"I wasn't ready to get married," Sean said. "I didn't like getting pushed up against a wall and we both walked away mad. Six months later I was thinking, I might not be ready to get married, but I'm not ready for this to be over, either. I thought I could compromise if she could. So I called her cell phone. I left a couple of messages and she never called back. A few more months and I thought, all right--if it takes marriage to make her happy, I could probably work with the idea, as long as she gives me plenty of time to adjust. Maybe we could have a long engagement, just to make sure we're doing the right thing. So I called again and the cell phone was shut off. Her e-mail bounced back--undeliverable. Her mother, who she's very tight with, had moved. And if you think I was teed off before, the idea she'd just ignore me like that when I'm fucking trying--that really pissed me off." And ripped my heart out. Just like I'd ripped her heart out by saying no way. What a couple of fools. "That's"