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You are not an alcoholic or an addict. You are not incurably diseased. You have merely become dependent on substances or addictive behavior to cope with underlying conditions that you are now going to heal, at which time your dependency will cease completely and forever.
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depression
inspiration
inspire
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rehab-centers
drug-addiction
rehab
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passages-malibu
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addiction-treatment-center
chris-prentiss
alcoholism
alcoholism-addiction-recovery
disease
alcoholic
self-help
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Chris Prentiss |
1063099
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When people who believe themselves to be addicts or alcoholics come under great stress or trauma, they mentally give themselves permission to drink or use drugs as a remedy.
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addicts
alcoholics
drug-addiction
addiction
alcohol-addiction
alcohol-abuse
chris-prentiss
drug-abuse
alcoholism
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Chris Prentiss |
24944e0
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At the bottom of every person's dependency, there is always pain, Discovering the pain and healing it is an essential step in ending dependency.
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substance-addiction
drug-addiction
rehab
dependency
alcohol-addiction
passages-ventura
substance-abuse
passages-malibu
chris-prentiss
quotes
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Chris Prentiss |
bc4c519
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People who believe they have bad luck create bad luck. Those who believe they are very fortunate, that the world is a generous place filled with trustworthy people, live in exactly that kind of world.
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trust
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inspire
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trustworthy
passages-ventura
passages-malibu
chris-prentiss
beliefs
quotes
fortune
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Chris Prentiss |
311c114
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If you can stop using substance or stop your addictive behavior for extended periods of time without craving, you are not dependent. You are dependent only if you can't stop without physical or psychological distress (you have unpleasant physical and/or psychological withdrawal symptoms) or if you stop and then relapse.
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drug-addiction
relapse
non-12-step
alcohol-addiction
addiction-and-recovery
passages-ventura
pax-prentiss
passages-malibu
chris-prentiss
alcoholism
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Chris Prentiss |
6bea34d
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Every person in the AA program who's successful is living proof that he or she does have power over addictive drugs and alcohol- the power to stop.
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empowerment
drug-addiction
alcoholics-anonymous
addiction
alcohol-addiction
chris-prentiss
drug-abuse
alcoholism
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Chris Prentiss |
d73db23
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Alcohol and drugs are not the problems; they are what people are using to help themselves cope with the problems. Those problems always have both physical and psychological components- anything from anemia, hypoglycemia, or a sluggish thyroid to attention deficient disorder, brain-wave pattern imbalances, or deep emotional pain.
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drug-addiction
alcohol-addiction
pax-prentiss
addiction-cure
addiction-treatment
alcohol-abuse
chris-prentiss
drug-abuse
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Chris Prentiss |
bf3f574
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Treatment for dependency at substance abuse treatment centers must change if alcoholism and addiction are to be overcome in our society.
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change
philosophy
substance-addiction
drug-addiction
non-12-step-program
12-steps
alcohol-addiction
passages-ventura
pax-prentiss
passages-malibu
alcohol-abuse
chris-prentiss
drug-abuse
treatment
alcoholism
society
recovery
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Chris Prentiss |
5f0bd61
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It's the causes, not the dependent person, that must be corrected. That's why I see the United States' War on Drugs as being fought in an unrealistic manner. This war is focused on fighting drug dealers and the use of drugs here and abroad, when the effort should be primarily aimed at treating and curing that causes that compel people to reach for drugs.
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depression
drug-war
war-on-drugs
alcohol-rehab
drug-rehab
drug-rehab-center
dependency
alcohol-treatment-center
passages-ventura
pax-prentiss
substance-abuse
passages-malibu
chris-prentiss
drug-abuse
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Chris Prentiss |
e9c5809
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The more you engage in any type of emotion or behavior, the greater your desire for it will become.
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depression
happiness
philosophy
zen-and-the-art-of-happiness
chris-prentiss
zen
emotions
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Chris Prentiss |
21e1d72
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There is no cell culture for depression. You can't see it on a bone scan or an x-ray. Not everyone with depression will show the same behavioral symptoms.
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depression
sadness
medical-research
medical-treatment
wellbeing
pax-prentiss
passages-malibu
chris-prentiss
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Chris Prentiss |
35f8d51
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I wrote this book to show you that a cure is entirely possible because I've seen it happen over and over again.
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sobriety
freedom
life
philosophy
wisdom
alcoholism-cure
amazon
bookstore
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great-books
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nook
cure-addiction
author
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passages-malibu
addiction-cure
alcohol-abuse
chris-prentiss
drug-abuse
sober
book
self-help
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Chris Prentiss |
2982823
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Think about the stigma that is attached to the idea that alcoholism is a disease, an incurable illness, and you have it. That's a terrible thing to inflict on someone. Labeling alcoholism as a disease, a cause unto itself, simply no longer fits with what we know today about its causes.
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confidence
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alcohol-disease
cure-addiction
overcome-addiction
rehab-centers
addiction
passages-rehab
passages-ventura
pax-prentiss
passages-malibu
addiction-treatment
chris-prentiss
healing-abuse
healing-trauma
healing
alcoholism
disease
change-the-world
self-image
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Chris Prentiss |
c54e764
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Depression can be due to a low endocrine function, nutritional deficiencies, blood sugar problems, food allergies, or systemic yeast infection. Depression can also result from medical illnesses such as stroke, heart attack, cancer, Parkinson's disease, and hormonal disorder. It can also be caused by a serious loss, a difficult relationship, a financial problem, or any stressful, unwelcome life change.
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reading
depression
sadness
cause-of-depression
passages-ventura
passages-malibu
addiction-treatment
addiction-treatment-center
chris-prentiss
quotes
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Chris Prentiss |
b9dc24b
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"People who are dependent are merely using alcohol as a crutch to get through the day. Yet doctors and scientists are still treating "alcoholism" as if it is the problem, when it has nothing to do with the problem. They might as well be studying "scratchism" for people who have a chronic itch."
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science
holistic-treatment
passages-ventura
pax-prentiss
passages-malibu
chris-prentiss
alcoholism
alcoholism-addiction-recovery
health
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Chris Prentiss |
81b645c
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We recognize that you've used substances to try to regain your lost balance, to try to feel the way you did before the need arose to use addictive drugs or alcohol. We know that you use substances to alter your mood, to cover up your sadness, to ease your heartbreak, to lighten your stress load, to blur your painful memories, to escape your hurtful reality, or to make your unbearable days or nights bearable.
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pain
live
memories
sadness
heartbreak
life
holistic-rehab
holistic-treatment-center
holistic-therapy
holistic-treatment
holistic-health
dependency
non-12-step
passages-ventura
pax-prentiss
substance-abuse
passages-malibu
addiction-cure
addiction-treatment-center
alcohol-abuse
chris-prentiss
drug-abuse
heartache
survival
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Chris Prentiss |
db14a86
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To give up power to change for the better is inherently distasteful to everyone, and to force people to affirm that they are addicts or alcoholics so they can speak in a meeting is shameful and demoralizing.
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change
philosophy
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rehab
holistic-treatment
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life-improvement
passages-ventura
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passages-malibu
addiction-treatment
alcohol-abuse
chris-prentiss
healing-abuse
healing
alcoholism
therapy
alcoholic
recovery
self-help
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Chris Prentiss |
f6e4310
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Whether the underlying cause of your dependency is a chemical imbalance, unresolved events from the past, beliefs you hold that are inconsistent with what is true, an inability to cope with current conditions, or a combination of these four causes, know this: not only are all the causes of dependency within you, but all the solutions are within you as well.
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writer
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writing
books
author
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rehab-center
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addiction-cure
addiction-treatment-center
alcohol-abuse
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drug-abuse
quotes
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Chris Prentiss |
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One of the first actions we take at Passages is to ruthlessly scrutinize, always under a doctor's supervision and care, the specific necessity of any mind- altering or mood-altering medications that our clients are taking. As soon as any non essential drugs are out of their systems, the feelings they were trying to suppress usually emerge. When that happens, we can see what symptoms the client was masking with drugs or alcohol.
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depression
drug-addiction
alcohol-addiction-treatment
drug-addiction-treatment
holistic-treatment
holistic-health
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alcohol-addiction
passages-ventura
pax-prentiss
passages-malibu
addiction-treatment
addiction-treatment-center
alcohol-abuse
chris-prentiss
drug-abuse
quotes
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Chris Prentiss |
e1456ef
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"...there is a saying used in twelve-step programs and in most treatment centers that "Relapse is part of recovery." It's another dangerous slogan that is based on a myth, and it only gives people permission to relapse because that think that when they do, they are on the road to recovery."
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reading
books
relapse
alcoholics-anonymous
passages-malibu
addiction-cure
addiction-treatment
addiction-treatment-center
alcohol-abuse
chris-prentiss
drug-abuse
alcoholism
recovery
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Chris Prentiss |
50dbbfc
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You are not alone in your quest to be who you want and have what you want.
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inspire
philosophy
passages-ventura
passages-malibu
chris-prentiss
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Chris Prentiss |
a9fa838
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"Take a few minutes now and see your current circumstances- your physical condition, your emotional condition, your possessions, your financial condition, where and how you live, your relationships, the situations surrounding your life, and the way you believe other people see you- as mirrors showing you "Who You Are."
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dependency
addiction-and-recovery
passages-ventura
passages-malibu
chris-prentiss
self-improvement
self-help
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Chris Prentiss |
b17dd81
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You have chosen to exist, and more than just exist-- you've been chosen to share in the Universal consciousness.
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universe
inspiration
life
passages-ventura
passages-malibu
chris-prentiss
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Chris Prentiss |
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If those underlying conditions aren't treated, the return of those symptoms may cause us so much discomfort that we'll go back to using addictive drugs or alcohol to obtain relief. That's the primary reason there is such a high rate of relapse among people who have become dependent of alcohol and addictive drugs. It has little to do with alcohol and addiction themselves and almost everything to do with the original causes that created the dependency.
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ecstasy
prescription-abuse
prescription-drugs
dependency
alcohol-addiction
addiction-and-recovery
alcohol-treatment-center
passages-ventura
pax-prentiss
substance-abuse
passages-malibu
chris-prentiss
drug-abuse
alcoholism
self-help
heroin
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Chris Prentiss |
5d9006e
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The advertise their products in such a fashion as to make it seem wonderful to drink their ethanol products. It does not matter if they give their products fancy name like Cabernet Sauvignon or Pinot Noir, or if they put bubbles in an ethanol product and call it champagne or beer- everyone is selling ethanol.
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beer
ecstasy
prescription-abuse
prescription-drugs
dependency
alcohol-addiction
addiction-and-recovery
alcohol-treatment-center
passages-ventura
pax-prentiss
substance-abuse
passages-malibu
chris-prentiss
drug-abuse
alcoholism
self-help
wine
heroin
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Chris Prentiss |
27ac740
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The world is actually a mirror, and as you change, you will see everything around you changing as well, mirroring your changes.
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life
passages-ventura
passages-malibu
chris-prentiss
quotes
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Chris Prentiss |
d7dcbf3
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We wouldn't have much need of a war if people stopped using drugs. It's like taking up a fight against the use of headache remedies; it will never work until the condition causing people's headache pain is healed.
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pain
drug-war
headaches
rehab
root-of-addiction
war-on-drugs
holistic-treatment
pax-prentiss
passages-malibu
chris-prentiss
healing
remedies
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Chris Prentiss |
eae2cd9
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"Zen is a journey of exploration and a way of living that, in and of itself, does not belong to any one religion or tradition. It is about experiencing life in the here and now and about removing the dualistic distinctions between "I" and "you" between "subject" and "objective", between our spiritual and our ordinary, everyday activities."
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inspiration
happiness
life
philosophy
zen-and-the-art-of-happiness
chris-prentiss
zen
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Chris Prentiss |
fbcbd33
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What we call coincidences, accidental and remarkable events occurring at the same time, are actually circumstances and events that have come into your life to serve a purpose is to benefit you.
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inspiration
inspire
motivation
coincidences
passages-ventura
passages-malibu
chris-prentiss
goals
self-improvement
self-help
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Chris Prentiss |
7fd5f17
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The treatment must fit the malady and the malady is not alcoholism or addiction, or addictive drugs and alcohol. Once the correct cause is diagnosed, healing will take place and hoped-for cure will come about.
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depression
addictive-drugs
holistic-healing
alcohol-rehab
drug-rehab
passages-ventura
passages-malibu
addiction-cure
addiction-treatment
alcohol-abuse
chris-prentiss
drug-abuse
health
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Chris Prentiss |
ae9533f
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When you change the way you see and interpret events, suddenly everything will be different for you. Everything will make sense.
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inspiration
life
philosophy
inspirational
passages-ventura
passages-malibu
chris-prentiss
perspective
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Chris Prentiss |
2b30b9d
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Believe that is cure is possible for you. Discover and heal the underlying causes with a holistic recovery program. Adopt a philosophy based on what is true in the Universe.
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universe
sobriety
freedom
inspiration
inspire
change
happiness
life
philosophy
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good-books
alcohol-addiction-treatment
curing-addiction
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renew
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treatment-program
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passages-malibu
addiction-cure
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chris-prentiss
sober
healing
change-the-world
health
self-improvement
self-help
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Chris Prentiss |
0633b56
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We know that you don't want to be a drunk and you don't want to be hooked on addictive drugs. You do it because you can't cope with your life without some sort of support, even if that support is damaging.
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alcohol-rehab
drug-rehab
dependency
passages-ventura
pax-prentiss
passages-malibu
addiction-treatment-center
alcohol-abuse
chris-prentiss
drug-abuse
recovery
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Chris Prentiss |
dca1b95
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The events that occur in my life are workout situations. They are there for my benefit so I can become strong and gain wisdom and information by working my way through those situations.
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pain
joy
happiness
life
love
philosophy
wisdom
addiction-free
chris-prentiss-quotes
addiction-and-recovery
passages-ventura
passages-malibu
chris-prentiss
philosophy-of-life
peace
guilt
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Chris Prentiss |
17d0104
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Whatever you now do, whatever you now believe, whatever your current circumstances may be, you are perfectly equipped and fully capable of fulfilling your needs and desires.
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life
passages-rehab
non-12-step
passages-ventura
passages-malibu
chris-prentiss
quotes
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Chris Prentiss |
60c10bd
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What we call coincidences, accidental and remarkable events occurring at the same time, are actually circumstances and events that have come into your life to serve a purpose- and that purpose is to benefit you.
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inspiration
life
philosophy
inspirational
life-purpose
non-12-step-program
passage-ventura
passages-malibu
chris-prentiss
perspective
quotes
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Chris Prentiss |
bcf1f56
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The world actually is a mirror, and as you change, you will see everything around you changing as well as mirroring your changes.
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dependency
passages-malibu
chris-prentiss
self-improvement
self-help
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Chris Prentiss |
00cdb23
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Staying sober is easy once you have been successful in healing the underlying conditions that were responsible for your dependency in the first place.
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addiction-rehab
california-rehab
malibu-rehab
non12step
alcohol-rehab
drug-rehab
passages-rehab
non-12-step
passages-ventura
passages-malibu
addiction-treatment
chris-prentiss
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Chris Prentiss |
b3545ff
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Times change and discoveries are made that render earlier techniques and approaches less effective. Change is inevitable. To remain rigid when the whole world is changing and advancing is to invite misfortune. The AA program in particular is challenged with an opportunity of unprecedented magnitude.
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opportunity
reading
writing
change
alcoholics-anonymous
addiction
addiction-cure
addiction-treatment
chris-prentiss
challenge
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Chris Prentiss |
aeb9295
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Most centers offer a one-program-fits all type of service, which is rather like a department store that sells one-size fits all clothing.
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addiction-cure
addiction-treatment
chris-prentiss
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Chris Prentiss |
f27bc6c
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In the one-treatment-fits-all approach, clients sit in group meetings all day and all evening and listen to each other stories. At the end of the first week, everyone in the room knows everyone's story. That goes on for three more weeks, and then most people go home with the same problems they brought with them when they arrived.
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alcoholics-anonymous
substance-abuse
addiction-treatment
chris-prentiss
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Chris Prentiss |
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When nothing else worked, we created a holistic, hand-tailored program that saved Pax's life. At Passages, he and I use what we learned in curing him to help others discover the roots of their addiction or alcoholism and break free.
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holistic-health
passages-ventura
pax-prentiss
passages-malibu
chris-prentiss
alcoholism
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Chris Prentiss |
cfd16b5
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"How do you think your body and mind would respond if you were surrounded by psychologists, psychiatrists, or drug and alcohol counselors who subscribed to the belief that "once an alcoholic or addict, always an alcoholic or addict" and who believed that your current stay in rehab would be one of many?"
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holistic-health
holistic
passages-rehab
passages-treatment-center
wellbeing
wellness
non-12-step
zen-and-the-art-of-happiness
passages-ventura
pax-prentiss
passages-malibu
chris-prentiss
treatment
therapy
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Chris Prentiss |
8421a84
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Can you see that meetings and centers that don't address the real causes of dependency are almost certain to be little or no help? They actually can be very damaging.
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dependency
twelve-step-meetings
chris-prentiss
alcoholism
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Chris Prentiss |
26429f3
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By changing how you perceive things and how you act upon those perceptions, you will change your life.
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inspiration
life
philosophy
inspirational
non-12-step
passages-ventura
passages-malibu
chris-prentiss
quotes
perception
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Chris Prentiss |
e80fc52
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Each of us is different and has different needs. In addition, our needs change over the course of our relationship. When you are committed to an enduring relationship with someone, you aren't simply concerned about having your needs met. You also go out of your way to care for your loved one, being aware of and adaptable to their changing needs.
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relationships
inspiration
life
love
the-laws-of-love
chris-prentiss
self-help
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Chris Prentiss |
2de9d74
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If you have experienced recurring situations in your life that are unpleasant, know that there is something you are supposed to be getting from those situations that you have not been getting and that the moment you get it, those situations will pass out of your life, not to return.
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philosophy
life-improvement
passages-malibu
chris-prentiss
philosophy-of-life
self-improvement
self-help
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Chris Prentiss |
47d87e9
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In 1935, when there were no other programs, the founders of AA, Bill Wilson and Dr. Robert Smith, stepped up to the plate and took action to help a crippled population. All credit for the establishment of their wonderful, life-saving group goes to them and to those who came after them who have continued the tradition. However, there are not among the estimated two or three million who attend twelve-step meetings.
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change
philosophy
12-steps
passages-malibu
addiction-treatment
addiction-treatment-center
alcohol-abuse
chris-prentiss
drug-abuse
twelve-step
change-the-world
tradition
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Chris Prentiss |
9f014d1
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Alcohol is the drug ethanol. They are one and the same. Alcohol is also called ethyl alcohol or grain alcohol. It is a chemical compound. Ethanol is often added to the gasoline we use to run our cars.
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alcohol-addiction
passages-ventura
pax-prentiss
passages-malibu
chris-prentiss
alcohol
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Chris Prentiss |
08d5137
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If I were to create a word that more accurately describes alcoholism and addiction, I would say it was dependencyism. Sounds silly, doesn't it? Yet it's no sillier than the word alcoholism. The reason alcoholism no longer sounds silly to you is because you're used to hearing it, reading it, and thinking about it.
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inspiration
wisdom
addiction-and-recovery
alcohol-treatment-center
passages-ventura
pax-prentiss
substance-abuse
passages-malibu
alcohol-abuse
chris-prentiss
alcoholism
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Chris Prentiss |
5735ca7
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At the alpha level, your imagination acts powerfully on your subconsciousness mind and therefore your imaginings are powerfully effective in producing the desired result. It is believed that our subconscious mind represents nearly 90 percent of our mental capacity, which is why influencing your subconscious mind produces such powerful effects.
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imagination
wisdom
passages-malibu
subconscious-mind
chris-prentiss
meditation
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Chris Prentiss |
5a50a6e
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In 1935, when there were no other programs, the founders of AA, Bill Wilson and Dr. Robert Smith, stepped up to the plate and took action to help a crippled population. All credit for the establishment of their wonderful, life-saving group goes to them and to those who came after them who have continued the tradition. However, there are hundreds of millions of people who still need help who are not among the estimated two or three million who attend twelve-step meetings.
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change
philosophy
addiction-cure
addiction-therapy
addiction-treatment
addiction-treatment-center
alcohol-abuse
chris-prentiss
drug-abuse
twelve-step
twelve-steps
perspective
change-the-world
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Chris Prentiss |