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The most important kind of freedom is to be what you really are. You trade in your reality for a role. You trade in your sense for an act. You give up your ability to feel, and in exchange, put on a mask. There can't be any large-scale revolution until there's a personal revolution, on an individual level. It's got to happen inside first.
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freedom
individuality
inspirational
mask
personality
revolution
truth
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Jim MORRISON |
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I feel too much. That's what's going on.' 'Do you think one can feel too much? Or just feel in the wrong ways?' 'My insides don't match up with my outsides.' 'Do anyone's insides and outsides match up?' 'I don't know. I'm only me.' 'Maybe that's what a person's personality is: the difference between the inside and outside.' 'But it's worse for me.' 'I wonder if everyone thinks it's worse for him.' 'Probably. But it really is worse for me.
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differences
emotions
loneliness
people
personality
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Jonathan Safran Foer |
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Always dream and shoot higher than you know you can do. Do not bother just to be better than your contemporaries or predecessors. Try to be better than yourself.
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inspirational
perfectionism
personality
potential
self-improvement
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William Faulkner |
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There's such a lot of different Annes in me. I sometimes think that is why I'm such a troublesome person. If I was just the one Anne it would be ever so much more comfortable, but then it wouldn't be half so interesting.
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interesting
personality
self-knowledge
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L.M. Montgomery |
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What's in a name? that which we call a rose By any other name would smell as sweet.
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labels
names
personality
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William Shakespeare |
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Kiss a lover, Dance a measure, Find your name And buried treasure. Face your life, It's pain, It's pleasure, Leave no path untaken.
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dancing
life
love
name
neil-gaiman
pain
personality
pleasure
the-graveyard-book
treasure
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Neil Gaiman |
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Positive expectations are the mark of the superior personality.
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educational
expectation
expectations
life
personality
positive
teaching
wisdom
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Brian Tracy |
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Is evil something you are? Or is it something you do?
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evil
personality
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Bret Easton Ellis |
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"If personality is an unbroken series of successful gestures, then there was something gorgeous about him, some heightened sensitivity to the promises of life, as if he were related to one of those intricate machines that register earthquakes ten thousand miles away. This responsiveness had nothing to do with that flabby impressionability which is dignified under the name of the "creative temperament"--it was an extraordinary gift for hope, a romantic readiness such as I have never found in any other person and which it is not likely I shall ever find again. No--Gatsby turned out all right at the end; it is what preyed on Gatsby, what foul dust floated in the wake of his dreams that temporarily closed out my interest in the abortive sorrows and short-winded elations of men."
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personality
promise
responsiveness
romanticism
sensitivity
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F. Scott Fitzgerald |
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How often, you wonder, has the direction of your life been shaped by such misunderstandings? How many opportunities have you been denied--or, for that matter, awarded--because someone failed to see you properly? How many friends have you lost, how many have you gained, because they glimpsed some element of your personality that shone through for only an instant, and in circumstances you could never reproduce? An illusion of water shimmering at the far bend of a highway.
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illusion
life
misunderstanding
personality
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Kevin Brockmeier |
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I never could bear the idea of anyone's expecting something from me. It always made me want to do just the opposite.
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life
personal
personality
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Jean-Paul Sartre |
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"the worst thing," he told me, "is bitterness, people end up so bitter."
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bitterness
bukowski
death
in-the-end
individuality
life
love
personality
poem
poetry
self
soul
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Charles Bukowski |
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For I am--or I was--one of those people who pride themselves in on their willpower, on their ability to make a decision and carry it through. This virtue, like most virtues, is ambiguity itself. People who believe that they are strong-willed and the masters of their destiny can only continue to believe this by becoming specialists in self-deception. Their decisions are not really decisions at all--a real decision makes one humble, one knows that it is at the mercy of more things than can be named--but elaborate systems of evasion, of illusion, designed to make themselves and the world appear to be what they and the world are not. This is certainly what my decision, made so long ago in Joey's bed, came to. I had decided to allow no room in the universe for something which shamed and frightened me. I succeeded very well--by not looking at the universe, by not looking at myself, by remaining, in effect, in constant motion.
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life
personality
pride
virtue
world
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James Baldwin |
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He really was beautiful. I know boys aren't supposed to be, but he was.
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personality
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John Green |
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Some periods of our growth are so confusing that we don't even recognize that growth is happening. We may feel hostile or angry or weepy and hysterical, or we may feel depressed. It would never occur to us, unless we stumbled on a book or a person who explained to us, that we were in fact in the process of change, of actually becoming larger, spiritually, than we were before. Whenever we grow, we tend to feel it, as a young seed must feel the weight and inertia of the earth as it seeks to break out of its shell on its way to becoming a plant. Often the feeling is anything but pleasant. But what is most unpleasant is the not knowing what is happening. Those long periods when something inside ourselves seems to be waiting, holding its breath, unsure about what the next step should be, eventually become the periods we wait for, for it is in those periods that we realize that we are being prepared for the next phase of our life and that, in all probability, a new level of the personality is about to be revealed.
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depression
growth
pain
personality
spirituality
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Alice Walker |
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I've always been a slow learner in some areas of my life.mostly the areas known as myself. Or maybe I should say 'selves.'because the fact is, I've never, even as a child, felt I'm only one self, only one person. I've always felt I'm quite a few more than one. For example, there's my jokey self, there's my morose and fed-up self,there's my lewd and disgusting self. There's my clever-clogs self, and my fading-violet-who-cant-make-up-her-mind-about-anything self. There's my untidy-clothes-everywhere-all-over-my-room self, and my manically tidy self when I want my room to be minimalist and Zen to the nth degree. There's my confidant, arrogant self and my polite and reasonable and good listener self. There's my self-righteous self and my wickedly bad self, my flaky self and my bsentimental self. There are selfs I like and selfs I don't like.there's my little-girl selfnwhonlikes to play silly games and there's my old-woman self when I'm quite sure I'm eighty and edging towards geriatric
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inspirational
personality
self
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Aidan Chambers |
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But then one regrets the loss even of one's worst habits. Perhaps one regrets them the most. They are such an essential part of one's personality.
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personality
vanity
wisdom
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Oscar Wilde |
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She was looking into my eyes with that way she had of looking that made you wonder whether she really saw out of her own eyes. They would look on and on after every one else's eyes in the world would have stopped looking. She looked as though there were nothing on earth she would not look at like that, and really she was afraid of so many things.
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eyes
inspirational
looking
personality
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Ernest Hemingway |
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A Manifesto for Introverts 1. There's a word for 'people who are in their heads too much': thinkers. 2. Solitude is a catalyst for innovation. 3. The next generation of quiet kids can and must be raised to know their own strengths. 4. Sometimes it helps to be a pretend extrovert. There will always be time to be quiet later. 5. But in the long run, staying true to your temperament is key to finding work you love and work that matters. 6. One genuine new relationship is worth a fistful of business cards. 7. It's OK to cross the street to avoid making small talk. 8. 'Quiet leadership' is not an oxymoron. 9. Love is essential; gregariousness is optional. 10. 'In a gentle way, you can shake the world.' -Mahatma Gandhi
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introversion
introverts
introverts-susan-cain-quote
personality
personality-types
quiet
quietness
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Susan Cain |
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The things people say of a man do not alter a man. He is what he is. Public opinion is of no value whatsoever. Even if people employ actual violence, they are not to be violent in turn. That would be to fall to the same low level. After all, even in prison, a man can be quite free. His soul can be free. His personality can be untroubled. He can be at peace. And, above all things, they are not to interfere with other people or judge them in any way. Personality is a very mysterious thing. A man cannot always be estimated by what he does. He may keep the law, and yet be worthless. He may break the law, and yet be fine. He may be bad, without ever doing anything bad. He may commit a sin against society, and yet realize through that sin his true perfection.
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freedom
oscar
personality
prison
soul
soul-of-a-man
violence
wilde
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Oscar Wilde |
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The personality susceptible to the dream of limitless freedom is a personality also prone, should the dream ever sour, to misanthropy and rage.
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personality
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Jonathan Franzen |
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Contrary to what you may have heard from Henry Rollins or/and Ian MacKaye and/or anyone else who joined a band after working in an ice cream shop, you can't really learn much about a person based on what kind of music they happen to like. As a personality test, it doesn't work even half the time. However, there is at least thing you learn: The most wretched people in the word are those who tell you they like every kind of music 'except country.' People who say that are boorish and pretentious at the same time.
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personality
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Chuck Klosterman |
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The most effective attitude to adopt is one of supreme acceptance. The world is full of people with different characters and temperaments. We all have a dark side, a tendency to manipulate, and aggressive desires. The most dangerous types are those who repress their desires or deny the existence of them, often acting them out in the most underhanded ways. Some people have dark qualities that are especially pronounced. You cannot change such people at their core, but must merely avoid becoming their victim. You are an observer of the human comedy, and by being as tolerant as possible, you gain a much greater ability to understand people and to influence their behavior when necessary
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human-nature
personality
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Robert Greene |
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There are times when I am so unlike myself that I might be taken for someone else of an entirely opposite character.
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flexibility
humorous
personal-development
personality
self
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Jean-Jacques Rousseau |
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The average personality reshapes frequently, every few years even our bodies undergo a complete overhaul - desirable or not, it is a natural thing that we should change. All right, here were two people who never would change. That is what Mildred Grossman had in common with Holly Golightly. They would never change because they'd been given their character too soon; which, like sudden riches, leads to a lack of proportion: the one had splurged herself into a top-heavy realist, the other a lopsided romantic.
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personality
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Truman Capote |
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. . . clumsiness is often mated with a love of solitude.
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isolation
loneliness
personality
solitude
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Virginia Woolf |
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However gross a man may be, the minute he expresses a strong and genuine affection, some inner secretion alters his features, animates his gestures, and colors his voice. The stupidest man will often, under the stress of passion, achieve heights of eloquence, in thought if not in language, and seem to move in some luminous sphere. Goriot's voice and gesture had at this moment the power of communication that characterizes the great actor. Are not our finer feelings the poems of the human will?
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description
emotion
observation
passion
people
personality
psychology
sincerity
ugliness
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Honoré de Balzac |
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She lacks the core of sureness, she craves admiration insatiably. She lives on reflections of herself in others' eyes. She does not dare to be herself.
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beauty
personality
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Anaïs Nin |
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Stop thinking all the time that you're in the way, that you're bothering the person next to you. If people don't like it, they can complain. And if they don't have courage to complain, that's their problem.
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love
personality
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Paulo Coelho |
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From the moment I met you, your personality had the most extraordinary influence over me. I was dominated, soul brain and power.
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brain
connection
kindred-spirits
personality
power
soul
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Oscar Wilde |
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I'm a conundrum. Or an enigma. I forget which.
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mystery
personality
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James A. Owen |
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Stories are able to help us to become more whole, to become Named. And Naming is one of the impulses behind all art; to give a name to the cosmos, we see despite all the chaos.
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chaos
cosmos
identity
personality
stories
story
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Madeleine L'Engle |
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If personality is an unbroken series of successful gestures, then there was something gorgeous about him, some heightened sensitivity to the promises of life, as if he were related to one of those intricate machines that registered earthquakes ten thousand miles away.
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personality
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F. Scott Fitzgerald |
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I am what time, circumstance, history, have made of me, certainly, but I am, also, much more than that. So are we all.
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history
humans
life
personality
soul
time
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James Baldwin |
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"I snorted "oh, beauty. What's that good for?" Mary stared, her eyes round. "It won you the prince, did it not?" I snorted again, I prefer to think that he was captivated by my charming personality." I giggled to let Mary know I was trying to make fun of myself."
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humor
personality
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Margaret Peterson Haddix |
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"It's sweet and everything, but it's like you're not even there sometimes. It's great that you can listen and be a shoulder to someone, but what about when someone doesn't need a shoulder? What if they need the arms or something like that? You can't just sit there and put everybody's lives ahead of yours and think that counts as love. You just can't. You have to do things." "Like what?" I asked. My mouth was dry. "I don't know. Like take their hands when the slow song comes up for a change. Or be the one who asks someone for a date. Or tell people what you need. Or what you want."
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being-confident
being-in-love
being-strong
being-yourself
how-to-get-a-girl
how-to-get-a-guy
nice-guy-syndrome
personality
relationships
strength
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Stephen Chbosky |
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My mother finally took me to a child psychologist, who knew exactly what I was, but she just couldn't accept it and kept trying to tell my folks I was reading their body language and was very observant, so I had good reason to imagine I heard people's thoughts. Of course, she couldn't admit I was literally hearing people's thoughts because that just didn't fit into her world.
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individuality
outside-comfort-zone
personality
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Charlaine Harris |
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Not everyone is allotted the chance to become a personality; most remain types, and never experience the rigor of becoming an individual. But those who do so inevitably discover that these struggles bring them into conflict with the normal life of average people and the traditional values and bourgeois conventions that they uphold. A personality is the product of a clash between two opposing forces: the urge to create a life of one's own and the insistence by the world around us that we conform. Nobody can develop a personality unless he undergoes revolutionary experiences. The extent of those experiences differs, of course, from person to person, as does the capacity to lead a life that is truly personal and unique.
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personality
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Hermann Hesse |
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In Irena's head the alcohol plays a double role: it frees her fantasy, encourages her boldness, makes her sensual, and at the same time it dims her memory. She makes love wildly, lasciviously, and at the same time the curtain of oblivion wraps her lewdness in an all-concealing darkness. As if a poet were writing his greatest poem with ink that instantly disappears.
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drinking
forget
forgetting
love
personality
poet
poetry
sex
writing
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Milan Kundera |
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Man is complete in himself. When they go into the world, the world will disagree with them. That is inevitable. The world hates Individualism. But that is not to trouble them. They are to be calm and self-centred. If a man takes their cloak, they are to give him their coat, just to show that material things are of no importance. If people abuse them, they are not to answer back. What does it signify? The things people say of a man do not alter a man. He is what he is. Public opinion is of no value whatsoever. Even if people employ actual violence, they are not to be violent in turn. That would be to fall to the same low level. After all, even in prison, a man can be quite free. His soul can be free. His personality can be untroubled. He can be at peace. And, above all things, they are not to interfere with other people or judge them in any way. Personality is a very mysterious thing. A man cannot always be estimated by what he does. He may keep the law, and yet be worthless. He may break the law, and yet be fine. He may be bad, without ever doing anything bad. He may commit a sin against society, and yet realise through that sin his true perfection.
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freedom
oscar
personality
prison
soul
soul-of-a-man
violence
wilde
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Oscar Wilde |
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Most people who do a lot of exercise, particularly in the form of competitive athletics, have unneurotic, extraverted, optimistic personalities to begin with. (Marathon runners are exceptions to this.)
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personality
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Robert M. Sapolsky |
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The note of the perfect personality is not rebellion, but peace.
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personality
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Oscar Wilde |
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"Does it help if we're so strong-willed, stubborn, ambitious, and selfish that we always overcome everything in our way no matter what?" asked Wang-mu. "I think those are the pertinent virtues, yes," said Peter. "Then let's do it. That's us in spades."
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personality
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Orson Scott Card |
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Most people, in my opinion, steal much of what they are. If they didn't what poor items they would be.
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personality
stealing
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Julian Barnes |
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But however good you get at translating personality into line or paint it's no go if your personality isn't worth translating.
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creativity
personality
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John Fowles |
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It might be a little silly for someone getting to be my age to put this into words, but I just want to make sure I get the facts down clearly : I'm the kind of person who likes to be by himself. To put a finer point on it, I'm the type of person who doesn't find it painful to be alone. I find spending an hour or two everyday running alone, not speaking to anyone as well as four of five hours at my desk, to be neither difficult or boring.
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life
life-philosophy
lifestyle
personal
personalities
personality
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Haruki Murakami |
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Our natures own predilections and antipathies alike strange. There are people from whom we secretly shrink, whom we would personally avoid, though reason confesses that they are good people: there are others with faults of temper, &c., evident enough, beside whom we live content, as if the air about them did us good.
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faults
nature
people
personality
predilection
temper
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Charlotte Brontë |
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When it came to hiding, even Gwin had nothing to teach Dustfinger. A strange sense of curiosity had always driven him to explore the hidden, forgotten corners of this and any other place, and all that knowledge had now come in useful.
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character
personality
skills
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Cornelia Funke |
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Sometimes in the summer evenings they walked up the hill to watch the afterglow clinging to the tops of the western mountains and to feel the breeze drawn into the valley by the rising day-heated air. Usually they stood silently for a while and breathed in peacefulness. Since both were shy they never talked about themselves. Neither knew about the other at all.
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men
mountains
nature
personality
women
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John Steinbeck |
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Tom felt his darkness. His father was beautiful and clever, his mother was short and mathematically sure. Each of his brothers and sisters had looks or gifts or fortune. Tom loved all of them passionately, but he felt heavy and earth-bound. He climbed ecstatic mountains and floundered in the rocky darkness between the peaks. He had spurts of bravery but they were bracketed in battens of cowardice.
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personality
philosophy
psychology
tom-hamilton
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John Steinbeck |
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He was welcome everywhere he went, and was well-aware of his inability to tolerate solitude. He felt no inclination to be alone and avoided it as far as possible; he didn't really want to become any better acquainted with himself. He knew that if he wanted to show his talents to best advantage, he needed to strike sparks off other people to fan the flames of warmth and exuberance in his heart. On his own he was frosty, no use to himself at all, like a match left lying in its box.
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personality
solitude
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Stefan Zweig |
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Oh, I have always been proud, I always wanted all or nothing! You see it was just because I am not one who will accept half a happiness, but always wanted all
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esteem
happiness
personality
pride
proud
settle
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Fyodor Dostoyevsky |
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What's fun for other people may not be fun for you- and vice versa.
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happiness
personality
preferences
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Gretchen Rubin |
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I don't know what understanding myself is. I don't look inside. I don't believe I exist behind myself.
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clarity
existence
feeling
meaning-of-life
nature
paganism
pantheism
personae
personality
reality
seeing
self
understanding
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Alberto Caeiro |
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Here, by the grace of God and an inside straight, we have a personality untouched by the psychotic taboos of our tribe - and you want to turn him into a carbon copy of every fourth-rate conformist in this frightened land! Why don't you go whole hog? Get him a brief case and make him carry it wherever he goes - make him feel shame if he doesn't have it.
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god
grace
human
innocence
man
mars
martian
naked
nudity
personality
psychotic
shame
society
taboo-breaking
taboos
tribe
work-ethic
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Robert A. Heinlein |
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Before I can say , I was. Heraclitus and I, prophets of flux, know that the flux is composed of parts that imitate and repeat each other. Am or was, I am cumulative, too. I am everything I ever was, whatever you and Leah may think. I am much of what my parents and especially my grandparents were -- inherited stature, coloring, brains, bones (that part unfortunate), plus transmitted prejudices, culture, scruples, likings, moralities, and moral errors that I defend as if they were personal and not familial.
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family
heritage
identity
morality
past
personal-history
personality
predispositions
values
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Wallace Stegner |
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I don't think most people would like my personality. There might be a few -- very few, I would imagine- who are impressed by it, but rarely would anyone like it.
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personal
personality
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Haruki Murakami |
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There were some people, it seemed, who were incapable of being pleasant about anything. Of course, the cars that such people drove tended to be difficult as well. Nice cars have nice drivers; bad cars have bad drivers. A person's gearbox revealed everything that you could want to know about that person, thought Mr J.L.B. Matekoni.
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Alexander McCall Smith |
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He said, it's rather like your voice. You put up with your voice and speak with it because you haven't any choice. But it's what you say that counts. It's what distinguishes all great art from the other kind.
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personality
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John Fowles |
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At once he became an enigma. One side or the other of his nature was perfectly comprehensible; but both sides together were bewildering.
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enigma
personality
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Jack London |
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I should thank you'', she said. His lips stilled, and she felt him smile against his skin. ''For what?'' ''Everything, really. But mostly for being you
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love
personality
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Julia Quinn |
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She tried to remind herself that beauty was only skin deep, but that didn't offer any helpful excuses when she was berating herself for never knowing what to say to people. There was nothing more depressing than an ugly girl with no personality. It hurts, because deep inside, she knew who she was, and that person was smart and kind and often very funny, but somehow her personality always got lost somewhere between her heart and her mouth, and she found herself saying the wrong thing or, more often, nothing at all.
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personality
self-esteem
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Julia Quinn |
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For the first time, Ender had found a living mind he could admire.
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ender
feelings
genius
life
personality
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Orson Scott Card |
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He (William Cort) had some desire to be successful, but it did not burn so strongly in him that he was prepared to overcome his character to achieve it.
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character
personality
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Iain Pears |
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Excitement about things became a habit, a part of my personality, and the expectation that I should enjoy new experiences often engendered the enjoyment itself.
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cheerfulness
curiosity
enthusiasm
parenthood
personality
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Doris Kearns Goodwin |
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He lost the great big outward thing, the good- looking package, and the real parts endured. They shine through like crazy, the brillian mind and humor, the depth of generosity, the intense blue yes, those beautiful hands.
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character
charismatic
inner
looks
mappereance
personality
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Anne Lamott |
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Though why should we expect age to mellow us? If it isn't life's business to reward merit, why should it be life's business to give us warm, comfortable feelings towards its end? What possible evolutionary purpose could nostalgia serve?
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history
mellow
memory
merit
nostalgia
personality
philosophy
time
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Julian Barnes |
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To that point, he had always found the vicomtesse overflowing with friendly politeness, that sweet-flowing grace conferred by an aristocratic education, and which is never truly there unless it comes, automatically and unthinkingly, straight from the heart. [...] For anyone who had learned the social code, and Rastignac had absorbed it all in a flash, these words, that gesture, that look, that inflection in her voice, summed up all there was to know about the nature and the ways of men and women of her class. He was vividly aware of the iron hand underneath the velvet glove; the personality, and especially the self-centeredness, under the polished manners; the plain hard wood, under all the varnish. [...] Eugene had been entirely too quick to take this woman's word for her own kindness. Like all those who cannot help themselves, he had signed on the dotted line, accepting the delightful contract binding both benefactor and recipient, the very first clause of which makes clear that, as between noble souls, perfect equality must be forever maintained. Beneficience, which ties people together, is a heavenly passion, but a thoroughly misunderstood one, and quite as scarce as true love. Both stem from the lavish nature of great souls.
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character
hypocrisy
kind
kindness
people
personality
ties
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Honoré de Balzac |
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We cannot escape our origins, however hard we try, those origins which contain the key -could we but find it- to all we later become
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personality
psychoanalysis
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James Baldwin |
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Four months in the life of a seventeen-year-old is the stuff of swings and roundabouts;... Never again in your life do you possess the capacity for such total personality overhaul.
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personality
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Zadie Smith |
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God does not save us to make us forget our heritage, but to complete it.
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culture
ministry
personality
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Beth Moore |
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An intelligence completely dissociated from the physical, or at least an impression of it, was a strange, curiously limited and almost perverse thing, and the precise form that your physicality took had a profound, in some ways defining influence on your personality.
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intelligence
personality
physical
spiritual
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Iain M. Banks |
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Within he felt that faint stirring of derision for the whole business of life which is the salt of the American mentality. Outwardly they are sentimental and enthusiastic and inwardly they are profoundly cynical.
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cynicism
enthusiasm
personality
sentiment
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H.G. Wells |
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A man's work reveals him. In social intercourse he gives you the surface that he wishes the world to accept, but in his book or his picture the real man delivers himself defenceless. No affectation of peculiarity can conceal a commonplace mind. No one can produce the most casual work without disclosing the innermost secrets of his soul.
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facade
persona
personality
society
work
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W. Somerset Maugham |
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I do not like these painted faces that look all alike; and I think women are foolish to dull their expression and obscure their personality with powder, rouge, and lipstick.
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cosmetics
personality
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W. Somerset Maugham |
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If you don't love Jesus out loud, then it must not be real love. It's not enough to forge your own spiritual connection to the Divine. It must be displayed publicly.
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extroversion
personality
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Susan Cain |
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Like everything else in the world, it is one man's work.
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individualism-quotes
personality
team-effort-myth
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Rudyard Kipling |
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As dye soaks fibres, drawn into them to change their colour forever, so does a memory, stinging or sweet, change the fibre of a man's character.
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memory
personality
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Robin Hobb |
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I wanted to protect my professorial dignity and not lay myself open to laughter from the Americans, who when they do laugh, laugh raucously
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personality
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Jules Verne |
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An artist is a person first.
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personality
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Chaim Potok |
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Resentment was the hinge of her personality.
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personality
personality-traits
resentment
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Colson Whitehead |
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I'm not afraid of what I am. I'm afraid I will see what I am not.
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personality
self
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Jeanette Winterson |
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It is indeed strange, given the heavy emphasis placed by chroniclers on Churchill's sheer magnitude of personality, that the ingredient of pure ambition should be so much ignored or even disallowed.
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biography
larger-than-life
personality
winston-churchill
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Christopher Hitchens |
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She was herself unconscious of that faint hint of offishness which hung about her and repelled advances, an arrogance that stirred in people a peculiar irritation. They noticed her, admired her clothes, but that was all, for the self-sufficient uninterested manner adopted instinctively as a protective measure for her acute sensitiveness, in her child days, still clung to her.
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irritation
personality
self-sufficiency
sensitivity
sociability
standoffishness
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Nella Larsen |
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But at some point you have to make peace with what you were given and if God wanted me to be a shy girl with thick, dark hair, He would have made me that way, but He didn't Useful, then, might be to accept how I was made and embody myself fully therein.
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life
personality
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Elizabeth Gilbert |
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Novels are what I know, and the novel door in my personality is always open.
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novels
personality
reading
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Zadie Smith |
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Groves, with his eye for sizing up people who could get things done, saw the deep ambition Oppenheimer covered with his surface charm.
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impression
leadership
personality
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Garry Wills |
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[I]f he had to guess, he would say that the reason he doesn't want to loan the book out, to Ethan or anyone else, is because of the part of his personality that is one gigantic record-keeping system, a complex sifting and filing scheme that dictates what goes here and what goes there, turning his life into so many marks on a tablet. His mind would busy itself with the book's whereabouts every second it was away. He knows it would.
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filing
loans
ocd
personality
record-keeping
thoughts
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Kevin Brockmeier |
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Yet today we make room for a remarkably narrow range of personality styles. We're told that to be great is to be bold, to be happy is to be sociable.
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introvert
personality
quiet
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Susan Cain |
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Houses, like people, have their own peculiarities.
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houses
peculiarity
personality
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Maeve Gilmore |
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You hate America, don't you?' 'That would be as silly as loving it,' I said. 'It's impossible for me to get emotional about it, because real estate doesn't interest me. It's no doubt a great flaw in my personality, but I can't think in terms of boundaries. Those imaginary lines are as unreal to me as elves and pixies. I can't believe that they mark the end or the beginning of anything of real concern to a human soul. Virtues and vices, pleasures and pains cross boundaries at will.
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boundaries
elves-and-pixies
flaws
imaginary
pains
personality
pleasures
real-estate
virtues-and-vices
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Kurt Vonnegut Jr. |
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Miss Benson had the power; which some people have, of carrying her wishes through to fulfillment; her will was strong, her sense was excellent, and people yielded to her - they did not know why.
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confidence
convincing
discretion
personality
sensible
strength
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Elizabeth Gaskell |
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Manners matter, asserts the professor. What provokes rebellion, he asserts, is not as often a theory out allowing for arbitrary power but be excessive, brusque use of it by a particular individual.
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habits
influence
personality
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Robert J. Allison |
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"That's what attracts us to serious paintings, I think: that shortfall, which we might call "personality", or maybe even "pain"."
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pain
personality
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Kurt Vonnegut Jr. |
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There is at least as much contrariness in your character as in mine. Why not come and be contrary with me?
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personality
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Susanna Clarke |
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People get rid of plenty when they move--sometimes they're changing not just places but personalities.
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castoffs
furniture
interior-decorating
life
lives
moving
personality
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Colson Whitehead |
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I ceased to serve a king and began, instead, to serve a kingdom.
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legacy
patriotism
personality
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Geraldine Brooks |
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Chaplin left the Keystone studios on a Saturday night in December after cutting his last film, without bidding farewell to any of his erstwhile colleagues; he spent Sunday in his room at the Los Angeles Athletic Club and on the following day he turned up for work at the Essanay Studios in Niles, California. Of course, everyone at Keystone knew about his imminent departure, but he could not bring himself to make a speech or shake hands. He just left. Sennett said later that 'as for Charles Spencer Chaplin, I am not at all sure that we know him'. He had never really been part of the team; he would never become a member of any group.
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groups
introversion
personality
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Peter Ackroyd |
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Each of Nora's children had arrived on this earth as him or herself, the more she knew them, the more she felt it to be true. They were so different from one another, and from her.
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growing-up
individuality
mother
motherhood
parenthood
parenting
parents
personality
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J. Courtney Sullivan |
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Who is happier, those who are aware, and doubt, or those who are sure of what they believe in, and have never doubted or questioned it? The answer, she had concluded, was that this had nothing to do with happiness, which came upon you like the weather, determined by your personlaity.
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deep-thoughts
happiness
personality
philosophical-musings
philosophy
weather
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Alexander McCall Smith |
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I keep seeing my life darting off in the different directions it could have taken, as chance and circumstance, temperament and desire, open and close, open and close gates, routes, roadways. And yet there feels like an inevitability to who I am--just as of all the planets in all the universes, planet blue, this planet Earth, is the one that is home.
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decisions
directions
inevitability
life
personality
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Jeanette Winterson |
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"The harder the push, the greater the Rebel push-back. I laughed when a Rebel friend told me, 'No one can tell me to do anything. I recently got an email saying "Please read" in the subject line, and I immediately deleted it."
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don-t-tell-me-what-i-can-t-do
personality
rebel
rebellion
resistance
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Gretchen Rubin |
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Waiting in the reception area, she had flicked through a news magazine that had been lying on the table for clients to read while waiting for their appointment. On the cover there had been a picture of a well-known politician, a man famous for his rudeness and aggression. She had looked at the eyes--the piercing, accusing eyes, and had seen only an impenetrable, defensive anger. Nothing--no forced smiles nor rehearsed protestation of concern, could cancel out the cold selfishness of those eyes.
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eyes
personality
politicians
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Alexander McCall Smith |
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Ich war durch meine furchterliche Situation gezwungen, diese Spaltung in ein Ich Schwarz und ein Ich Weiss zumindest zu versuchen, um nicht erdruckt zu werden von dem grauenhaften Nichts um mich.
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personality
third-reich
thoughtful
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