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You are not an alcoholic or an addict. You are not incurably diseased. You have merely become dependent on substances or addictive behavior to cope with underlying conditions that you are now going to heal, at which time your dependency will cease completely and forever.
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When people who believe themselves to be addicts or alcoholics come under great stress or trauma, they mentally give themselves permission to drink or use drugs as a remedy.
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At the bottom of every person's dependency, there is always pain, Discovering the pain and healing it is an essential step in ending dependency.
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People who believe they have bad luck create bad luck. Those who believe they are very fortunate, that the world is a generous place filled with trustworthy people, live in exactly that kind of world.
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If you can stop using substance or stop your addictive behavior for extended periods of time without craving, you are not dependent. You are dependent only if you can't stop without physical or psychological distress (you have unpleasant physical and/or psychological withdrawal symptoms) or if you stop and then relapse.
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alcoholism
chris-prentiss
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passages-malibu
passages-ventura
pax-prentiss
relapse
withdrawal
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Chris Prentiss |
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Every person in the AA program who's successful is living proof that he or she does have power over addictive drugs and alcohol- the power to stop.
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alcohol-addiction
alcoholics-anonymous
alcoholism
chris-prentiss
drug-abuse
drug-addiction
empowerment
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Alcohol and drugs are not the problems; they are what people are using to help themselves cope with the problems. Those problems always have both physical and psychological components- anything from anemia, hypoglycemia, or a sluggish thyroid to attention deficient disorder, brain-wave pattern imbalances, or deep emotional pain.
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addiction-treatment
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alcohol-addiction
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drug-addiction
pax-prentiss
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Chris Prentiss |
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Treatment for dependency at substance abuse treatment centers must change if alcoholism and addiction are to be overcome in our society.
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alcohol-abuse
alcohol-addiction
alcoholism
change
chris-prentiss
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drug-addiction
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passages-malibu
passages-ventura
pax-prentiss
philosophy
recovery
society
substance-addiction
treatment
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It's the causes, not the dependent person, that must be corrected. That's why I see the United States' War on Drugs as being fought in an unrealistic manner. This war is focused on fighting drug dealers and the use of drugs here and abroad, when the effort should be primarily aimed at treating and curing that causes that compel people to reach for drugs.
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alcohol-treatment-center
chris-prentiss
dependency
depression
drug-abuse
drug-rehab
drug-rehab-center
drug-war
passages-malibu
passages-ventura
pax-prentiss
substance-abuse
war-on-drugs
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Chris Prentiss |
e9c5809
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The more you engage in any type of emotion or behavior, the greater your desire for it will become.
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chris-prentiss
depression
emotions
happiness
philosophy
zen
zen-and-the-art-of-happiness
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Chris Prentiss |
21e1d72
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There is no cell culture for depression. You can't see it on a bone scan or an x-ray. Not everyone with depression will show the same behavioral symptoms.
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chris-prentiss
depression
medical-research
medical-treatment
passages-malibu
pax-prentiss
sadness
wellbeing
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I wrote this book to show you that a cure is entirely possible because I've seen it happen over and over again.
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nook
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passages-ventura
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sober
sobriety
wisdom
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Think about the stigma that is attached to the idea that alcoholism is a disease, an incurable illness, and you have it. That's a terrible thing to inflict on someone. Labeling alcoholism as a disease, a cause unto itself, simply no longer fits with what we know today about its causes.
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disease
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healing-trauma
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passages-rehab
passages-ventura
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rehab-centers
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Depression can be due to a low endocrine function, nutritional deficiencies, blood sugar problems, food allergies, or systemic yeast infection. Depression can also result from medical illnesses such as stroke, heart attack, cancer, Parkinson's disease, and hormonal disorder. It can also be caused by a serious loss, a difficult relationship, a financial problem, or any stressful, unwelcome life change.
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addiction-treatment-center
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depression
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passages-ventura
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"People who are dependent are merely using alcohol as a crutch to get through the day. Yet doctors and scientists are still treating "alcoholism" as if it is the problem, when it has nothing to do with the problem. They might as well be studying "scratchism" for people who have a chronic itch."
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alcoholism-addiction-recovery
chris-prentiss
health
holistic-treatment
passages-malibu
passages-ventura
pax-prentiss
science
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Chris Prentiss |
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We recognize that you've used substances to try to regain your lost balance, to try to feel the way you did before the need arose to use addictive drugs or alcohol. We know that you use substances to alter your mood, to cover up your sadness, to ease your heartbreak, to lighten your stress load, to blur your painful memories, to escape your hurtful reality, or to make your unbearable days or nights bearable.
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addiction-cure
addiction-treatment-center
alcohol-abuse
chris-prentiss
dependency
drug-abuse
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heartbreak
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holistic-rehab
holistic-therapy
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life
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non-12-step
pain
passages-malibu
passages-ventura
pax-prentiss
sadness
substance-abuse
survival
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To give up power to change for the better is inherently distasteful to everyone, and to force people to affirm that they are addicts or alcoholics so they can speak in a meeting is shameful and demoralizing.
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philosophy
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rehab
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therapy
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Chris Prentiss |
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Whether the underlying cause of your dependency is a chemical imbalance, unresolved events from the past, beliefs you hold that are inconsistent with what is true, an inability to cope with current conditions, or a combination of these four causes, know this: not only are all the causes of dependency within you, but all the solutions are within you as well.
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One of the first actions we take at Passages is to ruthlessly scrutinize, always under a doctor's supervision and care, the specific necessity of any mind- altering or mood-altering medications that our clients are taking. As soon as any non essential drugs are out of their systems, the feelings they were trying to suppress usually emerge. When that happens, we can see what symptoms the client was masking with drugs or alcohol.
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passages-ventura
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quotes
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Chris Prentiss |
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"...there is a saying used in twelve-step programs and in most treatment centers that "Relapse is part of recovery." It's another dangerous slogan that is based on a myth, and it only gives people permission to relapse because that think that when they do, they are on the road to recovery."
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addiction-treatment-center
alcohol-abuse
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chris-prentiss
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reading
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relapse
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Chris Prentiss |
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You are not alone in your quest to be who you want and have what you want.
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chris-prentiss
inspire
passages-malibu
passages-ventura
philosophy
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"Take a few minutes now and see your current circumstances- your physical condition, your emotional condition, your possessions, your financial condition, where and how you live, your relationships, the situations surrounding your life, and the way you believe other people see you- as mirrors showing you "Who You Are."
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chris-prentiss
dependency
passages-malibu
passages-ventura
self-help
self-improvement
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You have chosen to exist, and more than just exist-- you've been chosen to share in the Universal consciousness.
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inspiration
life
passages-malibu
passages-ventura
universe
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If those underlying conditions aren't treated, the return of those symptoms may cause us so much discomfort that we'll go back to using addictive drugs or alcohol to obtain relief. That's the primary reason there is such a high rate of relapse among people who have become dependent of alcohol and addictive drugs. It has little to do with alcohol and addiction themselves and almost everything to do with the original causes that created the dependency.
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alcohol-treatment-center
alcoholism
chris-prentiss
dependency
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ecstasy
heroin
passages-malibu
passages-ventura
pax-prentiss
prescription-abuse
prescription-drugs
self-help
substance-abuse
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The advertise their products in such a fashion as to make it seem wonderful to drink their ethanol products. It does not matter if they give their products fancy name like Cabernet Sauvignon or Pinot Noir, or if they put bubbles in an ethanol product and call it champagne or beer- everyone is selling ethanol.
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alcoholism
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heroin
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passages-ventura
pax-prentiss
prescription-abuse
prescription-drugs
self-help
substance-abuse
wine
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The world is actually a mirror, and as you change, you will see everything around you changing as well, mirroring your changes.
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life
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passages-ventura
quotes
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We wouldn't have much need of a war if people stopped using drugs. It's like taking up a fight against the use of headache remedies; it will never work until the condition causing people's headache pain is healed.
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chris-prentiss
drug-war
headaches
healing
holistic-treatment
pain
passages-malibu
pax-prentiss
rehab
remedies
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war-on-drugs
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"Zen is a journey of exploration and a way of living that, in and of itself, does not belong to any one religion or tradition. It is about experiencing life in the here and now and about removing the dualistic distinctions between "I" and "you" between "subject" and "objective", between our spiritual and our ordinary, everyday activities."
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happiness
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life
philosophy
zen
zen-and-the-art-of-happiness
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What we call coincidences, accidental and remarkable events occurring at the same time, are actually circumstances and events that have come into your life to serve a purpose is to benefit you.
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chris-prentiss
coincidences
goals
inspiration
inspire
motivation
passages-malibu
passages-ventura
self-help
self-improvement
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The treatment must fit the malady and the malady is not alcoholism or addiction, or addictive drugs and alcohol. Once the correct cause is diagnosed, healing will take place and hoped-for cure will come about.
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alcohol-abuse
alcohol-rehab
chris-prentiss
depression
drug-abuse
drug-rehab
health
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passages-malibu
passages-ventura
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When you change the way you see and interpret events, suddenly everything will be different for you. Everything will make sense.
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chris-prentiss
inspiration
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life
passages-malibu
passages-ventura
perspective
philosophy
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Believe that is cure is possible for you. Discover and heal the underlying causes with a holistic recovery program. Adopt a philosophy based on what is true in the Universe.
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sobriety
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We know that you don't want to be a drunk and you don't want to be hooked on addictive drugs. You do it because you can't cope with your life without some sort of support, even if that support is damaging.
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alcohol-rehab
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drug-rehab
passages-malibu
passages-ventura
pax-prentiss
recovery
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The events that occur in my life are workout situations. They are there for my benefit so I can become strong and gain wisdom and information by working my way through those situations.
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addiction-free
chris-prentiss
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joy
life
love
pain
passages-malibu
passages-ventura
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philosophy-of-life
wisdom
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Whatever you now do, whatever you now believe, whatever your current circumstances may be, you are perfectly equipped and fully capable of fulfilling your needs and desires.
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chris-prentiss
life
non-12-step
passages-malibu
passages-rehab
passages-ventura
quotes
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What we call coincidences, accidental and remarkable events occurring at the same time, are actually circumstances and events that have come into your life to serve a purpose- and that purpose is to benefit you.
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chris-prentiss
inspiration
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life
life-purpose
non-12-step-program
passage-ventura
passages-malibu
perspective
philosophy
quotes
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Chris Prentiss |
bcf1f56
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The world actually is a mirror, and as you change, you will see everything around you changing as well as mirroring your changes.
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chris-prentiss
dependency
passages-malibu
self-help
self-improvement
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Staying sober is easy once you have been successful in healing the underlying conditions that were responsible for your dependency in the first place.
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addiction-treatment
alcohol-rehab
california-rehab
chris-prentiss
drug-rehab
malibu-rehab
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non12step
passages-malibu
passages-rehab
passages-ventura
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Chris Prentiss |
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Times change and discoveries are made that render earlier techniques and approaches less effective. Change is inevitable. To remain rigid when the whole world is changing and advancing is to invite misfortune. The AA program in particular is challenged with an opportunity of unprecedented magnitude.
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addiction-cure
addiction-treatment
alcoholics-anonymous
challenge
change
chris-prentiss
opportunity
reading
writing
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Most centers offer a one-program-fits all type of service, which is rather like a department store that sells one-size fits all clothing.
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addiction-cure
addiction-treatment
chris-prentiss
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In the one-treatment-fits-all approach, clients sit in group meetings all day and all evening and listen to each other stories. At the end of the first week, everyone in the room knows everyone's story. That goes on for three more weeks, and then most people go home with the same problems they brought with them when they arrived.
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addiction-treatment
alcoholics-anonymous
chris-prentiss
substance-abuse
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When nothing else worked, we created a holistic, hand-tailored program that saved Pax's life. At Passages, he and I use what we learned in curing him to help others discover the roots of their addiction or alcoholism and break free.
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alcoholism
chris-prentiss
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passages-malibu
passages-ventura
pax-prentiss
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"How do you think your body and mind would respond if you were surrounded by psychologists, psychiatrists, or drug and alcohol counselors who subscribed to the belief that "once an alcoholic or addict, always an alcoholic or addict" and who believed that your current stay in rehab would be one of many?"
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chris-prentiss
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passages-malibu
passages-rehab
passages-treatment-center
passages-ventura
pax-prentiss
therapy
treatment
wellbeing
wellness
zen-and-the-art-of-happiness
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Can you see that meetings and centers that don't address the real causes of dependency are almost certain to be little or no help? They actually can be very damaging.
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alcoholism
chris-prentiss
dependency
twelve-step-meetings
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By changing how you perceive things and how you act upon those perceptions, you will change your life.
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chris-prentiss
inspiration
inspirational
life
non-12-step
passages-malibu
passages-ventura
perception
philosophy
quotes
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Each of us is different and has different needs. In addition, our needs change over the course of our relationship. When you are committed to an enduring relationship with someone, you aren't simply concerned about having your needs met. You also go out of your way to care for your loved one, being aware of and adaptable to their changing needs.
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chris-prentiss
inspiration
life
love
relationships
self-help
the-laws-of-love
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If you have experienced recurring situations in your life that are unpleasant, know that there is something you are supposed to be getting from those situations that you have not been getting and that the moment you get it, those situations will pass out of your life, not to return.
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chris-prentiss
life-improvement
passages-malibu
philosophy
philosophy-of-life
self-help
self-improvement
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Chris Prentiss |
47d87e9
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In 1935, when there were no other programs, the founders of AA, Bill Wilson and Dr. Robert Smith, stepped up to the plate and took action to help a crippled population. All credit for the establishment of their wonderful, life-saving group goes to them and to those who came after them who have continued the tradition. However, there are not among the estimated two or three million who attend twelve-step meetings.
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12-steps
addiction-treatment
addiction-treatment-center
alcohol-abuse
change
change-the-world
chris-prentiss
drug-abuse
passages-malibu
philosophy
tradition
twelve-step
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9f014d1
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Alcohol is the drug ethanol. They are one and the same. Alcohol is also called ethyl alcohol or grain alcohol. It is a chemical compound. Ethanol is often added to the gasoline we use to run our cars.
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alcohol
alcohol-addiction
chris-prentiss
passages-malibu
passages-ventura
pax-prentiss
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If I were to create a word that more accurately describes alcoholism and addiction, I would say it was dependencyism. Sounds silly, doesn't it? Yet it's no sillier than the word alcoholism. The reason alcoholism no longer sounds silly to you is because you're used to hearing it, reading it, and thinking about it.
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alcohol-abuse
alcohol-treatment-center
alcoholism
chris-prentiss
inspiration
passages-malibu
passages-ventura
pax-prentiss
substance-abuse
wisdom
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Chris Prentiss |
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At the alpha level, your imagination acts powerfully on your subconsciousness mind and therefore your imaginings are powerfully effective in producing the desired result. It is believed that our subconscious mind represents nearly 90 percent of our mental capacity, which is why influencing your subconscious mind produces such powerful effects.
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chris-prentiss
imagination
meditation
passages-malibu
subconscious-mind
wisdom
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Chris Prentiss |
5a50a6e
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In 1935, when there were no other programs, the founders of AA, Bill Wilson and Dr. Robert Smith, stepped up to the plate and took action to help a crippled population. All credit for the establishment of their wonderful, life-saving group goes to them and to those who came after them who have continued the tradition. However, there are hundreds of millions of people who still need help who are not among the estimated two or three million who attend twelve-step meetings.
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addiction-therapy
addiction-treatment
addiction-treatment-center
alcohol-abuse
change
change-the-world
chris-prentiss
drug-abuse
perspective
philosophy
twelve-step
twelve-steps
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