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Often, our misunderstandings about love are born in disruptive family relationships, where someone was either one-up or one-down to an extreme. There is an appropriate and necessary difference in the balance of power between parents and young children, but in the best situations, there should be no power struggles by the time those children have become adults - just deep connection, trust, and respect between people who sincerely care about each other. In disruptive families, children are taught to remain one-up or one-down into adulthood. And this produces immature adults who either seek to dominate others (one-up) or who allow themselves to be dominated (one-down) in their relationships - one powerful and one needy, one enabling and one addicted, one decisive and one confused. In relationships with these people, manipulation abounds. Especially when they start to feel out of control.
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family-relationships
abusive
counseling
disfunction
enable
enabling
codependency
manipulation
control
power
psychology
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Tim Clinton |
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The malpractice for advice-giving is like five times as much as a craniotomy.
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counseling
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Nicole Krauss |
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It is not rubbish! It is the part of people that you do not understand.
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empathy
counseling
perspective
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E.M. Forster |
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He opposed the hardness acquired during the last twenty years of his life. This state of mind fatigued him. He perceived with dismay that the sort of frightful calm which the injustice of his misfortune had conferred upon him was giving way within them.
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change
counseling
vulnerability
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Victor Hugo |
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Almost everything I've done is technically wrong, but Paul never mentioned the mistakes, only the corrective measures.
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counseling
encouragement
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Stefan Fatsis |
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Abuse? Ah. Such problems, even with time, do not go away on their own. They must be addressed. Andre Chevalier
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counseling
healing-abuse
healing
abuse-recovery
sexual-abuse
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Nikki Sex |
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Angeline, distraught over her son's obsession and afraid of the effects of the past year on Artemis's mind, signed her thirteen-year-old up for treatment with the school counselor. You have to feel sorry for him. The counselor, that is.
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counseling
genius
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Eoin Colfer |