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If we let the men talk about them and decide them, then suddenly we wake up and find out that the men have made all the decisions, and these decisions all suit men.
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men
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Alexander McCall Smith |
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Such kindness wasn't a gift but a goad, scraping against one's skin like a yoke of thorns. She would have preferred him stiff, defensive, even offensive.
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men
kindness
love
pride
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Lauren Willig |
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Tom began screaming, and I wondered if the baby's soft brain was, in this moment, changing shape in response to the violent stimuli. I tried to intellectualize the noise to protect the baby's psyche. I whispered: Isn't that interesting to hear a man scream? Doesn't that challenge our stereotypes of what men can do? And then I tried, Shhhhhhhhh.
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men
melancholy
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Miranda July |
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There seems to be a fear that if men are raised to be people of integrity, people who can love, they will be unable to be forceful and act violently if needed.... We see that females that are raised with the traits any person of integrity embodies can act with tenderness, with assertiveness, and with aggression if and when aggression is needed.
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integrity
men
feminism
feminist
good-men
feminist-quotes
maleness
integrity-quotes
male
patriarchy
masculinity
manhood
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bell hooks |
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For a time Emerson politely endeavored to conceal his boredom - like most men, he is profoundly disinterested in all children except his own - ...
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men
humor
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Elizabeth Peters |
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The world had to change and for some reason the prosperity of men always results in them taking ever more from wild creatures and places.
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time
men
nature
world
people
human
change
prosperity
beasts
creatures
humankind
animals
take
wild
growth
destroy
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Robin Hobb |
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The gods are blind and men see only wha they wish.
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men
gods
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George R.R. Martin |
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"I have never been able to understand how men can feel affection for individuals who are intent on massacring them in a variety of unpleasant ways, but it is an undeniable fact that they can and do. Witness the immortal verse of Mr. Kipling: "So 'ere's to you, Fuzzy-Wuzzy, at your 'home in the Soudan; You're a pore benighted 'eathen but a first-class fightin' man!" One can only accept this as another example of the peculiar emotional aberrations of the male sex."
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men
humor
aggressiveness
inexplicable-ways
warlike
machismo
power
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Elizabeth Peters |
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"I rang the bell and she opened the door, dried her hands, and said heartily: 'Hello, stranger. I was just saying to Cliff only tonight, it's about time you showed up around here.' I wanted to detach him from her, but first I had to sit through about ten minutes of her. She was my sister, but you don't tell women things like I wanted to tell him. I don't know why, but you don't. You tell them the things you have under control; the things that you're frightened of, you tell other men if you tell anyone. ("Nightmare")"
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men
women
fear
men-and-women
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Cornell Woolrich |
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Emerson is a remarkable person, considering that he is a man. Which is not saying a great deal.
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men
relationships-life
married-life
men-and-women
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Elizabeth Peters |
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It embarrassed her, as a child, to think that her father had fallen in love, or, if men must love, then it should have been someone else, someone dark, mysterious and profoundly clever, not an ordinary person who was impatient for no reason and cross when one was late for lunch.
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men
clever
dark
love
embarrass
impatient
late
ordinary
embarrassment
mediocrity
mother
mystery
mysterious
father
impatience
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Daphne du Maurier |
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Testosterone has far less to do with aggression than most assume. Within the normal range, individual differences in testosterone levels don't predict who will be aggressive. Moreover, the more an organism has been aggressive, the less testosterone is needed for further aggression. When testosterone does play a role, it's facilitatory--testosterone does not 'invent' aggression. It makes us more sensitive to triggers of aggression. Also, rising testosterone levels foster aggression only during challenges to status. Finally, crucially, the rise in testosterone during a status challenge does not necessarily increase aggression; it increases whatever is needed to maintain status. In a world in which status is awarded for the best of our behaviors, testosterone would be the most prosocial hormone in existence.
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men
hormones
testosterone
gender
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Robert M. Sapolsky |
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Guys are always confused by how soft and sentimental they are.
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men
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Sarah Miller |
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I like men very much, but sometimes ... they're so stupid, so stuffed with theories .... They go in straight lines only, and won't stop. It's dangerous to do that. It's dangerous to leave everything up to the men, you know. That's one reason why I'd like to go home, at least for a visit. To see what Elia with his theories, and my dear young Lev with his ideals, are up to. I get worried they'll go too fast and too straight and get us into a place we can't get out of, a trap. You see it seems to me that where men are weak and dangerous is in their vanity. A woman has a center, is a center. But a man isn't, he's a reaching out. So he reaches out and grabs things and piles them up around him and says, I'm this, I'm that, this is me, that's me, I'll prove that I am me! And he can wreck a lot of things, trying to prove it.
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men
women
straight-lines
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Ursula K. Le Guin |
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What is the French word for rain? Le rain? La rain? Is the rain masculine or feminine? It's such a bother that it must be masculine.
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men
new-languages
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Libba Bray |
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She had one of those husky voices that sounded as if she were permanently coming down with a cold. Men seemed to find that sexy in a woman, which Jackson thought was odd because it made women sound less like women and more like men. Maybe it was a gay thing.
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men
women
humor
husky-voice
sexy
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Kate Atkinson |
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He had seen bigger men than he with mummy's handkerchief clutched in on hand and a bloody dagger in the other.
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men
love
psycho
dagger
mom
sweet
dangerous
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Eoin Colfer |
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He disapproved, he didn't believe in girls drinking, he was full of the conventions of a generation older than himself. Of course one drank oneself, one fornicated, but one didn't lie with a friend's sister, and 'decent' girls were never squiffy.
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sex
men
women
gender-relationships
men-and-women
gender
morals
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Graham Greene |
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"Another black woman, Margaret Wright, said she was not fighting for equality with men if it meant equality in the world of killing, the world of competition. "I don't want to compete on no damned exploitative level. I don't want to exploit nobody. . . . I want the right to be black and me. . . ."
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men
women-s-rights
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Howard Zinn |
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Any man with a grain of sense knows that marriage is the only way, these days, to acquire a full-time maid who works twenty-five hours a day, with no time off and no pay except room and board. (p9)
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men
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Elizabeth Peters |
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In the street below, a posh-looking drunk man is reading the card of a prostitute, Blue-Tacked up by a doorbell. He's examining it with all the forensic care I presume he puts into reading a wine list. 'What are you looking for?' I ask him, in my head. 'What woman will go best with your main course of terrible, horny loneliness?' I speculate, briefly, on how different the world would be if it were run by women. In that world, if you were a lonely, horny woman - as I am. As I always am - you'd see Blu-tacked postcards by Soho doorways that read, 'Nice man in cardigan, 24, will talk to you about The Smiths whilst making you cheese-on-toast + come to parties with you. Apply within.
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men
women
protitutes
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Caitlin Moran |
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...You won't even see what is put right on the table before you. Men. If it was raining soup you'd be out there with a fork.
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men
confusing
deaf
guys
jek
refuse
soup
dumb
boys
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Robin Hobb |
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When a man loses superiority, he loses potency. That's what all this talk about castrating women is about. Castrating women are those who refuse to pretend men are better than they are and better than women are. The simple truth -- that men are only equal -- can undermine a culture more devastatingly than any bomb. Subversion is telling the truth.
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men
sexism
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Marilyn French |
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It does seem true that a young woman may sometimes behave in a way that can be called titillating, and that men take such behavior as being directed entirely at them. [...] I've often seen blushing young men with shining eyes behave in the same way, but no one says of them that they want to be raped. If, after taking a few steps forward, they then decide to retreat, no one accuses them of being cunt teasers. In fact, the disappointed woman probably thinks it's all her fault.
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rape
men
rape-culture
inequality
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Marilyn French |
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...this was why men fell in love with strippers and escorts: it wasn't the licentiousness, the dissembling, their craven willingness to do whatever you wanted. It was the way they would, out of the blue, surprise you with the psychic ability to know what you needed.
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men
strippers
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Chris Bohjalian |
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Willie tried to enlist in the army and was turned down; whereupon he threw his job, came home, announced that he was a failure, and went to bed. (...) He said he was going to stay in bed and never get up as long as he lived.
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men
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Betty Smith |
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...the Men Who Knew came out of the woodwork.
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men
feminism
mansplaining
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Rebecca Solnit |
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Es gibt zwei Sorten von Mannern. Die einen verstehen 'etwas von Frauen', die anderen sind solche, die einfach 'Frauen verstehen'. Ich weiss nicht, welche Sorte mir verdachtiger ist.
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understanding
prejudice
men
women
empathy
mysogyny
gender
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Sten Nadolny |
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They sounded like intestines, only on the outside, and the men in the Bible were always having them cut off and not being able to go to church. Horrid.
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men
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Jeanette Winterson |
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It was something, what must go through men's mind where women were concerned, to cause them to behave so strangely.
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mind
men
women
concerned
mens-mind
strange-behaviour
behaviour
something
strange
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Larry McMurtry |
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Now you know what hurt it brings to women when men come into the world. Remember, and make it up to your Mama and to all women.
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men
feminism
women
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Richard Llewellyn |
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"Did you know I have always suspected that men were idiots," Daphne ground out, "but I was never positive until today."
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men
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Julia Quinn |
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Ia khochu vstretit' takogo muzhchinu, kotoryi, kogda uznaesh' ego poluchshe, budet takim zhe, kakim kazhetsia, kogda vy tol'ko poznakomilis'. Ia khochu vstretit' takogo muzhchinu, kotoryi zvonit, esli poobeshchal pozvonit' i prikhodit domoi, esli poobeshchal, chto pridet. Ia khochu vstretit' takogo muzhchinu, kotorogo ustraivaet to, kakoi on est'. Ia khochu vstretit' takogo muzhchinu, kotoryi khochet vstretit' takuiu zhenshchinu, kak ia. Ved' eto ne slishkom mnogo? Khotia, kak utverzhdaet moia podruga Marsel', eto vse ravno, chto khotet' lunu s neba i zvezdy vpridachu.
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men
relationships
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Julian Barnes |
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Did anyone think this canon of druggie men were out of control? Only in the most admirable of ways! Out of control like a shaman or a space explorer, like a magician sawing himself in half. Out of control like a poet.
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men
magician
shaman
space
explorer
poet
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Michelle Tea |
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Anyhow, I say, the God I been praying and writing to is a man. And act just like all the other mens I know. Trifling, forgitful, and lowdown.
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men
religion
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Alice Walker |
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It shall be an offence for any man, either a husband or other person of the male sex, married or otherwise, being over the age of twelve years, to throw any item of clothing having been worn by the said person for whatever length of time, upon the floor of any bathroom or any room adjacent to and connected to a bathroom, without good cause.
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men
laundry
messiness
boys
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Alexander McCall Smith |
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"Very likely some Mrs Grundy will observe, "I don't believe it, boys will be boys, young men must sow their wild oats, and women must not expect miracles." I dare say you don't, Mrs. Grundy, but it's true nevertheless. Women work a good many miracles, and I have a persuasion that they may perform even that of raising the standard of manhood by refusing to echo such sayings."
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men
women
good-wives
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Louisa May Alcott |
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She aint worth it. None of em are. He didnt answer for a while. Then he said: Yes they are.
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lovers
men
women
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Cormac McCarthy |
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Death belongs only to God. What right have men to lay hands on a thing so unknown?
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men
god
dying
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Victor Hugo |
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I would have seen flaws in this, later in my life. I would have felt the impatience, even suspicion, a woman can feel towards a man who lacks a motive. Who has only friendship to offer and offers that so easily and bountifully that even if it is rejected he can move along as buoyantly as ever. Here was no solitary fellow hoping to hook up with a girl. Even I could see that, inexperienced as I was. Just a person who took comfort in the moment and in a sort of reasonable facade of life.
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men
relationships
love
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Alice Munro |
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I step away as I notice a group of young, angry men walking toward us. I doubt that there is any particular reason for their anger. It is the anger that most men feel these days; they are angry about their impotence and their desires and their reality. It is an anger we all feel. But it is an anger only men can freely express.
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men
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Roxane Gay |
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From my earliest memory, times of crisis seemed to end up with women in the kitchen preparing food for men.
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men
women
sexism
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Barbara Kingsolver |
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I don't hate men, I just wish they'd try harder.
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hatred
men
women
gender
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Jeanette Winterson |
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The school song at Accrington High School for Girls was 'Let Us Now Praise Famous Men,' a terrible choice for an all-girls' school, but one that helped turn me into a feminist. Where were the famous women--indeed any women--and why weren't we praising them? I vowed to myself that I would be famous and that I would come back and be praised.
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men
feminism
women
praise
recognition
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Jeanette Winterson |
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This is where we should start focusing this conversation: how men (as readers, critics, and editors) can start to bear the responsibility for becoming better, broader readers.
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men
feminism
reading
readers
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Roxane Gay |
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God save us all from good-looking men.
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men
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James S.A. Corey |
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The heart of a man is like deep water.
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men
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Douglas Coupland |
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"There will never again be men like them," said Carreen softly. "No one can take their places."
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war
men
loss
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Margaret Mitchell |
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Men, she thought, were odd about their clothes: they liked to wear the same things until they became defeated and threadbare.
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men
clothes
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Alexander McCall Smith |
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1. Men are easy to please but are not pleased for long before some new novelty must delight them. 2. Men are easy to make passionate but are unable to sustain it. 3. Men are always seeking soft women but find their lives in ruins without strong women. 4. Men must be occupied at all times otherwise they make mischief. 5. Men deem themselves weighty and women light. Therefore it is simple to tie a stone round their necks and drown them should they become too troublesome. 6. Men are best left in groups by themselves where they will entirely wear themselves out in drunkenness and competition. While this is taking place a woman may carry on with her own life unhindered. 7. Men are never never to be trusted with what is closest to your heart, and if it is they who are closest to your heart, do not tell them. 8. If a man asks you for money, do not give it to him. 9. If you ask a man for money and he does not give it to you, sell his richest possession and leave at once. 10. Your greatest strength is that every man believes he knows the sum and possibility of every woman.
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money
men
passion
women
trust
gender-relations
perception
power
rules
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Jeanette Winterson |
75b1809
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Tomorrow's character is made out of today's thoughts. Temptation may come suddenly, but sin doesn't.
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pornographers
sex
men
temptation
women
purity
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Randy Alcorn |
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men
writing
الرجال
الكتابة
الكتب
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Marguerite Duras |
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This was another skill women were meant to learn: when a man's story had come to an end. Mostly, it wasn't a problem, as the end was thumpingly obvious; or else the narrator started snorting with laughter in advance, which was always a pretty good clue. Martha had long ago decided only to laugh at things she found funny. It seemed a normal sort of rule; but most men found it rebuking.
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men
women
funny
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Julian Barnes |
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He walked out and closed the door. Linda had the feeling that she was imprisoned, not with a lock and key, but by the imposed time limit. She decided to write down what she was going to say in a note-book, and pulled one across the table towards her. When she flipped it open she was confronted with a bad sketch of a seductively posed naked woman. To her surprise she saw it was Martinsson's notepad. But why should that surprise me? she thought. All the men I know spend an enormous amount of mental energy undressing women in their minds.
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men
notebook
magnus-martinsson
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Henning Mankell |
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"You should have seen him," she said. "A real ladies' man. Stuff in his hair. Dark glasses. Fancy shoes. He had no idea how funny he looked. I much prefer men with ordinary shoes and honest trousers."
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men
honesty
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Alexander McCall Smith |
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By the end of the affair, she had acquired so much miserable information about men and women she almost decided to give up relationships for good.
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men
relationships
women
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Angela Carter |
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"Gregori was the one who came up with the idea about human psychic women, and I'm certain he's right. You and your mother support his theory. He also thinks there's something in the Carpathian woman's chemistry that makes it nearly impossible for the female chromosome to beat out the male." "Wouldn't you know he'd think it was the woman," Shea sniffed contemptuously. "More than likely the men determine the sex, just like in humans, and they just can't produce girls." She grinned at Raven. "The men bring about their own destruction." Raven laughed. "Mikhail would never let me speak to you again if he could hear us. He thinks I'm too independent and disrespectful already." She shrugged carelessly. "It's probably true, but it's a lot of fun. I love the way he gets that pained look on his face. He's so cute." "Cute? I'll bet he likes that description."
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men
raven-and-shea
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Christine Feehan |
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I very much like men. They're interesting to me, and I mostly wish they would be better about how they treat women so I wouldn't have to call them out so often.
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men
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Roxane Gay |
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... I discovered from my time in the brother that men's members, if bitten off or otherwise severed, do not grow again. This seems a great mistake on the part of nature, since men are so careless with their members and will put them anywhere without thinking.
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men
nature
penises
indiscretion
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Jeanette Winterson |
d4b2433
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How many times do I have to tell you, Amelia? Men are like little woodland creatures. You have to lure them to you with tiny breadcrumbs and soft words of encouragement. You cannot simply whip out a rock and conk them over the head with it.
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men
love
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Meg Cabot |
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We are weary of being without gold in the midst of plenty. We wish to become men of means.
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opportunities
men
wealth
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George S. Clason |