be feminine."