"When the forces that seek to defy God whisper if in our ears--if God really loved me, I wouldn't feel like this... If I really am beloved, then I should have everything I want... if I really belong to God, things in my life wouldn't suck--to remember that God has named us and claimed us as God's own. When what seems to be depression or compulsive eating or narcissism or despair or discouragement or resentment or isolation takes over, try picturing it as a vulnerable and desperate force seeking to defy God's grace and mercy in your life. And then tell it to piss off and say defiantly to it, "I am baptized" or "I am God's," because nothing else gets to tell you who you are."