| Link | Quote | Stars | Tags | Author |
| ba959c3 | "We Are Lovable | relationships love conditional-love core-beliefs lovable self-blame codependency neglect beliefs isolation self-esteem | Melody Beattie | |
| ea774b4 | "I was a very lonely child and it's funny but the first word that comes to my head is "starved". I felt starved of affection, starved of love and I felt that it wasn't OK to ask for it. Maybe there was a sense that if I deserved it, it would be there. There must be something I'd done which meant I didn't deserve it." -- | unmet-needs emotional-neglect lack-of-love self-blame starving unloved starved eating-disorder | Carol Lee |