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Indifference and neglect often do much more damage than outright dislike.
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relationships
kindness
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J.K. Rowling |
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I think you still love me, but we can't escape the fact that I'm not enough for you. I knew this was going to happen. So I'm not blaming you for falling in love with another woman. I'm not angry, either. I should be, but I'm not. I just feel pain. A lot of pain. I thought I could imagine how much this would hurt, but I was wrong.
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moving-on
pain
relationships
past
life
love
infidelity
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Haruki Murakami |
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You can talk with someone for years, everyday, and still, it won't mean as much as what you can have when you sit in front of someone, not saying a word, yet you feel that person with your heart, you feel like you have known the person for forever.... connections are made with the heart, not the tongue.
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human-connections
relationships
humanism
humanity
inspirational-life
inspirational-quotes
inspirational
affection
inspirational-love
heartwarming
communication
human-nature
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C. JoyBell C. |
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We're all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you've been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there's no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn't until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems--the ones that make you truly who you are--that we're ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you're looking for. You're looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: it's got to be the right wrong person--someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, "This is the problem I want to have.
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relationships
love
inspirational
being-loved
completion
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Andrew Boyd |
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I mean, if the relationship can't survive the long term, why on earth would it be worth my time and energy for the short term?
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relationships
the-last-song
nicholas-sparks
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Nicholas Sparks |
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"Why is it," he said, one time, at the subway entrance, "I feel I've known you so many years?" "Because I like you," she said, "and I don't want anything from you."
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relationships
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Ray Bradbury |
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The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.
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pain
relationships
self
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Ernest Hemingway |
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When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.
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perfection
relationships
people
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Donald Miller |
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I will love you always. When this red hair is white, I will still love you. When the smooth softness of youth is replaced by the delicate softness of age, I will still want to touch your skin. When your face is full of the lines of every smile you have ever smiled, of every surprise I have seen flash through your eyes, when every tear you have ever cried has left its mark upon your face,I will treasure you all the more, because I was there to see it all. I will share your life with you, Meredith, and I will love you until the last breath leaves your body or mine.
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relationships
love
inspirational
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Laurell K. Hamilton |
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To be fully seen by somebody, then, and be loved anyhow - this is a human offering that can border on miraculous.
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marriage
relationships
love
truth
being-loved
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Elizabeth Gilbert |
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I've been fighting to be who I am all my life. What's the point of being who I am, if I can't have the person who was worth all the fighting for?
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lover
humour
relationships
romance
funny
spiritual
love
inspirational
wife
husband
fighting
sweet
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Stephanie Lennox |
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I want to be in a relationship where you telling me you love me is just a ceremonious validation of what you already show me.
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action
relationships
life
love
inspirational
being-loved
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Steve Maraboli |
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Never marry at all, Dorian. Men marry because they are tired, women, because they are curious: both are disappointed.
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marriage
men
relationships
women
dorian-gray
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Oscar Wilde |
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I know enough to know that no woman should ever marry a man who hated his mother.
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marriage
men
feminism
hate
relationships
women
love
married-life
mothers
sons
matrimony
psychology
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Martha Gellhorn |
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I used to advertise my loyalty and I don't believe there is a single person I loved that I didn't eventually betray.
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relationships
loyalty
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Albert Camus |
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Every couple has ups and downs, every couple argues, and that's the thing--you're a couple, and couples can't function without trust.
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relationships
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Nicholas Sparks |
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I may not always be with yo
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relationships
poetry
family
friendship
love
inspirational
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Marc Wambolt |
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I was suffering the easily foreseeable consequences. Addiction is the hallmark of every infatuation-based love story. It all begins when the object of your adoration bestows upon you a heady, hallucinogenic dose of something you never dared to admit you wanted-an emotional speedball, perhaps, of thunderous love and roiling excitement. Soon you start craving that intense attention, with a hungry obsession of any junkie. When the drug is witheld, you promptly turn sick, crazy, and depleted (not to mention resentful of the dealer who encouraged this addiction in the first place but now refuses to pony up the good stuff anymore-- despite the fact that you know he has it hidden somewhere, goddamn it, because he used to give it to you for free). Next stage finds you skinny and shaking in a corner, certain only that you would sell your soul or rob your neighbors just to have 'that thing' even one more time. Meanwhile, the object of your adoration has now become repulsed by you. He looks at you like you're someone he's never met before, much less someone he once loved with high passion. The irony is,you can hardly blame him. I mean, check yourself out. You're a pathetic mess,unrecognizable even to your own eyes. So that's it. You have now reached infatuation's final destination-- the complete and merciless devaluation of self." - pg 20-21
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relationships
inspirational
heartache
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Elizabeth Gilbert |
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Of course it hurt that we could never love each other in a physical way. We would have been far more happy if we had. But that was like the tides, the change of seasons--something immutable, an immovable destiny we could never alter. No matter how cleverly we might shelter it, our delicate friendship wasn't going to last forever. We were bound to reach a dead end. That was painfully clear.
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relationships
friendships
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Haruki Murakami |
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Don't leave a piece of jewelry at his house so you can go back and get it later; he may be with his real girlfriend.
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men
relationships
romance
women
life
love
jewelry
affairs
dating
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Amy Sedaris |
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"He could totally be your boyfriend," [Angel] went on with annoying persistance. "You guys could get married. I could be like a junior bridesmaid. Total could be your flower dog." "I'm only a kid!" I shrieked. "I can't get married!" "You could in New Hampshire." My mouth dropped open. How does she know this stuff? "Forget it! No one's getting married!" I hissed. "Not in New Hampshire or anywhere else! Not in a box, not with a fox! Now go to sleep, "
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marriage
relationships
humor
love
maxride
fang
max
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James Patterson |
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How would your life be different if...You walked away from gossip and verbal defamation? Let today be the day...You speak only the good you know of other people and encourage others to do the same.
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relationships
friends
motivational
life
inspirational
encouragement
gossip
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Steve Maraboli |
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Seldom, very seldom, does complete truth belong to any human disclosure; seldom can it happen that something is not a little disguised or a little mistaken.
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relationships
honesty
truth
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Jane Austen |
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We have to recognise that there cannot be relationships unless there is commitment, unless there is loyalty, unless there is love, patience, persistence.
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relationships
loyalty
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Cornel West |
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You can measure the happiness of a marriage by the number of scars that each partner carries on their tongues, earned from years of biting back angry words.
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marriage
relationships
family
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Elizabeth Gilbert |
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If you need something from somebody always give that person a way to hand it to you.
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relationships
empowerment
life
subtlety
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Sue Monk Kidd |
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This is what happened in love. One of you cried a lot and then both of you grew sarcastic.
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relationships
sarcasm
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Lorrie Moore |
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It takes three to make love, not two: you, your spouse, and God. Without God people only succeed in bringing out the worst in one another. Lovers who have nothing else to do but love each other soon find there is nothing else. Without a central loyalty life is unfinished.
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lovers
marriage
relationships
christianity
spirituality
religion
god
happiness
philosophy
relationship-with-god
unhappy-marriage
church
expectations
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Fulton J. Sheen |
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It's probably a bad indicator of your lifestyle when you miss your ex-boyfriend because he's absolutely lethal.
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relationships
humor
vampire
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Charlaine Harris |
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When you hold a grudge, you want someone else's sorrow to reflect your level of hurt but the two rarely meet.
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relationships
life
inspirational
grudges
sorry
hurt
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Steve Maraboli |
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Most everything you think you know about me is nothing more than memories.
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relationships
memory
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Haruki Murakami |
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He knew one of the women well, and had shared his universe with her. They had seen the same mountains, and the same trees, although each of them had seem them differently. She knew his weaknesses, his moments of hatred, of despair. Yet she was there at his side. They shared the same universe.
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relationships
love
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Paulo Coelho |
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Failed relationships can be described as so much wasted make-up.
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humour
relationships
women
love
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Marian Keyes |
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Six hundred and forty fish later, the only thing I know is everything you love will die. The first time you meet someone special, you can count on them one day being dead and in the ground.
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relationships
life
love
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Chuck Palahniuk |
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The best relationships in our lives are the best not because they have been the happiest ones, they are that way because they have stayed strong through the most tormentful of storms.
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relationships
inspirational
healing
self-help
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Pandora Poikilos |
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" , . Last night, I got up the courage to ask you if you regretted us. "There are things I miss," you said. "But if I didn't have you, I'd miss more."
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relationships
love
definition
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David Levithan |
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Love doesn't mean anything if you're not willing to make a commitment, and you have to think not only about what you want, but about what he wants. Not just now, but in the future.
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relationships
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Nicholas Sparks |
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I have no right to say or do anything that diminishes a man in his own eyes. What matters is not what I think of him but what he thinks of himself. Hurting a man in his dignity is a crime.
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relationships
inspirational
self-worth
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Antoine de Saint-Exupéry |
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And then the line was quite but not dead. I almost felt like he was there in my room with me, but in a way it was better, like I was not in my room and he was not in his, but instead we were together in some invisible and tenuous third space that could only be visited on the phone.
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relationships
the-fault-in-our-stars
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John Green |
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Lonely people tend, rather, to be lonely because they decline to bear the psychic costs of being around other humans. They are allergic to people. People affect them too strongly.
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loneliness
relationships
lonely-people
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David Foster Wallace |
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That's why I loved being with you. We could do the simplest things, like toss starfish into the ocean and share a burger and talk and even then I knew that I was fortunate. Because you were the first guy who wasn't constantly trying to impress me. You accepted who you were, but more than that, you accepted me for me. And nothing else mattered-- not my family or your family or anyone else in the world. It was just us.
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relationships
the-best-of-me
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Nicholas Sparks |
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"Certainly the most destructive vice if you like, that a person can have. More than pride, which is supposedly the number one of the cardinal sins - is self pity. Self pity is the worst possible emotion anyone can have. And the most destructive. It is, to slightly paraphrase what Wilde said about hatred, and I think actually hatred's a subset of self pity and not the other way around - ' It destroys everything around it, except itself '.
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relationships
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morality
happiness
depression-humor
the-key-to-happiness
oscar-wilde
marriage-advice
sins
self-pity
narcissism
self-improvement
pride
vice
self-help
sin
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Stephen Fry |
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"You fit into me like a hook into an eye
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relationships
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Margaret Atwood |
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"Annabeth," he said hesitantly, "in New Rome, demigods can live their whole lives in peace." Her expression turned guarded. "Reyna explained it to me. But, Percy, you belong at Camp Half-Blood. That other life--" "I know," Percy said. "But while I was there, I saw so many demigods living without fear: kids going to college, couples getting married and raising families. There's nothing like that at Camp Half-Blood. I kept thinking about you and me...and maybe someday when this war with the giants is over..." It was hard to tell in the golden light, but he thought Annabeth was blushing. "Oh," she said... "I'm sorry," he said. "I just...I had to think of that to keep going. To give me hope. Forget I mentioned--" "No!" she said. "Gods, Percy, that's so sweet."
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relationships
romance
hope
reyna
percy-jackson
percy-jackson-and-the-olympians
the-mark-of-athena
the-heroes-of-olympus
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Rick Riordan |
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I won't telephone him. I'll never telephone him again as long as I live. He'll rot in hell, before I'll call him up. You don't have to give me strength, God; I have it myself. If he wanted me, he could get me. He knows where I am. He knows I'm waiting here. He's so sure of me, so sure. I wonder why they hate you, as soon as they are sure of you.
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men
relationships
love
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Dorothy Parker |
b186b38
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Perfectly Imperfec
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perfection
relationships
motivational
life
inspirational
imperfection
snowflakes
journey
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Steve Maraboli |
fa53be9
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You know someone's right for you when the things they don't to say are even more important than the things they do.
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relationships
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Jodi Picoult |
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Sometimes I get real lonely sleeping with you.
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sex
relationships
love
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Haruki Murakami |
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She was a beautiful dreamer. The kind of girl, who kept her head in the clouds, loved above the stars and left regret beneath the earth she walked on.
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robert m drake |
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An unarticulated crush is very different from an unrequited one, because at least with an unrequited crush you know what the hell you're doing, even if the other person isn't doing it back. An unarticulated crush is harder to grapple with, because it's a crush that you haven't even admitted to yourself. The romantic forces are all there -- you want to see him, you always notice him, you treat every word from him as if it weighs more than anyone else's. But you don't know why. You don't know that you're doing it. You'd follow him to the end of the earth without ever admitting that your feet were moving.
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relationships
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David Levithan |
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Hugh and I have been together for so long that in order to arouse extraordinary passion, we need to engage in physical combat. Once, he hit me on the back of the head with a broken wineglass, and I fell to the floor pretending to be unconscious. That was romantic, or would have been had he rushed to my side rather than stepping over my body to fetch the dustpan.
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sex
relationships
romance
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David Sedaris |
78a0650
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Have you ever noticed how parents can go from the most wonderful people in the world to totally embarrassing in three seconds?
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relationships
family
parents
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Rick Riordan |
5c086c8
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It's hard to communicate anything exactly and that's why perfect relationships between people are difficult to find.
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relationships
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Gustave Flaubert |
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"Someone real," I hear myself saying. "Someone who never has to pretend, and who I never have to pretend around. Someone who's smart, but knows how to laugh at himself. Someone who would listen to a symphony and start to cry, because he understands music can be too big for words. Someone who knows me better than I know myself. Someone I want to talk to first thing in the morning and last thing at night. Someone I feel like I've known my whole life, even if I haven't."
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relationships
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Jodi Picoult |
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How could I be sleeping with this particular man.... Surely only true love could justify my lack of taste.
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relationships
love
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Margaret Atwood |
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Physical love is unthinkable without violence.
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violence
relationships
romance
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Milan Kundera |
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No matter how close we are to another person, few human relationships are as free from strife, disagreement, and frustration as is the relationship you have with a good dog. Few human beings give of themselves to another as a dog gives of itself. I also suspect that we cherish dogs because their unblemished souls make us wish - consciously or unconsciously - that we were as innocent as they are, and make us yearn for a place where innocence is universal and where the meanness, the betrayals, and the cruelties of this world are unknown.
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relationships
love
pets
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Dean Koontz |
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This love of which I speak is slow to lose patience - it looks for a way of being constructive. Love is not possessive. Love is not anxious to impress nor does it cherish inflated ideas of its own ideas. Love has good manners and does not pursue selfish advantage. Love is not touchy. Love does not keep account of evil or gloat over the wickedness of other people. On the contrary, it is glad with all good men when truth prevails. Love knows no limits to its endurance, no end to its trust, no fading of its hope; it can outlast anything. It is, in fact, the one thing that stands when all else has fallen.
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relationships
love
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Elisabeth Elliot |
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It's just the most amazing thing to love a dog, isn't it? It makes our relationships with people seem as boring as a bowl of oatmeal.
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relationships
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John Grogan |
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I believe in the immeasurable power of love; that true love can endure any circumstance and reach across any distance.
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true-love
relationships
love
inspirational
long-distance-love
circumstance
distance
soul-mates
endure
power
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Steve Maraboli |
bb1b031
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If I never see you again I will always carry you inside outside on my fingertips and at brain edges and in centers centers of what I am of what remains.
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relationships
love
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Charles Bukowski |
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Mutual caring relationships require kindness and patience, tolerance, optimism, joy in the other's achievements, confidence in oneself, and the ability to give without undue thought of gain.
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relationships
inspirational
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Fred Rogers |
f350c1f
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Yes, it's a well-known fact about you: you're like death, you take everything.
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sex
men
relationships
women
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Milan Kundera |
9e06426
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Love cannot live where there is no trust.
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relationships
trust
love
mythology
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Edith Hamilton |
c6c7df5
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So I learned two things that night, and the next day, from him: the perfection of a moment, and the fleeting nature of it.
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loss
relationships
fiction
life
love
epiphany
journey
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Margaret George |
caff737
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I don't understand dating.. and the other things that people do.. all I know is that you ought to find the one you recognize. The one who gives you four arms, four legs, four eyes, and has the other half of your heart. There's only one of those, so what are all the other things for? Like dating?
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true-love
relationships
inspirational-quotes
living
life
love
inspirational
inspirational-love
dating
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C. JoyBell C. |
6062531
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Caring about someone isn't complicated. It isn't easy. But it isn't complicated, either. Kinda like lifting the engine block out of a car.
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relationships
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Jim Butcher |
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If you spend your life sparing people's feelings and feeding their vanity, you get so you can't distinguish what should be respected in them.
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feelings
relationships
people
life
respect
vanity
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F. Scott Fitzgerald |
172161d
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"They lay silently. She was staring at something across the room. She was making him feel uncomfortable. 'It wouldn't work. It's the attraction of opposites,' he said.
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relationships
women
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James Salter |
3912a7c
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When forever becomes a place...when forever ceases to be just a word... when it ceases to be just a measurement of time...but instead becomes a place where soul mates can dance to the song in their hearts... that is a reflection of true love.
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action
true-love
relationships
life
love
inspirational
forever
hearts
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Steve Maraboli |
5f496f4
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There isn't time, so brief is life, for bickerings, apologies, heartburnings, callings to account. There is only time for loving, and but an instant, so to speak, for that.
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relationships
inspirational
forgiveness
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Mark Twain |
f2f90f6
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Right now we are here, and nothing can mar our perfection, or steal the joy of this perfect moment.
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relationships
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Audrey Niffenegger |
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Death is the easy part, the hard part is living and knowing you could be so much more then you're willing to be.
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robert m drake |
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"I used to think I knew everything. I was a "smart person" who "got things done," and because of that, the higher I climbed, the more I could look down and scoff at what seemed silly or simple, even religion. But I realized something as I drove home that night: that I am neither better nor smarter, only luckier. And I should be ashamed of thinking I knew everything, because you can know the whole world and still feel lost in it. So many people are in pain-no matter how smart or accomplished-they cry, they yearn, they hurt.But instead of looking down on things, they look up, which is where I should have been looking, too. Because when the world quiets to the sound of your own breathing, we all want the same things:comfort, love, and a peaceful heart."
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relationships
love
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Mitch Albom |
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" , . I felt silly for even mentioning it, but once I did, I knew I had to explain. "When I was a kid, "I had this puzzle with all fifty states on it--you know, the kind where you have to fit them all together. And one day I got it in my head that California and Nevada were in love. I told my mom, and she had no idea what I was talking about. I ran and got those two pieces and showed it to her--California and Nevada, completely in love. So a lot of the time when we're like this"--my ankles against the backs of your ankles, my knees fitting into the backs of your knees, my thighs on the backs of your legs, my stomach against your back, my chin folding into your neck--"I can't help but think about California and Nevada, and how we're a lot like them. If someone were drawing us from above as a map. that's what we'd look like; that's how we are." For a moment, you were quiet. And then you nestled in and whispered. "Contiguous." And I knew you understood."
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relationships
love
definitions
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David Levithan |
cad8c92
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But whenever I meet dynamic, nonretarded Americans, I notice that they all seem to share a single unifying characteristic: the inability to experience the kind of mind-blowing, transcendent romantic relationship they perceive to be a normal part of living. And someone needs to take the fall for this. So instead of blaming no one for this (which is kind of cowardly) or blaming everyone (which is kind of meaningless), I'm going to blame John Cusack.
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relationships
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Chuck Klosterman |
af03c05
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We met each other when we were young, before we knew enough about disappointment, and once we did we found we reminded each other of it.
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relationships
young-love
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Nicole Krauss |
fc56859
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And for that one moment of freedom you have to listen to all that love crap... it drive me nuts sometimes... I want to kick them out immediately... I do now and then. But that doesn't keep them away. They like it, in fact. The less you notice them the more they chase after you. There's something perverse about women... they're all masochists at heart.
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relationships
women
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Henry Miller |
2998635
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When you say "I" and "my" too much, you lose the capacity to understand the "we" and "our".
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relationships
life
love
inspirational
understanding-others
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Steve Maraboli |
e130478
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Sometimes the most beautiful people are beautifully broken.
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robert m drake |
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Love without sacrifice is like theft
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Nassim Nicholas Taleb |
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How would your life be different if...You approached all relationships with authenticity and honesty? Let today be the day...You dedicate yourself to building relationships on the solid foundation of truth and authenticity.
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Steve Maraboli |
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"My wife and I just don't have the same feelings for each other we used to have. I guess I just don't love her anymore and she doesn't love me. What can i do?" "The feeling isn't there anymore?" I asked. "That's right," he reaffirmed. "And we have three children we're really concerned about. What do you suggest?" "love her," I replied. "I told you, the feeling just isn't there anymore." "Love her." "You don't understand. the feeling of love just isn't there." "Then love her. If the feeling isn't there, that's a good reason to love her." "But how do you love when you don't love?" "My friend , love is a verb. Love - the feeling - is a fruit of love, the verb. So love her. Serve her. Sacrifice. Listen to her. Empathize. Appreciate. Affirm her. Are you willing to do that?"
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Stephen R. Covey |
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Every now and then, I'd meet a guy and think that we were getting along great, and suddenly I'd stop hearing from him. Not only did he stop calling, but if I happened to bump into him sometime later he always acted like I had the plague. I didn't understand it. I still don't. And it bothered me. It hurt me. With time, it got harder and harder to keep blaming the guys, and I eventually came to the conclusion that there was something wrong with me. That maybe I was simply meant to live my life alone.
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Nicholas Sparks |
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the wounded child inside many males is a boy who, when he first spoke his truths, was silenced by paternal sadism, by a patriarchal world that did not want him to claim his true feelings. The wounded child inside many females is a girl who was taught from early childhood that she must become something other than herself, deny her true feelings, in order to attract and please others. When men and women punish each other for truth telling, we reinforce the notion that lies are better. To be loving we willingly hear the other's truth, and most important, we affirm the value of truth telling. Lies may make people feel better, but they do not help them to know love.
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bell hooks |
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Sometimes to self-discover you must self-destruct.
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robert m drake |
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No matter how much you love someone, you still want to have you own way.
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Chuck Palahniuk |
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I once loved a girl who almost loved me, but not as much as she loved John Cusack.
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Chuck Klosterman |
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I think of how each person in a marriage owes it to the other to find individual happiness, even in a shared life. That this is the only way to grow together, instead of apart.
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Emily Giffin |
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A tamed woman will never leave her mark in the world.
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robert m drake |
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I'm tired of waiting by the phone, and second-guessing what a guy says and trusting someone not to hurt me. Again. I've been storming the relationship castle for fifteen years, and I still don't have my prince. I've got a bunch of battle scars from the field and I want to go home and nurse my wounds. I don't want to fight anymore.
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Kim Gruenenfelder |
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Somewhere along the way we all go a bit mad. So burn, let go and dive into the horror, because maybe it's the chaos which helps us find where we belong.
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robert m drake |
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"Either you go to America with Mrs. Van Hopper or you come home to Manderley with me." "Do you mean you want a secretary or something?" "No, I'm asking you to marry me, you little fool."
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Daphne du Maurier |
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"Two separate beings, in different circumstances, face to face in freedom and seeking justification of their existence through one another, will always live an adventure full of risk and promise." (p. 248)"
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Simone de Beauvoir |
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I see that even as the world plunges into darkness and peril, you two stand around discussing your love lives. Teenagers.
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Cassandra Clare |
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Love is giving up control. It's surrendering the desire to control the other person. The two--love and controlling power over the other person--are mutually exclusive. If we are serious about loving someone, we have to surrender all the desires within us to manipulate the relationship.
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Rob Bell |
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People generally didn't cheat in good relationships.
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Emily Giffin |
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The best kind of humans are the ones who stay.
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robert m drake |
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She preferred imaginary heroes to real ones, because when tired of them, the former could be shut up in the tin kitchen till called for, and the latter were less manageable.
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Louisa May Alcott |
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We swallowed the chaos because we knew we didn't want to be ordinary.
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robert m drake |
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The single greatest lesson the garden teaches is that our relationship to the planet need not be zero-sum, and that as long as the sun still shines and people still can plan and plant, think and do, we can, if we bother to try, find ways to provide for ourselves without diminishing the world.
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Michael Pollan |
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Love doesn't have to be on Valentine's Day. It doesn't have to be by the time you turn eighteen or thirty-three or fifty-nine. It doesn't have to conform to whatever is usual. It doesn't have to be kismet at once, or rhapsody by the third day
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David Levithan |
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Love doesn't have to be on Valentine's Day. It doesn't have to be by the time you turn eighteen or thirty-three or fifty-nine. It doesn't have to conform to whatever is usual. It doesn't have to be kismet at once, or rhapsody by the third day. It just has to be. In time. In place. In spirt. It just has to be.
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David Levithan |
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We walked to meet each other up at the time of our love and then we have been irresistibly drifting in different directions, and there's no altering that.
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Leo Tolstoy |
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"This emotion I'm feeling now, this is love, right?" "I don't know. Is it a longing? Is it a giddy stupid happiness just because you're with me?" "Yes," she said. "That's influenza," said Miro. "Watch for nausea or diarrhea within a few hours."
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Orson Scott Card |
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You'll blow up a helicopter, but you won't go out with me? What is with you?
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rob-wilkins
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Meg Cabot |
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Most don't deserve your tears... and the ones that do will never make you cry.
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T. Rafael Cimino |
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"She knew how breakups went from hearing other girls complain about them. First the pulling away, the gradual refusal to return notes or phone calls. The vague messages saying nothing was wrong, that the other person just needed a little space. Then the speech about how "It's not you, it's me." Then the crying part. She'd never thought any of that would apply to her and Jace. What they had wasn't ordinary, or subject to the ordinary rules of relationships and breakups. They belonged to each other totally, and always will, and that was that. But maybe everyone felt that way? Until the moment they realized they were just like everyone else, and everyone they'd thought was real shattered apart."
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Cassandra Clare |
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Was it necessary to tell me that you wanted nothing in the world but me?' The corners of his mouth drooped peevishly. Oh, my dear, it's rather hard to take quite literally the things a man says when he's in love with you.' Didn't you mean them?' At the moment.
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W. Somerset Maugham |
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love one another, but make not a bond of love: let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls. fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup. give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone, even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.
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Kahlil Gibran |
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I know I'm not going to be in your head all the time. But once you know me, I'll be forever in your heart.
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Crystal Woods |
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She was broken, I think it's because she loved too much and she was always blind to the fact that love too is sometimes broken.
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robert m drake |
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The girl was grateful to the young man for every bit of flattery; she wanted to linger for a moment in its warmth and so she said, 'You're very good at lying.' 'Do I look like a liar?' 'You look like you enjoy lying to women,' said the girl, and into her words there crept unawares a touch of the old anxiety, because she really did believe that her young man enjoyed lying to women.
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Milan Kundera |
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Truth builds trust.
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Marilyn Suttle |
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But I think we both knew, even then, that what we had was something even more rare, and even more meaningful. I was going to be his friend, and was going to show him possibilities. And he, in turn, would become someone I could trust more than myself.
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David Levithan |
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Love has no limitations. It cannot be measured. It has no boundaries. Although many have tried, love is indefinable.
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Steve Maraboli |
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Madness and chaos are self-destructing but over thinking is the suicide.
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robert m drake |
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If I lived a million lives, I would've felt a million feelings and I still would've fallen a million times for you.
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robert m drake |
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"Encouragement requires empathy and seeing the world from your spouse's perspective. We must first learn what is important to our spouse. Only then can we give encouragement. With verbal encouragement, we are trying to communicate, "I know. I care. I am with you. How can I help?" We are trying to show that we believe in him and in his abilities. We are giving credit and praise."
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Gary Chapman |
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Bathsheba loved Troy in the way that only self-reliant women love when they abandon their self-reliance. When a strong woman recklessly throws away her strength she is worse than a weak woman who has never any strength to throw away. One source of her inadequacy is the novelty of the occasion. She has never had practice in making the best of such a condition. Weakness is doubly weak by being new.
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Thomas Hardy |
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She is delightfully chaotic; a beautiful mess. Loving her is a splendid adventure.
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Steve Maraboli |
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Annabeth realized that if six of them went on these two quests, it would leave Percy alone on the ship with Coach Hedge, which was maybe not a situation a caring girlfriend should put him in. Nor was she eager to let Percy out of her sight again--not after they'd been apart for so many months.
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Rick Riordan |
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In the best, the friendliest and simplest relations flattery or praise is necessary, just as grease is necessary to keep wheels turning.
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Leo Tolstoy |
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He feared me as many men fear women: because their mistresses (or their wives) understand them. They are scarcely adult, some men: they wish women to understand them, and to that end they tell them all their secrets; and then, when they are properly understood, they hate their women for understanding them.
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Julian Barnes |
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Don't answer the door in a wedding dress and veil, he might not think you're joking.
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Amy Sedaris |
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Basically, all women are nurturers and healers, and all men are mental patients to varying degrees.
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Nelson DeMille |
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It's funny, for all it took was a broken heart and that alone was enough, enough for her to do everything she ever dreamed of.
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robert m drake |
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Truth is, something that I thought was perfect was taken away from me, and I never wanted perfect again. I wanted middle of the road, stuff I didn't care about so that I couldn't lose anything I really loved ever again.
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Cecelia Ahern |
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To be deeply loved, means a willingness to cut yourself wide open, exposing your vulnerabilities... hopes, hurts, fears and flaws. Hiding behind the highlight reel of who you are, is the real you and that person is just as worthy of love. There is nothing more terrifying or fulfilling, than complete love, it's worth the risk... reach for it.
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Jaeda DeWalt |
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Appreciate the moment of a first kiss; it may be the last time you own your heart.
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robert m drake |
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The truth is I didn't need therapy; I just needed to feel loved and know that someone out there craved my attention.
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robert m drake |
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Suddenly, everything was beautiful. The way she viewed the world was nothing more but a reflection of herself.
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robert m drake |
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Society will always be too fragile to accept us for all that makes us beautiful.
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robert m drake |
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Become the leader of your life. Lead yourself to where you want to be. Breathe life back into your ambitions, your desires, your goals, your relationships.
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Steve Maraboli |
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The strength of a man isn't seen in the power of his arms. It's seen in the love with which he EMBRACES you.
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Steve Maraboli |
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Trust and faith bring joy to life and help relationships grow to their maximum potential.
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Joyce Meyer |
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"Having a sister or a friend is like sitting at night in a lighted house. Those outside can watch you if they want, but you need not see them. You simply say, "Here are the perimeters of our attention. If you prowl around under the windows till the crickets go silent, we will pull the shades. If you wish us to suffer your envious curiosity, you must permit us not to notice it." Anyone with one solid human bond is that smug, and it is the smugness as much as the comfort and safety that lonely people covet and admire."
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Marilynne Robinson |
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The heart is like a woman, and the head is like a man, and although man is the head of woman, woman is the heart of man, and she turns man's head because she turns his heart.
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Peter Kreeft |
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I suppose that we women are such cowards that we think a man will save us from fears, and we marry him.
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relationships
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Bram Stoker |
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I can see that the sadness has returned. And it's not a beautiful sadness- beautiful sadness is a myth. Sadness turns our features to clay, not porcelain.
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David Levithan |
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We are one of those couples i used to watch, thinking to myself that I'd never be on the inside of something so special. I remember reassuring myself that it probably looked nicer than it actually was, I am happy to be wrong about that.
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Emily Giffin |
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I just want someone to hear what I have to say. And maybe if I talk long enough, it'll make sense.
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Ray Bradbury |
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I had to learn to live without you and I couldn't make sense of it, because I left so much of me inside of you.
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robert m drake |
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To be human is to be broken and broken is its own kind of beautiful.
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