"One day a woman went to the saintly Father John Vianney, the Cure of Ars, in France, and said, "My husband has not been to the sacraments or to Mass for years. He has been unfaithful, wicked, and unjust. He has just fallen from a bridge and was drowned --a double death of body and soul." The Cure answered, "Madam, there is a short distance between the bridge and the water, and it is that distance which forbids you to judge."