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0dd165c One simple glance can convey to your recipient that you are . . . * Present * Interested * Paying attention * Being respectful * Listening * Confident * Engaged * Caring * Dedicated * Appreciative * Empathetic * Focused * Supportive * Trustworthy * Acknowledging * Excited This list barely scratches the surface; however, it opens the conversation about how vital your eye contact is for making positive first impressions. body-language-quotes eye-contact-quotes law-of-attraction-quotes mirroring motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes reciprocity communication-skills Susan C. Young
05ac60f Our cultural lens is so much a part of us that we are not even aware of how obvious it is to others. Like the nose on your face, you may forget that it is there, but everyone else sees it. I can't look at you and not see your nose. positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes mindfulness Susan C. Young
b211f54 When speakers make eye contact with an audience, they will be perceived as being more prepared, more competent, confident, and trustworthy. Eye contact helps to relax the speaker and reminds them that their audience is made up of separate individuals who perceive things differently. Audience response is clearly seen in the expressions of their eyes. body-language-quotes eye-contact-quotes law-of-attraction-quotes mirroring motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes reciprocity communication-skills Susan C. Young
481250d Eye Contact Can Reveal if a Person is . . . * Shy or gregarious * Honest or deceitful * Confident or terrified * Interested or bored * Patient or irritated * Sincere or inauthentic * Organized or Unprepared * Attentive or distracted body-language-quotes eye-contact-quotes law-of-attraction-quotes mirroring motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes reciprocity communication-skills Susan C. Young
c138bf6 Being culturally aware and respectful of others' cultures will help you to keep the habit of making eye contact in context. As a matter of fact, in some parts of the world making eye contact can be construed as being exactly the opposite of what I am sharing in these pages. Making a great first impression is always about the specific environment and circumstance, isn't it? body-language-quotes eye-contact-quotes law-of-attraction-quotes mirroring motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes reciprocity communication-skills Susan C. Young
40a9a9d Whether it is in a sales situation, love at first sight, a husband and wife having an important conversation, a parent disciplining a child, or a teacher instructing her students, eye contact is a powerful body language for enriching engagement, focus, and communication. body-language-quotes eye-contact-quotes law-of-attraction-quotes mirroring motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes reciprocity communication-skills Susan C. Young
eb5e606 "I love acronyms, don't you? They are quick and easy tools for remembering important lessons that are too good to forget. The PEACE acronym goes straight to the heart of the matter for delivering "Service Beyond Self." When you do this one thing, you will increase your opportunities, earn loyalty and respect, and rock your first and last impressions. Persistently Exceed All Customer Expectations" -- positivity-quotes selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes Susan C. Young
eb0fbaf 7 Ways to Improve Eye Contact at any Time 1. Relax into the moment by smiling. 2. Practice making eye contact with people you trust, so that when you are with strangers, it is easier to form a connection. 3. When you feel uncomfortable, begin by looking at their mouth or forehead. 4. Lean in and show that you are interested and attentive. 5. Put a little space between you and the other person. 6. Remember that the other person may be feeling just as awkward. 7. Don't give them a blank stare throughout a conversation. Rather, practice gazing down or to the side every few moments so that you appear relaxed. body-language-quotes eye-contact-quotes law-of-attraction-quotes mirroring motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes reciprocity communication-skills Susan C. Young
f099785 We've all been in the middle of a conversation and the person with whom we are speaking breaks eye contact, appears distracted, glazes over, or looks elsewhere. Their simple eye movement can quickly break down communications by making us feel ignored, dismissed, or rejected. For some, it may be accidental and unintentional, while for others, avoiding eye contact is on purpose. body-language-quotes eye-contact-quotes law-of-attraction-quotes mirroring motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes reciprocity communication-skills Susan C. Young
9b9170e "There are times when eye contact can move to the dark side and become creepy, hostile, rude, or condescending. When it is overused or made for the wrong reasons, eye contact can make others feel uncomfortable and leave a terrible impression . . . * obsessive staring * mocking * too much intensity * inappropriate focus * averting eyes * obvious contempt * gawking, ogling * casting the "evil eye" * over-watching * intimidating * unwelcome looks * rolling the eyes" body-language-quotes eye-contact-quotes law-of-attraction-quotes mirroring motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes reciprocity communication-skills Susan C. Young
1665b44 When my son was a teenager, he would use the 'poker face' tactic when I was lecturing, nagging, or suggesting. As a parent, it was maddening because I could not read his reactions! His stoicism would sometimes deflate my efforts or make me surrender in laughter, changing the subject all together. expressions-of-emotion smiling-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes law-of-attraction-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
a29e3d7 "Many hospitality companies follow the "5 and 10 Rule," whereby when a customer is within ten feet of the employee, they should provide acknowledgement with eye contact and a genuine smile. When the customer is within five feet, it is encouraged to provide a warm welcome, sincere greeting, a friendly gesture, and offer to help, or to engage him or her in conversation." expressions-of-emotion emotional-intelligence-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes law-of-attraction-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
017942e What is acceptable on a personal level is very different from what is acceptable on a business level. When we utilize touch well, we can elevate our presentation, demonstrate respect, and convey confidence. However, when we use touch poorly, it can be disastrous, personally and professionally. handshake-quotes emotional-intelligence-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
2e5bd7e A strong handshake conveys confidence, clarity, strength, and intention. As with everything else in life, if it is overzealous, it may be seen as aggressive, arrogant, or dominating. A bone-crushing vice-grip is just plain obnoxious and one of the fastest ways to make someone angry. handshake-quotes emotional-intelligence-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
f413181 We must remember that some hand gestures which are commonly used and widely accepted in the U.S. might be considered rude or offensive in other countries. As always, I encourage you to be mindful of how and where you use certain gestures to assure you maintain your professionalism and positive impressions. posture-quotes expressions-of-emotion susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes law-of-attraction-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
c316799 It is through these facial expressions that we write and feel our life story, create lifelong social habits--through which we are received and perceived by a multitude of others. When you want to make a positive first impression, let your face know! expressions-of-emotion smiling-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes law-of-attraction-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
66a8c5c Mirroring provides social cues through body language and behavior which enable us to develop more empathy and understanding for others. neuro-linguistic-programming mindset-quotes law-of-attraction-quotes mirroring motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes reciprocity communication-skills Susan C. Young
f6740b7 Ask any person trained in sign language and they will confirm the fact that you can talk with your hands. Your hand gestures communicate for you and are an integral part of your language. While some people may come by hand gestures naturally, you can learn to be even more expressive to get your points across--and to be memorable. posture-quotes expressions-of-emotion susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes law-of-attraction-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
8afc8c8 Every one of us, at some time or another, has allowed fear to prevent us from living our best possible life. The first step in conquering our fears is to identify and confront them. Among the most common are: * Failure * Success * Being rejected * Looking stupid * Financial insecurity * Falling on your face * Being vulnerable * Appearing weak or unhealthy * Exposing your secrets * Being alone or unloved * Upsetting the status quo * Disappointing others conquer-fear emotional-intelligence-quotes positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
8ffc737 "I was once hired by an organization to deliver a workshop on networking. The goal was to provide their engineers with tools and strategies for expanding their circles of influence--to foster innovation, collaboration, and teambuilding. One of the engineers raised her hand in the middle of the program and bluntly said, "I'm happy with the people in my life and don't care to add any more." I respect and appreciate her position and have sometimes felt the same way. But, as long as we are alive, we will meet, greet, and interact with new people. Even if we are not inviting them into our personal lives, being socially brave will open new doors which may have remained closed otherwise." take-the-initiative emotional-intelligence-quotes positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
4789acb To cultivate bravery and courage, avoid the bystander effect. Rather than standing on the sidelines watching other people achieve their goals, jump in with both feet and get involved. conquer-fear emotional-intelligence-quotes positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
5028add Regardless of the trends we see in the deterioration of morality, respect, and values, wise people will still strive to take the high road to rise above the ever-increasing rudeness and stand apart from the crowd. etiquette-quotes good-manners-quotes emotional-intelligence-quotes positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes Susan C. Young
73f7d0c "I remember hearing years ago about a centenarian being interviewed on her birthday. She was asked, "Throughout your life, you have witnessed amazing change and innovation. The past one-hundred years have brought the inventions of the car, television, air conditioning, and microwave ovens. What is the most extraordinary change you have seen in your lifetime?" Without missing a beat, she replied, "That a teenager can say "suck" in front of their parents and get away with it!" While cultural norms may have changed with the times, being considerate of fellow human beings is not an antiquated notion; its time hasn't ended. Quite the opposite is true. In our world today, kindness and politeness are needed more than ever." etiquette-quotes good-manners-quotes emotional-intelligence-quotes positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes Susan C. Young
52d271e The elegance of etiquette is a timeless expression of class which transcends social status, demographics, educational level, and ethnicity. Good manners say more about you than the person who is on the receiving end. etiquette-quotes good-manners-quotes emotional-intelligence-quotes positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes Susan C. Young
43af495 When you see someone smile, does it naturally make you want to smile back? When you are irritable, do you find that people mirror your irritability? When someone yawns around you, do automatically do the same? When you hear someone celebrating, do you feel inclined to join in and celebrate too? Your responses are not forced, but instinctual and empathetic. neuro-linguistic-programming mindset-quotes law-of-attraction-quotes mirroring motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes reciprocity communication-skills Susan C. Young
1217a4a Early in my sales career, various sales trainers taught our teams how to use matching and mirroring to build rapport and earn trust with our clients. When done well, it would inevitably help us improve customer service and closing ratios. It was not encouraged as a deceptive sales practice to manipulate, but rather a subtle way to make a great first impression and connect on a meaningful level. selling-success-quotes neuro-linguistic-programming law-of-attraction-quotes mirroring motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes reciprocity communication-skills Susan C. Young
4d99e5d As our society has become more casual, the line between a person's personal life and professional life has become blurred, especially with the advent of social media. Personal information, your manners (or lack thereof), opinions, and pictures of your private life are available for all the world to see. HR directors, recruiters, and potential employers will often ascertain a person's manners and moral compass from their online presence. etiquette-quotes good-manners-quotes emotional-intelligence-quotes positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes Susan C. Young
32d99b5 You would be surprised how even the simplest of smiles can ease a social situation, encourage another, remove barriers, and dissolve differences. It is not only a gift to the recipient, but you will receive affirming returns on your investment. expressions-of-emotion smiling-quotes susanspeaks-com law-of-attraction-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
010b0ca "Smiling reduces blood pressure by lowering the stress-inducing hormones, such as adrenaline and cortisol. As my mother, who is now in her eighties, navigates the challenges of aging, her mantra has become, "Keep moving and keep smiling." She has observed the rapid decline of her friends who haven't. She is striving to stay strong, happy, and vital; her desire to smile is helping her to live a healthier, more satisfying, and longer life." expressions-of-emotion smiling-quotes susanspeaks-com body-language-quotes law-of-attraction-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
9b10e6d How do you enter a room? How do you walk into a job interview? How do you approach a sales prospect for the first time? Accomplished leaders know that the way they make an entrance can project their confidence and set the tone for their interaction with others. Use your poise, postures, and gestures to make it grand. posture-quotes expressions-of-emotion susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes law-of-attraction-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
2d9fae1 It has been said that poise is our highest state of consciousness. It reflects your presence, composure, balance, gratitude, discretion, and self-respect. Whether a man or a woman, a poised person carries within themselves an elegant air of dignity and grace. Their personal brand is polished and purposeful. posture-quotes expressions-of-emotion susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes law-of-attraction-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
a72ab86 A smile is one of the most powerful and important body language cues we share with others--and as such a heartfelt emotion, it's impossible to express its effect on others in words. expressions-of-emotion smiling-quotes susanspeaks-com body-language-quotes law-of-attraction-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
533fd76 Your encounters will be more successful when you slow down, pay attention, and become more mindfully aware of the world around you. Heightening your awareness in your social, situational, contextual, orientational, and cultural scenarios will improve your agility as you adapt to new social settings. positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes mindfulness Susan C. Young
00e97f5 "One of the speaking programs I deliver is entitled, "Service with a Smile . . . How to Create a Sensational Customer Experience." Smiling is at the heart of my teaching because when employees smile while delivering service, it tells the guest/client/customer . . . You matter. You are important. We are glad you are here. We appreciate your business." expressions-of-emotion smiling-quotes susanspeaks-com body-language-quotes law-of-attraction-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
926a379 Proxemics is the study of human use of space and the effects that population density has on behavior, social interaction, and communication. Imagine invisible bubbles around every person that provides each of us with comfort zones for social engagement and interaction. expressions-of-emotion emotional-intelligence-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes law-of-attraction-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
d0d22f8 Physical touch is one of my primary love languages. For those of us who share this love language, touching is an endearing gesture of affection, appreciation, and connection. It is not intended to be inappropriate in any way when we hug you upon meeting, pat your back, or squeeze your arm. For us, it is an enthusiastic demonstration of friendship. However, there are many people who do NOT like to be touched--men or women. In spite of our good intentions, touching can make others feel awkward, offended, and in the worst-case scenario, violated. It is crucial to be vigilant and socially aware enough that you can read people's cues to know when to pull back and contain yourself. handshake-quotes emotional-intelligence-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
edbc973 Smiling is one of your most powerful non-verbal behaviors. People do read a book by its cover and these expressions provide glimpses into what they will find inside. expressions-of-emotion smiling-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes law-of-attraction-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
905d3fa What are you projecting? How are you showing up? Are you aware of how your expressions are impacting your communication with others? expressions-of-emotion smiling-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes law-of-attraction-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
012c026 At any moment, you can use your face to open doors of opportunity if it demonstrates interest, enthusiasm, respect, understanding, delight, agreement, and more. expressions-of-emotion smiling-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes law-of-attraction-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
f31ec23 Look at the single words below; wear these emotions on your face for just a moment. Try them on for size and note how they make you feel: Happiness. Fear. Anger. Sadness. Contempt. Surprise. Disgust. These are the basic human emotions which communicate with clear understanding across cultures, languages, and countries. In other words, a smile naturally conveys happiness and a frown naturally conveys sadness, no matter where you may be using your passport. expressions-of-emotion smiling-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes law-of-attraction-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
f1589e4 Situational awareness enables you to observe your periphery with a clear vision and emotional foresight, which may inevitably keep you socially, physically, or professionally out of harm's way. Connect the dots. positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes mindfulness Susan C. Young
2797113 When you enter a room, a social situation, or a business meeting, be mindful of cues; read between the lines to better understand people and events. What do these things tell you? positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes mindfulness Susan C. Young
a58f824 "Being "appropriate" means being suitable, fitting, relevant, or proper in a situation. What may be appropriate in one circumstance can be terribly inappropriate in another. How does one discern? Sometimes it is simply a matter of maturity and experience." positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes mindfulness Susan C. Young
8e46ff9 What is easy for one person may be terrifying for another. Not all people have developed an unshakable confidence to kick butt and conquer. How can meek and quiet wallflowers, both women and men, join the ranks of the risk takers and event shakers? The first step is to ask yourself how you may be feeling stuck and then get moving. take-the-initiative emotional-intelligence-quotes positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
50761ee We will judge others based on their behaviors with little to no understanding or regard for their beliefs or values--standards we may not know, nor typically see. When we do this, things can be taken completely out of context because we are assessing their behavior against our expectations, which are produced from our own personal value system. positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes mindfulness Susan C. Young
e2e3dea Conversation starters. Icebreakers. Openers. However you choose to label them, that moment when the first words come out of your mouth can make or break the outcome of your entire conversation. Been there, done that, right? healthy-conversation positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes Susan C. Young
fce0eca Inversely, when you are in a small group of people or friends and you don't make the effort to speak to everyone, it may be considered as rude. Rather than run the risk of people feeling neglected or dismissed, make the effort to Mix, Mingle, and Glow . . . selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes networking Susan C. Young
8143ee5 Speaking on Stage Speakers and presenters have only a few short seconds before their audience members begin forming opinions. True professionals know that beginning with impact determines audience engagement, the energy in the room, positive feedback, the quality of the experience, and whether or not their performance will be a success. A few of the popular methods which you can use to break the ice from the stage are: * Using music. * Using quotes. * Telling a joke. * Citing statistics. * Showing a video. * Asking questions. * Stating a problem. * Sharing acronyms. * Sharing a personal story. * Laying down a challenge. * Using analogies and comparisons. * Taking surveys; raise your hand if . . . Once you refine, define, and discover great conversation starters, you will enjoy renewed confidence for communicating well with new people. healthy-conversation positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes public-speaking Susan C. Young
9ba978a To cultivate bravery and courage, start small. Taking small, consistent steps for calculated risks will help you test your footing. Once you begin enjoying mini-victories, you will be able to build upon your small successes to escalate momentum and strengthen your courage to take bigger ones. conquer-fear emotional-intelligence-quotes positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
5baeed3 "To cultivate bravery and courage, may the Force be with you. Whether you fortify yourself with a positive mental attitude, affirmations, faith in God, prayer, and meditation, or an innate sense of personal destiny, you have the power to summon your courage and be brave. "Make it so, Number One!" conquer-fear emotional-intelligence-quotes positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
379cf1c Your life is happening in the NOW, yet the present moment is often squandered by your thinking about what has happened in the past or may happen in the future. selling-success positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes networking engagement Susan C. Young
48f2af4 Take the initiative with deliberate steps to be a polite person: 1. Say please when you are making a request or asking for help. 2. Say thank you when a person has said or done something kind or at your request. 3. Ask permission before borrowing something that's not yours. 4. Hold doors open for the next person coming through. 5. Offer a helping hand before being asked. 6. Let the people exiting an elevator step out before you step in. 7. Be kind to people who are in service positions. 8. Keep your negative opinions close to your vest and out of earshot where your words might hurt or offend. etiquette-quotes good-manners-quotes emotional-intelligence-quotes positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes Susan C. Young
ac21219 "Take the initiative with deliberate steps to be a polite person: 1. Cover your mouth when you cough or sneeze. 2. Reciprocate a thoughtful word or a good deed in kind. 3. Say "excuse me" when you bump into someone, unintentionally violate someone's space, or need to get someone's attention. 4. Apologize when you've made a mistake or are in the wrong. 5. Live by the "Golden Rule" and treat others the way you would like to be treated. 6. When dining at home or in a restaurant, wait until everyone is served before eating your meal. 7. Acknowledge notable events like birthdays, weddings, and anniversaries. 8. Reply to invitations, regardless of whether you will be able to attend. 9. Acknowledge and show gratitude for gifts and gestures of hospitality. 10. Put things back where they belong. Leave the world a better place than how you found it." etiquette-quotes good-manners-quotes emotional-intelligence-quotes positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes Susan C. Young
e4d4312 All manners are not created equal and can conjure different interpretations based on the environment in which they are being displayed. etiquette-quotes good-manners-quotes emotional-intelligence-quotes positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes Susan C. Young
20a8329 What is appropriate in one setting may be entirely inappropriate in another. How you behave at a football game is different than how you behave at your sister's wedding. How you interact with your closest friends will be different than how you engage with your boss. etiquette-quotes good-manners-quotes emotional-intelligence-quotes positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes Susan C. Young
2249def "For more than forty years, Judith Martin has inspired the world with advice on etiquette excellence, proper behavior, and codes of conduct through her critically acclaimed newspaper column, "Miss Manners." In an interview for her book, Miss Manners Minds Your Business, Mrs. Martin reminds us that "When you go to work, you want a degree of professionalism which does not involve hearing about all of the sordid details of a person's love life. We are not necessarily all friends, but have a job that needs to be done. A work friend is not always a social friend. One requires distance while the other embraces intimacy." etiquette-quotes good-manners-quotes emotional-intelligence-quotes positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes Susan C. Young
9549b6f Wouldn't it be wonderful to be a natural communicator and know exactly what, when, why, and how to speak so that your message is conveyed and received as you intend? selling-success positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes Susan C. Young
3f2b83d Communicating negatively (gossiping, bragging, bullying, and criticizing) can be disastrous to your reputation, cause you to lose the respect of others, and leave a terrible impression. Why leave this essential expertise up to chance when it can make or break the success of your relations? selling-success positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes Susan C. Young
c6bcadf Mindfulness is a quiet strength and deeply rooted value which many other cultures understand and often practice better than we do. It can be puzzling to people from other countries as to why Americans are so task-driven and action-oriented. positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes mindfulness Susan C. Young
883d080 "13 Simple Ways to Deliver Service Beyond Self 1. Make it Easy for People to Do Business with You. 2. Be an Awesome, Sincere Listener. 3. Listen to Customers' Words and tone of voice, body language, and how they feel. Ask questions, listen, and meet them on their level. Explain, guide, educate, assist and do what is necessary to help them get the information they need to fully understand regarding their question or issue. 4. Show Enthusiasm. Greet customers with genuine interest. Give them your best. Think, act, and talk with positive enthusiasm and you will attract positive results. Your attitude is contagious! 5. Identify and Anticipate Needs. Most customer needs are more emotional rather than logical. 6. Under Promise & Over Deliver. Apply the principle of "Service Beyond Self" . . . give more than expected. Meet and exceed their expectations. If you can't serve their needs, connect them with whoever can. 7. Make them Feel Important. Our deepest desire is to feel important. People rarely care how much you know until they know how much you care. Use their names, find ways to compliment them--and be sincere. 8. Take Responsibility for their Satisfaction. Do whatever is necessary to help them solve their problems. Let them know that if they can't find answers to their questions to come back to you for help. 9. Treat your TEAM well. Fellow colleagues are your internal customers and need a regular dose of appreciation. Thank them and find ways to let them know how important they are. Treat your colleagues with respect; chances are they will have a higher regard for customers. 10. Choose an Attitude of Gratitude. Gratitude changes your perspective and helps you appreciate the good rather than simply taking it for granted. 11. Perform, Provide and Follow-Up. Always perform or provide your service in a spirit of excellence and integrity. If you say you're going to do something--DO IT! There is tremendous value in being a resource for your customer. If you can help them to succeed, they are more likely to help you succeed. 12. Use Gracious Words. "Thank you, thank you very much." -- positivity-quotes selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes Susan C. Young
207e071 Initiative is The Start of All Good Things. Your ship will never come in if you don't send any out. Have you ever found yourself dreaming, hoping, and waiting passively for things to change or for your life to get better? selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes initiative Susan C. Young
a44ef3d Do you ever sit back and wonder how and why other people are so successful, productive, or accomplished? What is the driver that inspires them to go for the gold, seize opportunities, and make things happen? selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes initiative Susan C. Young
d79b73f ASK YOURSELF: Are your facial expressions in alignment with your true personality? Are they working on your behalf to project the best impression possible? expressions-of-emotion smiling-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes law-of-attraction-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
75b1b80 Social orientation can be used to your advantage to make a great first impression; however, it can also backfire when we violate the boundaries of someone else's personal space. Awareness of space, orientation, and proximity is a powerful tool for your relationship toolbox. posture-quotes expressions-of-emotion susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes law-of-attraction-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
098e788 BE HERE NOW Do you feel fully present and engaged in the way you live your life? Do you immerse yourself in the moment or do you strive and struggle as you negotiate the distractions of our modern world? It's easy to have blind spots regarding how you are showing up for life when you are consistently bombarded with distractions, commitments, and personal preoccupations, isn't it? engaged selling-success positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes networking Susan C. Young
9c8f1aa Add a fresh twist of creativity to make a stellar impression which people won't soon forget. Granted, your venue will determine how far you can stretch and how creative you can be. Making small tweaks to your conversation starters can make a memorable impact! healthy-conversation positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes Susan C. Young
d38bc78 As a professional speaker, Susanne travels all over the country and practically lives on airplanes. One day as she entered security to board yet another flight, she was struck by the poise, posture, and gestures of the man in front of her in line. As a communications expert, she observed his excellent presentation with appreciation and awe. The gentleman was dressed impeccably in a crisp white shirt and well-fitted suit and he sported a new haircut. She watched him as he removed his flawless leather belt, his gold money clip, and well-polished shoes. (And of course, he had Listerine in a baggie to ensure fresh breath!) The care with which he dismantled was impressive. His poised and fluid movements were deliberate and respectful of his personal possessions. As he regrouped and proceeded down the concourse, she was struck by how his stance and carriage intrigued and impressed her. His projection of elegance created a presence of pride and dignity. He left a remarkable impression. posture-quotes expressions-of-emotion susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes law-of-attraction-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
5f2cf8b High fives and fist bumps have become the popular alternatives to traditional handshakes, especially among the younger generations. As a new social norm, they are used as a greeting, an approval, an acknowledgement, a celebration, and a gesture of understanding. High fives and fist bumps are also viewed as a healthier alternative to traditional handshakes because they don't spread germs. handshake-quotes emotional-intelligence-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
86ca438 Being 100 percent in the moment and focusing on the person you're with is one of the finest compliments you can offer. One of the most respectful and considerate things you can do for another is to truly be with them in the here and now. selling-success positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes networking Susan C. Young
5674967 Service Beyond Self. Value others; have a heart of service and generosity. Rise above self-interest. Ask what you can do for others, not what they can do for you. selling-success positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes networking Susan C. Young
b3d61b1 "Rather than being green with envy, realize that a dramatic difference between the "haves" and "have-nots" is the "do" and "do-nots." If you are seeking positive change and transformation, what can you begin to do?" -- selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes initiative Susan C. Young
89968b0 Do you attend networking events to give out as many cards as possible or is it your intention to deliver something of value? When you are busy charging ahead with your own agenda, you're not meeting the needs of anyone but yourself--and it's obvious! positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes mindfulness Susan C. Young
424a23a Introduce Yourself. Being confident and outgoing will empower you to approach new people who might be reluctant to take the first step. It is amazing how many people we come in contact with yet pass like ships in the night without any engagement or connection. selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes initiative Susan C. Young
521ff1e Why Do Some People NOT Take Initiative? * They have a FEAR of . . . rejection, looking stupid, failing, criticism, getting out of their comfort zone, or imposing on other people. * They are unmotivated or uninspired. * They get stuck in negativity, confusion, stress, or doubt. * They don't want to upset the apple cart or the status quo. * They are lazy, disengaged, or indifferent. * They have LACK of . . . energy, desire, confidence, self-esteem, skills, creativity, imagination, connections, resources, education. selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes initiative Susan C. Young
f3fd8f6 The first step in getting unstuck and moving forward is to examine what is holding you back from taking action. The power is yours to set your intention and take the action needed to create the life you desire. You are in control of your initiative--be proactive. selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes initiative Susan C. Young
6f03886 Prepare yourself well by learning how to be more mindful in each interaction. The effort you put forth to gain insight will empower you to make a better impression on others, while enriching your opportunities to build enlightened, trusted relationships. positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes mindfulness Susan C. Young
be9a0e7 "Mingle * Be the connector--introduce people to each other who may not otherwise connect. * Be a conversation fire starter; point out what people have in common as you are introducing them. * Seek out the folks who may appear to be shy, or awkward, or wallflowers. Find ways to build trust and comfort. Engage them with a kind word to pull them out of their shell. * Arrive early and stay late; connect with people before and after your event. * Stretch beyond your comfort zone to speak with, sit with, and start conversations with people whom you do not know. * Offer to refill someone's drink or clear their plate. * Encourage introductions: "There is someone whom I would love for you to meet . . ." selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes networking Susan C. Young
913edf4 "You're Not Alone When I was speaking to thousands of teenagers a year, I interviewed my niece Sarah Jane, who was a high school student at the time. I asked, "What do you think would be helpful for kids to know that would make a difference in their lives." She said, "I was terrified, but I put on a happy face so that no one else would know. What I didn't realize is that everyone else was as scared as I was." Knowing others may feel the same way as you can make social situations feel less awkward. When approaching new people, find ways to put those at ease who might be reluctant to approach us otherwise. Where Can You Begin to Mix, Mingle & Glow?" selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes networking Susan C. Young
e238235 Glow What can you do and how can you be in order to bring out the best in others and truly help them shine? * Be complimentary; say something nice. * Be a great listener and make them feel like you are hanging on every word. * Create enthusiasm and anticipation for the person they are getting ready to meet. * Act as you have personally invited them to the party and help ensure they have a wonderful time. * Give people an experience, not just a conversation selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes networking Susan C. Young
35969fd "When you are "off somewhere else" people notice. Have you found yourself in conversations in which you're so concerned about what you are going to say next, that you don't even hear what the other person is saying? Guilty as charged, right?" selling-success positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes networking engagement Susan C. Young
56ebb7b A lack of engagement sends the message that you may not care, are not interested, are too busy, or that the other person does not matter to you. Even though this is rarely your intention, it can happen when you're not being mindful and deliberate to connect in the moment. selling-success positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes networking engagement Susan C. Young
890aabc Why Polish the Gold? * It builds your confidence when you realize that your words have power and can positively influence. * As you seek to find the good in others, you will enjoy the ripple effect reminder for finding the good in yourself. * It makes a great ice-breaker to begin a conversation. * It helps you meet new people and make new friends. * It strengthens your relationships and builds mutual admiration. * It brings more happiness and joy into your life. * A little praise goes a long way to make others happy. find-the-best-in-others how-to-give-a-compliment polish-the-gold positivity-quotes positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes Susan C. Young
09b200a "Service [sur-vis] noun 1. the act of helping, aiding, or doing work for another. "Does this dictionary definition sound simplistic? Well, it is foundational to delivering world-class, game-changing service. Did you notice it didn't mention you? True service takes the focus completely off you and devotes it entirely to the needs of another person." find-the-best-in-others how-to-give-a-compliment polish-the-gold positivity-quotes positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes Susan C. Young
85867f8 "At a Chamber of Commerce networking breakfast, two of my friends and I were standing in a circle talking. A stranger approached, interrupted our little reunion, and gave each of us her card. She then began talking about herself and her business without a hint of social awareness, or care about her interruption. She even had the tactless gall to ask us for referrals. When she left our small circle, we looked at each other and laughed, "What was that?" -- positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes mindfulness Susan C. Young
a4f43c8 "Be the "Liker" "If you want to be liked, BE THE LIKER!" This was some of the best advice my enlightened mother ever gave me. Throughout my childhood, teen years, and adulthood, this golden nugget of simple wisdom empowered me to take personal responsibility for developing friendships. When you want to reach out, make new friends, and increase your likeability factor, step up and "like" others first. They will usually mirror your initiative and like you back." selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes initiative Susan C. Young
b4c22a9 Take the initiative to introduce yourself. One morning I was sitting on a bike in a spinning class at my gym. There was a lady whom I did not know sitting on the bike next to me. As we waited for the instructor, I decided to break the silence and start a conversation. I took the initiative to introduce myself and within a few short minutes, I knew her children's names, how long she had lived in Madison, which exercise classes she preferred, and where they went for Christmas. When the class was over, I confirmed that I remembered her name correctly, reminded her of mine and shared that it was a true pleasure meeting her. A simple introduction turned a stranger into a fresh and delightful new acquaintance. selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes initiative Susan C. Young
2667476 "Extend Invitations "How many times have you sat at home alone feeling jealous or sad that you were not invited to a party or out to dinner? You may have seen people having fun on Facebook and wondered what it would take to be included next time. And when you don't feel included, it can leave you feeling rejected, dismissed, lonely and excluded. It does not have to be this way. Why do we wait for others to do the inviting? You can change your social life instantly by taking the initiative to reach out and connect with someone." selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes initiative Susan C. Young
719d2ef Sociologically speaking, as Americans we often lack social, cultural, and mindful awareness. We hear the stories of how our arrogance has been known to offend, confuse, and alienate people from other cultures. Arrogance is the thief of mindfulness and it happens from both directions. positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes mindfulness Susan C. Young
2f0e0c0 "The road to hell" (in the metaphorical sense, of course), occurs when the people who have good intentions fail to act, follow-through, or live up to their promises, all of which creates stress, frustration, and disappointment. People can be earnest and well-meaning, but their words become hollow when actions do not follow their words. By setting good intentions and taking deliberate action to back intentions up, you can transform your results." selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes initiative Susan C. Young
90da781 4 Steps for Understanding Each Other 1. Identify your beliefs and core values; ask how they determine your behaviors and habits. 2. Realize with whom you are interacting and try to identify how their values are explaining their behavior. 3. Assume positive intent. 4. Seek ways to adapt your behavior to help bridge the cultural gap. positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes mindfulness Susan C. Young
e3784c6 "Employee Engagement "Employee Engagement" has become a very hot topic in recent years. The escalating statistics for disengagement are alarming. In 2015, the Gallup Polls' "The State of the American Workforce" survey found that only 32.5 percent of the U.S. Workforce is engaged and committed where they work, and 54 percent say they would consider leaving their companies if they could receive a 20 percent raise elsewhere. Disengagement not only lowers performance, morale, and productivity, but it's costing employers billions of dollars a year. It's a growing problem, which has many companies baffled." selling-success positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes networking Susan C. Young
9e81199 Be Brave. Bravery takes fortitude--put yourself on the line, even if you risk failing, falling, being embarrassed, or looking stupid--if being brave were easy, more people would be. Just try it! selling-success positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes networking Susan C. Young
7d922f7 Manners Matter. Courteous behavior is the hallmark of healthy relations and human interaction. Manners ensure you will be more respected, admired, and appreciated. Thank you! selling-success positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes networking Susan C. Young
ad9235f Polish the Gold. Be an optimist; look for the best in others, the best in situations, and focus on what is working rather than what is not. It's golden! selling-success positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes networking Susan C. Young
74da28e First, take complete responsibility for your life and current outcomes. Then take proactive steps for the necessary action to move forward in your desired direction. This personal choice is at the heart of your achieving impressive results. Taking initiative is the start of all good things born from action . . . * Growth * Creativity * Enterprise * Invention * Success * Solutions * Accomplishment * Development * Positive Change * Transformation selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes initiative Susan C. Young
2a997f1 "Just Show Up. Guess what? Being in the right place at the right time can't happen without your first showing up. Companies have been started, marriages made, friendships found, careers created, and opportunities seized by those people who just showed up. Whether through coincidence, serendipity, strategy, or fate, taking the initiative to show up will reward you in ways which never would have occurred if you hadn't. Just by showing up, you have taken a proactive step to impress people by being there" in person" and demonstrating your willingness to be involved." selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes initiative Susan C. Young
d8b2e2e Have you ever had a friend in need whose only request was the gift of your presence? When major life changes happen or tragedies hit, you can find out very quickly who your real friends are because they are the ones who SHOW UP. selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes initiative Susan C. Young
232d2e2 Imagine how many new friends you would make, how much new business you could create, and how much fun you could have by simply taking the initiative to be the inviter. selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes initiative Susan C. Young
fec600d Imagine how many new friends you would make, how much new business you could create, and how much fun you could have by simply taking the initiative to be the inviter. Try it today. Welcome new relationships into your life that would never have occurred otherwise. selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes initiative Susan C. Young
5c70dc6 To gain greater understanding, clarity, and awareness, you must become aware of your values and beliefs. Think of a triangle or an iceberg. Below the waterline, your beliefs and your values build the foundation for your behavior. positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes mindfulness Susan C. Young
288753b "I disagree with the adage, "The road to hell is paved with good intentions." Good intentions are powerful mindsets which will drive your actions to accomplish the results you want. Setting good intentions sets you up for success by providing you with a vision and a plan to "get 'er done" and make it happen!" selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes initiative Susan C. Young
3fbe66c Navigating relationships within our own culture can be challenging enough. When diverse cultures are involved, however, a huge potential for misunderstanding, disrespect, miscommunication, and intolerance is present. positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes mindfulness Susan C. Young
17249cd ASK YOURSELF: Do you remember a gracious hostess, an engaging guest, or someone who worked the room like a honey bee in a flower garden? They would glide from one person to the next, spreading good will and cheer, being the glue that brought everyone together with ease. selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes networking Susan C. Young
e47e416 "Mix * Be situationally aware and pay attention to the people in the room. * Introduce guests or help strike up a conversation. * Be the one who takes the initiative and makes and effort to "work the room." * Make eye contact and acknowledge others with a smile and friendly gestures. * Greet people as they arrive, even if it is not your expected role. * Spot the people who may be first timers or guests and help them feel more welcomed and embraced." selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes networking Susan C. Young
36e184b "These qualities make a great impression on your boss, your teams, and your customers. You will be more respected, noticed, and appreciated in the process. As your own "CEO of Self," projecting this positive level of engagement furthers your own personal reputation and interests for healthy communication, networking, and positive first impressions. An added bonus is that YOU will receive great benefits from putting forth this type of effort. Whether it be self-esteem, new training, cooperation, experience, or a raise or bonus, the rewards are extensive and many." selling-success positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes networking Susan C. Young
46a4b8b To Move from Woe to Wow with an Unhappy Customer. . . Thank the Customer! * Thank them for bringing his or her concerns to your attention. * Treat them with respect and empathy. * Avoid further inconvenience to them. positivity-quotes selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes Susan C. Young
40bc664 "12 Simple Ways to Deliver Service Beyond Self 1. Make it Easy for People to Do Business with You. 2. Be an Awesome, Sincere Listener. 3. Listen to Customers' Words and tone of voice, body language, and how they feel. Ask questions, listen, and meet them on their level. Explain, guide, educate, assist and do what is necessary to help them get the information they need to fully understand regarding their question or issue. 4. Show Enthusiasm. Greet customers with genuine interest. Give them your best. Think, act, and talk with positive enthusiasm and you will attract positive results. Your attitude is contagious! 5. Identify and Anticipate Needs. Most customer needs are more emotional rather than logical. 6. Under Promise & Over Deliver. Apply the principle of "Service Beyond Self" . . . give more than expected. Meet and exceed their expectations. If you can't serve their needs, connect them with whoever can. 7. Make them Feel Important. Our deepest desire is to feel important. People rarely care how much you know until they know how much you care. Use their names, find ways to compliment them--and be sincere. 8. Take Responsibility for their Satisfaction. Do whatever is necessary to help them solve their problems. Let them know that if they can't find answers to their questions to come back to you for help. 9. Treat your TEAM well. Fellow colleagues are your internal customers and need a regular dose of appreciation. Thank them and find ways to let them know how important they are. Treat your colleagues with respect; chances are they will have a higher regard for customers. 10. Choose an Attitude of Gratitude. Gratitude changes your perspective and helps you appreciate the good rather than simply taking it for granted. 11. Perform, Provide and Follow-Up. Always perform or provide your service in a spirit of excellence and integrity. If you say you're going to do something--DO IT! There is tremendous value in being a resource for your customer. If you can help them to succeed, they are more likely to help you succeed. Use Gracious Words. "Thank you, thank you very much." positivity-quotes selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes Susan C. Young
d261002 Decide today to take a stand, make a plan, and get. No one ever said it was going to be easy and wouldn't require effort. It will sometimes require that you go against the grain, face great challenge, conquer fear, overcome obstacles, and bounce back when knocked down. Choose to keep moving and don't give up. And if your ship still doesn't come in--swim out to it! selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes initiative Susan C. Young
7c76e38 When you have orientational awareness, your perceptions and impressions are based on location and proximity. Orientation may imply hierarchy, position, and prestige, or be the result of habits, traditions, and perceptions. positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes mindfulness Susan C. Young
4aec07e In America, when a man walks in front of a woman it may imply that they are not equals and he is exerting dominance over her, or being arrogant and rude. In a different culture, however, it may be presumed that he is someone worthy of profound respect and is protecting her by going first. positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes mindfulness Susan C. Young
ceb53d5 On a recent business trip, I reunited with a friend I had not seen in twenty years. After having a lovely lunch meeting, we came out of the restaurant to walk towards the parking lot. He automatically moved me to the inside of the sidewalk as he walked along the curbside. His orientational awareness illustrated a chivalrous gesture of protection and respect which impressed me greatly. positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes mindfulness Susan C. Young
6a213b5 Meeting someone for the first time has significance, but for some people, the awkwardness can be so great that they avoid a conversation altogether. The person who may be shy, introverted, or afraid of sounding stupid may just choose to remain silent rather than take the risk of engaging in embarrassing dialogue. healthy-conversation positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes Susan C. Young
199e553 Mix, Mingle, Glow. Stretch beyond your own comfort zone to speak with, sit with, and start conversations with people whom you do not know. Take the initiative to help other people capture the spotlight and shine. selling-success positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes networking Susan C. Young
08144ec Graciously Accepting a Compliment. How many times have you offered someone a sincere compliment only to have it thrown back in your face as if your assessment were wrong? How did you feel? Women are notorious for this social misstep and poor maneuver. Why do they do it? Rejecting a compliment makes the compliment-giver feel as though they should have said nothing. find-the-best-in-others how-to-give-a-compliment polish-the-gold positivity-quotes positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes Susan C. Young
b05c383 What is the motive behind your services? If it is self-centered, self-serving, and lacking consideration for others, then earning people's trust, rapport, and business will inevitably be more of a struggle. A self-serving agenda throws up red flags which stop relationships dead in their tracks. It can destroy trust, make people wary of your intentions, and push customers to your competition. positivity-quotes selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes Susan C. Young
82172ee "Years ago, my childhood friend Steve lost his father. Since Steve had left Tallahassee shortly after high school graduation, we had not seen each other for over a decade. Upon learning of his father's funeral, I made plans to attend to "be there." After the service, I approached the family's receiving line. When Steve saw me, he was stunned that I had made the effort to be there for him. We both cried as we hugged and he said, "I can't tell you what it means to me that you showed up." Showing up sends a message that you are a devoted friend, a team player, a dedicated parent, an inspiring leader, a loyal mate, and more." -- selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes initiative Susan C. Young
5c908ee Contextual awareness represents a continuum of behaviors, which illustrates how and why groups of people unite or divide among cultures. positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes mindfulness Susan C. Young
b231516 "Ignoring his advice, I got up, walked over, gently rested my hands on two of their shoulders and said, "Ladies, I have to tell you how much you have impressed me. I just moved to Madison from Florida and left behind all my girlfriends. I have been sitting over there admiring your friendships. You remind me so much of my girlfriends back home and I had to come over and speak with you." And without missing a beat, I next asked, "Can I be your friend?" They were so impressed by my sincere request, they kindly opened their circle and invited me in." selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes initiative Susan C. Young
5b27755 Begin to take the initiative when you want to meet someone new. Be the one who steps forward first. Simply say hello and begin a conversation. selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes initiative Susan C. Young
9adb3da I spend a great deal of time on airplanes traveling from one speaking engagement to the next. There have been times when I have sat for hours next to strangers with whom I never made eye contact or uttered a word. But then I have also met people with whom I engaged in such delightful conversation that it resulted in new business and referrals. The main difference was whether or not I took initiative to begin a conversation. selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes initiative Susan C. Young
02a3028 Being grounded in your lifelong culture and your personal perspective, you are comfortable with the way you see things and may believe it is the best and only way. positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes mindfulness Susan C. Young
b200117 Your first words will not only shape your first impression, they can create amazing connections, lead you to your dream job, or help you discover a new best friend--or accomplish exactly the opposite. healthy-conversation positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes Susan C. Young
bda264f "Hostess with the Mostest "Think of a time when you have had a party in your home or had friends over for dinner. Didn't you want to make sure they were nurtured, cared for, and well-taken care of? Didn't you want your guests to interact with each other and enjoy the experience so they would remember it fondly?" selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes networking Susan C. Young
7c50f5c You can certainly take the easy road and use the predictable and boring defaults like: * How are you doing? * How about this weather? * What do you do for a living? * Hi. My name is _________. What's yours? * Blah, blah, blah, blah . . . Break out of the defaults you have been using for years. Shake it up. Make it fun. Make it memorable. Dive in with more engagement and interaction. Taking the initiative to be more creative will help you build a bridge to close the gap. healthy-conversation positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes Susan C. Young
8c846c5 How do you minimize the awkwardness in that moment? What are some of the conversations starters you've used to open, encourage, and support enjoyable and beneficial conversations? healthy-conversation positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes Susan C. Young
da3dcce 10 Conversation Bridge Builders 1. Simply say hello with a smile. 2. Ask them what they love about their work. 3. Ask natural questions out of genuine curiosity. 4. Get a person talking about what's important to them. 5. Compliment something positive which you've noticed. 6. Engage them with questions which are easy to answer. 7. Introduce them to someone whom you think they'll enjoy meeting. 8. Ask them if they have any trips or vacations planned. 9. Look for something you may have in common so that the conversation begins with shared interests. 10. Think of questions that begin with how, what, when, why and where. healthy-conversation positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes Susan C. Young
ac5a8bc Your first words will outlive your conversations and impact how you are remembered, liked, or regarded. Wouldn't you enjoy opening conversations with ease and mutual recognition? The challenging part is that it can be . . . awkward! healthy-conversation positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes Susan C. Young
29747cf "Presenting "Mix, Mingle & Glow" in a social context is a lovely way to describe how you can make a great first impression by taking the initiative to help other people shine. Think of the times when you have attended an event where there were a lot of people." selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes networking Susan C. Young
4df5281 "Get in the Game "As soon as you say something can't be done, you will be passed by a person who is already doing it." - Unknown "Do you typically observe the game of life from the sidelines, sit in the penalty box, play your heart out on the field, or show up when the opportunity has already passed by and ask, "What happened?" Your answer to this question will reveal a lot about your initiative. Granted, various situations call for diverse levels of interest and engagement. However, if you want to rock your relationship results, it is going to require action, effort, initiative, and choosing to get in the game." selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes initiative Susan C. Young
f9ffcdb It is crucial to understand that there are myriad interpretations of behavior. When you subscribe only to yours, you may begin to think that everyone else is wrong and thus limit your flexibility and possibility. Developing cultural awareness will make your diverse relationships easier and more productive. positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes mindfulness Susan C. Young
6fb3a5c A smart way of using your hands to make you look more interesting, thoughtful, and self-assured is to steeple your hands and fingers. Try using it strategically in formal environments or workplaces to show confidence and consideration. posture-quotes expressions-of-emotion susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes law-of-attraction-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
00c4ee4 When people can't give anything and are only there for themselves, why should others use their time and energy to get involved? There's no benefit. positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes mindfulness Susan C. Young
bc8102b In his book, Networking is a Contact Sport, Joe Sweeney advises that when you attend networking events, act as if it is your party and you are the host or hostess. By doing this, you will help others be at ease and demonstrate a heart of service and generosity. selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes networking Susan C. Young
c9748e6 11 Ways to Be More Engaged 1. Care about others. 2. Be 100 percent in the moment. 3. Keep focus on the person you are serving. 4. Try to get involved, engaged, and interactive. 5. Show interest in what matters to other people by listening, acknowledging, and responding. 6. Arrive in the moment anticipating creating a valuable interaction for yourself and others. 7. Move towards the things that inspire you and provide a sense of joy and connection. 8. Reconnect with the essence of yourself and be grounded in that essential relationship. 9. Maintain eye contact and deliver the non-verbal cues that you are fully with the other person. 10. Limit distractions-- close the door, silence your phone, hold calls, put tasks aside, etc. 11. Show up to the moment being your best and giving your best. selling-success positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes networking Susan C. Young
5153339 Just be Nice. Nice--this little word has a big meaning. Use it generously. Being nice helps people feel emotionally safe, allowing for more authentic, trusting, and happy interactions. selling-success positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes networking Susan C. Young
fabe000 Take the Initiative. Be proactive. If you want to rock your relationship results, it is going to take action, effort, initiative, and choosing to get in the game--so, step up, step out, and show up! selling-success positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes networking Susan C. Young
829f600 Where my previous motivation had been a self-serving ambition, my new service mindset was dedicated to serving a vision greater than myself. Within a year, I quadrupled my income, and then I doubled it every year thereafter. This service mindset quickly taught me that by helping others achieve their goals, I could more easily achieve my own. positivity-quotes selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes Susan C. Young
63c4b8f The Service Mindset. When I began my real estate career at the age of twenty-two, I had a fresh Bachelor's Degree in Marketing in one hand and 'a tiger by the tail' in the other. I was on a mission to be successful in life and in business and make a lot of money in the process. Every goal I set was about Me. Me. Me! I was driven by: How much money could I make? Which property listings paid the biggest commissions? How many calls did I need to make to schedule new appointments? How many listings did I need to have to hit my target? You can see where I am going with this! Working full-time, nights and weekends, seven days a week, I only made eleven thousand dollars in the first year! I was tired, disillusioned, and knew that I had to either change careers or massively shift my mindset. I chose the latter. I took ALL focus off me and re-directed my time, energy, and resources to serving my clients. Their hopes, needs, and desires became my primary focus. How could I help solve their problems? positivity-quotes selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes Susan C. Young
0ac98b5 The Service Mindset. When I began my real estate career at the age of twenty-two, I had a fresh Bachelor's Degree in Marketing in one hand and 'a tiger by the tail' in the other. I was on a mission to be successful in life and in business and make a lot of money in the process. Every goal I set was about Me. Me. Me! I was driven by: How much money could I make? Which property listings paid the biggest commissions? How many calls did I need to make to schedule new appointments? How many listings did I need to have to hit my target? You can see where I am going with this! Working full-time, nights and weekends, seven days a week, I only made eleven thousand dollars in the first year! I was tired, disillusioned, and knew that I had to either change careers or massively shift my mindset. I chose the latter. I took ALL focus off me and re-directed my time, energy, and resources to serving my clients. Their hopes, needs, and desires became my primary focus. How could I help solve their problems? And then EVERYTHING began to turn around . . . positivity-quotes selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes Susan C. Young
f763e57 Service Beyond Self is Essential for Success Because It . . . * Builds credibility, trust, and customer satisfaction. * Strengthens your personal reputation and public image. * Fosters goodwill and makes people feel appreciated. * Helps you build healthy relationships with others. * Nurtures collaboration, participation, and cooperation. * Reaffirms a continuity of service for quality assurance, integrity, and reliability. * Saves money--it costs less to keep existing customers than it does to create new ones. When you do it right the first time, you don't have to fix it the next time. * Improves communication and builds rapport. * Fosters mutual respect and understanding * By providing other people with what they want, you will get more of what you want! positivity-quotes selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes Susan C. Young
1c99620 To Move from Woe to Wow . . . Listen Attentively * Be fully present and give your customer your full attention. * Stay calm and remain patient. * Do not interrupt or become defensive. * Let the customer express his or her concerns. * Nod your head and use affirming words to show that you are listening. * Repeat back and empathize, when necessary. This confirms your understanding of the problem or question. positivity-quotes selling-success service-beyond-self positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes Susan C. Young
9ee4ea3 Being brave is not for the light-hearted. Bravery takes fortitude--the very act of bravery prevents anyone from knowing you were ever afraid in the first place. take-initiative emotional-intelligence-quotes positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
2105ccb 12 Ways to Improve & Project Confident Posture 1. Go people watching. Note how you interpret the different postures you observe. This will expand your awareness of how posture impacts first impressions and will help you become more aware of yours. 2. Stand in front of a mirror to see what other people are seeing. Are your shoulders level? Are your hips level? Do you appear aligned? Are you projecting confidence or timidity? 3. Take posture pictures to provide you with points of reference and a baseline over time. Look at past photos of yourself. 4. Stand with your back against a wall and align your spine. 5. Evenly balance on both feet, spaced hip-width apart. 6. Take yoga or Pilates classes to strengthen your core muscles, improve flexibility, and balance, all which support your posture. 7. Consciously pull your shoulders back, stand erect with chin held high. 8. Practice tucking in your stomach, pulling your shoulders back, raising your chin, and looking straight ahead. 9. Sit up straight without being rigid. 10. Enter a room like you belong there or own it. 11. Stand with an open stance to be welcoming and approachable. 12. Angle your body towards the person to whom you are speaking. Angling your body away may signify that you are indifferent, fearful, putting up a barrier, or trying to get away from them. posture-quotes expressions-of-emotion susanspeaks-com customer-service-quotes law-of-attraction-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
5ce2c9a When you are fully present and engaged in your workplace, you will demonstrate that you care about the success of your organization, are a team player, have a can-do attitude, and will go the extra mile to fulfill and exceed expectations. selling-success positive-first-impression-quotes susanspeaks-com employee-engagement customer-service-quotes motivational-speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes networking Susan C. Young
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