More broadly, a decent, humane, self-governing society will reject the belief that most human beings - homosexual or heterosexual - are slaves to their passions, their desires, their genetic predispositions. Our identities are not defined by sex, nor is sex itself an irresistible force. To believe otherwise is to vitiate the concept of individual responsibility and free will. Although our struggles are not all the same, we all do struggle against every sort of human desire, against our biological impulses, against our emotional longings. We do not abjure the struggle because it is difficult or beaux we seem to be battling against something deep within us - even if that something is as powerful as sexual desire; even if it seems fundamental to who we are.