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| 2c509a9 | many men would rather place themselves at risk than acknowledge distress, either physical or emotional. In The Things They Carried, Tim O'Brien gives a clear example of the force of men's shame, when he remembers his fellow "grunts" in Vietnam: They carried their reputations. They carried the soldier's greatest fear, which was the fear of blushing. Men killed, and died, because they were embarrassed not to. It was what brought them to the w.. | Terrence Real |