"Take my word for it, obedience is better than disobedience. I don't always get it right, and you probably won't either, but I am moving forward--and you can too. That's what God wants from us. I encourage you to develop a new mind-set, one that says, "I love people; I enjoy helping them and being generous." Then purpose to spend some time each morning thinking about what you can do for someone else that day. Lie in your bed before you get up in the mornings and pray, "God, who can I bless today?" Don't ask, "How can I be blessed today," but "Who can I bless today?" In"