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It's so hard to forget pain, but it's even harder to remember sweetness. We have no scar to show for happiness. We learn so little from peace.
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pain
scar
peace
sweetness
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Chuck Palahniuk |
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I think you still love me, but we can't escape the fact that I'm not enough for you. I knew this was going to happen. So I'm not blaming you for falling in love with another woman. I'm not angry, either. I should be, but I'm not. I just feel pain. A lot of pain. I thought I could imagine how much this would hurt, but I was wrong.
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moving-on
pain
relationships
past
life
love
infidelity
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Haruki Murakami |
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"I DON'T CARE!" Harry yelled at them, snatching up a lunascope and throwing it into the fireplace. "I'VE HAD ENOUGH, I'VE SEEN ENOUGH, I WANT OUT, I WANT IT TO END, I DON'T CARE ANYMORE!" "You do care," said Dumbledore. He had not flinched or made a single move to stop Harry demolishing his office. His expression was calm, almost detached. "You care so much you feel as though you will bleed to death with the pain of it."
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pain
harry-potter
death
life
dumbledore
hurt
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J.K. Rowling |
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Turn your wounds into wisdom.
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pain
wisdom
inspirational
wounds
experience
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Oprah Winfrey |
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Life is pain, highness. Anyone who says differently is selling something.
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pain
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William Goldman |
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If pain must come, may it come quickly. Because I have a life to live, and I need to live it in the best way possible. If he has to make a choice, may he make it now. Then I will either wait for him or forget him.
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pain
suffering
hope
love
waiting
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Paulo Coelho |
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The worst part of holding the memories is not the pain. It's the loneliness of it. Memories need to be shared.
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pain
memories
share
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Lois Lowry |
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There are wounds that never show on the body that are deeper and more hurtful than anything that bleeds.
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pain
trauma
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Laurell K. Hamilton |
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Some old wounds never truly heal, and bleed again at the slightest word.
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pain
truthful
perfect
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George R.R. Martin |
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Pain is temporary. Quitting lasts forever.
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pain
inspiration
inspirational
cancer
quitting
failure
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Lance Armstrong Sally Jenkins |
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The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.
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pain
relationships
self
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Ernest Hemingway |
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"Once upon a midnight dreary, while I pondered, weak and weary, Over many a quaint and curious volume of forgotten lore, While I nodded, nearly napping, suddenly there came a tapping, As of some one gently rapping, rapping at my chamber door. Tis some visitor," I muttered, "tapping at my chamber door -- Only this, and nothing more." Ah, distinctly I remember it was in the bleak December, And each separate dying ember wrought its ghost upon the floor. Eagerly I wished the morrow; -- vainly I had sought to borrow From my books surcease of sorrow -- sorrow for the lost Lenore -- For the rare and radiant maiden whom the angels name Lenore -- Nameless here for evermore. And the silken sad uncertain rustling of each purple curtain Thrilled me -- filled me with fantastic terrors never felt before; So that now, to still the beating of my heart, I stood repeating, Tis some visitor entreating entrance at my chamber door -- Some late visitor entreating entrance at my chamber door; -- This it is, and nothing more." Presently my soul grew stronger; hesitating then no longer, Sir," said I, "or Madam, truly your forgiveness I implore; But the fact is I was napping, and so gently you came rapping, And so faintly you came tapping, tapping at my chamber door, That I scarce was sure I heard you"-- here I opened wide the door; -- Darkness there, and nothing more. Deep into that darkness peering, long I stood there wondering, fearing, Doubting, dreaming dreams no mortals ever dared to dream before; But the silence was unbroken, and the stillness gave no token, And the only word there spoken was the whispered word, "Lenore?" This I whispered, and an echo murmured back the word, "Lenore!" -- Merely this, and nothing more. Back into the chamber turning, all my soul within me burning, Soon again I heard a tapping somewhat louder than before. Surely," said I, "surely that is something at my window lattice: Let me see, then, what thereat is, and this mystery explore -- Let my heart be still a moment and this mystery explore; -- 'Tis the wind and nothing more." Open here I flung the shutter, when, with many a flirt and flutter, In there stepped a stately raven of the saintly days of yore; Not the least obeisance made he; not a minute stopped or stayed he; But, with mien of lord or lady, perched above my chamber door -- Perched upon a bust of Pallas just above my chamber door -- Perched, and sat, and nothing more. Then this ebony bird beguiling my sad fancy into smiling, By the grave and stern decorum of the countenance it wore. Though thy crest be shorn and shaven, thou," I said, "art sure no craven, Ghastly grim and ancient raven wandering from the Nightly shore -- Tell me what thy lordly name is on the Night's Plutonian shore!" Quoth the Raven, "Nevermore." Much I marveled this ungainly fowl to hear discourse so plainly, Though its answer little meaning-- little relevancy bore; For we cannot help agreeing that no living human being Ever yet was blest with seeing bird above his chamber door -- Bird or beast upon the sculptured bust above his chamber door, With such name as "Nevermore."
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pain
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Edgar Allan Poe |
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Time doesn't heal emotional pain, you need to learn how to let go.
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time
pain
letting-go-of-the-past
letting-go
learning
inspiration
inspirational-quotes
life-quotes
spiritual
life
inspirational
heal
let-go
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Roy T. Bennett |
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You care so much you feel as though you will bleed to death with the pain of it.
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pain
harry-potter
hurt
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J.K. Rowling |
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"Mental pain is less dramatic than physical pain, but it is more common and also more hard to bear. The frequent attempt to conceal mental pain increases the burden: it is easier to say "My tooth is aching" than to say "My heart is broken."
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pain
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C.S. Lewis |
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Pain is a pesky part of being human, I've learned it feels like a stab wound to the heart, something I wish we could all do without, in our lives here. Pain is a sudden hurt that can't be escaped. But then I have also learned that because of pain, I can feel the beauty, tenderness, and freedom of healing. Pain feels like a fast stab wound to the heart. But then healing feels like the wind against your face when you are spreading your wings and flying through the air! We may not have wings growing out of our backs, but healing is the closest thing that will give us that wind against our faces.
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wisdom-in-life
pain
freedom
learning
beauty
inspirational-life
inspirational-quotes
life-and-living
living
inspiring
life-lessons
life
wisdom
inspirational
living-life
heal
growing
flying
healing
painful
flight
wisdom-quotes
growth
hurt
wind
experience
wings
hurting
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C. JoyBell C. |
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I imagine one of the reasons people cling to their hates so stubbornly is because they sense, once hate is gone, they will be forced to deal with pain.
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pain
hate
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James Baldwin |
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Face your life, its pain, its pleasure, leave no path untaken.
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pain
life
pleasure
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Neil Gaiman |
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But who can remember pain, once it's over? All that remains of it is a shadow, not in the mind even, in the flesh. Pain marks you, but too deep to see. Out of sight, out of mind.
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pain
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Margaret Atwood |
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The damage was permanent; there would always be scars. But even the angriest scars faded over time until it was difficult to see them written on the skin at all, and the only thing that remained was the memory of how painful it had been.
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pain
love
inspirational
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Jodi Picoult |
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The pain of parting is nothing to the joy of meeting again.
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pain
joy
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Charles Dickens |
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Sleep my little baby-oh Sleep until you waken When you wake you'll see the world If I'm not mistaken... Kiss a lover Dance a measure, Find your name And buried treasure... Face your life Its pain, Its pleasure, Leave no path untaken.
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dance
sleep
pain
individuality
choice
treasure
identity
life
love
name
pleasure
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Neil Gaiman |
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Since I was young, I have always known this: Life damages us, every one. We can't escape that damage. But now, I am also learning this: We can be mended. We mend each other
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pain
hope
inspirational
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Veronica Roth |
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I've never forgotten him. Dare I say I miss him? I do. I miss him. I still see him in my dreams. They are nightmares mostly, but nightmares tinged with love. Such is the strangeness of the human heart. I still cannot understand how he could abandon me so unceremoniously, without any sort of goodbye, without looking back even once. The pain is like an axe that chops my heart.
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pain
heart
love
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Yann Martel |
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I know that pain is the most important thing in the universes. Greater than survival, greater than love, greater even than the beauty it brings about. For without pain, there can be no pleasure. Without sadness, there can be no happiness. Without misery there can be no beauty. And without these, life is endless, hopeless, doomed and damned
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pain
philosophy
inspirational
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Harlan Ellison |
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I know that pain is the most important thing in the universes. Greater than survival, greater than love, greater even than the beauty it brings about. For without pain, there can be no pleasure. Without sadness, there can be no happiness. Without misery there can be no beauty. And without these, life is endless, hopeless, doomed and damned. Adult. You have become adult.
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pain
philosophy
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Harlan Ellison |
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"Sure, we'd faced some things as children that a lot of kids don't. Sure, Justin had qualified for his Junior de Sade Badge in his teaching methods for dealing with pain. We still hadn't learned, though, that growing up is all about getting hurt. And then getting over it. You hurt. You recover. You move on. Odds are pretty good you're just going to get hurt again. But each time, you learn something. Each time, you come out of it a little stronger, and at some point you realize that there are more flavors of pain than coffee. There's the little empty pain of leaving something behind - gradutaing, taking the next step forward, walking out of something familiar and safe into the unknown. There's the big, whirling pain of life upending all of your plans and expecations. There's the sharp little pains of failure, and the more obscure aches of successes that didn't give you what you thought they would. There are the vicious, stabbing pains of hopes being torn up. The sweet little pains of finding others, giving them your love, and taking joy in their life they grow and learn. There's the steady pain of empathy that you shrug off so you can stand beside a wounded friend and help them bear their burdens. And if you're very, very lucky, there are a very few blazing hot little pains you feel when you realized that you are standing in a moment of utter perfection, an instant of triumph, or happiness, or mirth which at the same time cannot possibly last - and yet will remain with you for life.
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pain
life
wisdom
harry-dresden
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Jim Butcher |
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The sense of unhappiness is so much easier to convey than that of happiness. In misery we seem aware of our own existence, even though it may be in the form of a monstrous egotism: this pain of mine is individual, this nerve that winces belongs to me and to no other. But happiness annihilates us: we lose our identity.
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pain
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Graham Greene |
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But when I do feel all the strength go out of me, and I fall to my knees beside the table and I think I cry, then, or at least I want to, and everything inside me screams for just one more kiss, one more word, one more glance, one more.
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pain
sadness
love
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Veronica Roth |
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Moral wounds have this peculiarity - they may be hidden, but they never close; always painful, always ready to bleed when touched, they remain fresh and open in the heart.
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pain
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Alexandre Dumas |
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Last night I wept. I wept because the process by which I have become woman was painful. I wept because I was no longer a child with a child's blind faith. I wept because my eyes were opened to reality....I wept because I could not believe anymore and I love to believe. I can still love passionately without believing. That means I love humanly. I wept because I have lost my pain and I am not yet accustomed to its absence.
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pain
reality
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Anaïs Nin |
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It's the same with people who say, 'Whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger.' Even people who say this must realize that the exact opposite is true. What doesn't kill you maims you, cripples you, leaves you weak, makes you whiny and full of yourself at the same time. The more pain, the more pompous you get. Whatever doesn't kill you makes you incredibly annoying.
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pain
love
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Rob Sheffield |
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The trouble is that we have a bad habit, encouraged by pedants and sophisticates, of considering happiness as something rather stupid. Only pain is intellectual, only evil interesting. This is the treason of the artist; a refusal to admit the banality of evil and the terrible boredom of pain.
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artists
pain
happiness
evil
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Ursula K. LeGuin |
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I could never hurt him enough to make his betrayal stop hurting. And it hurts, in every part of my body.
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pain
trust
hurt
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Veronica Roth |
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Adventures are all very well in their place, but there's a lot to be said for regular meals and freedom from pain.
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pain
freedom
comfort
contrast
meals
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Neil Gaiman |
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She hardly ever thought of him. He had worn a place for himself in some corner of her heart, as a sea shell, always boring against the rock, might do. The making of the place had been her pain. But now the shell was safely in the rock. It was lodged, and ground no longer.
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pain
sorrow
love
longing
unrequited-love
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T.H. White |
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Being with her I feel a pain, like a frozen knife stuck in my chest. An awful pain, but the funny thing is I'm thankful for it. It's like that frozen pain and my very existence are one. The pain is an anchor, mooring me
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pain
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Haruki Murakami |
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Why is there ever this perverse cruelty in humankind, that makes us hurt most those we love best?
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pain
human
god
love
hurt
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Jacqueline Carey |
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If you can learn to endure pain, you can survive anything. Some people learn to embrace it- to love it. Some endure it through drowning it in sorrow, or by making themselves forget. Others turn it into anger.
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pain
endurance
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Sarah J. Maas |
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When you compare the sorrows of real life to the pleasures of the imaginary one, you will never want to live again, only to dream forever.
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pain
suffering
living
fantasy
life
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Alexandre Dumas |
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To be, or not to be: that is the question: Whether 'tis nobler in the mind to suffer The slings and arrows of outrageous fortune, Or to take arms against a sea of troubles, And by opposing end them? To die: to sleep; No more; and, by a sleep to say we end The heart-ache and the thousand natural shocks That flesh is heir to, 'tis a consummation Devoutly to be wish'd. To die, to sleep; To sleep: perchance to dream: ay, there's the rub.
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sleep
suicide
pain
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William Shakespeare |
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"Jane, my little darling (so I will call you, for so you are), you don't know what you are talking about; you misjudge me again: it is not because she is mad I hate her. If you were mad, do you think I should hate you?" "I do indeed, sir." "Then you are mistaken, and you know nothing about me, and nothing about the sort of love of which I am capable. Every atom of your flesh is as dear to me as my own: in pain and sickness it would still be dear. Your mind is my treasure, and if it were broken, it would be my treasure still: if you raved, my arms should confine you, and not a strait waistcoat--your grasp, even in fury, would have a charm for me: if you flew at me as wildly as that woman did this morning, I should receive you in an embrace, at least as fond as it would be restrictive. I should not shrink from you with disgust as I did from her: in your quiet moments you should have no watcher and no nurse but me; and I could hang over you with untiring tenderness, though you gave me no smile in return; and never weary of gazing into your eyes, though they had no longer a ray of recognition for me."
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pain
relationship
sickness
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Charlotte Brontë |
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"We, unaccustomed to courage exiles from delight live coiled in shells of loneliness until love leaves its high holy temple and comes into our sight to liberate us into life. Love arrives and in its train come ecstasies old memories of pleasure ancient histories of pain. Yet if we are bold, love strikes away the chains of fear from our souls. We are weaned from our timidity In the flush of love's light we dare be brave And suddenly we see that love costs all we are and will ever be.
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pain
poetry
freedom
fear
life
love
lonliness
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Maya Angelou |
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"my mother, poor fish, wanting to be happy, beaten two or three times a week, telling me to be happy: "Henry, smile! why don't you ever smile?"
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motherhood
pain
love
facade
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Charles Bukowski |
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We can never judge the lives of others, because each person knows only their own pain and renunciation.
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pain
life
renunciation
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Paulo Coelho |
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Everyone always wants to know how you can tell when it's true love, and the answer is this: when the pain doesn't fade and the scars don't heal, and it's too damned late.
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pain
true
true-love
love
scars
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Jonathan Tropper |
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Kiss a lover, Dance a measure, Find your name And buried treasure. Face your life, It's pain, It's pleasure, Leave no path untaken.
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pain
personality
treasure
life
love
dancing
neil-gaiman
the-graveyard-book
name
pleasure
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Neil Gaiman |
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...when pain is over, the remembrance of it often becomes a pleasure.
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pain
memory
pleasure
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Jane Austen |
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We can ignore even pleasure. But pain insists upon being attended to. God whispers to us in our pleasures, speaks in our conscience, but shouts in our pains: it is his megaphone to rouse a deaf world.
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pain
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C.S. Lewis |
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Pain is the feeling. Suffering is the effect the pain inflicts. If one can endure pain, one can live without suffering. If one can withstand pain, one can withstand anything. If one can learn to control pain, one can learn to control oneself.
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pain
suffering
withstand
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James Frey |
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If you don't get what you want, you suffer; if you get what you don't want, you suffer; even when you get exactly what you want, you still suffer because you can't hold on to it forever.
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want
pain
heart
still
get
suffer
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Dan Millman |
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I've lived too long with pain. I won't know who I am without it.
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pain
identity
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Orson Scott Card |
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And I pray one prayer--I repeat it till my tongue stiffens--Catherine Earnshaw, may you not rest as long as I am living! You said I killed you--haunt me, then!...Be with me always--take any form--drive me mad! only do not leave me in this abyss, where I cannot find you!
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pain
love
wuthering-heights
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Emily Brontë |
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So he tasted the deep pain that is reserved only for the strong, just as he had tasted for a little while the deep happiness.
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pain
happy
happiness
life
feel
taste
little
strong
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F. Scott Fitzgerald |
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If you hurt me, I wouldn't cry. I would hurt you back.
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pain
hurting
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Holly Black |
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If there was a God. I would spit in his face for subjecting me to this. If there was a Devil, I would sell my sould to make it end. If there was something Higher that controlled out f***ing fates, I would tell it to take my fate and shove it up its fucking ass. Shove it hard and far, you motherf***er. Please end. Please end. Please end.
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pain
god
fates
devil
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James Frey |
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Remembering. Forgetting. I'm not sure which is worse.
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pain
loss
love
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Kelley Armstrong |
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Life is such unutterable hell, solely because it is sometimes beautiful. If we could only be miserable all the time, if there could be no such things as love or beauty or faith or hope, if I could be absolutely certain that my love would never be returned: how much more simple life would be. One could plod through the Siberian salt mines of existence without being bothered about happiness. Unfortunately the happiness is there. There is always the chance (about eight hundred and fifty to one) that another heart will come to mine. I can't help hoping, and keeping faith, and loving beauty. Quite frequently I am not so miserable as it would be wise to be.
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pain
faith
living
positivity
happiness
hope
life
love
stoicism
misery
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T.H. White |
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There are so many ways of being despicable it quite makes one's head spin. But the way to be really despicable is to be contemptuous of other people's pain.
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pain
suffering
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James Baldwin |
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Hearing him talk about his mother, about his intact family, makes my chest hurt for a second, like someone pierced it with a needle.
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pain
grief
loss
sadness
love
missing-someone
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Veronica Roth |
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For this moment, this one moment, we are together. I press you to me. Come, pain, feed on me. Bury your fangs in my flesh. Tear me asunder. I sob, I sob.
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pain
friendship
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Virginia Woolf |
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Time didn't heal, but it anesthetized. The human mind could only feel so much.
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pain
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P.D. James |
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Without pain, without sacrifice we would have nothing. Like the first monkey shot into space.
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pain
sacrifice
pointless
space
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Chuck Palahniuk |
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A young outcast will often feel that there is something wrong with himself, but as he gets older, grows more confident in who he is, he will adapt, he will begin to feel that there is something wrong with everyone else.
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bullied
loneliness
pain
youth
confidence
motivational
inspirational
adaptation
attitude
confidence-and-attitude
encouragement
anger
growth
outcast
introvert
bully
bullying
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Criss Jami |
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Crying defies scientific explanation. Tears are only meant to lubricate the eyes. There is no real reason for tear glands to overproduce tears at the behest of emotion.
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pain
emotion
insurgent
divergent
tears
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Veronica Roth |
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Excruciating agony makes me cranky.
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pain
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Brandon Mull |
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And so I wait. I wait for time to heal the pain and raise me to me feet once again - so that I can start a new path, my own path, the one that will make me whole again.
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pain
inspirational
healing
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Jack Canfield |
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No lists of things to be done. The day providential to itself. The hour. There is no later. This is later. All things of grace and beauty such that one holds them to one's heart have a common provenance in pain. Their birth in grief and ashes.
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pain
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Cormac McCarthy |
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One of the challenges with pain--physical or psychic--is that we can really only approach it through metaphor. It can't be represented the way a table or a body can. In some ways pain is the opposite of language.
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pain
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John Green |
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I would like to be able to breathe-- to be able to love her by memory or fidelity. But my heart aches. I love you continuously, intensely.
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pain
heart
love
albert-camus
camus
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Albert Camus |
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The practice of love offers no place of safety. We risk loss, hurt, pain. We risk being acted upon by forces outside our control.
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pain
loss
risk
love
saftey
security
practice
force
hurt
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Bell Hooks |
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"If I can stop one heart from breaking, I shall not live in vain; If I can ease one life the aching, Or cool one pain, Or help one fainting robin
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pain
heartbreak
robin
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Emily Dickinson |
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To experience real agony is something hard to write about, impossible to understand while it grips you; you're frightened out of your wits, can't sit still, move, or even go decently insane.
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pain
insanity
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Charles Bukowski |
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There's a sorrow and pain in everyone's life, but every now and then there's a ray of light that melts the loneliness in your heart and brings comfort like hot soup and a soft bed.
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loneliness
pain
light
sorrow
life
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Hubert Selby Jr. |
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"Take any emotion--love for a woman, or grief for a loved one, or what I'm going through, fear and pain from a deadly illness. If you hold back on the emotions--if you don't allow yourself to go all the way through them--you can never get to being detached, you're too busy being afraid. You're afraid of the pain, you're afraid of the grief. You're afraid of the vulnerability that loving entails. "But by throwing yourself into these emotions, by allowing yourself to dive in, all the way, over your head even, you experience them fully and completely. You know what pain is. You know what love is. You know what grief is. And only then can you say, 'All right. I have experienced that emotion. I recognize that emotion. Now I need to detach from that emotion for a moment'."
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pain
grief
life
love
truth
detachment
emotions
vulnerability
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Mitch Albom |
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Humor was a good way to hide the pain.
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pain
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Rick Riordan |
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Sometimes a little discomfort in the beginning can save a whole lot of pain down the road.
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pain
inspirational
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Wendelin Van Draanen |
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Feel, he told himself, feel, feel, feel. Even if what you feel is pain, only let yourself feel.
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pain
feel
experience
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P.D. James |
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Scars are just a treasure map for pain you've buried too deep to remember.
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pain
scar
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Jodi Picoult |
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Contrary to what we may have been taught to think, unnecessary and unchosen suffering wounds us but need not scar us for life. It does mark us. What we allow the mark of our suffering to become is in our own hands.
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pain
suffering
love
redemption
scars
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bell hooks |
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My mother says that pain is hidden in everyone you see. She says try to imagine it like big bunches of flowers that everyone is carrying around with them. Think of your pain like a big bunch of red roses, a beautiful thorn necklace. Everyone has one.
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pain
love
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Francesca Lia Block |
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I have a new name for pain. The Obliterator. Because when you're in pain, nothing else can exist. Not thought. Not emotion. Only the drive to escape the pain. When it's strong enough, the Obliterator strips us of everything that makes us who we are, until we're reduced to creatures less than animals, creatures with a single desire and goal: escape.
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pain
saphira
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Christopher Paolini |
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He thought that in the beauty of the world were hid a secret. He thought that the world's heart beat at some terrible cost and that the world's pain and its beauty moved in a relationship of diverging equity and that in this headlong deficit the blood of multitudes might ultimately be exacted for the vision of a single flower.
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pain
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Cormac McCarthy |
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The pain of severe depression is quite unimaginable to those who have not suffered it, and it kills in many instances because its anguish can no longer be borne. The prevention of many suicides will continue to be hindered until there is a general awareness of the nature of this pain.
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suicide
pain
suffering
depression
prevention
awareness
depressed
mental-illness
psychology
mental-health
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William Styron |
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Sometimes, pain is all that lets you know you're alive.
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pain
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Robert Jordan |
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But you know Hajime, some feelings cause us pain they remain.
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pain
remain
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Haruki Murakami |
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The demon that you can swallow gives you its power, and the greater life's pain, the greater life's reply.
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pain
life
growth
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Joseph Campbell |
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Pain is a byproduct of life. That's the truth. Life sometimes sucks. That's true for everyone. But if you don't face the pain and the suck, you don't ever get the other things either. Laughter. Joy. Love. Pain passes, but those things are worth fighting for. Worth dying for.
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pain
life
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Jim Butcher |
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Some periods of our growth are so confusing that we don't even recognize that growth is happening. We may feel hostile or angry or weepy and hysterical, or we may feel depressed. It would never occur to us, unless we stumbled on a book or a person who explained to us, that we were in fact in the process of change, of actually becoming larger, spiritually, than we were before. Whenever we grow, we tend to feel it, as a young seed must feel the weight and inertia of the earth as it seeks to break out of its shell on its way to becoming a plant. Often the feeling is anything but pleasant. But what is most unpleasant is the not knowing what is happening. Those long periods when something inside ourselves seems to be waiting, holding its breath, unsure about what the next step should be, eventually become the periods we wait for, for it is in those periods that we realize that we are being prepared for the next phase of our life and that, in all probability, a new level of the personality is about to be revealed.
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pain
personality
depression
spirituality
growth
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Alice Walker |
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Nothing is fair in this world. You might as well get that straight right now
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pain
world
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Sue Monk Kidd |
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It lit up like a Christmas Tree Hazel Grace...
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pain
sorrow
sorrowful
cancer
sad
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John Green |
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One fire burns out another's burning, One pain is lessen'd by another's anguish.
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pain
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William Shakespeare |
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There was pain, and then there was PAIN. This was -Vishous
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pain
jr-ward
vishous
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J.R. Ward |
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Try to exclude the possibility of suffering which the order of nature and the existence of free-wills involve, and you find that you have excluded life itself.
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pain
suffering
nature
life
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C.S. Lewis |
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Every loss is unprecedented. You can't ever know someone else's hurt, not really--just like touching someone else's body isn't the same as having someone else's body.
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pain
john-green
turtles-all-the-way-down
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John Green |
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"That's life for you," said MacDunn. "Someone always waiting for someone who never comes home. Always someone loving some thing more than that thing loves them. And after a while you want to destroy whatever that thing is, so it can't hurt you no more."
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pain
love
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Ray Bradbury |
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And then it was, that grief and pain made themselves known to me as never before. Note this, because I knew the full absurdity of Fate and Fortune and Nature more truly than a human can bear to know it. And perhaps the description of this, brief as it is, may give consolation to another. The worst takes its time to come, and then to pass. The truth is, you cannot prepare anyone for this, nor convey an understanding of it through language. It must be known. And this I would wish on no one in the world.
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pain
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Anne Rice |
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I felt a Funeral, in my Brain, And Mourners to and fro Kept treading - treading - till it seemed That Sense was breaking through - And when they all were seated, A Service, like a Drum - Kept beating - beating - till I thought My Mind was going numb - And then I heard them lift a Box And creak across my Soul With those same Boots of Lead, again, Then Space - began to toll, As all the Heavens were a Bell, And Being, but an Ear, And I, and Silence, some strange Race Wrecked, solitary, here - And then a Plank in Reason, broke, And I dropped down, and down - And hit a World, at every plunge, And Finished knowing - then -
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pain
depression
elegy
emily-dickinson
funeral
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Emily Dickinson |
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"We are, not metaphorically but in very truth, a Divine work of art, something that God is making, and therefore something with which He will not be satisfied until it has a certain character. Here again we come up against what I have called the "intolerable compliment." Over a sketch made idly to amuse a child, an artist may not take much trouble: he may be content to let it go even though it is not exactly as he meant it to be. But over the great picture of his life--the work which he loves, though in a different fashion, as intensely as a man loves a woman or a mother a child--he will take endless trouble--and would doubtless, thereby give endless trouble to the picture if it were sentient. One can imagine a sentient picture, after being rubbed and scraped and re-commenced for the tenth time, wishing that it were only a thumb-nail sketch whose making was over in a minute. In the same way, it is natural for us to wish that God had designed for us a less glorious and less arduous destiny; but then we are wishing not for more love but for less."
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pain
masterpiece
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C.S. Lewis |
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Sometimes I think of you and I feel giddy. Memory makes me lightheaded, drunk on champagne. All the things we did. And if anyone has said this was the price I would have agreed to pay it. That surprises me; that with the hurt and the mess comes a shift of recognition. It was worth it. Love is worth it.
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worth
pain
love
heartache
hurt
memory
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Jeanette Winterson |
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"But somebody else had spoken Snape's name, quite softly. "Severus . . ." The sound frightened Harry beyond anything he had experienced all evening. For the first time, Dumbledore was pleading. Snape gazed for a moment at Dumbledore, and there was revulsion and hatred etched in the harsh lines of his face. "Severus . . . please . . ." Snape raised his wand and pointed it directly at Dumbledore. " " A jet of green light shot from the end of Snape's wand and hit Dumbledore squarely in the chest. Harry's scream of horror never left him; silent and unmoving, he was forced to watch as Dumbledore was blasted into the air. For a split second, he seemed to hang suspended beneath the shining skull, and then he fell slowly backward, like a great rag doll, over the battlements and out of sight."
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pain
death
killing-curse
severus-snape
dumbledore
misery
sad
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J.K. Rowling |
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Don't be with him, don't want him, don't go with him. Be with me. Want me. Stay with me. I don't know how to be without you.
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pain
love
jace-wayland
heartache
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Cassandra Clare |
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But he won't let the pain blot out the humor no more'n he'll let the humor blot out the pain.
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pain
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Ken Kesey |
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Anticipating pain was like enduring it twice. Why not anticipate pleasure instead?
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pain
pleaseure
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Robin Hobb |
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We are kept keen on the grindstone of pain and necessity.
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pain
improvement
growth
invention
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H.G. Wells |
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She'd felt more pain from Nico in their brief connection than she had from her entire legion during the battle against the giant Polybotes.
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pain
reyna
nico-di-angelo
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Rick Riordan |
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You can listen to silence, Reuven. I've begun to realize that you can listen to silence and learn from it. It has a quality and a dimension all its own. It talks to me sometimes. I feel myself alive in it. It talks. And I can hear it. ... You have to want to listen to it, and then you can hear it. It has a strange, beautiful texture. It doesn't always talk. Sometimes - sometimes it cries, and you can hear the pain of the world in it. It hurts to listen to it then. But you have to.
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pain
silence
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Chaim Potok |
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No anguish I have had to bear on your account has been too heavy a price to pay for the new life into which I have entered in loving you.
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pain
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George Eliot |
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Junk turns the user into a plant. Plants do not feel pain since pain has no function in a stationary organism. Junk is a pain killer. A plant has no libido in the human or animal sense. Junk replaces the sex drive. Seeding is the sex of the plant and the function of opium is to delay seeding. Perhaps the intense discomfort of withdrawal is the transition from plant back to animal, from a painless, sexless, timeless state back to sex and pain and time, from death back to life.
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pain
plant
opium
seed
junk
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William S. Burroughs |
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Life is such unutterable hell, solely because it is sometimes beautiful. If we could only be miserable all the time, if there could be no such things as love or beauty or faith or hope, if I could be absolutely certain that my love would never be returned: how much more simple life would be. One could plod through the Siberian salt mines of existence without being bothered about happiness.
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pain
happiness
dichotomy
stoicism
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T.H. White |
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You didn't get past something like that, you go through it -- and for that reason alone, I understood more about her than she ever would have guessed.
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pain
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Jodi Picoult |
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Nico's anger turned as cold and dark as his blade. He'd been morphed into a few plants himself, and he didn't appreciate it. He hated people like Bryce Lawrence, who inflicted pain just for fun.
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pain
psychopathy
nico-di-angelo
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Rick Riordan |
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Why did I not die? More miserable than man ever was before, why did I not sink into forgetfulness and rest? Death snatches away many blooming children, the only hopes of their doting parents: how many brides and youthful lovers have been one day in the bloom of health and hope, and the next a prey for worms and the decay of the tomb! Of what materials was I made, that I could thus resist so many shocks, which, like the turning of the wheel, continually renewed the torture? But I was doomed to live;
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pain
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Mary Shelley |
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"It sounded old. Old and tired and beaten to death. Deserve. Now it seemed to him that he was always saying or thinking that he didn't deserve some bad luck, or some bad treatment from others. He'd told Guitar that he didn't "deserve" his family's dependence, hatred, or whatever. That he didn't even "deserve" to hear all the misery and mutual accusations his parents unloaded on him. Nor did he "deserve" Hagar's vengeance. But why shouldn't his parents tell him their personal problems? If not him, then who? And if a stranger could try to kill him, surely Hagar, who knew him and whom he'd thrown away like a wad of chewing gum after the flavor was gone--she had a right to try to kill him too. Apparently he though he deserved only to be loved--from a distance, though--and given what he wanted. And in return he would be...what? Pleasant? Generous? Maybe all he was really saying was: I am not responsible for your pain; share your happiness with me but not your unhappiness."
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pain
responsibility
sorrow
family
happiness
deserve
maturity
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Toni Morrison |
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It would be nice to think that as I've got older times have changed, relationships have become more sophisticated, females less cruel, skins thicker, reactions sharper, instincts more developed. But there still seems to be an element of that evening in everything that happened to me since; all my other romantic stories seem to be a scrambled version of that first one. Of course, I have never had to take that long walk again, and my ears have not burned with quite the same fury, and I have never had to count the packs of cheap cigarettes in order to avoid mocking eyes and floods of tears... not really, not actually, not as such. It just feels that way, sometimes.
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pain
young-love
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Nick Hornby |
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The pain of the flesh is naught to that of the heart
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pain
heart
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Jacqueline Carey |
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How could you give me life, and take from me all the inappreciable things that raise it from the state of conscious death? Where are the graces of my soul? Where are the sentiments of my heart? What have you done, oh, Father, What have you done with the garden that should have bloomed once, in this great wilderness here? Said louisa as she touched her heart.
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pain
sad
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Charles Dickens |
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Some attribute had departed from her, the permanence of which had been essential to keep her a woman. Such is frequently the fate, and such the stern development, of the feminine character and person, when the woman has encountered, and lived through, an experience of peculiar severity. If she be all tenderness, she will die. If she survive, the tenderness will either be crushed out of her, or--and the outward semblance is the same--crushed so deeply into her heart that it can never show itself more.
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pain
sorrow
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Nathaniel Hawthorne |
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We tend to forget at times that it is the little ones, the children, who do suffer the greatest hurt. If we cannot comprehend why certain sorrows are visited upon us, how on earth can they?
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pain
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Sharon Kay Penman |
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"You aren't old enough to have such regrets." "Pain doesn't respect age, my lady."
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pain
regrets
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Sherrilyn Kenyon |
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Being in love with your best friend is problematic.
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fate
pain
friends
life-quotes
davin
i-m-in-love
love-issues
love-problems
best-friend-love
best-friend-quotes
friends-to-lovers
friendship-and-love
ignoring-issues
in-love-with-best-friend
in-love-with-my-friend
mazing-quotes
awesome-quotes
bandaids
first-aid
friend-quotes
friendship-true-and-loyal
frienship
j-m-richards
real-friends
real-friendship
tall-dark-streak-of-lightning
tdsol
quotes-about-life
friendship-quotes
so-true
best-friends
bitterness
hurt
friend
longing
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J.M. Richards |
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Sometimes you must lose everything to gain it again, and the regaining is the sweeter for the pain of loss.
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pain
jonathan-christopher-morgenstern
page-252
regaining
sebastian-morgenstern
part-1
losing
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Cassandra Clare |
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She'd expected some backlash; it happened every time she shared her strength. But she hadn't anticipated so much raw anguish from Nico di Angelo... If this was only a portion of Nico's pain... how could he bear it?
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pain
past
torment
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Rick Riordan |
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Spiritual growth involves giving up the stories of your past so the universe can write a new one.
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pain
past
spiritual-growth
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Marianne Williamson |
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One pain is lessened by another's anguish. ... Take thou some new infection to thy eye, And the rank poison of the old will die.
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pain
eye
infection
romeo-and-juliet
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William Shakespeare |
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Meanwhile, the trees were just as green as before; the birds sang and the sun shone as clearly now as ever. The familiar surroundings had not darkened because of her grief, nor sickened because of her pain. She might have seen that what had bowed her head so profoundly -the thought of the world's concern at her situation- was found on an illusion. She was not an existence, an experience, a passion, a structure of sensations, to anybody but herself.
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pain
illusion
tess-of-the-d-urbervilles
thomas-hardy
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Thomas Hardy |
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Human beings sometimes find a kind of pleasure in nursing painful emotions, in blaming themselves without reason or even against reason.
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pain
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Isaac Asimov |
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God will never disappoint us... If deep in our hearts we suspect that God does not love us and cannot manage our affairs as well as we can, we certainly will not submit to His discipline. ...To the unbeliever the fact of suffering only convinces him that God is not to be trusted, does not love us. To the believer, the opposite is true.
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pain
suffering
goodness
trust
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Elisabeth Elliot |
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"It will hurt." said Petra. "But let's make the most of what we have, and not let future pain ruin present happiness."
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pain
shadow-puppets
love
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Orson Scott Card |
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There is a wide world out there, full of pain, but filled with joy as well. The former keeps you on the path of growth and the latter makes the journey tolerable.
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pain
joy
journey
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R.A. Salvatore |
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Few in this world are ever simply nasty; those who hurt us are themselves in pain. The appropriate response is hence never cynicism nor aggression but, at the rare moments one can manage it, always love.
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pain
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Alain de Botton |
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If you want the rainbow, you have to deal with the rain.
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pain
romance
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John Green |
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The two of them looked so comfortable together it made Nico glad. But it also it caused an ache in his heart - a ghostly pain, like an old war wound throbbing in bad weather.
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pain
love
nico-di-angelo
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Rick Riordan |
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It's probably a merciful thing that pain is impossible to describe from memory
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pain
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Christopher Hitchens |
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Yes. We both have a bad feeling. Tonight we shall take our bad feelings and share them, and face them. We shall mourn. We shall drain the bitter dregs of mortality. Pain shared, my brother, is pain not doubled, but halved. No man is an island.
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mourning
pain
sharing
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Neil Gaiman |
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The thought of her gave me such a continual anguish that I could no more forget her than an aching tooth. It was involuntary, hopeless, compulsive. For years she had been the first thing I remembered when I woke up, the last thing that drifted through my mind as I went to sleep, and during the day she came to me obtrusively, obsessively, always with a painful shock.
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pain
compulsion
anguish
compulsive
hopeless
obsession
unrequited-love
memory
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Donna Tartt |
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As much as I cared about him, I wasn't a slave to fate. I could choose to ignore my feelings, strong as they were. It would be painful, but no more so than letting myself pine for my friend.
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fate
pain
friends
life-quotes
best-friend-love
best-friend-quotes
friends-to-lovers
friendship-and-love
ignoring-issues
in-love-with-best-friend
in-love-with-my-friend
mazing-quotes
arguments
awesome-quotes
bandaids
first-aid
friend-quotes
friendship-true-and-loyal
frienship
j-m-richards
real-friends
real-friendship
tall-dark-streak-of-lightning
tdsol
quotes-about-life
friendship-quotes
so-true
best-friends
bitterness
hurt
friend
longing
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J.M. Richards |
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Violence does not always take visible form, and not all wounds gush blood.
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violence
pain
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Haruki Murakami |
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Some pain shouldn't be wished away so easily. It had to be dealt with, even embraced. Without the agony of the last few months, Piper never would have found her best friends, Hazel and Annabeth. She never would've discovered her own courage. She certainly wouldn't have had the guts to sing show tunes to the snake people under Athens.
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pain
frienship
hurt
piper-mclean
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Rick Riordan |
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When one woman doesn't speak, other women get hurt.
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pain
women
hurt
voice
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Terry Tempest Williams |
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The greatest minds are like film, they take the negatives and develop themselves in darkness...
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pain
harry-potter
life
wisdom
j-k-rowling
negativity
hard-times
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Brandi L. Bates |
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I don't know why I feel so wounded with Kartik's obvious infatuation with Pippa. There's no romance between us. There's nothing that tethers us but this dark secret neither of us wants. It's not Kartik's longing that hurts. It's my own. It's knowing that I'll never have what she has--a beauty so powerful it brings things to you. I fear I will always have to chase things I want. I'll always have to wonder whether I'm truly wanted or whether I've just been settled for.
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pain
love
lost-love
hurt
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Libba Bray |
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Are you in pain, Frodo?' said Gandalf quietly as he rode by Frodo's side. 'Well, yes I am,' said Frodo. 'It is my shoulder. The wound aches, and the memory of darkness is heavy on me. It was a year ago today.' 'Alas! there are some wounds that cannot be wholly cured,' said Gandalf. 'I fear it may be so with mine,' said Frodo. 'There is no real going back. Though I may come to the Shire, it will not seem the same; for I shall not be the same. I am wounded with knife, sting, and tooth, and a long burden. Where shall I find rest?' Gandalf did not answer.
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pain
return-of-the-king
frodo
gandalf
the-lord-of-the-rings
j-r-r-tolkien
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J.R.R. Tolkien |
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There is a fullness and calmness there which can come only from knowing pain.
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pain
experience
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Dan Simmons |