ETIQUETTE FOR THE GUEST Important things to remember as a guest: * Be punctual, but not early. * Cancel only if there is an emergency. * Offer to help the hostess if help is needed. * Be a good mixer with the other guests. * If there is a theme to the tea, dress according to the theme. It will add a special touch to the event. * Even though you enjoy talking, try not to be the last to leave. * Be sure to say a goodbye to the hostess. * Write a thank you note within 24 hours of the party.