"Eventually you can instinctively identify the way your spouse would react to a situation, assess its wisdom in this situation, and adopt it sometimes in a way that you never would have been able to pre-marriage. Let's call this "cross-gender enrichment." In this way, male and female "complete" each other and reflect the image of God together (Genesis 1:26-28). But this is not something that only married people can do. It happens quite naturally in strong Christian community," --