However, not pushing back costs more: our ability to choose what is most essential in life. For Jin-Yung and Clay, respect in the workplace and time for God and family were most important, so these were the things they deliberately and strategically chose to prioritise. After all, if you don't set boundaries - there won't be any. Or even worse, there will be boundaries, but they'll be set by default - or by another person - instead of by design.