If you're single and you're not having the greatest fun of your life, it's high time to reassess your priorities. It may be hard to see it, but these are the carefree spring days in the seasons of your life! Enjoy them. Be your own person. Be happy. Be confident. If you've heard it once, you've heard it a thousand times: nothing attracts a man like confidence. And if that doesn't work, don't be afraid to chase him down like a greased pig at the county fair. It's long past the time when it wasn't acceptable for a woman to make the first move, after all. And make sure he knows your attention is precious: he'd better use it or lose it. If doesn't work, he's probably just one of those slow types, bless his heart, and you're better off without him.