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Things usually work out in the end." "What if they don't?" "That just means you haven't come to the end yet." --
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You should never hate anyone, even your worst enemies. Everyone has something good about them. You have to find the redeeming quality and love the person for that.
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people
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Most important thing in life is learning how to fall.
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life-lessons
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One time I saw a tiny Joshua tree sapling growing not too far from the old tree. I wanted to dig it up and replant it near our house. I told Mom that I would protect it from the wind and water it every day so that it could grow nice and tall and straight. Mom frowned at me. "You'd be destroying what makes it special," she said. "It's the Joshua tree's struggle that gives it its beauty."
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Life is a drama full of tragedy and comedy. You should learn to enjoy the comic episodes a little more.
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tragedy
life
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Nobody's perfect. We're all just one step up from the beasts and one step down from the angels.
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mankind
perfection
beasts
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One benefit of Summer was that each day we had more light to read by.
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summer
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he said it was interesting. He used the word 'textured'. He said 'smooth' is boring but 'textured' was interesting, and the scar meant that I was stronger than whatever had tried to hurt me.
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I lived in a world that at any moment could erupt into fire. It was the sort of knowledge that kept you on your toes.
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I wanted to let the world know that no one had a perfect life, that even the people who seemed to have it all had their secrets.
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If you don't want to sink, you better figure out how to swim
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I never believed in Santa Claus. None of us kids did. Mom and Dad refused to let us. They couldn't afford expensive presents and they didn't want us to think we weren't as good as other kids who, on Christmas morning, found all sorts of fancy toys under the tree that were supposedly left by Santa Claus. Dad had lost his job at the gypsum, and when Christmas came that year, we had no money at all. On Christmas Eve, Dad took each one of us k..
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Sometimes you need a little crisis to get your adrenaline flowing and help you realize your potential.
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thriving
life
crisis
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Once you'd resolved to go, there was nothing to it at all.
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moving
traveling
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If you want to be reminded of the love of the Lord, just watch the sunrise.
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earth
world
religion
god
lord
sunrise
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The women I know with strong personalities, the ones who might have become generals or the heads of companies if they were men, become teachers. Teaching is a calling, too. And I've always thought that teachers in their way are holy--angles leading their flocks out of the darkness.
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teachers
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She had her addictions and one of them was reading.
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reading
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You didn't need a college degree to become one of the people who knew what was really going on. If you paid attention, you could pick things up on your own.
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education
life
college
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Years from now, when all the junk they got is broken and long forgotten, you'll still have your stars.
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One thing about whoring: It put a chicken on the table.
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Sometimes you have to get sicker before you can get better.
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illness
parenting-tip
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Life's too short to care about what other people think. Besides, they should accept us for who we are
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life
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People are like animals. Some are happiest penned in, some need to roam free. You go to recognize what's in her nature and accept it.
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people
freedom
lifestyle
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You can't prepare for everything life's going to throw at you. And you can't avoid danger. It's there. The world is a dangerous place, and if you sit around wringing your hands about it, you'll out on all the adventure.
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life
danger
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We laughed about all the kids who believed in the Santa Clause myth and got nothing but a bunch of cheap plastic toys. 'Years from now, when all the junk they got is broken and long forgotten,' Dad said, ' you'll still have your stars.
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Those shining stars, he liked to point out, were one of the special treats for people like us who lived out in the wilderness. Rich city folks, he'd say, lived in fancy apartments, but their air was so polluted they couldn't even see the stars. We'd have to be out of our minds to want to trade places with any of them.
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stars
countryside
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But I also hoped that [she] had chosen California because she thought that was her true home, the place where she really belonged, where it was always warm and you could dance in the rain, pick grapes right off the vines, and sleep outside at night under the stars.
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Mom always said people worried too much about their children. Suffering when you're young is good for you, she said. It immunized your body and your soul, and that was why she ignored us kids when we cried. Fussing over children who cry only encouraged them, she told us. That's positive reinforcement for negative behavior.
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raising-children
parents
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Whoever coined the phrase 'a man's got to play the hand that was dealt him' was most certainly one piss-poor bluffer.
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You can't cling to the side your whole life, that one lesson every parent needs to teach a child is "If you don't want to sink, you better figure out how to swim"
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life
parenting
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Why spend the afternoon making a meal that will be gone in an hour," she'd ask us, "when in the same amount of time, I can do a painting that will last forever?"
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Look at the way you live. You've sold out. Next thing I know you'll become a Republican." She shook her head. "Where are the values I raised you with?"
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Jeannette Walls |
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Teaching is a calling too. And I've always thought that teachers in their way are holy - angels leading their flocks out of the darkness.
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teachers
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I hate Erma," I told Mom... "You have to show compassion for her..." She added that you should never hate anyone, even your worst enemies. "Everyone has something good about them," she said. "You have to find the redeeming quality and love the person for that." "Oh yeah?" I said. "How about Hitler? What was his redeeming quality?" "Hitler loved dogs," Mom said without hesitation."
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Jeannette Walls |
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Horses were never wrong. They always did what they did for a reason, and it was up to you to figure it out.
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life
reasons
choices
horses
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God deals us all different hands. How we play 'em is up to us.
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god
life
hands
game
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If you want to be treated like a mother, act like one.
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mothers
parenting
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I wondered if the fire had been out to get me. I wondered if all fire was related, like Dad said all humans were related, if the fire that had burned me that day while I cooked hot dogs was somehow connected o the fire I had flushed down the toilet and the fire burning at the hotel. I didn't have the answers to those questions, but what I did know was that I lived in a world that at any moment could erupt into fire. It was the sort of knowl..
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Jeannette Walls |
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It's really not that hard to put food on the table if that's what you decide to do.
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providing
life
parents
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The water you kids were playing in, he said, had probably been to Africa and the North Pole. Genghis Khan or Saint Peter or even Jesus may have drunk it. Cleopatra might have bathed in it. Crazy Horse might have watered his pony with it. Sometimes water was liquid. Sometimes it was rock hard- ice. Sometimes it was soft- snow. Sometimes it was visible but weightless- clouds. And sometimes it was completely invisible- vapor- floating up into ..
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Jeannette Walls |
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You're in a horse race but you're thinking like a sheep. Sheep don't win horse races.
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life
race
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Sometimes something catastrophic can occur in a split second that changes a person's life forever; other times one minor incident can lead to another and then another and another, eventually setting off just as big a change in a body's life.
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Jeannette Walls |
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It's the Joshua tree's struggle that gives it its beauty.
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inspirational
meaningful
symbolic
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Mom told us we would have to go shoplifting. Isn't that a sin?" I asked Mom. Not exactly," Mom said. "God doesn't mind you bending the rules a little if you have a good reason. It's sort of like justifiable homicide. This is justifiable pilfering."
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