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5a29f0c
|
The baby should always be saved in preference to the mother. That is the advice of the Holy Church, you know that. I was only reminding women of their duty. There is no need to make everything so personal, Margaret. You make everything into your own tragedy.
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|
personhood
religion
women
|
Philippa Gregory |
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3c16635
|
Every woman who chooses--joyfully, thoughtfully, calmly, of her own free will and desire--not to have a child does womankind a massive favor in the long term. We need more women who are allowed to prove their worth as people, rather than being assessed merely for their potential to create new people. After all, half of those new people we go on to create are also women--presumably themselves to be judged, in their futures, for not making new people. And so it will go on, and on... While motherhood is an incredible vocation, it has no more inherent worth than a childless woman simply being who she is, to the utmost of her capabilities. To think otherwise betrays a belief that being a thinking, creative, productive, and fulfilled woman is, somehow, not enough. That no action will ever be the equal of giving birth.
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|
feminist
self-worth
women
|
Caitlin Moran |
|
48f7b0c
|
The United States finds itself with forces of reaction. Do I have to demonstrate this? The Taliban's annihilation of music and culture? The enslavement of women?
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|
islam
islamism
jihad
music
taliban
terrorism
united-states
war-on-terror
women
|
Christopher Hitchens |
|
10b9568
|
In fact, the mothers of all her girl friends impressed on their daughters the necessity of being helpless, clinging, doe-eyed creatures. Really, it took a lot of sense to cultivate and hold such a pose.
|
|
helplessness
ladies
upbringing
women
|
Margaret Mitchell |
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bfba2b0
|
I once knew of a minstrel who bragged of having had a thousand women, one time each. He would never know what I knew, that to have one woman a thousand times, and each time find in her a different delight, is far better. I knew now what gleamed in the eyes of old couples when they stared at each other across a room...My familiarity with her was a more potent love elixir than any potion sold by a hedge-witch in the market.
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|
change
charm
delight
discover
elixir
familiar
find
know
knowledge
love
man
men
minstrel
playboy
potion
sincere
sincerity
time
true
truth
woman
women
|
Robin Hobb |
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5c81ab3
|
How silly men were! Their part in procreation was so unimportant; it was the woman who carried the child through long months of uneasiness and bore it with pain, and yet a man because of his momentary connection made such preposterous claims. Why should that make any difference to him in his feelings towards the child?
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|
children
conception
men
procreation
women
|
W. Somerset Maugham |
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bebb8c6
|
It is interesting to note that an overwhelming majority of citizens in the world's three largest democracies have different religions: India (81 percent Hindu), the United States (76 percent Christian), and Indonesia (87 percent Muslim). Two of them have elected women as leaders of their government.
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|
leaders
leadership
president
women
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Jimmy Carter |
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b600f90
|
"The power of a man is like a bull's charge, while the power of a woman moves aslant, like a serpent seeking its prey. Know the particular properties of your power. Unless you use it correctly, it won't get you what you want." His words perplexed me. Wasn't power singular and simple? In the world that I knew, men just happened to have more of it. (I hoped to change this.)"
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|
power
strength
women
|
Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni |
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ac8128b
|
Some of these stories, it is understood, are not to be passed on to my father, because they would upset him. It is well known that women can deal with this sort of thing better than men can. Men are not to be told anything they might find too painful; the secret depths of human nature, the sordid physicalities, might overwhelm or damage them. For instance, men often faint at the sight of their own blood, to which they are not accustomed. For this reason you should never stand behind one in the line at the Red Cross donor clinic. Men, for some mysterious reason, find life more difficult than women do. (My mother believes this, despite the female bodies, trapped, diseased, disappearing, or abandoned, that litter her stories.) Men must be allowed to play in the sandbox of their choice, as happily as they can, without disturbance; otherwise they get cranky and won't eat their dinners. There are all kinds of things that men are simply not equipped to understand, so why expect it of them? Not everyone shares this believe about men; neverthetheless, it has its uses.
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|
capabilities
female-body
gender
men
misandry
sandboxes
useful-belief
women
|
Margaret Atwood |
|
ad59a7a
|
Two years hence you will be as calm as I am now, - and far, far happier, I trust, for you are a man and free to act as you please
|
|
future
happiness
men
women
|
Anne Brontë |
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73d987f
|
A woman's income appeal is a bell-shaped curve: men do not want to date low-earning women, but once a woman starts earning too much, they seem to be scared off.
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|
freakonomics
men
money
relationship
women
|
Steven D. Levitt & Stephen J. Dubner |
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55ed6dc
|
The thing about women is that they got liberated too fast. They never learned to be straightforward about life because they had to sneak around for about a thousand years tricking men into doing things they wanted. So they manipulate you instead of telling you what they want, so you never know where the hell you are. And then they get mad at you and bitch.
|
|
complaints
liberation
sneaky
tricks
women
women-s-lib
women-s-liberation
women-s-rights
|
Jennifer Crusie |
|
b2c3757
|
At no moment in history has a bright young girl with plenty of food and a good constitution perished from too much learning.
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|
women
|
Elizabeth Gilbert |
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2247d92
|
A woman who walks away from the promise of power finds the strength to forgive - and saves her friendship, her marriage, and her sanity. The world is turned upside down.
|
|
difficult-decisions
forgiveness
life
power
powerful-women
strength
wisdom
women
women-in-power
|
Malcolm Gladwell |
|
98fe6b4
|
"The gravel road widened into a large turnaround where three similar looking and designed brothels sat waiting for customers. They were called Sheila's Front Porch, Tawny's High Five Ranch and Miss Delilah's House of Holies. "Nice," Rachel said as we surveyed the scene. "why are these places always named after women -- as if women actually own them?" "You got me. I guess Mister Dave's House of Holies wouldn't go over so well with the guys." Rachel smiled. "You're right. I guess it's a shrewd move. Name a place of female degradation and slavery after a female and it doesn't sound so bad, does it? It's packaging."
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|
brothels
degradation
exploitation
marketing
prostitution
slavery
women
|
Michael Connelly |
|
94d53cb
|
She was no malleable, since frigid, substance upon which desires might be executed; she was not a true prostitute for she was the object on which men prostituted themselves.
|
|
the-loves-of-lady-purple
women
|
Angela Carter |
|
ee86838
|
Famously, Gloria Steinem once advised women that they should strive to become like the men they had always wanted to marry. What I've only recently realized is that I not only have to become my own husband, but I need to be my own father, too.
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|
life
women
|
Elizabeth Gilbert |
|
738c119
|
Legs was always proud even before FOXFIRE, that's the primary fact about Legs Sadovsky: pride.
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|
feminist
women
women-s-rights
|
Joyce Carol Oates |
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6b11c26
|
So where does that leave me? I like hosting the show....It's become my identity. If that's gone, where am I?
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|
aging
discrimination
job
women
workplace
|
Barbara Delinsky |
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665df0f
|
[Patricia Highsmith] was a figure of contradictions: a lesbian who didn't particularly like women; a writer of the most insightful psychological novels who, at times, appeared bored by people; a misanthrope with a gentle, sweet nature.
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|
contradictions
gentle
insight
insightful
lesbian
like
misanthrope
nature
novels
people
psychological
sweet
women
writer
writing
|
Andrew Wilson |
|
89feb88
|
I was amazed at how strong women were when they were angry.
|
|
humor
women
|
Robin Hobb |
|
90f00ca
|
You are a devious woman, Blackthorn,' she said. 'I prefer the term strategic thinker.
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|
leader
women
|
Juliet Marillier |
|
559619c
|
"The whole truth?" Miss Bart laughed. "What is the truth? Where a woman is concerned, it's the story that's easiest to believe. In this case it's a great deal easier to believe Bertha Dorset's story than mine, because she has a big house and an opera box, and it's convenient to be on good terms with her"
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|
truth
wealth
women
|
Edith Wharton |
|
9e2d3df
|
Shevek saw that he had touched in these men an impersonal animosity that went very deep. Apparently they, like the tables on the ship, contained a woman, a suppressed, silenced, bestialized woman, a fury in a cage. He had no right to tease them. They knew no relation but possession. They were possessed.
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|
patriarchy
women
|
Ursula K. Le Guin |
|
9e4e895
|
I'm not jealous of my male colleagues often, but I am when it comes to how they can just shower, shave, put on a suit, and be ready to go. The few times I've gone out in public without makeup, it's made the news. So I sigh and keep getting back in that chair, and dream of a future in which women in the public eye don't need to wear makeup if they don't want to and no one cares either way.
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|
politics
women
|
Hillary Rodham Clinton |
|
a0c1124
|
She had only a candle's light to see by, but candlelight never did badly by any woman.
|
|
humor
women
|
John Fowles |
|
4e891ff
|
Their collective advice: don't settle. Keep looking. Find Mr. Right. That is what they all did. And by God, I think they believe it. Because nobody who marries at the ripe age of twenty-three can be settling. Naturally. That is a phenomenon that only happens to women in their thirties.
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|
women
|
Emily Giffin |
|
4e21612
|
...a row of tables manned by seated, serious women. Each woman looked like she could be someone's least-favourite aunt.
|
|
funny
women
|
Adam Rex |
|
a785607
|
Like almost all girls I don't know the date of my birth: my parents did not trouble to record the day and the time. I only know the year and the season, and I only know the season because my mother had a great desire for asparagus when she was carrying me and swears that she ate it too green and her bellyache brought on my birth.
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|
history
women
|
Philippa Gregory |
|
a929c67
|
Love may start out as a good feeling, but to love someone long-term is an act of the will.
|
|
faith
family
feeling
god
hope
lady
love
marriage
men
relationship
will
women
|
Elizabeth George |
|
47f8d3d
|
Even when I worked in that world, I still wanted love so strong that the man would have no interest in another woman. Maybe you will always be incapable of giving that kind of love. You tell me I want too much. And maybe I do. But like you and your imagination, I can't help but be that way.
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|
love
loyalty
men
women
|
Amy Tan |
|
4600a59
|
We were the people who were not in the papers. We lived in the blank white spaces on the edges of print.
|
|
oppression
women
|
Margaret Atwood |
|
b05355d
|
But females in even the most advanced Muslim countries are simply, by law, not the equal of men.
|
|
feminism
women
|
Bill Maher |
|
405971d
|
They are boiling with the pressured energy of explosive forces confined in a small space, and with the fervor of all religious movements in their early, purist stages. It is not enough to give lip service and to believe in equal pay: there has to be a conversion, from the heart. Or so they imply.
|
|
fervor
passion
women
|
Margaret Atwood |
|
c3eb705
|
It matters not at all that I do not want to marry, that I am afraid of the wedding, afraid of consummating the marriage, afraid of childbirth, afraid of everything about being a wife. Nobody even asks if I have lost my childhood sense of vocation, if I still want to be a nun. Nobody cares what I think at all. They treat me like an ordinary young woman, bred for wedding and bedding, and since they do not ask me what I think, nor observe what I feel, there is nothing that gives them pause at all.
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|
personhood
women
|
Philippa Gregory |
|
c484a42
|
So now you are a woman. Do you have the least idea of what that means? It means that I am now fit to be wedded and bedded (...) and to bear children for the king.
|
|
patriarchy
queens
women
women-s-rights
|
George R.R. Martin |
|
c48611d
|
Rubens! All bosom and bum, big cumulus clouds of pink flesh, eh? You can feel the heart beating like a kettledrum in a ton of that stuff. Every woman a bed; throw yourself on them, sink from sight.
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|
rubens
sensuality
women
|
Ray Bradbury |
|
c5e4334
|
"Hideo," said my mother, in the terrifying way women have of passing without interval from one subject to another because they have them all present in their mind at once, "you haven't found any kind of relationship?" --
|
|
mothers
women
|
Ursula K. Le Guin |
|
3036f90
|
Bless all the women of this world who nurture our heritage while too many man rush off to kill for ideals that might now be deeply and personally held, but will often be viewed as repugnant by later generations.
|
|
heritage
women
|
Stephen Jay Gould |
|
cec192b
|
"He looked around and yawned. "I haven't been sleeping well. It's nice in here. But after a while the lushes will fill the place up and talk loud and laugh and the goddam women will start waving their hands and screwing up their faces and tinkling their goddam bracelets and making up with the packaged charm which will later on in the evening have a slight but unmistakable odour of sweat." "Take it easy," I said. "So they're human, they sweat, they get dirty, they have to go to the bathroom. What did you expect - golden butterflies hovering in a rosy mist?"
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|
women
|
Raymond Chandler |
|
276c4a7
|
"It is hardly lonely in a nunnery, son, with other women. And God is there." Morgause said, "I would rather dwell in a hermitage in the forest than in a house full of chattering ladies! If God is there, it must be hard for him to get a word in edgewise!"
|
|
humor
nuns
women
|
Marion Zimmer Bradley |
|
dd1660d
|
"A diamond may be forever, but terrorism, promiscuously funded, will be too. Let's make the connection clearly by tracing the path of the diamond. Diamonds start out in the earth, and eventually that earth is part of a country, like Sierra Leone, Angola, or the Democratic Republic of Congo. In those countries, desperate battles for control have been going on for decades, and the armies that fight the battles finance their ambitions with diamonds. Villagers are forced to mine the diamonds by ruthless rebels who maintain order through terror: by raping women and hacking off the limbs of the children, something, by the way, you never see in the De Beers ads. The rebels then smuggle the diamonds into neighboring dictatorships in exchange for guns and cash. There the diamonds are sold to the highest bidder--whether they be terrorists or "legitimate" dealers--and finally they're laundered in Europe, shipped to America, and end up in jewelry stores where they're purchased by men and given to women in exchange for oral sex. In the feminized world we live in, it's practically national policy that women are more evolved that men--but if that's so, how come they're still so impressed by shiny objects?"
|
|
humor
war-on-terror
women
|
Bill Maher |
|
1d0d322
|
I don't care how happily married you are or how deeply enmeshed you are with your children and family and career -- every woman needs a couple of chicks who'll break out the sangria just because you need to vent.
|
|
friendship
girl-life
life
relationships
women
|
Jen Lancaster |
|
de93f3e
|
Under her high brows, she eyed him straight on and straight across. She had gone to girls' schools, he recalled later. Those girls looked straight at you.
|
|
women
|
Annie Dillard |
|
e202d39
|
Teachers were not allowed to beat children as they did in the past, although, Mma Ramotswe reflected, there were some boys-and indeed some young men-who might have been greatly improved by moderate physical correction. The apprentices, for example: would it help if Mr. J.L.B. Matekoni resorted to physical chastisement-nothing severe, of course-but just an occasional kick in the seat of the pants while they were bending over to change a tyre or something like that? The thought made her smile. She would even offer to administer the kick herself, which she imagined might be oddly satisfying, as one of the apprentices, the one who still kept on about girls, had a largeish bottom which she thought would be quite comfortable to kick. How enjoyable it would be to creep up behind him and kick him when he was least expecting it, and then to say: Let that be a lesson! That was all one would have to say, but it would be a blow for women everywhere.
|
|
blow
bottom
humor
kick
women
|
Alexander McCall Smith |
|
1bdc276
|
Women often find great roles in revolution, simply because the rules fall apart and everyone has agency, anyone can act. As they did in Egypt, where liberty leading the masses was an earnest young woman in a black hijab.
|
|
gender
hijab
liberty
revolution
women
|
Rebecca Solnit |
|
e66ec11
|
All feminine claws, he said to himself, are sheathed in velvet; but they can hurt a good deal if they touch you on the sore places of the defects of your qualities--even merely with the velvet.
|
|
cruelty
power
women
|
Ford Madox Ford |
|
1723b39
|
For this cause...for this privilege...you were born--to shine lights into the world for God.
|
|
elizabeth-george
god
shine
women
world
|
Elizabeth George |
|
febc086
|
I may add here that one of the secrets of my happy life is that i have never made the mistake of learning to drive a car. I have never lacked people, usually women, longing to drive me withersoever I wanted. Why keep bitches and bark yourself?
|
|
cars
driving
women
|
Iris Murdoch |
|
f0584cd
|
The discovery of her life was that she herself didn't actually need money, apart from a little cash for those relationships with taxi drivers and officials of the Great Western Railway which can only be expressed financially.
|
|
women
|
Elizabeth Ironside |
|
f0d37ce
|
I mean, a male chauvinist pig isn't born, he's made, and more and more of them are being made by women.
|
|
women
|
Chuck Palahniuk |
|
0dd75db
|
Sairin bana siirinde okudugu Troya'nin dususu hikayesinde kralin kizi Cassandra olacaklari onceden goruyor ve Troyalilarin buyuk ati sehre sokmalarini onlemeye calisiyor, ama onu kimse dinlemiyordu: Uzerrindeki lanetti bu, hakikati gorecek, bunu soyleyecek, ama onu kimse duymayacakti. Erkeklerden ziyade kadinlarin uzerindeki bir lannetir bu. Erkekler hakikatin kendilerine ait olmasini, kendi kesifleri, kendi mulkleri olmasini ister.
|
|
mythology-fiction
science-fiction
women
|
Ursula K. Le Guin |
|
0d85b22
|
The moment a woman was born determined so much of who she was allowed to become.
|
|
inequality
women
|
J. Courtney Sullivan |
|
f6ce7bb
|
For he did not, he would have said, care for women; he never felt at home or at ease with them; and that monstrous creature beginning to be talked about, the New Woman of the nineties, filled him with horror. He was a quiet, conventional person, and the world, viewed from the haven of Brookfield, seemed to him full of distasteful innovations; there was a fellow named Bernard Shaw who had the strangest and most reprehensible opinions; there was Ibsen, too, with his disturbing plays; and there was this new craze for bicycles which was being taken up by women equally with men. Chips did not hold with all this modern newness and freedom. He had a vague notion, if he ever formulated it, that nice women were weak, timid, and delicate, and that nice men treated them with a polite but rather distant chivalry.
|
|
men
society
women
|
James Hilton |
|
f94bae5
|
Later on, still looking, she had tried to get involved with the Women's Community Center. She liked what they stood for but secretly wished they would wear just a little lipstick and shave their legs. She had been the only one in the room in full makeup, wearing pantyhose and earrings. She had wanted to belong, but when the woman suggested that next week they bring a mirror so they could all study their vaginas, she never went back.
|
|
females
feminists
women
|
Fannie Flagg |
|
fc6dcbe
|
We need a temporary cessation in people having any opinions about any women, ever. I propose a, say, five-year moratorium on having opinions about women, in order to let one generation of girls get from one side of puberty to the other without growing up in a climate where women are constantly being scolded, chivvied, harassed, or subjected to thunderous opinion columns concluding that, yet again, some woman in the public eye has overreached herself and should wind her neck in.
|
|
opinion
women
|
Caitlin Moran |
|
7769f6b
|
It is natural for our unamiable sex to dislike the creatures, for you ladies lavish so many caresses upon them.
|
|
cats
dislike
dogs
men
pets
women
|
Anne Brontë |
|
413ac55
|
Women get desperate, but they don't understand despair.
|
|
women
|
William Gaddis |
|
a249612
|
[...] she hadn't realised how much she missed the company of women who laughed, women who spoke their own minds, women who didn't give a shit for anything.
|
|
women
women-s-strength
|
Graham Masterton |
|
b4f6bfd
|
She reminded him that the weak will never enter the kingdom of love, which is a harsh and ungenerous kingdom,and that women give themselves only to men of resolute spirit, who provide them with the security they need in order to face life.
|
|
security
strength
weakness
women
|
Gabriel García Márquez |
|
e0b95de
|
To him it was a sort of hyperspace-librarian, girl-geek thing that he found clever and fetching without attracting him in a way that would have been creepy.
|
|
girls
women
|
Neal Stephenson |
|
9317964
|
Because this woman sobbed in the way that all women sob, whether they do it outwardly or whether they keep it silently locked up inside themselves. They sob because they realise, one day, that they were born on a planet of men, and that short of death or spinsterhood they can never escape. Effie's Aunt Rachel used to say, 'Even the slaves could run away, but where can women go?
|
|
sobbing
women
|
Graham Masterton |
|
4ef55fa
|
Foras Road has a sordid reputation (...) Old crones sat in doorways, while their daughters were pushed out to earn money. It is intriguing that a society which is very covert with sexuality should be so straightforward about prostitution.
|
|
india
prostitutes
travel
travel-writing
women
|
Tahir Shah |
|
a08c708
|
This is the ultimate chicken and the egg situation. The chicken: Women will tear down the external barriers once we achieve leadership roles... The egg: We need to eliminate the external barriers to get women into those roles in the first place. Both sides are right.
|
|
glass-ceiling
women
work
|
Sheryl Sandberg |
|
565ea7c
|
Like most girls, I want a lot. Fame and fortune. Equal rights. Shoes no one else has. But I'd trade all that in for the perfect guy. (Don't tell me there's something wrong with that. I don't know of a single person who doesn't spend most of her time thinking about love.) Anyway, ever since I could think, I have been imagining and reimagining the exact sort of boy I want to love and who would love me back. Basically, I imagine someone who has all the good attributes of the male species and whose bad ones wouldn't ruin my life.
|
|
women
|
Sarah Miller |
|
2140d61
|
... motherhood is a game you must enter with as much energy, willingness, and happiness as possible.
|
|
feminism
women
|
Caitlin Moran |
|
3c1500c
|
I conquered outer worlds just as he had. I expressed masculine strength and power just as he had. But it didn't bring me closer to him or to others like him because I had become one of the guys, and that's not what most men are looking for. He had never loved me for being a great guy.
|
|
marianne-williamson
men
women
|
Marianne Williamson |
|
a00bccf
|
Lilies used to be a movie theatre, before. Students went there a lot; every spring they had a Humphrey Bogart festival, with Lauren Bacall or Katherine Hepburn, women on their own, making up their minds. They wore blouses with buttons down the front that suggested the possibilities of the word 'undone'. These women could not be undone; or not. They seemed to be able to choose.
|
|
empowering
handmaid-s-tale
undone
women
|
Margaret Atwood |
|
d99afbf
|
"I've never seen or touched anything." "Can you explain then how you had children?" "You're right. It's true I have four kids. Four! But still I have never seen the male organ. He came into the bedroom, he turned off the light, and then Bam! Bam! Bam! and voila I was pregnant! What's more, I was granted four girls. So I have never seen penises."
|
|
intercourse
iran
men
patriarchy
penis
sex
women
|
Marjane Satrapi |
|
277379a
|
Happiness is the inner poetry of women, just as fine clothes are the mask of beauty
|
|
happiness
women
|
Honoré de Balzac |
|
d8423bb
|
The courage to continue before the face of despair is the recognition in those eyes of darkness we find our own night vision. Women blessed with death-eyes are fearless.
|
|
death-and-dying
despair
fear
fearless
feminism
women
|
Terry Tempest Williams |
|
d6f2c16
|
She was a Victorian girl; a girl of the days when men were hard and top-hatted and masculine and ruthless and girls were gentle and meek and did a great deal of sewing and looked after the poor and laid their tender napes beneath a husband's booted foot, and even if he brought home cabfuls of half-naked chorus girls and had them dance on the rich round mahogany dining-table (rosily reflecting great pearly hams and bums in its polished depths). Or, drunk to a frenzy, raped the kitchen-maid before the morning assembly of servants and children and her black silk-dressed self (gathered for prayers). Or forced her to stitch, on shirts, her fingers to rags to pay his gambling debts. Husbands were a force of nature or an act of God; like an earthquake or the dreaded consumption, to be borne with, to be meekly acquiesced to, to be impregnated by as frequently as Nature would allow. It took the mindless persistence, the dogged imbecility of the grey tides, to love a husband.
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women
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Angela Carter |
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706f9f4
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By leaving, we are not necessarily disobeying the men according to the Bible, because we, the women, do not know exactly what is in the Bible, being unable to read it. Furthermore, the only reason why we feel we need to submit to our husbands is because our husbands have told us that the Bible decrees it.
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feminism
women
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Miriam Toews |
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4245642
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I would just as soon remain jamona than shed that many tears over a man.
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tears
women
women-and-men
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Esmeralda Santiago |
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baf0617
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My father always says, choosing a wife is like putting your hand into a bag full of writhing creatures, with one eel to six snakes. What are the chances you will pull out the eel?
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marriage-advice
thomas-more
wives
women
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Hilary Mantel |
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539321f
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"Feminism is, of course, part of human rights in general--but to choose to use the vague expression "human rights" is to deny the specific and particular problem of gender. It would be a way of pretending that it was not women who have, for centuries, been excluded. It would be a way of denying that the problem of gender targets women. That the problem was not about being human, but specifically about being a female human."
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gender-equality
human-rights
sexism
women
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Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie |
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abec27e
|
Breasts are very important for women. Their clothes just don't hang right without them.
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clothing
women
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Jennifer Crusie |
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abcc582
|
What kind of woman was she? What kind of woman was it who called to me from that calamity on the Seventh Avenue line? What kind of woman do I love now, with a fealty that will not cease, not till my occluded arteries send their clots up to the spongy interiors in my skull and I go mute and slack? I love the kind of woman whose hair has gone gray in a not terribly flattering way, the kind who doesn't even notice how she has to keeps having to buy larger jeans, the kind who likes big cars because she doesn't like to be uncomfortable. I love this woman because she is gifted with astounding premonitory skills: no matter how uncertain, how despondent, how lost her mate feels, no matter how dire the circumstances, she nonetheless predicts that Everything will be roses.
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optimism
positivity
women
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Rick Moody |
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0e508ec
|
[Peggy Mcintosh] explained that many people, but especially women, feel fraudulent when they are praised for their accomplishments. Instead of feeling worthy of recognition, they feel undeserving and guilty, as if a mistake has been made. Despite being high achievers, even experts in their fields, women can't seem to shake the sense that it is only a matter of time until they are found out for who they are -- impostors with limited skills or abilities
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glass-ceiling
women
work
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Sheryl Sandberg |
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839e6d2
|
"Elk were mating now - The males were fighting, and they had to chase the females, which depleted the fat that both sexes had accumulated over the summer and thereby diminished their chances of surviving the winter. "It would be better for the elk," Dave said as we prepared dinner, "if the females just gave it up." All three women stared at him. A silence ensued. Dave said, "Or I could be wrong."
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nature
sex
women
yellowstone
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Tim Cahill |
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765eb64
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How do you feel about homosexuals, Mr. Scavanni?' I asked. 'I think they're great. More women for the rest of us,' he said sarcastically.
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women
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Adrian McKinty |
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effdc41
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Women only wear beautiful clothes so that men will want to remove them.
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clothes
women
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Hanif Kureishi |
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875a1ed
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lkdhb ynqlb fDyl@ fy HDr@ lns
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virtue
women
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Naguib Mahfouz |
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88c0605
|
I felt confused, and also inadequate; whatever he was asking or demanding, it was beyond me. this was the first time a man would expect more from me than i was capable of giving, but it wouldn't be the last.
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male-domination
male-supremacy
women
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Margaret Atwood |
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cc07141
|
They were all slender, frail creatures with wondering Wes and soft fluttery voices. But they were all made out of thin invisible steel.
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inspirational
women
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Betty Smith |
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41ce2e2
|
Just like in the workplace, women who are good workers are the best workers.
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women
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Bill Maher |
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ee0fe91
|
Husbands are always angry, that's their nature. And the nature of us women, is not to pay a blind bit of notice.
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husband
wife
women
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M.C. Beaton |
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61d0c30
|
Your hard-won triumphs can be wholly negated if you live in a climate where your victories are seen as threatening, incorrect, distasteful, or -- most crucially of all, for a teenage girl -- simply uncool. Few girls would choose to be right -- right, down into their clever, brilliant bones -- but lonely.
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girls
individualism
individuality
women
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Caitlin Moran |
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3732a39
|
By the altar, which is made of massive slabs of stone untouched by tools since hewn from the quarry and set up in this vast edifice, a barefooted priest wearing a linen tunic waits for the Levite to hand over the turtledoves. He takes the first one, carries it to a comer of the altar, and with a single blow knocks the head from its body. [...] Joseph has nothing more to accomplish here, he must withdraw, collect his wife and child, and return home. Mary is pure once more, not in the strict sense of the word, because purity is something to which most human beings, and above all women, can scarcely hope to aspire.
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women
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José Saramago |
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a3c8e0b
|
Perhaps the Queen's prayers, and those of Bernard, had been efficacious, or perhaps Louise had been more attentive in bed, for during 1145--the exact date is not recorded--she bore a daughter, who was named Marie in honour of the Virgin. If the infant was not the male heir to France so desired by the King--the Salic law forbade the succession of females to the throne--her arrival encouraged the royal parents to hope for a son in the future. Relationships between aristocratic parents and children were rarely close. Queens and noblewomen did not nurse their own babies, but handed them over at birth into the care of wet nurses, leaving themselves free to become pregnant again.
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history
pregnancy
royalty
women
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Alison Weir |
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ea2a068
|
My voice thick with frustration, I declared that if men and women could only meet each other under normal circumstances, that delusions of instant love would be more infrequent. While I do believe that great attractions lead to genuine love, such as it had with my sister, Sara, and her husband, Assad, such a happy outcome is rare. When men and women rarely have the opportunity to enjoy the other's company in ordinary social occasions, spontaneous emotions are quick to rise to the surface, often ending in terrible personal tragedies.
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|
culture
feminism
royal-family
women
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Jean Sasson |
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a36e7b8
|
it is a quote from Mihri Hatun, a lady poet who wrote many centuries ago. 'A talented women is better than a thousand untalented men, and a women of understanding is better than a thousand stupid men.
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talented-women
women
women-s-strength
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Karen Essex |
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5b04979
|
It was a weakness, but he could not bear to disappoint women, even if it was ultimately for their own good.
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could-not-bear
disappoint
for-good
own-good
weakness
woman
women
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Larry McMurtry |
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e881ae8
|
The most powerful men of the kingdom have dragged a duchess down and sent her out to be a marvel to the common people of London. They are so deeply afraid of her that they took the risk to dishonor their own. They are so anxious to save themselves that they thought they should throw her aside.
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|
politics
witch-trials
women
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Philippa Gregory |
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e7821be
|
Louise was an urbanite, she preferred the gut-thrilling sound of an emergency siren slicing through the night to the noise of country birds at dawn. Pub brawls, rackety roadworks, mugged tourists, the badlands on a Saturday night - they all made sense, they were all part of the huge, dirty, torn social fabric. There was a war raging out there in the city and she was part of the fight, but the countryside unsettled her because she didn't know who the enemy was. She had always preferred North and South to Wuthering Heights. All that demented running around the moors, identifying yourself with the scenery, not a good role model for a woman.
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country
women
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Kate Atkinson |
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57d2cd4
|
I like games of chance, including women.
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|
women
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Raymond Chandler |
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06c7bfc
|
"I rang the bell and she opened the door, dried her hands, and said heartily: 'Hello, stranger. I was just saying to Cliff only tonight, it's about time you showed up around here.' I wanted to detach him from her, but first I had to sit through about ten minutes of her. She was my sister, but you don't tell women things like I wanted to tell him. I don't know why, but you don't. You tell them the things you have under control; the things that you're frightened of, you tell other men if you tell anyone. ("Nightmare")"
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fear
men
men-and-women
women
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Cornell Woolrich |
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c498a15
|
I remembered a truism that I had always known: no woman need let a man know the contents of her mind.
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truisms
women
women-s-minds
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Karen Essex |
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cfbea94
|
Of all the women he knew, she had meant the most; and was the one person in his life he felt he had missed, in some ways.
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felt
he-knew
his-life
life
love
love-of-his-life
meant-the-most
missed
one-person
only-love
women
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Larry McMurtry |
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56991f9
|
For as men have fists and heads to defend themselves, so women have a gentleness of silence about them, a barrier built of things of the spirit, of pain, of quiet, of helplessness, of grace, of all that is beautiful and womanly an equal part, given to them because they are women in defense of their womaness. And this barrier a man will find against him to turn aside his male attack, keep his arms pinned, stop his mouth, cool his eyes, reduce his heat and restrain his idle imaginings. This barrier it is that women who are women keep always at a height, coming from behind it only when, with knowledge and in light, they trust. You shall see it in their eyes.
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trust
womaness
womanly
women
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Richard Llewellyn |
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e15c297
|
"I had to do something about my longing, so I got up, went to the kitchen in my nightgown, peeled a pound of potatoes, boiled them up, sliced them, fried them in butter, salted them generously and ate every bite of them - asking my body the whole while if it would please accept the satisfaction of a pound of fried potatoes in lieu of the fulfillment of lovemaking. My body replied, only after eating every bite of food: "No deal, babe." --
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life
longing
love
women
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Elizabeth Gilbert |
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319bb2e
|
An Odonian undertook monogamy just as he might undertake a joint enterprise in production, a ballet or a soap-works. Partnership was a voluntarily constituted federation like any other. So long as it worked, it worked, and if it didn't work it stopped being. It was not an institution but a function. It had no sanction but that of private conscience.
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|
love
moraily
politics
property
relationships
sci-fi
women
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Ursula K. Le Guin |
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2358808
|
The sun dances in her and she has an immense joy of life
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dance
happiness
joy
sun
women
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James Clavell |
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c329f2b
|
Sure, he was attracted to her, but women always had to go beyond that. Women [had] nesting fantasies. It wasn't long before they were redecorating your apartment and criticizing your choice of mustard.
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|
fantasies
janet-evanovich
kate-o-hare
lee-goldberg
mustard
nick-fox
women
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Janet Evanovich |
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af53452
|
She aint worth it. None of em are. He didnt answer for a while. Then he said: Yes they are.
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lovers
men
women
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Cormac McCarthy |
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ade805f
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And yet now and then he let himself steal a glance at her. Lovely dark colors of her skin, hair, and eyes. We are half-baked compared to them. Allowed out of the kiln before we were fully done. The old aboriginal myth; the truth, there.
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humility
women
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Philip K. Dick |
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7c081fb
|
It is yin and yang. Light is the left hand of darkness... how did it go? Light, dark. Fear, courage. Cold, warmth. Female, male. It is yourself, Therem. Both and one. A shadow on snow.
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|
gender
light
philosophy
women
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Ursula K. Le Guin |
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f7429a4
|
As long as God is a man, not a couple, the life of a woman, according to Hanna,is bound to remain as it is now, namely wretched, with woman as the proletarian of Creation, however smartly dressed.
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god
philosophy
women
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Max Frisch |
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34eb50d
|
Florentino Ariza always forgot when he should not have that women, and Prudencia Pitre more than any other, always think about the hidden meanings of questions more than about the questions themselves.
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questions
women
|
Gabriel García Márquez |
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31d38eb
|
Art thou so deeply read in nature and her large philosophy, and I am yet to teach thee that deadliest hellebore or the vomit of a toad are qualified poison to the malice of a woman?
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|
vengeance
women
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E.R. Eddison |
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c881e66
|
"Chese now," quod she, "oon of thise thynges tweye: To han me foul and old til that I deye, And be to yow a trewe, humble wyf, And nevere yow displese in al my lyf, Or elles ye wol han me yong and fair, And take youre aventure of the repair That shal be to youre hous by cause of me, Or in som oother place, may wel be. Now chese yourselven, wheither that yow liketh."
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|
chaucer
choice
feminity
marriage
wife
wife-of-bath
women
|
Geoffrey Chaucer |
|
a48e787
|
The women in the kitchen took turns making a fuss over the baby, acting like it was their job to keep her entertained until the Magi arrived. But the baby wasn't entertained. Her blue eyes were glazed over. She was staring into the middle distance, tired of everything. All this rush to make sandwiches and take in presents for a girl who was not year a year old.
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|
christening
humor
party
women
|
Ann Patchett |
|
cd89155
|
Women and cats do what they do; there is nothing a man can do about it
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|
women
|
Robert A. Heinlein |
|
cefe861
|
All we women have are our dreams - so of course we are dreamers.
|
|
inspirational
women
|
Miriam Toews |
|
cf3c127
|
Yeah, it's hard, baby It's hard right down to the bone I said Oh, it's hard baby It's hard right down to the very bone It's hard when you're a woman And you find yourself all alone I've been flapping and scrapping And running from door to door You know I've been flapping and scrapping, honey Running from door to door
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women
|
Walter Dean Myers |
|
a341398
|
Even the mild-mannered Sophia Western of Tom Jones and Richardson's annoyingly pious Clarissa Harlow distinguished themselves by saying no to the authority of their parents, their societies, and norms and demanding to marry the man they chose. Perhaps it was exactly because women were deprived of so much in their real lives that they became so subversive in the realm of fiction, refusing the authority imposed on them, breaking out of old structures, not submitting.
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|
women
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Azar Nafisi |
|
d02ddf1
|
Two women at the same event wearing the same outfit is a disaster. But two women at the same event singing the same song is a party. And two women at the same event talking about Doris from Fame is a friendship for life. Fill yourself with words, choruses, and heroes, like you're supposed to fill your wardrobe with shoes, brooches, and belts.
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|
empowerment
songs
women
|
Caitlin Moran |
|
a0f24a1
|
[The ideology of beauty] has grown strong to take over the work of social coercion that myths about motherhood, domesticity, chastity, and passivity, no longer can manage. It is seeking right now to undo psychologically and covertly all the good things that feminism did for women materially and overtly.
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|
feminism
women
|
Naomi Wolf |
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d33c315
|
Women aren't mean the way that men are. They're full of life and they're like God in that way.
|
|
femimism
god
religion
women
|
Heather O'Neill |
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9d48352
|
Women are human beings and have a right to control their own bodies. When that is denied, they are not free.
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|
freedom
human-beings
rights
women
|
George Lakoff |
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d5edfc0
|
... just one more reminder that the rules are always different for girls, no matter who they are and no matter what they do.
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|
girls
rights
rules
women
|
Roxane Gay |
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53dd3d5
|
... because the Legs wasn't fearful of heights or swimming in rough water or Death itself she wasn't afraid to risk making a fool of herself. Maybe you think that's something of no consequence but it isn't - for making a fool of yourself, offering yourself to others to laugh at, to jeer, that takes guts.
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|
feminism
feminist
women
women-s-rights
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Joyce Carol Oates |
|
211db09
|
"A soldier: "I know where heaven is and it's Lithuania ... The women are beautiful, pagan, with a practical view towards sex. Who says communism was bad? You're working three levels of advantages: you're a foreign male, you're a rich, exotic American, and their men are a bunch of drunken, criminal slobs."
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|
humor
lithuania
soldiers
women
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Robert D. Kaplan |
|
970fa4d
|
"... those selling abortion don't want them to have [the facts]," Virginia said heatedly. "Besides the Supreme Court doesn't agree with you. They judges seem to think we poor women would fall apart if we knew the facts, so they decided women don't have the right to know the full truth." She shook her head. "They've made it legal to withhold vital information, even when a woman requests it, for heaven's sake!"
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|
facts
supreme-court
truth
women
|
Francine Rivers |
|
dc07942
|
Poor human weakness! With your words, your languages, your sounds, you speak and stammer--you define God, the heaven and the earth, chemistry and philosophy, and you cannot express, with your language, all the joy that you derive from a naked woman--or a plum pudding.
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|
memoirs-of-a-madman
women
|
Gustave Flaubert |
|
561c74c
|
In the street below, a posh-looking drunk man is reading the card of a prostitute, Blue-Tacked up by a doorbell. He's examining it with all the forensic care I presume he puts into reading a wine list. 'What are you looking for?' I ask him, in my head. 'What woman will go best with your main course of terrible, horny loneliness?' I speculate, briefly, on how different the world would be if it were run by women. In that world, if you were a lonely, horny woman - as I am. As I always am - you'd see Blu-tacked postcards by Soho doorways that read, 'Nice man in cardigan, 24, will talk to you about The Smiths whilst making you cheese-on-toast + come to parties with you. Apply within.
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|
men
protitutes
women
|
Caitlin Moran |
|
93a9893
|
Es gibt zwei Sorten von Mannern. Die einen verstehen 'etwas von Frauen', die anderen sind solche, die einfach 'Frauen verstehen'. Ich weiss nicht, welche Sorte mir verdachtiger ist.
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|
empathy
gender
men
mysogyny
prejudice
understanding
women
|
Sten Nadolny |
|
dfbc457
|
Until her last moment on earth she was unaware that her irreparable fate as a disturbing woman was a daily disaster.
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|
women
women-on-pedestals
|
Gabriel García Márquez |
|
e1a40e6
|
"We come into this world through women: a woman who is spent, broken open, in awe. No wonder women have been worshiped ever since men first saw the crowning of a head, here, legs spread, a brushstroke of light. We are fire. We are water. We are earth. We are air. We are all things elemental. The world begins with "Yes," Changing women: we begin again like the moon. We can no longer deny the destiny that is ours by becoming women who wait: waiting to love, waiting to speak, waiting to act. This is not patience, but pathology. We are sensual, sexual beings, intrinsically bound to both heaven and earth, our bodies a hologram. In our withholding of power, we abrogate power, and that creates war. The Australian poet Judith Wright says, "Our dream was the wrong dream,
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|
war
women
|
Terry Tempest Williams |
|
79ecfbd
|
There are lot of things we don't want to know about the people we love.
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|
fight
life
love
women
|
Chuck Palahniuk |
|
e28bc31
|
We are not members, . . . we are commodities. . . . When our men have used us up so that we look sixty when we're thirty and our wombs have literally dropped out of our bodies onto our spotless kitchen floors, finished, they turn to our daughters.
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|
feminism
women
|
Miriam Toews |
|
e2e6353
|
"When you devote your life to "finding yourself," you probably won't."
|
|
feminist
self-help
self-improvement
women
womens-rights
|
Laura Schlessinger |
|
9304f83
|
"It was supposed to say "Great Artist" on my tombstone, but if I died right now it would say "such a good teacher/daughter/friend" instead; and what I really want to shout, and want in big letters on that grave, too, is FUCK YOU ALL."
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|
humour
humourosly-inspirational
strength
stress
women
|
Claire Messud |
|
75dc9b0
|
I like men very much, but sometimes ... they're so stupid, so stuffed with theories .... They go in straight lines only, and won't stop. It's dangerous to do that. It's dangerous to leave everything up to the men, you know. That's one reason why I'd like to go home, at least for a visit. To see what Elia with his theories, and my dear young Lev with his ideals, are up to. I get worried they'll go too fast and too straight and get us into a place we can't get out of, a trap. You see it seems to me that where men are weak and dangerous is in their vanity. A woman has a center, is a center. But a man isn't, he's a reaching out. So he reaches out and grabs things and piles them up around him and says, I'm this, I'm that, this is me, that's me, I'll prove that I am me! And he can wreck a lot of things, trying to prove it.
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|
men
straight-lines
women
|
Ursula K. Le Guin |
|
91c27f2
|
Many have argued with me that ambition is not the problem. Women are not less ambitious than men, they insist, but more enlightened with different and more meaningful goals. I do not dismiss or dispute this argument. There is far more to life than climbing a career ladder, including raising children, seeking personal fulfillment, contributing to society, and improving the lives of others. And there are many people who are deeply committed to their jobs but do not - and should not have to - aspire to run their organizations. Leadership roles are not the only way to have profound impact.
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|
women
|
Sheryl Sandberg |
|
07d573f
|
"He was savoring for the first time the ineffable subtleties of feminine refinement. Never had he encountered this grace of language, this quiet taste in dress, these relaxed, dove like postures. He marveled at the sublimity of her soul and at the lace on her petticoat. With her ever-changing moods, by turns brooding and gay, chattering and silent, fiery and casual, she aroused in him a thousand desires, awakening instincts or memories. She was the amoureuse of all the novels, the heroine of all the plays, the vague "she" of all the poetry books."
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|
love
women
|
Gustave Flaubert |
|
8f1dc67
|
Pulling away, I realized I had no place to go and nothing I wanted to do except satisfy my curiosity about a woman who was coming on like gangbusters and a big load of grief.
|
|
grief
lust
women
|
James Ellroy |
|
162cb0b
|
It was, she believed, a simple and unassailable fact of life that if a woman went to epic lengths to throw herself on the mercy of a man, the man would not, could not, refuse.
|
|
women
|
Nicholas Evans |
|
5b378c0
|
What women want is still what it's always been: either you or, more likely, not you.
|
|
preferences
truth-of-life
women
|
David Mitchell |
|
149a17b
|
It was October 2001 and I lived in New York City. I was twenty two. I, like many of my female friends, suffered from a strange combination of post 9/11 anxiety and height of Sex and the City anxiety. They are distinct and unnerving anxieties. The questions that ran through my ming were something like this: 'Should I keep a gas mask in my kitchen? Am I supposed to be able to afford Manolo Blahnik shoes? What is Barneys New York? You're trying to tell me a place called 'Barney's' is fancy?'Where are the fabulous gay friends that I was promised? Gay guys hate me! Is this anthrax or powdered sugar? Help! Help!
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|
sex-and-the-city
twenties
women
youth
|
Mindy Kaling |
|
5e3060f
|
Understand something people, we will be hated by many in the name of Christ, ridiculed, mocked, stoned, slaughtered. We will be fined, jailed and killed for our love for Christ. You are supposed to see better with your eyes today, how close this is happening, just prepare your heart and soul to be braver than Peter and not deny Christ in the moment your life might be in jeopardy for Him and what you believe. Apostle Pauls says to live is Christ to die is gain.
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|
depression
destiny
dream
dreams
earning
endtime
family
fantasy
feminism
fiction-food-for-though
forgiveness
freedom
friends
friendship
future
grief
heart
history
humanity-humour
imagination
inspirational-quotes
intelligence-is-attractive
joy
leadership
life-and-living-life-philosophy
life-quotes
literature
living
loss
love-quotes
magic-spirit
marriage
meditation-men
mind
money
motivation
motivational
motivational-quotes
music
nature
pain
passion-peace
patience
patience-johnson
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world
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Patience Johnson |
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No one had asked her to marry him, nor was there someone she wished to wed. Not that she did not enjoy the company of young men; She did. But her sharp tongue sliced through their egos and her intellectual thirst quickly soaked up what drops of knowledge they shed.
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history
women
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Janet Wallach |
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"You are the promise for a more equal world. So my hope for everyone here is that after you walk across this stage, after you get your diploma, after you go out tonight and celebrate hard - you then will lean way in to your career. You will find something you love doing and you will do it with gusto. Find the right career for you and go all the way to the top. As you walk off this stage today, you start your adult life. Start out by aiming high. Try - and try hard.
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empowerment
women
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Sheryl Sandberg |
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"I don't see why you're not just going for this.' Dovey looked her in the eyes, in the mirror. 'You a rocket. You go for thing, Dellarobia. That is you. When did you ever not?'
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gender
inequality
woman
women
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work
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Barbara Kingsolver |