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Nice people don't necessarily fall in love with nice people.
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co-dependence
divorce
idealism
idealists
marriage
narcissism
sociopathology
the-rules-of-attraction
victims-of-narcissists
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Jonathan Franzen |
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I believe you find life such a problem because you think there are good people and bad people. You're wrong, of course. There are, always and only, the bad people,
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good-and-evil
idealism
politics
vetinari
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Terry Pratchett |
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Idealisme adalah kemewahan terakhir yang hanya dimiliki oleh pemuda.
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idealism
inspirational
spirit
youth
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Tan Malaka |
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There was only one guy in the whole Bible Jesus ever personally promised a place with him in Paradise. Not Peter, not Paul, not any of those guys. He was a convicted thief, being executed. So don't knock the guys on death row. Maybe they know something you don't.
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criminals
god
good-and-bad
good-and-evil
heaven
idealism
jesus
life-lessons
prejudice
prejudices
religion
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Neil Gaiman |
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God save me from idealists.
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idealism
thomas-raith
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Jim Butcher |
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Why do we call all our generous ideas illusions, and the mean ones truths?
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idealism
illusions
truths
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Edith Wharton |
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They said that I should lose my ideals and begin to believe in the methods of practical politicians. Now, I have not lost my ideals in the least; my faith in fundamentals is exactly what it always was. What I have lost is my childlike faith in practical politics.
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idealism
ideals
politics
pragmatism
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G. K. Chesterton |
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What has our culture lost in 1980 that the avant-garde had in 1890? Ebullience, idealism, confidence, the belief that there was plenty of territory to explore, and above all the sense that art, in the most disinterested and noble way, could find the necessary metaphors by which a radically changing culture could be explained to its inhabitants.
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art
avant-garde
confidence
culture
david-foster-wallace
ebullience
idealism
irony
meta-modernism
metaphor
post-ironic
postmodernism
shia-lebouf
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Robert Hughes |
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At first I protested and rebelled against poetry. I was about to deny my poetic worlds. I was doing violence to my illusions with analysis, science, and learning Henry's language, entering Henry's world. I wanted to destroy by violence and animalism my tenuous fantasies and illusions and my hypersensitivity. A kind of suicide. The ignominy awakened me. Then June came and answered the cravings of my imagination and saved me. Or perhaps she killed me, for now I am started on a course of madness.
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idealism
imagination
poetry
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Anaïs Nin |
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People change, though, especially after they are dead.
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idealism
identity
impressions
redefine
redefining
reflection
reputation
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Margaret Atwood |
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You had to been there, kid. Everybody thinks now the Eisenhower years were so quaint and cute and boring, but all that had a price, just underneath was the pure terror. Midnight forever. If you stopped even for a minute to think, there it was and you could fall into it so easily. Some fell. Some went nuts, some even took their own lives.
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idealism
revisionism
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Thomas Pynchon |
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Times of great idealism carry equal chances for greater corruptibility.
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idealism
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Thomas Pynchon |
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History knows no scruples and no hesitation. Inert and unnering flows towards her goal. History knows herway. She makes no mistakes.
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idealism
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Arthur Koestler |
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I'm annoyed by those who love mankind but are discourteous to people.
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hypocrisy
idealism
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John Howard Griffin |
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How oft the warmth of the sun above Makes a pretty young girl dream of love.
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icarus
idealism
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gustave flaubert |
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Maybe that's why I tend to equate physical beauty with qualities with which it has absolutely nothing to do. I see a pretty mouth or a moody pair of eyes and imagine all sorts of deep affinities, private kinships. Never mind that half a dozen jerks are clustered round the same person, just because they've been duped by the same pair of eyes.
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attraction
beauty
idealism
love
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Donna Tartt |
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All writers are to some extent inventors, describing people as they would like to see them in life.
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disillusionment
evangelism
idealism
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Harold Bloom |
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I'm an idealist who has outgrown my idealism I have nothing to do the rest of my life but do it and the rest of my life to do it
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idealism
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Jack Kerouac |
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In the end idealism annoyed Bouvard. 'I don't want any more of it: the famous cogito is a bore. The ideas of things are taken for the things themselves. What we barely understand is explained by means of words that we do not understand at all! Substance, extension, force, matter and soul, are all so many abstractions, figments of the imagination. As for God, it is impossible to know how he is, or even if he is! Once he was the cause of wind, thunder, revolutions. Now he is getting smaller. Besides, I don't see what use he is.
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god
idealism
language
religion
spirituality
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Gustave Flaubert |
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I can't bear the thought that a man of lofty mind and heart begins with the ideal of the Madonna and ends with the ideal of Sodom.
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cynic
cynical
cynicism
disappointment
idealism
innocence
sodom
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Fyodor Dostoyevsky |
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We've already had , the friend of humanity. But the friend of humanity with shaky moral principles is the devourer of humanity, to say nothing of his conceit; for, wound the vanity of any one of these numerous friends of humanity, and he's ready to set fire to the world out of petty revenge--like all the rest of us, though, in that, to be fair; like myself, vilest of all, for I might well be the first to bring the fuel and run away myself.
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humanism
idealism
lebedyev
secular-humanism
vanity
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Fyodor Dostoyevsky |
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"When the business man rebukes the idealism of his office-boy, it is commonly in some such speech as this: "Ah, yes, when one is young, one has these ideals in the abstract and these castles in the air; but in middle age they all break up like clouds, and one comes down to a belief in practical politics, to using the machinery one has and getting on with the world as it is." Thus, at least, venerable and philanthropic old men now in their honoured graves used to talk to me when I was a boy.But since then I have grown up and have discovered that these philanthropic old men were telling lies. What has really happened is exactly the opposite of what they said would happen. They said that I should lose my ideals and begin to believe in the methods of practical politicians. Now, I have not lost my ideals in the least; my faith in fundamentals is exactly what it always was. What I have lost is my old childlike faith in practical politics. I am still as much concerned as ever about the Battle of Armageddon; but I am not so much concerned about the General Election. As a babe I leapt up on my mother's knee at the mere mention of it. No; the vision is always solid and reliable. The vision is always a fact. It is the reality that is often a fraud. As much as I ever did, more than I ever did, I believe in Liberalism. But there was a rosy time of innocence when I believed in Liberals."
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experience
idealism
politics
practicality
youth
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G.K. Chesterton |
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I wouldn't live in a colony like that, myself, for a thousand dollars an hour. I wouldn't want it next door. I'm not too happy it's within ten miles. Why? Because their soft-headedness irritates me. Because their beautiful thinking ignores both history and human nature. Because they'd spoil my thing with their thing. Because I don't think any of them is wise enough to play God and create a human society. Look. I like privacy, I don't like crowds, I don't like noise, I don't like anarchy, I don't even like discussion all that much. I prefer study, which is very different from meditation-not better, different. I don't like children who are part of the wild life. So are polecats and rats and other sorts of hostile and untrained vermin. I want to make a distinction between civilization and the wild life. I want a society that will protect the wild life without confusing itself with it.
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civilization
colonization
commune
crowds
history
human-nature
idealism
noise
privacy
society
study
wild
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Wallace Stegner |
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It's idealistic, it's for love and gentleness, it's close to nature, it hurts nobody, it's voluntary. I can't see anything wrong with any of that.' 'Neither can I. The only trouble is, this commune will be inhabited by and surrounded by members of the human race.
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crowds
humanity
idealism
individuality
privacy
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Wallace Stegner |
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"He wondered why he cared so desperately about the fate of his adopted country and others seemingly so little. "To see the character of the government and the country so sported with, exposed to so indelible a blot, puts my heart to the torture. Am I then more of an American than those who drew their first breath on American ground? Or what is it that thus torments me at a circumstance so calmly viewed by almost everybody else? Am I a fool, a romantic Quixote, or is there a constitutional defect in the American mind? Were it not for yourself and a few others, I . . . would say . . . there is something in our climate which belittles every animal, human or brute. . . . I disclose to you without reserve the state of my mind. It is discontented and gloomy in the extreme. I consider the cause of good government as having been put to an issue and the verdict against it."
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government
idealism
patriotism
politics
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Ron Chernow |
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As long as the vision of heaven is always changing, the vision of earth will be exactly the same. No ideal will remain long enough to be realized, or even partly realized. The modern young man will never change his environment; for he will always change his mind.
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heaven
idealism
progress
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G.K. Chesterton |
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He had always had a passion for life and the idealism he had come across seemed to him for the most part a cowardly shrinking from it. The idealist withdrew himself because he could not suffer the jostling of the human crowd; he had not the strength to fight and so called the battle vulgar; he was vain and since his fellows would not take him at his own estimate, consoled himself with despising his fellows. For Phillip, this type was Hayward, fair, languid, too fat now and rather bald, still cherishing the remains of his good looks and still delicately proposing to do exquisite things in the uncertain future; and at the back of this were whiskey and vulgar amours of the street.
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idealism
joie-de-vivre
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W. Somerset Maugham |
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Mankind's tragedy is that he can draw up blueprints for a better life but he cannot live up to them.
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disillusionment
idealism
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Barbara W. Tuchman |
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"You're the medium Weed and I use to communicate, that's all, this set of holes, pleasantly framed, this little femme scampering back and forth with scented messages tucked in her little secret places." She was too young then to understand what he thought he was offering her, a secret about power in the world. That's what he thought it was. Brock was young then too. She only took it as some parable about his feelings for her, one she didn't exactly understand but covered for with the wide invincible gaze practiced by many sixties children, meaning nearly anything at all, useful in a lot of situations, including ignorance."
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idealism
interesting-undercurrents
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Thomas Pynchon |
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Yet here was Morrie talking with the wonder of our college years, as if I'd simply been on a long vacation. ..What happened to me? I once promised I would never work for money, that I would join the Peace Corps, that I would live in beautiful, inspirational places.
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idealism
ideas
life
live
money
thoughts
work
young
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Mitch Albom |
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He had been present in their minds not as a man but as an idea.
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idealism
intimacy-with-god
prayer
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Barbara W. Tuchman |
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The author explains that some find recourse from injustice in literature and art but that these tend to deepen sensitivity to injustice rather than dull it.
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idealism
perspective
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John Howard Griffin |
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Yet here was Morrie talking with the wonder of our college years, as if I'd simply been on a long vacation. ..I once promised I would never work for money, that I would join the Peace Corps, that I would live in beautiful, inspirational places.
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idealism
ideas
life
live
thoughts
university
work
young
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Mitch Albom |
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The son of a bitch believes.
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humor
idealism
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Don DeLillo |
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The spectre of an absolute menace that requires absolute eradication binds leader and people in a hermetic utopian embrace, and the individual - always an annoyance to totality - ceases to exist.
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genocide
idealism
individual
individuality
leaders
racism
totalitarinism
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Philip Gourevitch |
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You're an idealist. The idealists are always the revolutionaries, the cat's paws. Then the realists consolidate, compromise and liquidate the opposition.
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crusade-to-maxis
dyal-travec
idealism
realism
revolution
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Jack Vance |