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When a boy's first romantic interlude is with Pheobe the Dog-Faced Girl, he feels a need to get out into the world and find a new life.
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funny
humor
life
love
circus
life-experience
girls
teenagers
dating
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Annette Curtis Klause |
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If you like someone, you should have to make an effort.
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winter
life
love
my-true-love-gave-to-me
first-kiss
christmas
holiday
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Stephanie Perkins |
1ee3893
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Things are not always how they seem.
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winter
life
love
my-true-love-gave-to-me
first-kiss
christmas
holiday
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Stephanie Perkins |
9ddb79d
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Not always getting what you want, but sometimes getting what you need.
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winter
life
love
my-true-love-gave-to-me
first-kiss
christmas
holiday
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Stephanie Perkins |
270c760
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I was beginning to understand something I couldn't articulate. It was a jazzy feeling in my chest, a fluttering, a kind of buzzing in my brain. Warmth. Life. The circulation of blood. Sanguinity. I don't know. I understood the enormous risk of telling the truth, how the telling could result in every level of hell reigning down on you, your skin scorched to the bone and then bone to ash and then nothing but a lingering odour of shame and decomposition, but now I was also beginning to understand the new and alien feeling of taking the risk and having the person on the other end of the telling, the listener, say: Bad shit at home? You guys are running away? Yeah, I said. I understand, said, Noehmi.
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literature
life
irma-voth
miriam-toews
feeling
novel
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Miriam Toews |
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Dogs were not loyal but servile, that cats were opportunists and traitors,
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dogs
life
traitor
cats
loyalty
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Gabriel García Márquez |
69be5de
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Ya me sobrara tiempo para descansar cuando me muera, pero esta eventualidad no esta todavia en mis proyectos.
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death-and-dying
life
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Gabriel García Márquez |
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How many a man has dated a new era in his life from the reading of a book!
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reading
life
new-era
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Henry David Thoreau |
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The stars are the apexes of what wonderful triangles! What distant and different beings in the various mansions of the universe are contemplating the same one at the same moment! Nature and human life are as various as our several constitutions. Who shall say what prospect life offers to another? Could a greater miracle take place than for us to look through each other's eyes for an instant?
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miracle
stars
empathy
life
walden-pond
walden
human-nature
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Henry David Thoreau |
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"Perhaps this is what Henry James meant when he talked about the "irresponsibility" of characters. Characters are irresponsible, art is irresponsible when compared to life, because it is first and foremost important that a character be real, and as readers or watchers we tend to applaud any effort made towards the construction of that reality. We do not, of course, indulge actual people in the world this way at all. In real life, the fact that something seems real to someone is not enough to interest us, or to convince us that that reality is interesting. But the self-reality of fictional characters is deeply engrossing, which is why villains are lovable in literature in ways that they are not in life."
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morality
life
fiction-writing
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James Wood |
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It is a mere cowardice to seek safety in negations. No character becomes strong in that way. You will be thrown into the world some day and then every rational satisfaction your nature that you deny now will assault like a savage appetite.
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fear
life
inconfidence
rationalism
weakness
emotions
decisions
safety
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George Eliot |
d2f8c65
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I know at least what I am,' he simply went on; 'the other side of the medal's clear enough. I've not been edifying--I believe I'm thought in a hundred quarters to have been barely decent. I've followed strange paths and worshipped strange gods; it must have come to you again and again--in fact you've admitted to me as much--that I was leading, at any time these thirty years, a selfish frivolous scandalous life. And you see what it has made of me.
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life
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Henry James |
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When I was in my teens, I made an appraisal of how comfortable my life could turn out when I became the age I am now. Because of a mechanical failure, the prediction was inexact.
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life
expectations
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Arthur Nersesian |
fc86fd4
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God doesn't mock us. He never gives us a goal that we cannot accomplish in His strength. I want to assure you, you can glorify God, you MUST glorify God. But you have to determine deep within your heart that you're going to do it His way.
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|
strength
god
life
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Charles R. Swindoll |
7a0c003
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"... he was shaken by the overwhelming revelation that the headlong race between his misfortunes and his dreams was at that moment reaching the finish line. The rest was darkness. "Damn it," he sighed. "How will I ever get out of this labyrinth!"
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suffering
life
|
Gabriel García Márquez |
cd30614
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I have always said that the way to deal with the pain of other's is by sympathy, which is suffering with, and that the way to deal with one's own pain is to put one foot after the other. Yet I was never willing to suffer with others, and when my own pain hit me, I crawled into hole. Sympathy I have failed in, stoicism I have barely passed. But I have made straight A's in irony- that curse, that evasion, that armor, that way of staying safe while seeming wise. One thing I have learned hard, if indeed I have learned it now: it is a reduction of our humanity to hide from pain, our own or other's. to hide from anything. That was Marian's text. Be open, be available, be exposed, be skinless. Skinless? Dance around in your bones.
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|
pain
suffering
humanity
life
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Wallace Stegner |
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What really mattered in life, what gave it weight, was death.
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life
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Jeffrey Eugenides |
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See what's inside a drop of water. The whole seed of the universe. Come, come. See what's inside a drop of blood. The composition of life. It's all there. Hate as well. We approach the mystery of life, but it's impossible to understand the mystery of hate. The kind of hate that causes people not only to kill, but to want to erase you from the census of births. I have to concentrate on that mystery. Read everything there is. It has to be in a drop of blood. It has to have its chemistry.
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war
life
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Manuel Rivas |
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I was always moved when mean people were suddenly nice to me. It was a weakness that would lead me into some bad relationships later in life.
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relationships
life
love
montréal
pg-76
thirteen
canada
bad
weakness
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Heather O'Neill |
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A funeral is like a little game, really. You have to just play along and say the right thing and behave the right way until it's over. Be pleasant but don't smile too much; be sad but don't overdo it or the family will feel worse than they already do. Be hopeful but don't let your optimism be taken as a lack of empathy or an inability to deal with the reality. Because if anybody was to be truly honest there would be a lot of arguments, finger-pointing, tears, snot, and screaming.
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sympathy
empathy
reality
honesty
optimism
life
funerals
society
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Cecelia Ahern |
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When you see something, it can't be unseen. When you hear a sound, it can never be unheard. I know, deep down, that this evening I have learned something that can never be unlearned. And the part of my world that is altered will never be the same.
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life
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Cecelia Ahern |
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Perhaps everyone had their own way of preparing to die. Life got you ready.
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life
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Lorrie Moore |
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Living did not mean one joy piled upon another. It was merely the hope for less pain...
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life
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Lorrie Moore |
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But it would be like going to Heaven and not finding any of your friends there. Her life would go all beatific and empty in the eyes.
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living
life
where-you-live
home
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Lorrie Moore |
cfbea94
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Of all the women he knew, she had meant the most; and was the one person in his life he felt he had missed, in some ways.
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women
life
love
he-knew
his-life
love-of-his-life
meant-the-most
one-person
only-love
missed
felt
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Larry McMurtry |
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Every breath we draw wards off the death that constantly impinges on us.... Ultimately death must triumph, for by birth it has already become our lot and it plays with its prey only for a short while before swallowing it up. However, we continue our life with great interest and much solicitude as long as possible, just as we blow out a soap-bubble as long and as large as possible, although with the perfect certainty that it will burst.
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life
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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There is so much about my fate that I cannot control, but other things do fall under my jurisdiction. There are certain lottery tickets I can buy, thereby increasing my odds of finding contentment. I can decide how I spend my time, whom I interact with, whom I share my body and life and money and energy with. I can select what I eat and read and study. i can choose how I'm going to regard unfortunate circumstances in my life - whether I will see them as curses or opportunities (and on the occasions when I can't rise to the most optimistic viewpoint, because I'm feeling too damn sorry for myself, I can choose to keep trying to change my outlook). I can choose my words and the tone of voice in which I speak to others. And most of all, I can choose my thoughts.
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fate
life
|
Elizabeth Gilbert |
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Kids must spend half their lives throwing things at the ducks in Regent's Park. How come he managed to pick a duck that pathetic?
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humor
life
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Nick Hornby |
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I'm here. I love you. I don't care if you need to stay up crying all night long, I will stay with you. If you need the medication again, go ahead and take it - I will love you through that, as well. If you don't need the medication, I will love you, too. There's nothing you can ever do to lose my love. I will protect you until you die, and after your death I will still protect you. I am stronger than Depression and I am braver than Loneliness and nothing will ever exhaust me.
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loneliness
life
love
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Elizabeth Gilbert |
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When you're lost in those woods, it sometimes takes you a while to realize that you are lost. For the longest time, you can convince yourself that you've just wandered a few feet off the path, that you'll find your way back to the trailhead any moment now. Then night falls again and again, and you still have no idea where you are, and it's time to admit that you have bewildered yourself so far off the path that you don't even know from which direction the sun rises anymore.
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life
|
Elizabeth Gilbert |
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"Well... "why" is a hard question to answer in any language."
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life
love
why
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Elizabeth Gilbert |
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"I had to do something about my longing, so I got up, went to the kitchen in my nightgown, peeled a pound of potatoes, boiled them up, sliced them, fried them in butter, salted them generously and ate every bite of them - asking my body the whole while if it would please accept the satisfaction of a pound of fried potatoes in lieu of the fulfillment of lovemaking. My body replied, only after eating every bite of food: "No deal, babe." --
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women
life
love
longing
|
Elizabeth Gilbert |
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It was a wonderful time to be alive, or even dead.
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|
life
the-past
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Billy Collins |
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I will walk without noise and I will open the door in darkness and I will
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death
life
everything-is-illuminated
sad
|
Jonathan Safran Foer |
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That paper-- it sits there, open at the employment section. It sits there like a war, and each small advertisement is another trench for a person to dive into. To hope and fight in.
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|
struggle
life
unemployment
fight
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Markus Zusak |
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Are you looking at a dead man now?
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life
|
Markus Zusak |
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Meaning. If you're going to die, you want to find meaning in life. You want to connect the dots.
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|
meaning
death
life
franny-billingsley
find
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Franny Billingsley |
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Gabe, did you pray?' 'Sort of.' 'Me too. Do you believe?' 'No. Do you?' 'No.' 'I don't believe,' said Gabriel, 'But I have faith, if you know what I mean.' 'What in?' 'I don't know, life, carrying on, I suppose.' 'Yes.
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|
faith
god
life
in-the-kitchen
monica-ali
|
Monica Ali |
a9ee426
|
She says screens are the cigarettes of our age. They're toxic, and we're only going to realize the damage they're doing when it's too late.
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|
funny
family
friendship
life
starbucks
sunglasses
bully
|
Sophie Kinsella |
1e5711f
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We're better off not worrying about ourselves, and to do that, we have to worry about others.
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|
compassion
life
landry
pearl-in-the-mist
v-c-andrews
ourselves
others
worrying
human-beings
thoughtful
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V.C. Andrews |
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Listen! I know it's not right to talk. Better to set an example, better to just start - I have already started - and - and can one really be unhappy? Oh, what do my grief and my misfortune matter if I have the strength to be happy? You know, I don't understand how one can walk by a tree and not be happy at the sight of it! Or to speak with a man and not be happy in loving him? Oh, it's just that I can't express it - and yet there are so many things at every stop so beautiful that even the most desolate of men find them beautiful. Look at a child, look at Go's sunrise, look at the grass, how it grows, look into eyes that look at you and love you -
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life
love
meaning-in-life
|
Fyodor Dostoyevsky |
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You can't save everyone. It's not an option.
|
|
life
choosing
option
save
choose
|
Darren Shan |
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As long as you're breathing, your story's still going.
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|
story
living
life
ending
|
Darren Shan |
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|
The real troubles with living is that living is so banal.
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living
life
|
James Baldwin |
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I am one in a row of specimens. It's when I try to flutter out of line that he hates me. I'm meant to be dead, pinned, always the same, always beautiful. He knows that part of my beauty is being alive, but it's the dead me he wants. He wants me living-but-dead. I felt it terribly strongly today. That my being alive and changing and having a separate mind and having moods and all that was becoming a nuisance. He is solid; immovabile, iron-willed. He showed me one day what he called his killing-bottle. I'm imprisoned in it. Fluttering against the glass. Because I can see through it I still think I can escape. I have hope. But it's all an illusion. A thick round wall of glass.
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hate
death
life
prison
|
John Fowles |
46e2e79
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...it had probably been a long enough life. Yet suddenly it all seemed like an illusion, a dream that had happened to someone else. What an odd thing existence was.
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illusion
life
life-is-a-dream
reflection
|
Kate Atkinson |
a362d3b
|
The living stayed home, haunting the world of the dead like ghosts.
|
|
future
life
science-fiction
|
Neal Stephenson |
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|
For marriage has nothing in common with love. marriage makes for security; love makes only for suffering. On the other hand, love could be so distilled, spun so fine as to implicate third and fourth persons, as to take up three or four exciting acts in a play.
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marriage
life
love
nobel-prize
quotes
|
Günter Grass |
01ef7bc
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All of one's life is a struggle towards that; the narrow path between freedom and belonging. I have sometimes sacrificed freedom in order to belong, but more often I have given up all hope of belonging.
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|
freedom
life
|
Jeanette Winterson |
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Part fact part fiction is what life is. And it is always a cover story. I wrote my way out.
|
|
life
writers
|
Jeanette Winterson |
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Everyone who tells a story tells it differently, just to remind us that everybody sees it differently.
|
|
life
truths
perspective
|
Jeanette Winterson |
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|
Pursuing happiness, and I did, and I still do, is not at all the saem as being happy - which I think is fleeting, dependent on circumstances, and a bit bovine. If the sun is shining, stand in it - yes, yes, yes. Happy times are great, but happy times pass - they have to - because time passes. The pursuit of happiness is more elusive; it is life-long, and it is not goal-centred. What you are pursuing is meaning - a meaningful life.
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life
|
Jeanette Winterson |
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I asked them: Does it hurt? And the scar people nodded, yes. But it felt somehow wonderful, they said. For one long second, it felt like the world was holding them close.
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pain
life
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Aimee Bender |
ab2514e
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Don't look to be saved in any one thing, person, machine, or library. Do your own bit of saving, and if you drown, at least die knowing you were headed for shore.
|
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life
ray-bradbury
self-help
|
Ray Bradbury |
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Because we are human we have a long childhood, and one of the jobs of that childhood is to sculpt our brains. We have years--about twelve of them--to draw outlines of the shape we want our sculpted brain to take. Some of the parts must be sculpted at critical times. One cannot, after all, carve out toes unless he knows where the foot will go. We need tools to do some of the fine work. The tools are our childhood experiences. And I'm convinced that one of those experiences must be children's books. And they must be experienced within the early years of our long childhood.
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|
experiences
literature
reading
life
children-s-lit
life-experiences
children-s-literature
development
brains
children
childhood
children-s-books
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E.L. Konigsburg |
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You know what's wrong with scientific power?... It's a form of inherited wealth... Most kinds of power require a substantial sacrifice by whoever wants the power. There is an apprenticeship, a discipline lasting many years. Whatever kind of power you want. President of the company. Black belt in karate. Spiritual Guru. Whatever it is you seek, you have to put in the time, the practice, the effort. You must give up a lot to get it. It has to be very important to you. And once you have attained it, it is your power. It can't be given away: it resides in you. It is literally the result of your discipline. Now, what is interesting about this process is that, by the time someone has acquired the ability to kill with his bare hands, he has also matured to the point where he won't use it unwisely. So that kind of power has a built-in control. The discipline of getting the power changes you so that you won't abuse it. But scientific power is like inherited wealth: attained without discipline. You read what others have done, and you take the next step... There is no discipline... no mastery: old scientists are ignored. There is no humility before nature... A karate master does not kill people with his bare hands. He does not lose his temper and kill his wife. The person who kills is the person who has no discipline, no restraint, and who has purchased his power in the form of a Saturday night special. And that is the kind of power that science fosters, and permits.
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|
responsibility
science
life
meaning-of-life
hard-work
experience
|
Michael Crichton |
5360afd
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Be honest with yourself; set the alarm for the time the Real You will get up, not the Ambitious You, because the Ambitious You doesn't really exist.
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|
sleep
funny
humor
life
mornings
|
Laurie Notaro |
1caf77b
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Everything in life had a purpose, and unless it achieved that purpose, it was just taking up space on the planet and wasting everybody's time.
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|
time
life
purpose
|
Jeannette Walls |
83b91bf
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Although I am unconvinced that I desire life, I am not yet ready to embrace death.
|
|
fate
living
life
|
Charles Stross |
a158b28
|
And just as music is the space between notes, just as the stars are beautiful because of the space between them, just as the sun strikes raindrops at a certain angle and throws a prism of color across the sky - so the space where I exist, and want to keep existing, and to be quite frank I hope I die in, is exactly this middle distance: where despair struck pure otherness and created something sublime.
|
|
life
life-and-death
|
Donna Tartt |
51c47af
|
If we can keep ourselves from interfering with the natural laws of life, mistakes can be our child's finest teachers.
|
|
nature
learning
life
teacher
parenting
mistakes
|
Randy Alcorn |
da9fe00
|
You may think this a strange story, but it is not. There are people whose lives are every bit as unusual as Bobby Box's--I can promise you that. Not all of them end as well, of course. For many people, the world is a place of sadness and sorrow, which is a great pity, as we have only one chance at life, and it is very bad luck if things do not go well. But even if you think they are not going well, you can still wish, as Bobby Box did. And sometimes those wishes will come true, as his did, and the world will seem filled with light and happiness. That can happen, you know. So never give up hope; never think things are so bad that they can never get better. They can get better, and they do. And if you have the chance to make things easier for another person, never miss it. Stretch out your hand to help them, to cheer them up, to wipe away their tears. Stretch out your hand as that man and that woman did to Bobby Box. Stretch out your hand and see what happens.
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life
|
Alexander McCall Smith |
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|
So many people walk around with a meaningless life. They seem half asleep, even when they're busy doing things they think are important. This is because they're chasing the wrong things. The way you get meaning into your life is to devote yourself to loving others, to your community around you, to creating something that gives you purpose and meaning.
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|
devote
live
wrong
meaning
life
love
important
purpose
|
Mitch Albom |
3df8499
|
For all that was happening to him, his voice was strong and inviting, and his mind was vibrating with a million thoughts. He was intent on proving that the word 'dying' was not synonymous with 'useless'.
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|
life
alive
prove
useless
dying
|
Mitch Albom |
8fe830c
|
"In the South American rainforest, there is a tribe called the Desana, who see the world as a fixed quantity of energy that flows between all creatures. Every birth must therefore engender a death, and every death brings forth another birth. This way, the energy of the world remains complete. When they hunt for food, the Desana know the animals they kill will leave a hole in the spiritual well. But that hole will be filled, they believe, by the Desana hunters when they die. Were there no men dying, there would be no birds or fish being born. I like this idea. Morrie likes it, too. The closer he gets to goodbye, the more he seems to feel we are all creatures in the same forest. What we take, we must replenish. "It's only fair," he says."
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|
inspiration
life-lessons
life
truths
|
Mitch Albom |
f85103b
|
"There are five people you meet in heaven," the Blue Man suddenly said. "Each of us was in your life for a reason. You may not have known the reason at the time, and that is what heaven is for. For understanding your life on Earth." Eddie looked confused. "People think of heaven as a paradise garden, a place where they can float on clouds and laze in rivers and mountains. But scenery without solace is meaningless. "This is the greatest gift God can give you: To understand what happened in your life. To have it explained. It is the peace you have been searching for."
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|
enlightenment
death
god
life
wisdom
explanation
meaning-of-life
peace
knowledge
power
life-after-death
|
Mitch Albom |
ac7f166
|
Eddie told her he had made things square and her eyebrows lifted and her lips spread and Eddie felt and old, warm feeling he had missed for years, the simple act of making his wife happy
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marriage
life
|
Mitch Albom |
7307fb5
|
"The backside of mountain is a fight against human nature," he said. "You have to care as much about yourself on the way down as you did on the way up."
|
|
life
mountain
mountains
|
Mitch Albom |
8b99f5c
|
He began to see the truth, that Ged had neither lost nor won but, naming the shadow of his death with his own name, had made himself whole: a man: who, knowing his whole true self, cannot be used or possessed by any power other than himself, and whose life therefore is lived for life's sake and never in the service of ruin, or pain, or hatred, or the dark. In the Creation of Ea, which is the oldest song, it is said, 'Only in silence the word, only in dark the light, only in dying life: bright the hawk's flight on the empty sky.
|
|
good-and-evil
self-knowledge
fear
death
life
coming-of-age
manhood
evil
|
Ursula K. Le Guin |
842e005
|
"It takes a huge investment in introspection to learn that the thirty or more hours spent "studying" the news last month neither had any predictive ability during your activities of that month nor did it impact your current knowledge of the world."
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|
time
work
life
news
prediction
knowledge
|
Nassim Nicholas Taleb |
f5334e0
|
To study the self is to forget the self. Maybe if you sat enough zazen, your sense of being a solid, singular self would dissolve and you could forget about it. What a relief. You could just hang out happily as part of an open-ended quantum array.
|
|
spirituality
science
life
japanese
quantum-mechanics
meditation
sense-of-self
physics
|
Ruth Ozeki |
5915692
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The way you remember or dream about your loved ones - the ones who are gone - you can't stop their endings from jumping ahead of the rest of their stories. You don't get to choose the chronology of what you dream, or the order of events in which you remember someone. In your mind - in your dreams, in your memories - sometimes the story begins with the epilogue.
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|
thoughts
relationships
memories
friends
inspiration
family
death
life
love
end
memory
nostalgia
|
John Irving |
01e1e07
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"Old Korean adage, "Even jade has flaws." Or, in other words: Nothing in life is ever perfect."
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|
perfection
life
jade
korean-quote
perfection-seeking
flaws
|
Alan Brennert |
ea07e09
|
All of life seems to me a strange dream about losing things you never had to begin with. About trying to find your glasses when you can't see because you don't have your glasses on.
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life
|
Lorrie Moore |
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The search for contentment is, therefore, not merely a self-preserving and self-benefiting act, but also a generous gift to the world. Clearing out all your misery gets you out of the way. You cease being an obstacle, not only to yourself but to anyone else. Only then are you free to serve and enjoy other people.
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people
happiness
life
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Elizabeth Gilbert |
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... people universally tend to think that happiness is a stroke of luck, something that will maybe descend upon you like fine weather if you're fortunate enough. But that's not how happiness works. Happiness is the consequence of personal effort. You fight for it, strive for it, insist upon it, and sometimes even travel around the world looking for it. You have to participate relentlessly in the manifestations of your own blessings. And once you have achieved a state of happiness, you must never become lax about maintaining it, you must make a mighty effort to keep swimming upward into that happiness forever, to stay afloat on top of it.
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life
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Elizabeth Gilbert |
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But I was always coming here. I thought about one of my favorite Sufi poems, which says that God long ago drew a circle in the sand exactly around the spot where you are standing right now. I was never not coming here. This was never not going to happen.
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spirituality
life
philosophy
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Elizabeth Gilbert |
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"One by one, the thoughts and memories of sadness raised their hands, stood up to identify themselves. I looked at each thought, at each unit of sorrow, and I acknowledged its existence and felt (without trying to protect myself from it) its horrible pain. And then I would tell that sorrow, "It's OK. I love you. I accept you. Come into my heart now. It's over."..."
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pain
sadness
life
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Elizabeth Gilbert |
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"This is what we are like. Collectively, as a species, this is our emotional landscape. I met an old lady once, almost one hundred years old, and she told me, "There are only two questions that human beings have ever fought over, all through history. How much do you love me? And Who's in charge?" Everything else is somehow manageable. But these two questions of love and control undo us all, trip us up and cause war, grief and suffering."
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life
love
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Elizabeth Gilbert |
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Though I suppose people do reproduce sometimes for that reason - for insurance against later regret. I think people have children for all manner of reasons - sometimes out of a pure desire to nurture and witness life, sometimes out of an absence of choice, sometimes in order to hold on to a partner or create an heir, sometimes without thinking about it in any particular way. Not all the reasons to have children are the same, and not all of them are necessarily unselfish. Not all the reasons not to have children are the same, either, though. Nor are all those reasons necessarily selfish.
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life
parenthood
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Elizabeth Gilbert |
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But at some point you have to make peace with what you were given and if God wanted me to be a shy girl with thick, dark hair, He would have made me that way, but He didn't Useful, then, might be to accept how I was made and embody myself fully therein.
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personality
life
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Elizabeth Gilbert |
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Devotion is diligence without assurance.
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life
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Elizabeth Gilbert |
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The sentences still form in my mind, and thoughts still do their little show-off dance, but I know my thought patterns so well now that they don't bother me anymore. My thoughts have become like old neighbors, kind of bothersome but ultimately rather endearing - Mr. and Mrs. Yakkity-Yak and their three dumb children, Blah, Blah and Blah. But they don't agitate my home. There's room for all of us in this neighborhood.
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spirituality
life
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Elizabeth Gilbert |
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You can let yourself off the hook anytime you want, Liz. That's the divine contract of a little something we call free will.
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life
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Elizabeth Gilbert |
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Your treasure - your perfection - is within you already. But to claim it, you must leave the busy commotion of the mind and abandon the desires of the ego and enter into the silence of the heart. The kundalini shakti - the supreme energy of the divine - will take you there.
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perfection
spirituality
life
energy
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Elizabeth Gilbert |
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I've spent so much time these last years wondering what I'm supposed to be. A wife? A lover? A celibate? An Italian? A glutton? A traveler? An artist? A Yogi? But I'm not any of these things, at least not completely. And I'm not Crazy Aunt Liz, either. I'm just a slippery antevasin - betwixt and between - a student on the ever-shifting border near the wonderful, scary forest of the new.
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life
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Elizabeth Gilbert |
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"Once you look at your problems as "workout situations," they take on a whole new aspect."
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inspiration
life
the-laws-of-love
self-help
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Chris Prentiss |
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[I]f you set out to mention everything you would never be done, and that's what counts, to be done, to have done. Oh, I know, even when you mention only a few of the things there are you do not get done either, I know, I know. But it's a change of muck. And if all muck is the same muck that doesn't matter, it's good to have a change of muck, to move from one heap to another, from time to time, fluttering you might say, like a butterfly, as if you were ephemeral.
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meaning
life
storytelling
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Samuel Beckett |
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grace is a small white butterfly, and life is a semi trailer careening up 101.
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life
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Anne Lamott |
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As she rode, she tried to tell herself something. / You don't deserve to be this happy, Liesl. You really don't. / Can a person steal happiness? Or is it just another internal, infernal human trick?
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hope
life
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Markus Zusak |
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Well, have you even tried again? You can't just sit around waiting for the new world to take it with you. You have to go out and be part of it - despite your past mistakes.
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world
life
try-again
new-world
life-lesson
mistake
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Markus Zusak |
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I earned a mater's degree in journalism and took the first job offered, as a sports writer. Instead of chasing my own fame, I wrote about famous athletes chasing theirs.
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writer
work
life
journalism
fame
job
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Mitch Albom |
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If you're reading to find friends, you're in deep trouble. We read to find life, in all its possibilities.
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reading
life
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Roxane Gay |
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"Each time we talk, he listens to me ramble, then he tries to pass on some sort of life lesson. He warns me that money is not the most important thing, contrary to the popular view on campus. He tells me I need to be "fully human." He speaks of the alienation of youth and the need for "connectedness" with the society around me."
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ramble
money
youth
human
life
connect
society
talk
lesson
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Mitch Albom |
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Remember that you own what happened to you.
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writing
life
ownership
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Anne Lamott |
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The priest's work, the priest's service, was understood as an act of worship. This was God's desire at Sinai - that everybody would understand their roles as priests. Thst everybody would worship God by serving each other.
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jesus
humanity
life
inspirational
serving-god
serving-others
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Rob Bell |
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We are among the first peoples in human history who do not broadly inherit religious identity as a given, a matter of kin and tribe, like hair color and hometown. But the very fluidity of this--the possibility of choice that arises, the ability to craft and discern one's own spiritual bearings--is not leading to the decline of spiritual life but its revival. It is changing us, collectively. It is even renewing religion, and our cultural encounter with religion, in counterintuitive ways. I meet scientists who speak of a religiosity without spirituality--a reverence for the place of ritual in human life, and the value of human community, without a need for something supernaturally transcendent. There is something called the New Humanism, which is in dialogue about moral imagination and ethical passions across boundaries of belief and nonbelief. But I apprehend-- with a knowledge that is as much visceral as cognitive-- that God is love. That somehow the possibility of care that can transform us-- love muscular and resilient-- is an echo of a reality behind reality, embedded in the creative force that gives us life.
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human
choice
faith
spirituality
religion
god
life
love
wisdom
moral-imagination
new-humanism
nonbelief
life-force
tribe
diversity
reverence
energy
community
belief
ethics
mystery
ritual
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Krista Tippett |
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It's never hard to act ordinary if you feel ordinary.
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heaven
life
ordinary
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Mitch Albom |
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"Look to the east," she said, "for always, while the light dies in the west, there is the promise of rebirth from the east."
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hope
life
rebirth
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Marion Zimmer Bradley |
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..And because he was still able to move his hands - Morrie always spoke with both hands waving - he showed great passion when explaining how you face the end of life.
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ill
passion
death
life
hands
wait
decision
way-of-life
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Mitch Albom |
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He didn't remember the very first time he actually died very well. It wasn't as bad as remediation, but he remembered being afraid and worried... and when he found himself alive again a few hours later with Mearth's wild green eyes peering down at him, he remembered still being afraid and worried. It was strange, he thought, to be afraid of being alive... but being alive was worse than being dead in his mind.
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pain
suffering
fear
death
life
alive
green
worry
memory
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Rebecca McNutt |
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You can't even communicate in English. Real life is not a series of levels.
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family
friendship
life
starbucks
sunglasses
bully
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Sophie Kinsella |
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In a strange way, I envied the quality of Morrie's time even as I lamented its diminishing supply. Why did we bother with all the distractions we did?
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life
wasted-time
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Mitch Albom |
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Here had lived an elder race, to which we look back with disquietude. The country which we visit at week-ends was really a home to it, and the graver sides of life, the deaths, the partings, the yearnings for love, have their deepest expression in the heart of the fields.
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death
life
love
e-m-forster
howards-end
countryside
parting
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E.M. Forster |
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"Morrie likes the nickname. "Coach," he says. "All right, I'll be your coach. And you can be my player. You can play all the lovely parts of life that I'm too old for now."
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friendship
life
nickname
student
old
young
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Mitch Albom |
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So we gave the afternoon some sanity after all and I wonder, Uncle Andrew, is life sane, as we tried to make it? Or is it insanity, as it was yesterday on the Gerard plantation? And why don't more people try to make it sane? Or if it is full of sanity for them, why do they try to rip that sanity to pieces and impose their form of insanity? Can you help me understand?
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sanity
life
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Ann Rinaldi |
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Adulthood's full of ghosts... High-functioning sleepwalkers, essentially.
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sleep
life
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Emily St. John Mandel |
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Don Ricardo wanted a successor worthy of himself. Jorge would always be cocooned in the privileges of his class, hiding from his mediocrity in creature comforts. Penelope, the beautiful Penelope, was a woman, and therefore a treasure, not a treasurer. Julian, who had the soul of a poet, and therefore the soul of a murderer, fulfilled all the requirements. It was only a question of time.
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life
poetic
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Carlos Ruiz Zafón |
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This life you cry up so much is what I wanted to extinguish by suicide, whereas my dream, my dream--oh, it has revealed to me a great, new, regenerated intensity of life!
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suicide
life
revelation
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Fyodor Dostoyevsky |
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I had also developed my own culture. Work. Over the years, I had taken labor as my companion and had moved everything else to the side.
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live
work
life
important
culture
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Mitch Albom |
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"Morrie closed his eyes. "I know, Mitch. You mustn't be afraid of my dying. I've had a good life, and we all know it's going to happen. I maybe have four or five months."
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ill
live
good
life
months
dying
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Mitch Albom |
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Eddie admitted that some of his life he'd spent hiding from God, and the rest of the time he thought he went unnoticed.
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life
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Mitch Albom |
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Isn't it splendid there are so many things to like in this world?
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life
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L.M. Montgomery |
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Life is sacrifice and risk taking, and nothing that doesn't entail some moderate amount of the former, under the constraint of satisfying the latter, is close to what we can call life. If you do not undertake a risk of real harm, reparable or even potentially irreparable, from an adventure, it is not an adventure.
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risk
sacrifice
life
risk-taking
harm
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Nassim Nicholas Taleb |
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I write all this with respect for the possibility that rather than some kind of contact with the consciousness of my donor's heart, these are merely hallucinations from the medications or my own projections. I know this is a very slippery slope.... What came to me in the first contact....was the horror of dying. The utter suddenness, shock, and surprise of it all....The feeling of being ripped off and the dread of dying before your time....This and two other incidents are by far the most terrifying experiences I have ever had.... What came to me on the second occasion was my donor's experience of having his heart being cut out of his chest and transplanted. There was a profound sense of violation by a mysterious, omnipotent outside force.... ...The third episode was quite different than the previous two. This time the consciousness of my donor's heart was in the present tense....He was struggling to figure out where he was, even what he was....It was as if none of your senses worked....An extremely frightening awareness of total dislocation....As if you are reaching with your hands to grasp something...but every time you reach forward your fingers end up only clutching thin air.
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life
organ-transplants
soul
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Mary Roach |
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"The past is what it is--good and bad, it's written and unchanging. And there's solace to be had in that." Tears pricked her eyes. "What do you mean?" There was a long pause. "The good parts are more luminous because you can trust them. And the bad parts can't get any more tragic for precisely the same reason. The past is safe because it is indelible."
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past
life
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J.R. Ward |
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I mean, what is this life of ours supposed to be for? Are we to spend it identifying each other with catalogues, like tourists in an art gallery? Or are we to try to exchange some kind of a signal, however garbled, before it's too late?
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life
chrisopher-isherwood
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Christopher Isherwood |
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I see dull people as projects ... to be reformed
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people
life
project
reform
psychology
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Ben Elton |
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Death is not in the nature of things; it is the nature of things.
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nature
life
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John Fowles |
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That was the thing about life. Habit and routine made things feel permanent, but that was all an illusion based on the very flimsy foundation of repetition. Change and chaos was a far better bet to put your faith in. At least you would never be surprised when things went tits up.
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life
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J.R. Ward |
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"True enough. I say this all the time. Trez looked at his hands. "I didn't ask for this." "No one asks for life." The executioner hiked iAm's body up higher. "And sometimes they do not ask for death..."
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life-and-living
life
life-quote
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J.R. Ward |
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She seemed to have no inkling that life wasn't as orderly as her pencil case and that everything is chance and at any moment any number of remarkable things can happen that are totally beyond our control, events that rip up our maps and re-polarize our compasses - the madwoman walking towards us, the train falling off the bridge, the boy on the bicycle.
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life
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Kate Atkinson |
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When you're feeding the second coachload of tourists that day you aren't thinking about the birthday party for fifty next week.
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coping
life-lessons
life
worry
food
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Robin McKinley |
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Fracture lines etch the surface of the glass box as if a body fell from the sky and landed on it. He doesn't hear the impact, can't smell the blood.
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metaphor
reassurance
life
poetic-prose
wintergirls
poetic
recovery
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Laurie Halse Anderson |
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"You are familiar, no doubt, with Sebastiano del Piombo's huge painting "The Raising of Lazarus", which hangs in the National Gallery in London, having been purchased in the last century from the Angerstein collection. Against a background of water, arched bridges, and a hot blue sky, a crowd of people -- presumably the neighbours -- cluster about the risen man. Lazarus has turned rather yellow in death, but he is a muscular, well-set-up type. Hid grave-clothes are draped like a towel over his head, and people lean towards him solicitously, and seem to confer; what he most resembles is a boxer in his corner. The expressions of those around are puzzled, mildly censorious. Here -- in the very act of extricating his right leg from a knot of the shroud --one feels his troubles are about to begin again. A woman -- Mary, or maybe Martha -- is whispering behind her hand. Christ points to the revenant, and holds up his other hand, fingers outstretched: so many round down, five to go."
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life
life-after-death
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Hilary Mantel |
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It is not so important, what happens to the body. I have led in some ways a blessed life. God has been good and not tested me. Now he does I cannot fail him. I have been vigilant over my heart, and I have not always liked what I have found there. If it comes into the hands of the hangman at the last, so be it. It will be in God's hands soon enough.
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life
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Hilary Mantel |
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Let me first talk about our brains as a personal radio telescope. Let me talk first about its wonderful built-in wiring for tuning out the static of our civilization in order to better tune in its symphony.
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life
development
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E.L. Konigsburg |
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Somewhere Dogen wrote about the number of moments in the snap of a finger. I don't remember the exact figure, only that it was large and seemed quite arbitrary and absurd, but I imagine that when I am in the cockpit of my plane, aiming the nose at the hull of an American battleship, every single one will be clear and pure and discernible. At the moment of my death, I look forward at last to being fully aware and alive.
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death
life
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Ruth Ozeki |
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I'm not against anyone fastening their life to an event of some significance and that way making themselves significant. God knows, we need what footholds we can find on the glass mountain of our existence. Trouble is, you climb and climb, and around middle age, you discover you have spent all the time in the same spot. You thought you were going to be somebody until you slip down into the nobody that you are. I'm telling you because I know.
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existence
life
significance
middle-age
insignificance
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Jeanette Winterson |
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Every day in my consultancy, I meet men and women who are out of their minds. That is, they have not the slightest idea who they really are or what it is that matters to them. The question 'How shall I live?' is not one I can answer on prescription.
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literature
life
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Jeanette Winterson |
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I like to see the people arriving. I like to imagine their lives. It keeps me from thinking too much about my own. A man shouldn't be too introspective. It weakens him. That is the difference between Tennessee Williams and Ernest Hemingway. I'm a Hemingway man myself although I don't believe it is right to hunt lions.
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life
tennessee-williams
hunting
thinking
lives
introspection
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Jeanette Winterson |
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I have a theory that every time you make an important choice, the part of you left behind continues the other life you could have had. Some people's emanations are very strong, some people create themselves afresh outside of their own body.
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life
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Jeanette Winterson |
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Kazu pronadi svrhu u zivotu i ostvari je. Ali katkad, tek nakon sto ga prozivis, uvidis da je zivot imao svrhu, lako moguce onu o kojoj nisi nikad ni razmisljao.
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life
životna-svrha
život
purpose
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Khaled Hosseini |
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Last day I saw him human, he was sad about the world.
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sadness
life
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Aimee Bender |
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Look at it this way, child, life is a magic show, or should be if people didn't go to sleep on each other. Always leave folks with a bit of mystery, son.
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imagination
life
watchufulness
mystery
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Ray Bradbury |
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Or we'll go that way. Or we'll walk on the highways now, and we'll have time to put things into ourselves. And some day, after it sets in us a long time, it'll come out of our hands and our mouths. And a lot of it will be wrong, but just enough of it will be right. We'll just start walking today and see the world and the way the world walks around and talks, the way it really looks. I want to see everything now. And while none of it will be me when it goes in, after a while it'll all gather together inside and it'll be me. Look at the world out there, my God, my God, look at it out there, outside me, out there beyond my face and the only way to really touch it is to put it where it's finally me, where it's in the blood, where it pumps around a thousand times ten thousand a day. I get hold of it so it'll never run off. I'll hold on to the world tight some day. I've got one finger on it now; that's a beginning.
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travel
strength
life
inspirational
experience
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Ray Bradbury |
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If nothing else, school teaches that there is an answer to every question; only in the real world do young people discover that many aspects of life are uncertain, mysterious, and even unknowable. If you have a chance to play in nature, if you are sprayed by a beetle, if the color of a butterfly's wing comes off on your fingers, if you watch a caterpillar spin its cocoon-- you come away with a sense of mystery and uncertainty. The more you watch, the more mysterious the natural world becomes, and the more you realize how little you know. Along with its beauty, you may also come to experience its fecundity, its wastefulness, aggressiveness, ruthlessness, parasitism, and its violence. These qualities are not well-conveyed in textbooks.
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nature
books
learning
life
plants
insects
knowledge
school
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Michael Crichton |
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When you get everything you wanted, I think maybe you do have to be a little grateful for the people who got you there.. whether or not they thought they were doing you any favors at the time.
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writer
life
big-girls-don-t-cry
novel
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Jennifer Weiner |
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We're brought up to expect a happy ending. But there are no happy endings. There's only death waiting for us. We find love and happiness, and it's snatched away from us without rhyme or reason. We're on a deserted space ship careening mindlessly among the stars. The world is Dachau, and we're all Jews.
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happiness
life
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Sidney Sheldon |
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And so, for the first time, I began to feel a more general remorse--a feeling somewhere between self-pity and self-hatred--about my whole life.
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life
self-pity
the-sense-of-an-ending
remorse
regret
self-hatred
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Julian Barnes |
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...Mrs. Warren allowed her book to fall closed upon her lap, and her attractive face awakened to an expression of agreeable expectation, in itself denoting the existence of interesting and desirable qualities in the husband at the moment inserting his latch-key in the front door preparatory to mounting the stairs and joining her. The man who, after twenty-five years of marriage, can call, by his return to her side, this expression to the countenance of an intelligent woman is, without question or argument, an individual whose life and occupations are as interesting as his character and points of view.
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marriage
life
love
commitment
interesting
faithfulness
enjoyment
partners
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Frances Hodgson Burnett |
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What did you give to the city, Montag? Ashes. What did the others give to each other? Nothingness.
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life
|
Ray Bradbury |
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So now do you see why books are hated and feared? They show the pores in the face of life.
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hate
fear
life
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Ray Bradbury |
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There is really no natural limit to the practice of loving kindness in meditation or in one's life. It is an ongoing, ever-expanding realization of interconnectedness. It is also its embodiment. When you can love one tree or one flower or one dog or one place, or one person or yourself for one moment, you can find all people, all places, all suffering, all harmony in that one moment. Practicing in this way is not trying to change anything or get anywhere, although it might look like it on the surface. What it is really doing is uncovering what is always present. Love and kindness are here all the time, somewhere, in fact, everywhere. Usually our ability to touch them and be touched by them lies buried below our own fears and hurts, below our greed and our hatreds, below our desperate clinging to the illusion that we are truly separate and alone. (...). Make sure that you are not to help anybody else or the planet. Rather, you are simply holding them in awareness, honoring them, wishing them well, opening to their pain with kindness and compassion and acceptance.
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illusion
kindness
compassion
life
love
all-people
all-places
expanding
honouring
opening-to-pain
uncovering
unlimited
well-wishing
everywhere
interconnectedness
touched
loving
loving-kindness
mindfulness
realisation
presence
meditation
harmony
awareness
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Jon Kabat-Zinn |