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At the temple there is a poem called "Loss" carved into the stone. It has three words, but the poet has scratched them out. You cannot read loss, only feel it." --
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The heart dies a slow death, shedding each hope like leaves until one day there are none. No hopes. Nothing remains.
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hope
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This is why dreams can be such dangerous things: they smolder on like a fire does, and sometimes they consume us completely.
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Adversity is like a strong wind. I don't mean just that it holds us back from places we might otherwise go. It also tears away from us all but the things that cannot be torn, so that afterward we see ourselves as we really are, and not merely as we might like to be.
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He was like a song I'd heard once in fragments but had been singing in my mind ever since.
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Grief is a most peculiar thing; we're so helpless in the face of it. It's like a window that will simply open of its own accord. The room grows cold, and we can do nothing but shiver. But it opens a little less each time, and a little less; and one day we wonder what has become of it.
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I don't know when we'll see each other again or what the world will be like when we do. We may both have seen many horrible things. But I will think of you every time I need to be reminded that there is beauty and goodness in the world.
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parting
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I dont think any of us can speak frankly about pain until we are no longer enduring it.
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We lead our lives like water flowing down a hill, going more or less in one direction until we splash into something that forces us to find a new course.
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life
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Sometimes," he sighed, "I think the things I remember are more real than the things I see. "
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If you aren't the woman I think you are, then this isn't the world I thought it was.
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woman
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I had to wonder if men were so blinded by beauty that they would feel privileged to live their lives with an actual demon, so long as it was a beautiful demon.
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Hopes are like hair ornaments. Girls want to wear too many of them. When they become old women they look silly wearing even one.
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hope
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Sometimes we get through adversity only by imagining what the world might be like if our dreams should ever come true.
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Can't you see? Every step I have taken, since I was that child on the bridge, has been to bring myself closer to you.
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Now I know that our world is no more permanent than a wave rising on the ocean. Whatever our struggles and triumphs, however we may suffer them, all too soon they bleed into a wash, just like watery ink on paper.
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If a few minutes of suffering could make me so angry, what would years of it do? Even a stone can be worn down with enough rain.
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I never seek to defeat the man I am fighting, " he explained. "I seek to defeat his confidence. A mind troubled by doubt cannot focus on the course to victory. Two men are equals - true equals - only when they both have equal confidence."
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doubt
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Water is powerful. It can wash away earth, put out fire, and even destroy iron.
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From this experience, I understood the danger of focusing only on what isn't there. What if I came to the end of my life and realized that I'd spent every day watching for a man who would never come to me? What an unbearable sorrow it would be, to realize I'd never really tasted the things I'd eaten, or seen the places I'd been, because I'd thought of nothing but the Chairman even while my life was drifting away from me. And yet if I drew m..
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A mind troubled by doubt cannot focus on the course of victory.
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If you have experienced an evening more exciting than any in your life, you're sad to see it end; and yet you still feel grateful that it happened.
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We can never flee the misery that is within us.
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If you keep your destiny in mind, every moment in life becomes an opportunity for moving closer to it.
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Waiting patiently doesn't suit you. I can see you have a great deal of water in your personality. Water never waits. It changes shape and flows around things, and finds the secret paths no one else has thought about. [Mameha]
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Of course, a sign doesn't mean anything unless you know how to interpret it.
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We none of us find as much kindness in this world as we should.
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Was life nothing more than a storm that constantly washed away what had been there only a moment before, and left behind something barren and unrecognizable?
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You cannot say to the sun, or to the rain, To a man, geisha can only be half a wife. We are the wives of nightfall. And yet, to learn kindness after so much unkindness, to understand that a little girl with more courage than she knew, would find her prayers were answered, can that not be called happiness? After all these are not the memoirs of an empress, nor of a queen. These are memoirs of another kind.
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Watch for the thing that will show itself to you. Because that thing, when you find it, will be your future.
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inspirational
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After all, when a stone is dropped into a pond, the water continues quivering even after the stone has sunk to the bottom.
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trauma
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I could no more have stopped myself from feeling that sadness than you could stop yourself from smelling an apple that has been cut open on the table before you.
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It was what we Japanese called the onion life, peeling away a layer at a time and crying all the while.
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She paints her face to hide her face. Her eyes are deep water. It is not for Geisha to want. It is not for geisha to feel. Geisha is an artist of the floating world. She dances, she sings. She entertains you, whatever you want. The rest is shadows, the rest is secret.
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An en is a karmic bond lasting a lifetime. Nowadays many people seem to believe their lives are entirely a matter of choice; but in my day we viewed ourselves as pieces of clay that forever show the fingerprints of everyone who has touched them.
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I will think of you every time I need to be reminded that there is beauty and goodness in the world.
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goodness
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Even stone can be worn down with enough rain.
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Occasionally in life we come upon things we can't understand, because we have never seen anything similar.
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Arthur Golden |
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A tree may look as beautiful as ever; but when you notice the insects infesting it, and the tips of the branches that are brown from disease, even the trunk seems to lose some of its magnificence.
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Flowers that grow where old ones have withered serve to remind us that death will one day come to us all.
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Arthur Golden |
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Every man has his destiny. But who needs to go to a fortune-teller to find it? Do I go to a chef to find out if I'm hungry?
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Those of us with water in our personalities don't pick where we'll flow to. All we can do is flow where the landscape of our lives carries us
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I can see you have a great deal of water in your personality. Water never waits. It changes shape and flows around things, and finds the secret paths no one else has thought about -- the tiny hole through the roof or the bottom of the box. There's no doubt it's the most versatile of the five elements. It can wash away earth; it can put out fire; it can wear a piece of metal down and sweep it away. Even wood, which is its natural complement,..
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We don't become geisha because we want our lives to be happy; we become geisha because we have no choice.
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