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I am no bird; and no net ensnares me: I am a free human being with an independent will.
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integrity
self-determination
independence
women
freedom
self-awareness
identity
empowerment
image
realism
gender
flaws
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Charlotte Brontë |
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I hate to hear you talk about all women as if they were fine ladies instead of rational creatures. None of us want to be in calm waters all our lives.
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stereotypes
men
equality
feminism
women-s-rights
self-determination
independence
women
reason
empowerment
strength
rationality
social-norms
flattery
misogyny
hypocrisy
double-standards
gender
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Jane Austen |
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There is a stubbornness about me that never can bear to be frightened at the will of others. My courage always rises at every attempt to intimidate me.
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stubbornness
self-determination
independence
women
fear
empowerment
strength
elizabeth-bennet
intimidation
dignity
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Jane Austen |
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care for myself. The more solitary, the more friendless, the more unsustained I am, the more I will respect myself.
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solitude
individuality
self-determination
independence
self-awareness
empowerment
self-assurance
self-sufficiency
self-trust
self-containment
defiance
self-reliance
self-respect
self-esteem
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Charlotte Brontë |
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When I discover who I am, I'll be free.
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independence
self-awareness
identity
self-discovery
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Ralph Ellison |
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I do not think, sir, you have any right to command me, merely because you are older than I, or because you have seen more of the world than I have; your claim to superiority depends on the use you have made of your time and experience.
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men
equality
women-s-rights
self-determination
independence
women
freedom
reason
empowerment
superiority
submission
experience
gender
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Charlotte Brontë |
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I am not an angel,' I asserted; 'and I will not be one till I die: I will be myself. Mr. Rochester, you must neither expect nor exact anything celestial of me - for you will not get it, any more than I shall get it of you: which I do not at all anticipate.
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integrity
men
self-determination
independence
romance
women
freedom
self-awareness
identity
empowerment
love
ideal-woman
image
realism
gender
flaws
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Charlotte Brontë |
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The greatest thing in the world is to know how to belong to oneself.
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solitude
individuality
self-determination
independence
self-awareness
inspirational
self-assurance
self-sufficiency
self-trust
ataraxy
self-containment
self-reliance
self-respect
self-esteem
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Michel de Montaigne |
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I had rather hear my dog bark at a crow, than a man swear he loves me.
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marriage
self-determination
independence
freedom
empowerment
happiness
love
courtship
husbands
singles
wooing
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William Shakespeare |
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So the fact that I'm me and no one else is one of my greatest assets. Emotional hurt is the price a person has to pay in order to be independent.
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independence
hurt
uniqueness
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Haruki Murakami |
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"I will not be "famous," "great." I will go on adventuring, changing, opening my mind and my eyes, refusing to be stamped and stereotyped. The thing is to free one's self: to let it find its dimensions, not be impeded." --
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independence
self-worth
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Virginia Woolf |
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People have only as much liberty as they have the intelligence to want and the courage to take.
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independence
inspirational
anarchism
liberty
independent-thought
revolution
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Emma Goldman |
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"I am not an angel," I asserted; "and I will not be one till I die: I will be myself."
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integrity
self-determination
independence
women
freedom
self-awareness
identity
empowerment
ideal-woman
image
realism
gender
flaws
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Charlotte Brontë |
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The country was in peril; he was jeopardizing his traditional rights of freedom and independence by daring to exercise them.
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independence
freedom
freedom-of-thought
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Joseph Heller |
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Maybe your country is only a place you make up in your own mind. Something you dream about and sing about. Maybe it's not a place on the map at all, but just a story full of people you meet and places you visit, full of books and films you've been to. I'm not afraid of being homesick and having no language to live in. I don't have to be like anyone else. I'm walking on the wall and nobody can stop me.
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anchoring
individuality
self-determination
independence
self-awareness
empowerment
inspirational
country
self-assurance
self-sufficiency
self-trust
self-containment
homelessness
belonging
self-reliance
nationality
attachment
roots
home
self-respect
self-esteem
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Hugo Hamilton |
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We need to help people to discover the true meaning of love. Love is generally confused with dependence. Those of us who have grown in true love know that we can love only in proportion to our capacity for independence.
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independence
love
inspirational
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Fred Rogers |
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Rule your mind or it will rule you.
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be-yourself
be-strong
stay-strong
independence
inspiration
living
strength
life
inspirational
the-mind
rule
self-help
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Horace |
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Why do only the awful things become fads? I thought. Eye-rolling and Barbie and bread pudding. Why never chocolate cheesecake or thinking for yourself?
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humour
independence
bellwether
fads
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Connie Willis |
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there's nothing to discuss there's nothing to remember there's nothing to forget it's sad and it's not sad seems the most sensible thing a person can do is sit with drink in hand as the walls wave their goodbye smiles one comes through it all with a certain amount of efficiency and bravery then leaves some accept the possibility of God to help them get through others take it staight on and to these I drink tonight.
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poem
independence
poetry
death
sadness
god
life
love
bukowski
goodbyes
help
goodbye
forgetting
forget
sad
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Charles Bukowski |
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"There are certain phrases potent to make my blood boil -- improper influence! What old woman's cackle is that?" "Are you a young lady?" "I am a thousand times better: I am an honest woman, and as such I will be treated."
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integrity
marriage
influence
self-determination
independence
women
honesty
love
uprightness
propriety
matrimony
respect
gender
self-respect
expectations
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Charlotte Brontë |
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You were born together, and together you shall be for evermore...But let there be spaces in your togetherness...Love one another, but make not a bond of love. Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls. Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup. Give one another of your bread but eat not of the same loaf. Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone, Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.
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independence
love
inspirational
self-reliance
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Kahlil Gibran |
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It is a very strange sensation to inexperience youth to feel itself quite alone the world, cut adrift from every connection, uncertain whether the port to which it is bound can be reached, and prevented by many impediments from returning to that it has quitted. The charm of adventure sweetens that sensation, the glow of pride warms it; but then the throb of fear disturbs it; and fear with me became predominant when half an hour elapsed, and still I was alone.
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loneliness
independence
youth
fear
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Charlotte Brontë |
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There, did you think to kill me? There's no flesh or blood within this cloak to kill. There's only an idea. Ideas are bulletproof. Farewell.
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independence
idea
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Alan Moore |
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LEONATO Well, niece, I hope to see you one day fitted with a husband. BEATRICE Not till God make men of some other metal than earth. Would it not grieve a woman to be overmastered with a pierce of valiant dust? to make an account of her life to a clod of wayward marl? No, uncle, I'll none: Adam's sons are my brethren; and, truly, I hold it a sin to match in my kindred.
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marriage
men
equality
self-determination
independence
freedom
empowerment
happiness
matrimony
husbands
singles
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William Shakespeare |
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Degrees of ability vary, but the basic principle remains the same: the degree of a man's independence, initiative and personal love for his work determines his talent as a worker and his worth as a man. Independence is the only gauge of human virtue and value. What a man is and makes of himself; not what he has or hasn't done for others. There is no substitute for personal dignity. There is no standard of personal dignity except independence.
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virtue
worth
independence
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Ayn Rand |
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Here's what we're not taught [about the Declaration and Constitution]: Those words at the time they were written were blazingly, electrifyingly subversive. If you understand them truly now, they still are. You are not taught - and it is a disgrace that you aren't - that these men and women were radicals for liberty; that they had a vision of equality that was a slap in the face of what the rest of their world understood to be the unchanging, God-given order of nations; and that they were willing to die to make that desperate vision into a reality for people like us, whom they would never live to see.
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equality
independence
subversive
usa
liberty
democracy
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Naomi Wolf |
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LEONATO Well, then, go you into hell? BEATRICE No, but to the gate; and there will the devil meet me, like an old cuckold, with horns on his head, and say 'Get you to heaven, Beatrice, get you to heaven; here's no place for you maids:' so deliver I up my apes, and away to Saint Peter for the heavens; he shows me where the bachelors sit, and there live we as merry as the day is long.
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marriage
heaven
self-determination
independence
freedom
empowerment
happiness
matrimony
husbands
singles
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William Shakespeare |
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I am anchored on a resolve you cannot shake. My heart, my conscience shall dispose of my hand -- . Know this at last.
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integrity
marriage
feminism
self-determination
independence
women
empowerment
love
matrimony
dignity
social-norms
conscience
gender
courtship
wooing
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Charlotte Brontë |
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Where we choose to be, where we choose to be--we have the power to determine that in our lives. We cannot reel time backward or forward, but we can take ourselves to the place that defines our being.
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independence
philosophy
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Sena Jeter Naslund |
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The presence of hundreds of books had finally convinced Hermione that what they were doing was right.
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independence
originality
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J.K. Rowling |
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"No: I shall not marry Samuel Fawthrop Wynne." "I ask why? I must have a reason. In all respects he is more than worthy of you." She stood on the hearth; she was pale as the white marble slab and cornice behind her; her eyes flashed large, dilated, unsmiling. "And ask in what sense that young man is worthy of ?"
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integrity
marriage
men
equality
feminism
self-determination
independence
women
self-awareness
empowerment
suitability
worthiness
marriage-proposal
matrimony
dignity
social-norms
inferiority
gender
courtship
wooing
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Charlotte Brontë |
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I am often described to my irritation as a 'contrarian' and even had the title inflicted on me by the publisher of one of my early books. (At least on that occasion I lived up to the title by ridiculing the word in my introduction to the book's first chapter.) It is actually a pity that our culture doesn't have a good vernacular word for an oppositionist or even for someone who tries to do his own thinking: the word 'dissident' can't be self-conferred because it is really a title of honor that has to be won or earned, while terms like 'gadfly' or 'maverick' are somehow trivial and condescending as well as over-full of self-regard. And I've lost count of the number of memoirs by old comrades or ex-comrades that have titles like 'Against the Stream,' 'Against the Current,' 'Minority of One,' 'Breaking Ranks' and so forth--all of them lending point to Harold Rosenberg's withering remark about 'the herd of independent minds.' Even when I was quite young I disliked being called a 'rebel': it seemed to make the patronizing suggestion that 'questioning authority' was part of a 'phase' through which I would naturally go. On the contrary, I was a relatively well-behaved and well-mannered boy, and chose my battles with some deliberation rather than just thinking with my hormones.
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rebellion
words
independence
youth
contrarianism
dissidents
harold-rosenberg
honorifics
hormones
oppositionism
memoirs
free-thought
dissent
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Christopher Hitchens |
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He saw in happiness the seeds of independence, and in independence the seeds of revolt.
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independence
revolt
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Mervyn Peake |
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Yes, faith; it is my cousin's duty to make curtsy and say 'Father, as it please you.' But yet for all that, cousin, let him be a handsome fellow, or else make another curtsy and say 'Father, as it please me.
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marriage
self-determination
independence
empowerment
happiness
love
marriage-proposal
matrimony
dignity
courtship
husbands
wooing
pleasure
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William Shakespeare |
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There's a lot of things wrong with this country, but one of the few things still right with it is that a man can steer clear of the organized bullshit if he really wants to. It's a goddamned luxury, and if I were you, I'd take advantage of it while you can.
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america
independence
self
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Hunter S. Thompson |
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The only real radicalism in our time will come as it always has--from people who insist on thinking for themselves and who reject party-mindedness.
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independence
politics
radicalism
partisanship
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Christopher Hitchens |
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If [God] send me no husband, for the which blessing I am at him upon my knees every morning and evening ...
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marriage
self-determination
independence
freedom
empowerment
happiness
blessings
matrimony
husbands
singles
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William Shakespeare |
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[In 16th century European society] Marriage was the triumphal arch through which women, almost without exception, had to pass in order to reach the public eye. And after marriage followed, in theory, the total self-abnegation of the woman.
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marriage
men
feminism
women-s-rights
history
self-determination
independence
women
empowerment
wedlock
subjugation
self-abnegation
married-life
matrimony
social-norms
misogyny
perception
inequality
gender
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Antonia Fraser |
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Praise and blame alike mean nothing. No, delightful as the pastime of measuring may be, it is the most futile of all occupations, and to submit to the decrees of the measurers the most servile of attitudes.
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independence
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Virginia Woolf |
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If Los Angeles is a woman reclining billboard model and the San Fernando Valley is her teenybopper sister, then New York is their cousin. Her hair is dyed autumn red or aubergine or Egyptian henna, depending on her mood. Her skin is pale as frost and she wears beautiful Jil Sander suits and Prada pumps on which she walks faster than a speeding taxi (when it is caught in rush hour, that is). Her lips are some unlikely shade of copper or violet, courtesy of her local MAC drag queen makeup consultant. She is always carrying bags of clothes, bouquets of roses, take-out Chinese containers, or bagels. Museum tags fill her pockets and purses, along with perfume samples and invitations to art gallery openings. When she is walking to work, to ward off bums or psychos, her face resembles the Statue of Liberty, but at home in her candlelit, dove-colored apartment, the stony look fades away and she smiles like the sterling roses she has brought for herself to make up for the fact that she is single and her feet are sore.
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independence
women
francesca-lia-block
cities
new-york
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Francesca Lia Block |
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Sofia the kind of woman no matter what she have in her hand she make it look like a weapon.
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feminism
humour
independence
defence
strong-woman
weapon
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Alice Walker |
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At the evident risk of seeming ridiculous, I want to begin by saying that I have tried for much of my life to write as if I was composing my sentences to be read posthumously. I hope this isn't too melodramatic or self-centred a way of saying that I attempt to write as if I did not care what reviewers said, what peers thought, or what prevailing opinions may be.
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independence
writing
death
nadine-gordimer
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Christopher Hitchens |
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She had shown him by her independence how it was only fear that held people together. The fear of being alone and the fear of being different.
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independence
revolution
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Mervyn Peake |
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The greatest gift a parent can leave a child is that parent's own independence.
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independence
family-relationship
family-values
independent-woman
family-saga
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Rosamunde Pilcher |
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Nowadays, ads don't just sell a product. They sell an attitude! Look at this one! Here's a cool guy saying nobody tells him what to do. He does whatever he wants and he buys this product as a reflection of that independence. So basically, this maverick is urging everyone to express his individuality through conformity in brand-name selection?
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individuality
independence
conformity
peer-pressure
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Bill Watterson |
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"I can breathe easier now that the appointments are behind me. I missed them all, through deliberate negligence, Having waited for the urge to go, which I knew wouldn't come.
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independence
freedom
imagination
escapism
introvert
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Fernando Pessoa |
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Her upbringing had given her an independence of mind that made her more like a girl of today than one of her own time - which was why she had walked out, and why she was not daunted by the prospect of being alone.
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independence
sally-lockhart
upbringing
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Philip Pullman |
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"This is a perfectly good picture. And if I didn't know you, I would be impressed and charmed. But I do know you." He thought some more, wondering whether he dared say precisely what he felt, for he knew he could never explain exactly why the idea came to him. "It's the painting of a dutiful daughter," he said eventually, looking at her cautiously to see her reaction. "You want to please. You are always aware of what the person looking at this picture will think of it. Because of that you've missed something important. Does that make sense?" She thought, then nodded. "All right," she said grudgingly and with just a touch of despair in her voice. "You win." Julien grunted. "Have another go, then. I shall come back and come back until you figure it out." "And you'll know?" "You'll know. I will merely get the benefit of it."
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individuality
independence
paintings
daughters
fulfillment
skills
duty
gift
expectation
perception
creativity
obedience
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Iain Pears |
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The only people we want to blame are ourselves, because it will be ourselves that we rely upon.
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independence
self-awareness
self-awareness-honesty-self
independent-thought
self-realization
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Markus Zusak |
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Suddenly an unexpected series of sounds began to be heard in this place up against the starry sky. They were the notes of Oak's flute. It came from the direction of a small dark object under the hedge - a shephard's hut - now presenting an outline to which an unintiated person might have been puzzled to attach either meaning or use. ... Being a man not without a frequent consciousness that there was some charm in this life he led, he stood still after looking at the sky as a useful instrument, and regarded it in an appreciative spirit, as a work of art superlatively beautiful. For a moment he seemed impressed with the speaking loneliness of the scene, or rather with the complete abstraction from all its compass of the sights and sounds of man. ... Oak's motions, though they had a quiet energy, were slow, and their deliberateness accorded well with his occupation. Fitness being the basis of beauty, nobody could have denied tha his steady swings and turns in and about the flock had elements of grace. His special power, morally, physically, and mentally, was static. ... Oak was an intensely human man: indee, his humanity tore in pieces any politic intentions of his which bordered on strategy, and carried him on as by gravitation. A shadow in his life had always been that his flock should end in mutton - that a day could find a shepherd an arrant traitor to his gentle sheep.
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nature
independence
freedom
gabriel-oak
shepherd
gabriel
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Thomas Hardy |
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I hear of a convention to be held at Baltimore, or elsewhere, for the selection of a candidate for the Presidency, made up chiefly of editors, and men who are politicians by profession; but I think, what is it to any independent, intellegent, and respectable man what decision they may come to? Shall we not have the advantage of his wisdom and honesty, nevertheless? Can we not count upon some independent votes? Are there not many individuals in the country who do not attend conventions? But no: I find that the respectable man, so called, has immediately drifted from his position, and despairs of his country, when his country has more reason to despair of him. He forthwith adopts one of the candidates thus selected as his only AVAILABLE one, thus proving that he is himself AVAILABLE for any purposes of the demagogue. His vote is of no more worth than that of any unprincipled foreigner or hireling native, who may have been bought.
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independence
politics
independent-vote
presidency
politicians
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Henry David Thoreau |
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No soul ever fell away from God without giving up prayer. Prayer is that which establishes contact with Divine Power and opens the invisible resources of heaven. However dark the way, when we pray, temptation can never master us. The first step downward in the average soul is the giving up of the practice of prayer, the breaking of the circuit with divinity, and the proclamation of one's owns self sufficiency.
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prayer
independence
faith
god
self-sufficiency
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Fulton J. Sheen |
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I'm happy as I am, and love my liberty too well to be in a hurry to give it up for any mortal man.
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independence
singlehood
jo-march
singleness
liberty
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Louisa May Alcott |
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To be insular is to be independent. But it is also to be alone.
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loneliness
independence
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Peter Ackroyd |
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In spite of her superficial independence, her fundamental need was to cling. All her life was an attempt to disprove it; and so proved it. She was like a sea anemone -- had only to be touched once to adhere to what touched her.
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irony
independence
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John Fowles |
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Notice how they'll accept anything except a man who stands alone. They recognize him at once...There's a special, insidious kind of hatred for him. They forgive criminals. They admire dictators. Crime and violence are a tie. A form of mutual dependence. They need ties. They've got to force their miserable little personalities on every single person they meet. The independent man kills them--because they don't exist within him and that's the only form of existence they know. Notice the malignant kind of resentment against any idea that propounds independence. Notice the malice toward an independent man.
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independence
the-fountainhead
independent
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Ayn Rand |
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"I take the only desire one can really permit oneself. Freedom, Alvah, freedom." "You call that freedom?" "To ask nothing. To expect nothing. To depend on nothing."
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independence
freedom
the-fountainhead
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Ayn Rand |
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"Milton's Eve! Milton's Eve! ... Milton tried to see the first woman; but Cary, he saw her not ... I would beg to remind him that the first men of the earth were Titans, and that Eve was their mother: from her sprang Saturn, Hyperion, Oceanus; she bore Prometheus" -- "Pagan that you are! what does that signify?" "I say, there were giants on the earth in those days: giants that strove to scale heaven. The first woman's breast that heaved with life on this world yielded the daring which could contend with Omnipotence: the stregth which could bear a thousand years of bondage, -- the vitality which could feed that vulture death through uncounted ages, -- the unexhausted life and uncorrupted excellence, sisters to immortality, which after millenniums of crimes, struggles, and woes, could conceive and bring forth a Messiah. The first woman was heaven-born: vast was the heart whence gushed the well-spring of the blood of nations; and grand the undegenerate head where rested the consort-crown of creation. ... I saw -- I now see -- a woman-Titan: her robe of blue air spreads to the outskirts of the heath, where yonder flock is grazing; a veil white as an avalanche sweeps from hear head to her feet, and arabesques of lighting flame on its borders. Under her breast I see her zone, purple like that horizon: through its blush shines the star of evening. Her steady eyes I cannot picture; they are clear -- they are deep as lakes -- they are lifted and full of worship -- they tremble with the softness of love and the lustre of prayer. Her forehead has the expanse of a cloud, and is paler than the early moon, risen long before dark gathers: she reclines her bosom on the ridge of Stilbro' Moor; her mighty hands are joined beneath it. So kneeling, face to face she speaks with God. That Eve is Jehova's daughter, as Adam was His son."
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self-determination
nature
independence
women
empowerment
strength
god
godliness
titans
eve
superiority
greatness
gender
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Charlotte Brontë |
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It was a fact generally acknowledged by all but the most contumacious spirits at the beginning of the seventeenth century that woman was the weaker vessel; weaker than man, that is. ... That was the way God had arranged Creation, sanctified in the words of the Apostle. ... Under the common law of England at the accession of King James I, no female had any rights at all (if some were allowed by custom). As an unmarried woman her rights were swallowed up in her father's, and she was his to dispose of in marriage at will. Once she was married her property became absolutely that of her husband. What of those who did not marry? Common law met that problem blandly by not recognizing it. In the words of [the leading 17th century compendium on women's legal status]: 'All of them are understood either married or to be married.' In 1603 England, in short, still lived in a world governed by feudal law, where a wife passed from the guardianship of her father to her husband; her husband also stood in relation to her as a feudal lord.
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fathers
marriage
men
feminism
women-s-rights
history
self-determination
independence
women
empowerment
wedlock
common-law
guardianship
feudalism
subjugation
married-life
property
matrimony
social-norms
misogyny
inequality
gender
husbands
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Antonia Fraser |
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...they who exchange their independence for the sweet name of Wife must be prepared to find all is not gold that glitters... ...Es gibi tatli bir kelime karsiliginda ozgurluklerinden vazgecenler, parlayan her seyin altin olmadigini gormeye hazirlikli olmalidirlar...
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marriage
independence
bunner
evelina
glitters
ramy
exchange
letter
gold
wife
sisters
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Edith Wharton |
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It was not often that Flay approved of happiness in others. He saw in happiness the seeds of independence, and in independence the seeds of revolt. But on an occasion such as this it was different, for the spirit of convention was being rigorously adhered to, and in between his ribs Mr. Flay experienced twinges of pleasure.
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independence
revolution
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Mervyn Peake |
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Independence is the recognition of the fact that yours is the responsibility of judgment and nothing can help you escape it--that no substitute can do your thinking--that the vilest form of self-abasement and self-destruction is the subordination of your mind to the mind of another, the acceptance of an authority over your brain, the acceptance of his assertions as facts, his say-so as truth, his edicts as middle-man between your consciousness and your existence.
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virtue
pain
man
mind
good
independence
morality
reason
happiness
life
philosophy
truth
wisdom
john-galt
pursuit-of-happiness
objectivism
rational
think
thinking
morals
values
evil
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Ayn Rand |
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We all have our own battles to fight, and sometimes we have to go it alone. I'm stronger than you think, you'd be surprised.
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independence
patrick
strong
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Phyllis Reynolds Naylor |
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I never want to put my whole world in any one person's hands again, Jason. If they die, I won't die with them.' 'So you'll hold a little of yourself back from everybody.' 'No,' I said, 'I'll hold back a piece of myself for myself. No one gets all of me, Jason, no one, except me.
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relationships
independence
death
strong-women
love
laurell-k-hamilton
anita-blake-vampire-hunter
jason-schuyler
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Laurell K. Hamilton |
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I'd trapped myself in a script.... But to be scripted at all is to be prepackaged, programmed, pinned to a page. Only the unwritten can truly live a life. So who I was, what I was, had to be unwritten.
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individuality
independence
freedom
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David James Duncan |
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This teacher was kind and well-intentioned, but I wonder whether students like the young safety officer would be better off if we appreciated that not everyone to be a leader in the conventional sense of the word--that some people wish to fit harmoniously into the group, and others to be independent of it.
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independence
leadership
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Susan Cain |
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God, if he believed in Him, and his conscience, if he had one, were the only judges to whom he was answerable.
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independence
god
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Jules Verne |
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She's right, Kate's right, I'm right and you're wrong. If you drive her away from here it will be over my dead-- chair, has it never occurred to you at on one occasion you might be consummately wrong?
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independence
wrong-and-right
james-keller
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William Gibson |
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I knew what I stood for, even if nobody else did. I knew the piece of me on the inside, truer than all the rest, that never comes out. Doesn't everyone have one? Some kind of grand inner princess waiting to toss her hair down, forever waiting at the tower window. Some jungle animal so noble and fierce you had to crawl on your belly through dangerous grasses to get a glimpse.
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individuality
independence
strength
personhood
strength-of-character
individualism
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Michelle Tea |
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She would never truly be her own woman if she allowed fear and old memories to dictate where she would or would not go.
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memories
independence
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Mercedes Lackey |
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The morning was a wretched time of day for him. He feared it and it never brought him any good. On no morning of his life had he ever been in good spirits nor done any good before midday, nor ever had a happy idea, nor devised any pleasure for himself or others. By degrees during the afternoon he warmed and became alive, and only towards evening, on his good days, was he productive active and sometimes, aglow with joy.
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happy
independence
morning-person
night-owl
steppenwolf
morning
evening
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Hermann Hesse |
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"I could never, I knew then, lose myself "in love." Margery had accused me of coldness, and she was right, but she was also wrong: For me, for always, the paramount organ of passion was the mind. Unnatural, unbalanced, perhaps, but it was true: Without intellect, there could be no love."
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passion
independence
romance
feminist
love
feminist-quotes
sherlock
intellect
mystery
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Laurie R. King |
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The aesthetic is an individual rather than a societal concern.
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independence
perspective
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Harold Bloom |
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Let's make our own way,' says the Mother, 'and not in this boat.
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independence
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Lorrie Moore |
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"Dickinson left the rostrum to applause, loud shouts of approval. Franklin was surprised, looked toward Adams, who returned the look, shook his head. The chamber was dismissed, and Franklin pushed himself slowly up out of the chair. He began to struggle a bit, pain in both knees, the stiffness holding him tightly, felt a hand under his arm. "Allow me, sir." Adams helped him up, commenting as he did so, "We have a substantial lack of backbone in this room, I'm afraid." Franklin looked past him, saw Dickinson standing close behind, staring angrily at Adams, reacting to his words. "Mr. Dickinson, a fine speech, sir," said Franklin. Adams seemed suddenly embarrassed, did not look behind him, nodded quickly to Franklin, moved away toward the entrance. Franklin saw Dickinson following Adams, began to follow himself. My God, let's not have a duel. He slipped through the crowd of delegates, making polite acknowledgments left and right, still keeping his eye on Dickinson. The man was gone now, following Adams out of the hall. Franklin reached the door, could see them both, heard the taller man call out, saw Adams turn, a look of surprise. Franklin moved closer, heard Adams say, "My apologies for my indiscreet remark, sir. However, I am certain you are aware of my sentiments." Dickinson seemed to explode in Adams' face. "What is the reason, Mr. Adams, that you New England men oppose our measures of reconciliation? Why do you hold so tightly to this determined opposition to petitioning the king?" Franklin heard other men gathering behind him, filling the entranceway, Dickinson's volume drawing them. He could see Adams glancing at them and then saying, "Mr. Dickinson, this is not an appropriate time..." "Mr. Adams, can you not respond? Do you not desire an end to talk of war?" Adams seemed struck by Dickinson's words, looked at him for a long moment. "Mr. Dickinson, if you believe that all that has fallen upon us is merely talk, I have no response. There is no hope of avoiding a war, sir, because the war has already begun. Your king and his army have seen to that. Please, excuse me, sir." Adams began to walk away, and Franklin could see Dickinson look back at the growing crowd behind him, saw a strange desperation in the man's expression, and Dickinson shouted toward Adams, "There is no sin in hope!"
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war
independence
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Jeff Shaara |
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"There's a little war in progress here. There won't be anything left of the place if it goes on at this rate." (But it's hard to feign innocence if you've eaten the apple, he reflected.) "And it looks to me as if it is going to go on, because the French aren't going to give in, and certainly the Arabs aren't, because they can't. They're fighting with their backs the the wall." "I thought maybe you meant you expected a new world war," he lied. "That's the least of my worries. When that comes, we've had it. You can't sit around mooning about Judgement Day. That's just silly. Everybody who ever lived has always had his own private Judgment Day to face anyway, and he still has. As far as that goes, nothing's changed at all."
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independence
judgment-day
uprising
unrest
eden
paradise-lost
morocco
innocence
french
revolution
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Paul Bowles |
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Only through constant focus can you become independent. Only through independence can you know yourself. And only through knowing yourself will you be able to ask the key question of your life: What is is that I am destined to accomplish, and how can I make it happen?
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independence
yourself
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Elizabeth Gilbert |
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"Among the darker nations, Paris is famous for two betrayals. The first came in 1801, when Napoleon Bonaparte sent General Victor Leclerc to crush the Haitian Revolution, itself inspired by the French Revolution. The French regime could not allow its lucrative Santo Domingo to go free, and would not allow the Haitian people to live within the realm of the Enlightenment's " Rights of Man." The Haitians nonetheless triumphed, and Haiti became the first modern colony to win its independence. The second betrayal came shortly after 1945, when a battered France, newly liberated by the Allies, sent its forces to suppress the Vietnamese, West Indians, and Africans who had once been its colonial subjects. Many of these regions had sent troops to fight for the liberation of France and indeed Europe, but they returned home emptyhanded. As a sleight of hand, the French government tried to maintain sovereignty over its colonies by repackaging them as " overseas territories." A people hungry for liberation did not want such measly hors d'oeuvres."
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war
independence
global-south
third-world
imperialism
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Vijay Prashad |
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"Jack Reed, whom The New York Times had labeled "the Bolshevik agitator," hesitated and then equivocated on the stand. But by then the defense of The Masses was plain: criticism of the government didn't amount to a desire to overthrow it. If all hostile opinion were suppressed, how could Americans believe they lived in a free country? Dissent was a safeguard to freedom, not an impediment." --
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war
independence
politics
philosophy
liberty
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Nancy Milford |
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You are a single woman; you intend to remain one. You've acquired enough sexual experience to feel you belong to your times. You do not have children; you never intended to. Sustained romantic intensities have not been for you. Your explanation (not an untrue one,though not quite sufficient) is that you have let yourself be shaped by so many conventions, expectations, and requirements (institution's, people's), by so much dread of disapproval, that the discipline of solitude--severe solitude--has been required to give you the sense of an independent selfhood. The intensities of friendship suit you better. Friendship's choreography is for multiple partners: for varied groups and surprisingly sustained duets.
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independence
identity
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Margo Jefferson |
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A lot of us are like that--I'm like that, Ed Abbey was like that, and it sounds like this McCandless kid was like that: We like companionship, see, but we can't stand to be around people for very long. So we go get ourselves lost, come back for a while, then get the hell out again.
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independence
people
social
companionship
isolation
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Jon Krakauer |
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Suddenly, it occurred to me that my feelings towards the little man were distinctly maternal. Good God, I thought, how utterly revolting, and I turned my mind firmly to the problem at hand.
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independence
feminist
maternal
feminist-quotes
sensible
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Laurie R. King |
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Joan has a right to love whom she likes, and to go where she likes and to work and be independent and happy, and if she can't be happy then she has a right to make her own unhappiness; it's a thousand times better to be unhappy in your own way than to be happy in someone else's.
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unhappiness
happy
independence
freedom
happiness
love
unhappy
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