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Spend your free time the way you like, not the way you think you're supposed to. Stay home on New Year's Eve if that's what makes you happy. Skip the committee meeting. Cross the street to avoid making aimless chitchat with random acquaintances. Read. Cook. Run. Write a story. Make a deal with yourself that you'll attend a set number of social events in exchange for not feeling guilty when you beg off.
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extrovert
introversion
introvert
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Susan Cain |
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It's as if they have thinner boundaries separating them from other people's emotions and from the tragedies and cruelties of the world.
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sensitivities
introversion
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Susan Cain |
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A Manifesto for Introverts 1. There's a word for 'people who are in their heads too much': thinkers. 2. Solitude is a catalyst for innovation. 3. The next generation of quiet kids can and must be raised to know their own strengths. 4. Sometimes it helps to be a pretend extrovert. There will always be time to be quiet later. 5. But in the long run, staying true to your temperament is key to finding work you love and work that matters. 6. One genuine new relationship is worth a fistful of business cards. 7. It's OK to cross the street to avoid making small talk. 8. 'Quiet leadership' is not an oxymoron. 9. Love is essential; gregariousness is optional. 10. 'In a gentle way, you can shake the world.' -Mahatma Gandhi
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personality
quietness
personality-types
introversion
introverts
introverts-susan-cain-quote
quiet
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Susan Cain |
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Society is commonly too cheap. We meet at very short intervals, not having had time to acquire any new value for each other.We meet at meals three times a day, and give each other a new taste of that musty old cheese that we are. We have had to agree on a certain set of rules, called etiquette and politeness, to make this frequent meeting tolerable and that we need not come to open war. We meet at the post office, and at the sociable, and at the fireside every night; we live thick and are in each other's way, and stumble over one another, and I think that we thus lose some respect for one another.
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solitude
philosophy
walden
social
thoreau
introversion
introvert
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Henry David Thoreau |
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But when the group is literally capable of changing our perceptions, and when to stand alone is to activate primitive, powerful, and unconscious feelings of rejection, then the health of these institutions seems far more vulnerable than we think.
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extraversion
introversion
democracy
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Susan Cain |
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the comfort of reclusion, the poetry of hibernation
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hibernation
reclusion
introversion
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Marcel Proust |
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... . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . The jacket shifted. Geryon peered out.
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privacy
introversion
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Anne Carson |
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So the next time you see a person with a compose face and a soft voice, remember that inside her mind she might be solving an equation, composing a sonnet, designing a hat. She might, that is, be deploying the powers of quiet.
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inspiration
introversion
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Susan Cain |
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"If personal space is vital to creativity, so is freedom from "peer pressure"." --
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individuality
freedom
extroverts
teamwork
introversion
introverts
introvert
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Susan Cain |
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I went up on the hill and walked about until twilight had deepened into an autumn night with a benediction of starry quietude over it. I was alone but not lonely. I was a queen in halls of fancy.
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solitude
pretty-prose
romanticism
quietness
introversion
quiet
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L.M. Montgomery |
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There's nothing more exciting than ideas.
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fun
introversion
introvert
ideas
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Susan Cain |
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Tocqueville saw that the life of constant action and decision which was entailed by the democratic and businesslike character of American life put a premium upon rough and ready habits of mind, quick decision, and the prompt seizure of opportunities - and that all this activity was not propitious for deliberation, elaboration, or precision in thought.
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introversion
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Richard Hofstadter |
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Any human companionship, even the dearest and most perfect, would have been alien to her then. She was sufficient unto herself, needing not love nor comradeship nor any human emotion to round out her felicity. Such moments come rarely in any life, but when they do come they are inexpressibly wonderful - as if the finite were for a second infinity - as if humanity were for a space uplifted into divinity - as if all ugliness had vanished, leaving only flawless beauty.
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solitude
introversion
quiet
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L.M. Montgomery |
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Although she was gregarious, she inadvertently separated herself from people because she was so often inside her own head, focusing on her creativity.
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introversion
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Alexandra Robbins |
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Sitting in the brightly lit library, surrounded by books, in total silence, that was ma personal zenith.
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solitude
library
literature
reading
books
bookish
irvine-welsh
skagboys
zenith
heroine
reading-books
read
introversion
introvert
reader
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Irvine Welsh |
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A philosophy that cannot be lived is no philosophy at all.
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introversion
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Philip Zaleski |
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Some animals carry their shelter wherever they go. Some humans are just the same.
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introversion
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Susan Cain |
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Solve problems, make art, think deeply.
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life
life-philosophy
introversion
make-art
solve-problems
think-deeply
thinking
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Susan Cain |
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"Uzaemon is no longer surprised by Shuzai's perspicacity. "I don't know if I have the right to involve you." "To a believer in Fate," replies Shuzai, "it's not you who is involving me."
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extrovert
introversion
introvert
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David Mitchell |
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Chaplin left the Keystone studios on a Saturday night in December after cutting his last film, without bidding farewell to any of his erstwhile colleagues; he spent Sunday in his room at the Los Angeles Athletic Club and on the following day he turned up for work at the Essanay Studios in Niles, California. Of course, everyone at Keystone knew about his imminent departure, but he could not bring himself to make a speech or shake hands. He just left. Sennett said later that 'as for Charles Spencer Chaplin, I am not at all sure that we know him'. He had never really been part of the team; he would never become a member of any group.
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personality
groups
introversion
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Peter Ackroyd |
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I observe out of the corner of my eye that the man with the notebook is walking towards me and obviously intends to introduce himself. Why do human beings have to , I find myself wondering. Is it really necessary for us to make these noises?
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solitude
talking
introversion
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Graham Hancock |