"The crude communal myth about black men is that we are in some manner unavailable to black women--either jailed, dead, gay, or married to white women. A corollary myth posits a direct and negative relationship between success and black culture. Before we actually had one, we could not imagine a black president who loved being black. In The Audacity of Hope, Obama describes his first kiss with the woman who would become his wife as tasting "of chocolate." The line sounds ripped from Essence magazine. That's the point."