"Children Are a Gift Behold, children are a gift of the LORD; the fruit of the womb is a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior, so are the children of one's youth. --PSALM 127:3 NASB In a recent women's Bible study, the teacher asked the group, "Did you feel loved by your parents when you were a child?" Here are some of the responses. * "A lot of pizza came to the house on Friday nights when my parents went out for the evening." * "I got in their way. I wasn't important to them." * "They were too busy for me." * "Mom didn't have to work, but she did just so she wouldn't have to be home with us kids." * "I spent too much time with a babysitter." * "Mom was too involved at the country club to spend time with me." * "Dad took us on trips, but he played golf all the time we were away." So many of the ladies felt they were rejected by their parents in their childhoods. There was very little love in their homes. What would your children say in response to the same question? I'm sure we all would gain insight from our children's answers. In today's verse we see that children are a reward (gift) from the Lord. In Hebrew, "gift" means "property--a possession." Truly, God has loaned us His property or possessions to care for and to enjoy for a certain period of time. My Bob loves to grow vegetables in his raised-bed garden each summer. I am amazed at what it takes to get a good crop. He cultivates the soil, sows seeds, waters, fertilizes, weeds, and prunes. Raising children takes a lot of time, care, nurturing, and cultivating as well. We can't neglect these responsibilities if we are going to produce good fruit. Left to itself, the garden--and our children--will end up weeds. Bob always has a smile on his face when he brings a big basket full of corn, tomatoes, cucumbers, and beans into the kitchen. As the harvest is Bob's reward, so children are parents' rewards. Let your home be a place where its members come to be rejuvenated after a very busy time away from it. We liked to call our home the "trauma center"--a place where we could make mistakes, but also where there was healing. Perfect people didn't reside at our address. We tried to teach that we all make mistakes and certainly aren't always right. Quite often in our home we could hear the two"