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Write,' she said, 'as if you'll never be read. That way you'll be sure to tell the truth.
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I feel, holding books, accommodating their weight and breathing their dust, an abiding love. I trust them, in a way that I can't trust my computer, though I couldn't do without it. Books are matter. My books matter. What would I have done through these years without the library and all its lovely books?
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The strangest thing about strange things is that they're only strange when you hear about them or think about them later, but never when you're living them.
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If heaven is tolerant and writers are allowed (bunch of liars though they are), I wonder if they gather for coffee to ponder the prose they should have written instead.
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writing
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What is it about sadness that can be so fulfilling?
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Lori Lansens |
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How cruel it must be for a man to live past his soul.
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Lori Lansens |
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Art isn't a product. It's an experience
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Lori Lansens |
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If you don't like something about yourself, change it. If you're OK with it, you gotta own it. There's nothing in between.
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Lori Lansens |
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When you get older you think of sadness in a different way. You don't judge it so harshly.
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The city, no matter how small, is corrupt and unrepentant, while the sun shines brighter in the country, making people more wholesome.
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the only thing left to do is love
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I hum some secret place into being, thinking of this other me, the one that only I can see, a girl called She, who is not We, a girl who I will never be.
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Aunt Lovey used to tell me that if I wanted to be a writer, I needed a writer's voice. 'Read,' she'd say, 'and if you have a writer's voice, one day it will shout out, 'I can do that too!
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Before she closed her eyes tonight, Rose said she regretted that she has not done something heroic in her life. Well, it's not like she can suddenly climb a tree and save a cat, or go to medical school and begin some important cancer research. But Rose has been my sister. I think that's heroic.
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In sleep, my sister and I found a common breath. In dreams, we knew the moon.
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Lori Lansens |
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The climb speaks to our character, but the view, I think, to our souls
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My father used to say there are two kinds of people: the noticers and the noticed
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family-relationships
family-drama
survival-story
suspense
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The most successful people in the most impossible situations are the ones that are sure they're gonna get out of it, and they go on thinking that, even if they die trying.
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struggle
strength
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I can't exactly say why I've chosen to write about the things that I am writing about. There are doubtless better stories from my life that I am missing, events and escapades I am not wise enough to know were important. If heaven is tolerant and writers are allowed (bunch of liars that they are), I wonder if they gather for coffee to ponder the prose they should have written instead.
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I would not have dreamed back then, could never have imagined, that one day I would be a childless mother too.
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Funny how you can measure time by pets that were not even your own.
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Regrets. Sure you think about regrets, but it's not regret for the things you've done that occupy you, as much as it is a longing for the things you'll never have a chance to do.
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Regrets serve their purpose. You'll see.
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regrets
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In those dangerous narrows grew children who knew too much too young but, sadly, always seemed to learn too little too late.
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Uncle Stash said you didn't have to be crazy to to do something stupid, just young.
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Read it slow as you can. It's like a fine meal. You don't want to gulp it, but savor it so you can taste it in your memory when you're lone done.
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There will be sway.
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Lori Lansens |
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As I grew older, I found I could surrender my own comfort so effortlessly it didn't qualify as sacrifice.
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I wonder if all women secretly fantasize, like me, about what it would be like to be an extraordinary beauty and bitchy as you wanna be.
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The beach was empty and dark but she couldn't hear her fear over the call of the surf.
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bravery
courage
fear
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Sometimes a guy wants to feel like he learned something without being taught.
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Lori Lansens |
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Ruby is my sister. And strangely, undeniably, my child.
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On the farm, in our first-floor bedroom, my sister and I were sheltered in the essence of normal. We were not hidden, but unseen. The orange farmhouse was our castle, our kingdom the fields around, and the shallow creek that bisected our property the sea we crossed to find adventure.
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The final picture in the album was of Aunt Lovey and Uncle Stash, their black-and-white wedding photo. I hated that their picture came last, because it felt like they were saying goodbye.
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If you don't like something about yourself, change it. If you're okay with it, you gotta own it. There's nothing in between.
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Lori Lansens |
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You're so dehydrated I can hear you blink.
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Lori Lansens |
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I felt the weight of my father's failures and the absence of my mother and I wondered who would teach me, or if a guy could learn on his own, what it means to be a man.
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Resilience, thy name is Devine.
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sarcasm
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I was three inches taller but he could smell my fear.
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strength-and-courage
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I wondered who would teach me, or if a boy could learn on his won, what it means to be a man.
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Lori Lansens |
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My father used to say there are two kinds of people. The notices and the noticed.
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Lori Lansens |
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Her changing perception of time had altered the sum of her reflections.
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Lori Lansens |
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You're just not always in a place for as long as you thought you'd be.
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Lori Lansens |
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You think about these words a lot, and there are not many things, when you come right down to it, that you'll be happy to see the end of.
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