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The public is wonderfully tolerant. It forgives everything except genius.
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humour
oscar-wilde
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Oscar Wilde |
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"Certainly the most destructive vice if you like, that a person can have. More than pride, which is supposedly the number one of the cardinal sins - is self pity. Self pity is the worst possible emotion anyone can have. And the most destructive. It is, to slightly paraphrase what Wilde said about hatred, and I think actually hatred's a subset of self pity and not the other way around - ' It destroys everything around it, except itself '.
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relationships
depression
morality
happiness
depression-humor
the-key-to-happiness
oscar-wilde
marriage-advice
sins
self-pity
narcissism
self-improvement
pride
vice
self-help
sin
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Stephen Fry |
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"How you can sit there, calmly eating muffins when we are in this horrible trouble, I can't make out. You seem to me to be perfectly heartless." "Well, I can't eat muffins in an agitated manner. The butter would probably get on my cuffs. One should always eat muffins quite calmly. It is the only way to eat them." "I say it's perfectly heartless your eating muffins at all, under the circumstances." --
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algy
calmness
heartlessness
oscar-wilde
heartless
muffins
calm
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Oscar Wilde |
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A man who does not think for himself does not think at all.
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inspirational
oscar-wilde
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Oscar Wilde |
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It is perfectly monstrous,' he said, at last, 'the way people go about nowadays saying things against one behind one's back that are absolutely and entirely true.
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humor
truth
oscar-wilde
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Oscar Wilde |
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The ugly and stupid have the best of it in this world. They can sit at their ease and gape at the play. If they know nothing of victory, they are at least spared the knowledge of defeat. They live as we all should live-- undisturbed, indifferent, and without disquiet. They never bring ruin upon others, nor ever receive it from alien hands. Your rank and wealth, Henry; my brains, such as they are-- my art, whatever it may be worth; Dorian Gray's good looks-- we shall all suffer for what the gods have given us, suffer terribly.
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wealth
youth
intelligence
inspirational
dorian-gray
good-looks
oscar-wilde
stupid-people
curse
brains
gods
power
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Oscar Wilde |
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I am an unspeakable of the Oscar Wilde sort.
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oscar-wilde
lgbt
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E.M. Forster |
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" "If, with the literate, I am Impelled to try an epigram, I never seek to take the credit; We all assume that Oscar said it.
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humor
epigrams
oscar-wilde
tribute
wit
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Dorothy Parker |
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I find him in the curves of certain lines, in the loveliness and subtleties of certain colours.
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beauty
the-picture-of-dorian-gray
oscar-wilde
colours
painting
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Oscar Wilde |
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As for believing things, I can believe anything, provided that it is quite incredible.
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oscar-wilde
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Oscar Wilde |
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Fashion is what one wears oneself. What is unfashionable is what other people wear. Just as vulgarity is simply the conduct of other people. And falsehoods the truths of other people. Other people are quite dreadful. The only possible society is oneself. To love oneself is the beginning of a life-long romance.
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oscar-wilde
fashion
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Oscar Wilde |
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"So with curious eyes and sick surmise We watched him day by day, And wondered if each one of us Would end the self-same way,
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oscar-wilde
soul
eyes
hell
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Oscar Wilde |
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Never mind what I say. I am always saying what I shouldn't say. In fact, I usually say what I really think. A great mistake nowadays. It makes one so liable to be misunderstood.
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oscar-wilde
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Oscar Wilde |
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Reading the very best writers--let us say Homer, Dante, Shakespeare, Tolstoy--is not going to make us better citizens. Art is perfectly useless, according to the sublime Oscar Wilde, who was right about everything. He also told us that all bad poetry is sincere. Had I the power to do so, I would command that these words be engraved above every gate at every university, so that each student might ponder the splendor of the insight.
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reading
poetry
oscar-wilde
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Harold Bloom |
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because to influence a person is to give one's own soul.
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the-picture-of-dorian-gray
oscar-wilde
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Oscar Wilde |
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Those who find beautiful meanings in beautiful things are the cultivated. For these there is hope.
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the-picture-of-dorian-gray
wilde
oscar-wilde
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Oscar Wilde |
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Only dull people are brilliant at breakfast
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witticism
oscar-wilde
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Oscar Wilde |
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Every single human being should be the fulfilment of a prophecy: for every human being should be the realisation of some ideal, either in the mind of God or in the mind of man.
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religion
god
oscar-wilde
ideal
prophecy
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Oscar Wilde |
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Well, I don't like your clothes. You look perfectly ridiculous in them. Why on earth don't you go up and change? It's perfectly childish to be in mourning for a man who is actually staying a whole week with you in your house as a guest. I call it grotesque.
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oscar-wilde
the-importance-of-being-earnest
jack
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Oscar Wilde |
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Damn it all, MacMurrough, are you telling me you are an unspeakable of the Oscar Wilde sort?' 'If you mean am I Irish, the answer is yes.
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oscar-wilde
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Jamie O'Neill |
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Weak? Oh, I am sick of hearing that phrase. Sick of using it about others. Weak? Do you really think, that it is weakness that yields to temptation? I tell you that there are terrible temptations that it requires strength, strength and courage, to yield to. To stake all one's life on a single moment, to risk everything on one throw, whether the stake be power or pleasure, I care not-there is no weakness in that. There is a horrible, terrible courage. I had that courage.
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oscar-wilde
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Oscar Wilde |
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Now, I have always wanted to agree with Lady Bracknell that there is no earthly use for the upper and lower classes unless they set each other a good example. But I shouldn't pretend that the consensus itself was any of my concern. It was absurd and slightly despicable, in the first decade of Thatcher and Reagan, to hear former and actual radicals intone piously against 'the politics of confrontation.' I suppose that, if this collection has a point, it is the desire of one individual to see the idea of confrontation kept alive.
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politics
political-radicalism
social-structure-of-the-uk
united-kingdom
margaret-thatcher
ronald-reagan
oscar-wilde
the-importance-of-being-earnest
social-class
united-states
england
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Christopher Hitchens |
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"... Likewise, Oscar Wilde asked an English journalist to look over 'The Picture of Dorian Gray' before publication: "Will you also look after my 'wills' and 'shalls' in proof. I am Celtic in my use of these words, not English." Wilde's novel upset virtually every code of late Victorian respectability, but he had to get his modal auxiliaries just right." --
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Andrew Elfenbein |
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WILDE: Oh -- Bosie! (He weeps.) I have to go back to him, you know. Robbie will be furious but it can't be helped. The betrayal of one's friends is a bagatelle in the stakes of love, but the betrayal of oneself is a lifelong regret. Bosie is what became of me. He is spoiled, vindictive, utterly selfish and not very talented, but these are merely the facts. The truth is he was Hyacinth when Apollo loved him, he is ivory and gold, from his red rose-leaf lips comes music that fills me with joy, he is the only one who understands me. 'Even as a teething child throbs with ferment, so does the soul of him who gazes upon the boy's beauty; he can neither sleep at night nor keep still by day,' and a lot more besides, but before Plato could describe love, the loved one had to be invented. We would never love anybody if we could see past our invention. Bosie is my creation, my poem. In the mirror of invention, love discovered itself. Then we saw what we had made -- the piece of ice in the fist you cannot hold or let go. (He weeps.)
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writing
love
robbie-ross
victorians
oscar-wilde
classics
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Tom Stoppard |
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absinthe removes the bitter taste of failure and grants me strange visions which are charming principally because they cannot be written down. Only in absinthe do I become entirely free and, when I drink it, I understand the symbolic mysteries of odour and of colour.
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humour
oscar-wilde
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Peter Ackroyd |
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Some drink to forget, I drink to remember. I drink in order to understand what I mean and to discover what I know. Under its benign influence all the stories and dramas which properly belong to the sphere of art are announced by me in conversation.
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humour
oscar-wilde
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Peter Ackroyd |
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One can forgive Shakespeare anything, except one's own bad lines.
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shakespeare
writing
oscar-wilde
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Peter Ackroyd |
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I envy you going to Oxford: it is the most flower-like time of one's life. One sees shadow of things in silver mirrors. Later on, one sees the Gorgon's head, and one suffers, because it does not return one to stone. -- Oscar Wilde, letter to Louis Wilkinson (December 28, 1898) in the beginning of the book
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oxford
oscar-wilde
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Julia Whelan |