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58d8b67 Truth for anyone is a very complex thing. For a writer, what you leave out says as much as those things you include. What lies beyond the margin of the text? The photographer frames the shot; writers frame their world. writer trust narrative unspoken Jeanette Winterson
7e6f7b0 Women do have an affinity for evil, for believing that no woman is to be trusted, but that some men are too innocent to protect themselves. men women trust innocence William Faulkner
10afd15 If we rely on anything else besides faith to maintain the practice of the presence of God, we will certainly fail, whether this is our feelings, or experiences, or sincerity, or good intentions, or reasonings, or plans. The reason these things will fail while faith will not fail is that all these things depend on us, while faith depends on God. It is a gift of God. trust god the-presence-of-god Peter Kreeft
8bbc973 Those who choose to walk on love's path are well served if they have a guide. That guide can enable us to overcome fear if we trust that they will not lead us astray or abandon us along the way. choice fear trust love guide guidance Bell Hooks
2a4003f Exchange the bad habit of worrying with the excellent habit of trusting God. prayer faith trust god excellent exchange worry habit Elizabeth George
d4ad6d3 ...when you trust the Lord God to give you the next step, when you wait in humility upon Him, *He* will open the doors or close them, and you'll get to rest and relax until He says, 'Go. trust god humility peace waiting Charles R. Swindoll
76430e8 I've already told the police what happened, they didn't believe me. Why should you,' he said. 'Because we're the people that believe people that other people don't believe,' I said. 'How can I know that?' he asked. 'You're just going to have to believe me,' I said. trust Ben Aaronovitch
57db855 I have this thing about friends and secrets. Sometimes when I meet a person I like, I tell them a secret they don't know me well enough to be told. It lets me judge their potential as a friend. trust friendship trustworthiness judging-others judging-people judge secrets sharing-secrets loyalty Mohsin Hamid
8a275bc You have to trust someone before you can have rituals with them. trust Rachel Klein
1e556a2 What is a secret? It is much more than knowledge shared with only a few, or perhaps only one another. It is power. It is a bond. It is a sign of deep trust, or the darkest threat possible. There is power in the keeping of a secret, and power in the revelation of a secret. Sometimes it takes a very wise man to discern which is the path to greater power. All men desirous of power should become collectors of secrets. There is no secret too small to be valuable. All men value their own secrets far above those of others. A scullery maid may be willing to betray a prince before allowing the name of her secret lover to be told. secret trust betray cultivate decide employ purchase seek-out collect discern reveal use utilize path hide threat knowledge learn power Robin Hobb
f9572e3 The television image sanctified, conferred identity. The more familiar the face, the more to be trusted. trust P.D. James
966553e "A disciple does not ask, "How much can I keep?" but, "How much more can I give?" Whenever we start to get comfortable with our level of giving, it's time to raise it again." comfort faith trust disciple give stewardship share keep giving discipline obedience Randy Alcorn
2e65220 "Child, [death] is with us always," said Cadfael, patient beside him. "Last summer ninety-five men died here in the town, none of whom had done murder. For choosing the wrong side, they died. It falls upon blameless women in war, even in peace at the hands of evil men. It falls upon children who never did harm to any, upon old men, who in their lives have done good to many, and yet are brutally and senselessly slain. Never let it shake your faith that there is a balance hereafter. What you see is only a broken piece from a perfect whole." "Such justice as we see is also but a broken shred. But it is our duty to preserve what we may, and fit together such fragments as we find, and take the rest on trust." suffering faith trust justice Ellis Peters
3667344 "Dear heart," he murmured, "do not look on me with those dear, scared eyes of yours. If there is aught that puzzles you in what I said, try and trust me a little longer. Remember, I must save the Dauphin at all costs; mine honor is bound with his safety. What happens to me after that matters but little, yet I wish to live for your dear sake." -- trust love the-scarlet-pimprenel honor france Emmuska Orczy
cee43a9 There was something scary about watching adults sleep. It was as if no one at all were in charge of the world. trust Kate DiCamillo
cac94a0 "Failure to put the relationship on a slower timetable may result in an act that was never intended in the first place. Another important principle is to avoid the circumstances where compromise is likely. A girl who wants to preserve her virginity should not find herself in a house or dorm room alone with someone to whom she is attracted. Nor should she single-date with someone she has reason not to trust. A guy who wants to be moral should stay away from the girl he knows would go to bed with him. Remember the words of Solomon to his son, "Keep to a path far from her, do not go near the door of her house" (Proverbs 5:8). I know this advice sounds very narrow in a day when virginity is mocked and chastity is considered old-fashioned. But I don't apologize for it. The Scriptures are eternal, and God's standards of right and wrong do not change with the whims of culture. He will honor and help those who are trying to follow His commandments. In fact, the apostle Paul said, "He will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear" (1Corinthians 10:13). Hold that promise and continue to use your head. You'll be glad you did." words wrong trying relationship reason trust change who act apostle are attracted away bear beyond can chastity commandments considered continue did door do eternal glad go god-s intended is knows let likely mocked narrow near proberbs remeber scriptures single-date slower sounds stay tempted those very what-you whims whom would you-ll your guy and day you with old-fashioned principle keep may he her compromise bed first never avoid advice should circumstances place not to preserve important use hold result head help alone follow virginity house she culture wants solomon path girl paul moral son be someone will promise honor right failure him standards James C. Dobson
c4462a6 Say yes,' he whispers. 'Marry me.' I hesitate. I open my eyes. 'You will get my fortune,' I remark. 'When I marry you, everything I have becomes yours. Just as George has everything that belongs to Isabel.' 'That's why you can trust me to win it for you,' he says simply. 'When your interests and mine are the same, you can be certain that I will care for you as for myself. You will be my own. You will find that I care for my own.' 'You will be true to me?' 'Loyalty is my motto. When I give my word, you can trust me. marriage trust love equality-between-partners husband-and-wife richard-iii loyalty Philippa Gregory
82802b5 How much can you really trust the promise of a suicidal father? trust Ruth Ozeki
37d06a1 "But if I could just get som ehint, some sign..." Conchita smiles, without humor, but with great affection. "That's the point behind faith," she says. "It's not something you can prove....I know you hate to hear this, but you either have it, or you don't." trust Charles de Lint
63b6e46 What our Heavenly Father wants us to do about our spiritual failures is like what our earthly father wants us to do about our earthly failures. When we fall off the horse, or the bike, or the high road to Heaven, we must simply climb on again as soon as we are aware of the fact that we have fallen off, rather than sitting there stewing in self-pity or self-hatred. perseverance faith trust god humilty Peter Kreeft
695d9f1 Leaders empower individuals by building trust and coaching competence in their job roles and networking skills. trust competence empower leaders collaboration networking Kenneth H. Blanchard
6a92eac We accept too damned many things on the explanations of people who could have good reasons for lying. trust truth Frank Herbert
c876c6d What is a secret? It is much more than knowledge shared with only a few, or perhaps only one another. It is power. It is a bond. It is a sign of deep trust, or the darkest threat possible.... Be very chary of revealing your hoarded secrets. Many lose all power once they have been divulged. Be even more careful of sharing your secrets lest you find yourself a puppet dancing on someone else's strings. secret trust careful collect discern puppet reveal use utilize wary hide threat power Robin Hobb
c552ef8 Nice is good. It doesn't sound exciting, but think about it. I think Mr. Perfect would be kind to kids and animals, help old ladies across the street, not insult you when your opinion is different from his. Being nice is so important it's close to being number one. trust perfect-boyfriend nice Linda Howard
4eccc79 Trust your weapon, it is almost certainly smarter than you are. Remember this and you may yet live. trust weapon remember John Scalzi
c83561b I had not slept with many men other than my husband, but I noticed before that to sleep, actually sleep with someone did give this sense of intimacy, as though your dreams had flowed out of you to mingle with his and fold you both in a blanket of unconsciousness knowing. A throwback of some kind, I thought. In older, more primitive times, it was an act of trust to sleep in the presence of another person. If the trust was mutual, simple sleep could bring you closer together than the joining of bodies. trust truth outlander Diana Gabaldon
dc08992 If economic catastrophe does come, will it be a time that draws Christians together to share every resource we have, or will it drive us apart to hide in our own basements or mountain retreats, guarding at gunpoint our private stores from others? If we faithfully use our assets for his kingdom now, rather than hoarding them, can't we trust our faithful God to provide for us then? economic-catastrophe fiscal-cliff gunpoint faith trust provision survivalism resources hoarding stewardship sharing protection Randy Alcorn
754347f People always kill Caesar. Don't trust anyone. trust Dick Francis
2408934 Don't tell me you're passionate about your job - show me that you're passionate about helping people like me. money business-to-business buying-decision buying-decision-quote earn-the-right influence-quotes salesmanship selling-skills selling-tips sales-effectiveness selling influence trust business-quotes buying customers salespeople passionate business-success shopping value business-advice sales sales-training negotiation helping Chris Murray
3c92d5f "The history of mankind," said Dreed, "has been a history of betrayals, the perennial betrayal of the common man by the men he has trusted." "By the men the lazy, haphazard, childish oaf was too wilfully stupid to mistrust," said Bodisham. "The history of mankind from the very beginning has been a history of over-trusted trustees, corrupted by their unchecked opportunities." trust leaders corruption humankind H.G. Wells
389e3cd I believe that in matters of the heart there is no such thing as compromise. Love means that you give each other everything. romance trust love romantic-love Milan Kundera
8ce7c62 I believe you, Tamara, I just don't believe it. trust Cecelia Ahern
c43fd69 I doubted myself, and that made me doubt you. But you weren't the problem. You were never the problem. I should have trusted you, but I didn't, because I couldn't trust myself. trust isla-and-the-happily-ever-after stephanie-perkins Stephanie Perkins
cb29811 "What the caterpillar calls the end of the world, the Master calls a butterfly." --Richard David Bach The caterpillar believes it is dying because it's being sealed in a tomb. The Master knows that the caterpillar is not dying, and is simply transitioning (to something more). This points out that things are never over, that change is carrying us, (so often kicking and screaming), to higher states of being. I find it interesting that the caterpillar spends it's caterpillar existence crawling, (on a lone weed in the midst of an endless beautiful forest), surviving on bitter, poisonous leaves. Yet resists the changes to come. After the caterpillars "death"... And upon the butterflie's rebirth... The butterfly lives out it's butterfly existence experiencing all of the forest's wonders, being carried by the wind, landing on beauty, and drinking sweet nectar, all the while, being shielded from harm by the caterpillar's bitter and poisonous experiences of eating the weeds. prayer kindness spirit compassion meaning trust inspiring spiritual-quotes forgiveness Raymond D. Longoria Jr.
af333a9 Each time you turn your life issues over to God and allow Him to lead, you build trust in Him. time trust god life build issues turn author lead over christian Elizabeth George
6e2f12f I had started out in life trusting everyone and now I trusted no one. So I had a few acquaintances and no close friends. It was perhaps in reaction against the inevitable loneliness of my life that I'd find myself doing bold, risky, even outrageous things without hesitation or surprise. I was usually disappointed in these adventures and they didn't have much effect on me, good or bad, but I never quite lost the hope of something better or different. loneliness trust hope Jean Rhys
48315c9 The idea of a small circle, of an exalted and loyal sect, with a traitor infiltrated at its core, an informant who's not foreign to the sect, but constitutes an part of its structure---this was the true organizational form of any small society. One must act knowing that there's a traitor infiltrated in the ranks. trust sects organizations groups society traitor betrayal loyalty Ricardo Piglia
b43f4e9 This fear of maleness that they inspire estranges men from every female in their lives to greater or lesser degrees, and men feel the loss. Ultimately, one of the emotional costs of allegiance to patriarchy is to be seen as unworthy of trust. men feminism feminist trust feminist-quotes trustworthy patriarchy masculinity manhood bell hooks
e97d7bd I agreed to keep the cards a secret and asked my grandmother if she believed in magic. She said she did not but that, surprisingly, magic worked even if you did not believe in it. magic trust humor Michael Chabon
8521ec3 We all have to love you, and believe in you, and think you are looking out for our best interests. But look at us, Momma, and really see us. trust love mothers see look sight parents looking V.C. Andrews
ec2bb7f "She said that you--" "I don't care what she said." I stand up. "Everyone lies." "Hey," he says softly. "It's just a code." "No. Everyone lies." I stub the cigarette out. "It's just another language you have to learn." Then he delicately adds, "I think you need some coffee, dude." Pause. "Why are you so angry?" trust truth socializing Bret Easton Ellis
76df83e Not everyone is always going to like you. What impresses one person may turn another away. To thine own self be true. trust personality-development social-networking communication-quotes first-impressions motivational-speaker susan-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
59fbef6 "Partners," she said, and fired two rounds into his head." trust headshot partners James S.A. Corey
5d7ef5b Find one person to trust--there need only be one. With them, share every shame, every secret and listen to theirs... with love. Bare hearts and souls until there is understanding. Of a certainty, such honest exposure is the first step toward happiness. -- Andre Chevalier trust honesty happiness shame secrets Nikki Sex
b6df8ef I have found that sometimes when a person gives up on 'humankind' they can often find trust and love in animal kind. Andre Chevalier depression humanity trust love trust-issues giving-up Nikki Sex
26f7058 And who knows, thought Cadfael, which is in the right, the young man who sees the best in all, and trusts all, or the old one who suspects all until he has probed them through and through? The one may stumble into a snare now and then, but at least enjoy sunshine along the way, between falls. The other may never miss his footing, but seldom experience joy. Better find a way somewhere between! youth joy trust Ellis Peters
48ec76a Salespeople who think that it's all about price aren't required: If it can be sold on the internet at the lowest price, you can take the huge cost of a sales team out of the equation. money business-to-business buying-decision buying-decision-quote earn-the-right influence-quotes salesmanship selling-skills selling-tips sales-effectiveness selling influence trust business-quotes buying customers salespeople business-success price shopping cost value business-advice sales sales-training negotiation Chris Murray
de8d58d The salesperson you'd ideally like to be and the salesperson you'd like to encounter as a customer should roughly be the same, shouldn't they? money business-to-business buying-decision buying-decision-quote earn-the-right influence-quotes salesmanship selling-skills selling-tips sales-effectiveness selling influence trust business-quotes buying customers salespeople business-success shopping value business-advice sales sales-training negotiation Chris Murray
95218ad Your target market are more bothered about whether what you sell will get them promoted, sacked, recognised, accepted, praised or laid. money business-to-business buying-decision buying-decision-quote earn-the-right influence-quotes salesmanship selling-skills selling-tips sales-effectiveness selling influence trust business-quotes buying customers salespeople business-success shopping value business-advice sales sales-training negotiation Chris Murray
387005a We all need salespeople who deliver value that wasn't there before they arrived. money business-to-business buying-decision buying-decision-quote earn-the-right influence-quotes salesmanship selling-skills selling-tips sales-effectiveness selling influence trust business-quotes buying customers salespeople business-success shopping value business-advice sales sales-training negotiation Chris Murray
56991f9 For as men have fists and heads to defend themselves, so women have a gentleness of silence about them, a barrier built of things of the spirit, of pain, of quiet, of helplessness, of grace, of all that is beautiful and womanly an equal part, given to them because they are women in defense of their womaness. And this barrier a man will find against him to turn aside his male attack, keep his arms pinned, stop his mouth, cool his eyes, reduce his heat and restrain his idle imaginings. This barrier it is that women who are women keep always at a height, coming from behind it only when, with knowledge and in light, they trust. You shall see it in their eyes. women trust womaness womanly Richard Llewellyn
f2baafe "Don't let strangers touch you." And yet it is seldom strangers, I learned long before I was a teenager, who do you harm. It is always the ones closest to us: the suave chauffeur, the skilled photographer, the kind music teacher, the good friend's sober and dignified husband, the pious man of God. They are the ones your parents trust, whom they don't want to believe anything against." trust strangers Azar Nafisi
449a45b Human beings are the most successful of animals because of their capability to learn, and an abused animal learns very quickly to defend itself. It also learns very quickly to trust very few people - if any. lifelessons trust-no-one truthbomb people trust Brad Thor
547aad7 We all desperately need brilliant sales professionals far more than ever before - to help us, guide us, keep us informed and stop us from making diabolically stupid buying decisions. money business-to-business buying-decision buying-decision-quote earn-the-right influence-quotes salesmanship selling-skills selling-tips sales-effectiveness selling influence trust business-quotes buying customers business-success shopping business-advice sales sales-training negotiation Chris Murray
0102ac2 If what you sell doesn't help me then why are you knocking on my door? money business-to-business buying-decision buying-decision-quote earn-the-right influence-quotes salesmanship selling-skills selling-tips sales-effectiveness selling influence trust business-quotes buying customers salespeople business-success shopping value business-advice sales sales-training negotiation Chris Murray
7d3b95f Remember: when you walk into a DIY store to buy a drill, you don't want the drill. Your end goal is to make a hole and, in order to achieve this, you have to buy the drill. money business-to-business buying-decision buying-decision-quote earn-the-right influence-quotes salesmanship selling-skills selling-tips sales-effectiveness selling influence trust business-quotes buying customers salespeople business-success shopping value business-advice sales sales-training negotiation Chris Murray
e85788f She had never been able to tolerate dishonesty, which she thought threatened the very heart of relationships between people. If you could not count on other people to mean what they said, or to do what they said they would do, then life could become utterly unpredictable. The fact that we could trust one another made it possible to undertake the simple tasks of life. relationships trust Alexander McCall Smith
f0fdf84 Trust is all about instinct. If you had all the facts, you wouldn't need trust. Trust is what is required in the absence of proof. But I believe you can strengthen your instincts by testing them; every time you prove yourself right or wrong, they grow stronger. trust Will Schwalbe
a8906c7 We all need salespeople who understand the problem and can deliver a solution that works brilliantly for both sides. money business-to-business buying-decision buying-decision-quote earn-the-right influence-quotes salesmanship selling-skills selling-tips sales-effectiveness selling influence trust business-quotes buying customers salespeople business-success shopping business-advice sales sales-training negotiation Chris Murray
69c7403 22% of current business-to-business salespeople will be replaced by search engines within the next five years. money business-to-business influence-quotes salesmanship selling-skills selling-tips sales-effectiveness selling influence trust business-quotes buying customers business-success shopping business-advice sales sales-training negotiation Chris Murray
d142a9e Trusting your inner voice, which is one of the critical steps in developing intuition, is predicated on being truly self-confident. trust inspirational-quotes intuition-quotes laurie-nadel laurie-nadel-quotes quote-about-life quote-of-the-day quote-of-the-week quotes-twitter wayne-dyer intuition self-confidence power-of-thoughts Laurie Nadel
cfb55b4 How do you know that you're a person, distinct from other people? By keeping certain things to yourself. You guard them inside you, because, if you don't, there's no distinction between inside and outside. Secrets are the way you know you even have an inside. A radical exhibitionist is a person who has forfeited his identity. But identity in a vacuum is also meaningless. Sooner or later, the inside of you needs a witness. Otherwise you're just a cow, a cat, a stone, a thing in the world, trapped in your thingness. To have an identity, you have to believe that other identities equally exist. You need closeness with other people. And how is closeness built? By sharing secrets. relationship secret trust Jonathan Franzen
5d3bdc4 I had not slept with many men other than my husband, but I noticed before that to sleep, actually sleep with someone did give this sense of intimacy, as though your dreams had flowed out of you to mingle with his and fold you both in a blanket of unconsciousness knowing. A throwback of some kind, I thought. In older, more primitive times, it was an act of trust to sleep in the presence of another person. If the trust was mutual, simple sleep could bring you closer together than joining the bodies. trust truth outlander Diana Gabaldon
4190eb3 Earning Trust & Cooperation The number one thing which stands between you and meeting a new person is tension. What is the number one thing which stands between a sales person and their prospect? You guessed it . . . tension. One of our first priorities as we initiate a first impression must be to focus on how to effectively minimize or eliminate tension. Regardless of your relationship or venue, when tension is high, trust and cooperation are low. When tension is reduced, trust and cooperation increase. It is an inverse relationship. So, how can you move to reduce tension in your first impressions to increase trust and cooperation? Put yourself in their shoes and seek to relate to them with an equal footing on a level playing field. Demonstrate how you can bring value to their lives. trust best-motivational-speakers build-rapport customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
9b0729c "Bunu ogren,kafana iyice sok kizim." dedi Nana. "Pusulanin hep kuzeyi gosteren ibresi gibi, bir erkegin suclayan parmagi da daima, mutlaka bir kadini gosterir. Her zaman. Bunu hic unutma, Meryem" trust Khaled Hosseini
411c167 ...we named her Dorothy Ann. Dolly, for short. I kissed her warily, fearful of the pain of loving her, love her, though love her I did; fearful lest she hurt me by dying. risk trust heartbreak love Nancy E. Turner
015de01 Perhaps trust had to be accompanied by a measure of common sense, and a hefty dose of realism about human nature. But that would need a lot of thinking about, and the tea break did not go on forever. trust thinking Alexander McCall Smith
057f219 Giving these lil' fellas a gun was important to keep the name of the Rebellions strong, because whenever the name drops, it's only a matter of time before someone kicks your door in. Scrooge, former leader of the Rebellion Raiders street gang that once boasted of having some ten thousand members trust brand-name carrying-weapons forward-thinking gang-addiction gang-leaders gang-pride position-to-win protecting-your-name ready-for-action reliable school-gangs turf-wars violence-addiction gang-intervention gang-members rebellion-raiders community-policing ready reputation support strong strategy protection Drexel Deal
89ecd73 It is considered a rather cheerful axiom that all Americans distrust politicians. (No one takes the further and less cheerful step of considering just what effect this mutual contempt has on either the public or the politicians, who have, indeed, very little to do with one another.) politics trust usa united-states politicians americans distrust contempt James Baldwin
7372cab Never trust an Italian. The Nazis did that, and look where it got them. trust Paul Murray
df4f66f Yeah, trust the fuckhead. trust spider-jerusalem Warren Ellis
04fdfe1 When your pipeline is full - with business coming out of your ears - the notion of people asking for a discount will sound hilarious, because you'll already be at capacity money business-to-business buying-decision buying-decision-quote earn-the-right influence-quotes salesmanship selling-skills selling-tips sales-effectiveness selling influence trust business-quotes buying customers salespeople business-success shopping business-advice sales sales-training negotiation Chris Murray
5f876ad We all need salespeople with humility, honesty, integrity, empathy and an old-fashioned work ethic that ensures the job gets done. money business-to-business buying-decision buying-decision-quote earn-the-right integrity influence-quotes salesmanship selling-skills selling-tips sales-effectiveness selling influence empathy trust honesty business-quotes buying customers salespeople business-success work-ethic shopping business-advice humility sales sales-training negotiation Chris Murray
e2c6774 If you don't earn their trust at the beginning, they sure as hell won't trust you with their money at the end. money influence-quotes salesmanship selling-skills selling-tips sales-effectiveness selling influence trust business-quotes business-success business-advice sales sales-training negotiation Chris Murray
d88476a Hope is a slighter, tougher thing even than trust, he thought, pacing his room as the soundless, vague lightning flashed overhead. In a good season one trusts life; in a bad season one only hopes, But they are of the same essence: they are the mind's indispensable relationship with other minds, with the world, and with time. Without trust, a man lives, but not a human life; without hope, he dies. When there is no relationship, where hands do not touch, emotion atrophies in void and intelligence goes sterile and obsessed. Between men the only link left is that of owner to slave, or murderer to victim. murder human trust victim slave Ursula K. Le Guin
dcd825d No quality or characteristic is more important than trust trust teamwork Patrick Lencioni
6b821ef God has ordained that His people live by promises and not by explanations. trust Warren W. Wiersbe
e4ad8e8 There's a reason prophets perform miracles: language lacks the power to describe faith. And you have to land on faith before you can even begin to hike around to its flip side, betrayal. relationships faith trust trustworthiness prophets Mohsin Hamid
529f30c For Luther, it (faith) is an undeviating, trusting outlook appointment life, a constant stance of the trustworthiness of the promises of God. trust Alister E. McGrath
135cbba Fools can be trusted precisely because they are fools. Their agendas rarely intersect with your own. trust R. Scott Bakker
c99201a When I meet someone who is truly genuine, I am drawn to their personality and find them easier to approach, engage, and interact with. They have no hint of false pretense, nor do I worry about hidden agendas. trust personality-development social-networking communication-quotes first-impressions relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
3cd279a Think of the people whom you love, like, trust, and admire. Isn't their integrity the golden thread which elevates them to a higher standard in your eyes and in your heart? integrity confidence trust communication-quotes first-impressions motivational-speaker susan-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
b149cd2 Integrity, once tarnished, or broken, is hard to recover. integrity confidence trust communication-quotes first-impressions motivational-speaker susan-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
cff3755 Your personal integrity, defined as being honest and having strong moral principles, communicates whether (or not) you can be trusted. integrity confidence trust communication-quotes first-impressions motivational-speaker susan-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
f6a4f81 As a young girl, I allowed my self-esteem to be determined by others' opinions, and I devoted incredible energy tuning into how everyone else felt. trust personality-development social-networking communication-quotes first-impressions motivational-speaker susan-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
fd264aa "Every time a new client hires me for a keynote, workshop, or coaching session, the first questions I ask them are, "What are the 3 top challenges your organization is dealing with? What are your goals? What problems would you like for me to help solve?" Using their own answers, I am able to design a program that is customized specifically around their needs. It takes the focus off of Susan and centers my complete attention toward making them feel important." trust emotional-intelligence best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
e255f14 13 Ways to Make Other People Feel Important 1. Ask people questions about themselves, their interests, their families, their passions and their lives. 2. Catch people doing things right, pat them on the back, and acknowledge them for a job well done. 3. Celebrate their successes. 4. Be lavish in your compliments and sincere in your praise. 5. Be appreciative and say thank you. 6. Listen with genuine interest. 7. Respect their opinions. 8. Encourage people with words of affirmation and validation. 9. Brag about people behind (and in front of) their backs. 10. Make the time and space to be fully present and engaged. 11. Spend quality time together. 12. Share your authentic self and be real. 13. Offer comfort and compassion. trust emotional-intelligence best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
2ed3244 "This insightful quote I once heard stays with me: "Tell me what gives you your sense of importance and I will tell you what you are. That is the most important thing about you. That is what determines your character." Some people get their sense of importance through their charitable works and community service. Some get it through the diplomas on their walls and the letters behind their names, while others may get their sense of importance from the cars they drive, the balance in their bank accounts, or the size of their homes. Different strokes for different folks. Regardless of what their motivators may be, notice what a person's hot button is and you will have the key to nurturing your new relationship in a positive way." trust emotional-intelligence best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
853faa3 Identifying, developing, and connecting on these points of reference will provide you with a rich resource of information from which to engage in stimulating conversations and connect on meaningful levels. trust emotional-intelligence best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
d8cd0e4 "Along with the "Law of Attraction" there is also an "Attractor Factor" for easily building camaraderie and commonality for making a positive first impression. Seek to find: 1. Shared History 2. Shared Stories 3. Shared Interests 4. Shared Attitudes 5. Shared Experiences 6. Shared Beliefs and Values" trust emotional-intelligence best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
02b7dd2 Establishing social certainty helps you build trust, develop rapport, and strengthen your connection. However, the right questions might lead you to find a niche of commonality in someone who is very different from you. It can be professionally and personally rewarding. trust emotional-intelligence best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
c35dec4 "The romantic notion of "opposites attract" works well in fairy tales. However, science proves that "like attracts like" for healthy communication and successful relationships. Social psychologists have long relied upon the "Similarity Attraction Theory" to explain why we are more positively inclined toward people who are the most like ourselves. Similarity reduces uncertainty and gives us a comforting degree of psychological safety. It is no wonder, then, that "birds of a feather flock together." Our tribe understands our vibe." trust emotional-intelligence best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
5ade18b 1. Men are easy to please but are not pleased for long before some new novelty must delight them. 2. Men are easy to make passionate but are unable to sustain it. 3. Men are always seeking soft women but find their lives in ruins without strong women. 4. Men must be occupied at all times otherwise they make mischief. 5. Men deem themselves weighty and women light. Therefore it is simple to tie a stone round their necks and drown them should they become too troublesome. 6. Men are best left in groups by themselves where they will entirely wear themselves out in drunkenness and competition. While this is taking place a woman may carry on with her own life unhindered. 7. Men are never never to be trusted with what is closest to your heart, and if it is they who are closest to your heart, do not tell them. 8. If a man asks you for money, do not give it to him. 9. If you ask a man for money and he does not give it to you, sell his richest possession and leave at once. 10. Your greatest strength is that every man believes he knows the sum and possibility of every woman. money men passion women trust gender-relations perception power rules Jeanette Winterson
4f3d07c Wouldn't it be wonderful to enjoy this level of simplicity in all relationships, regardless of differences? You can. Begin taking the initiative to find common ground with others and you will soon lay solid foundations on which to build great first impressions. trust emotional-intelligence best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
137f8e3 When people are like you, conversations flow naturally and feel more relaxed, don't they? You know what to say, how to talk, what to expect, and how to understand them on an intuitive level. trust emotional-intelligence best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
8f216e9 "A wise man's words are rarely questioned," he counselled gently. "Therefore you must be very careful whom you call wise." trust wise Norton Juster
e159375 Finding commonality with another person can help you create an instant bond by transcending social differences and going straight to creating rapport. Finding common ground allows you to connect the dots in the big picture to discover what feels most comfortable, how to connect, and where you might fit in when meeting new people. trust emotional-intelligence best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
6a02f2c DEFINITION NOT FOUND IN THE DICTIONARY Not leaving: an act of trust and love, often deciphered by children trust security safety Markus Zusak
703104d "11 Benefits of Asking Questions "The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing." - Albert Einstein 1. Builds rapport. 2. Nurtures creativity. 3. Grows your knowledge and awareness. 4. Exercises critical thinking and problem-solving skills. 5. Makes the other person feel valued. 6. Helps you make thoughtful decisions. 7. The better our questions, the better our answers. 8. Keeps you agile and open to new ideas. 9. Improves your memory and retention. 10. Helps you stay informed and relevant. 11. Enables you to discover a new world of possibilities you would not have known otherwise." -- trust best-keynote-speakers best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
83ce07a "Tell me about yourself" is one of the best icebreakers and conversation openers you can have. Learn to ask questions using this phrase as the guide. Let the other person do the talking and they will think you are the most delightful conversationalist they have ever met. When you make the effort to do this for others, they feel relevant and valued." trust best-keynote-speakers best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
fe2f7fd Like a good marriage, trust on a team is never complete; it must be maintained over time trust team teamwork Patrick Lencioni
f88b37e "What do you do? It's amazing how people will qualify, quantify, judge, assess, and form complete opinions about you based on that one age-old question. It is a boring, uncreative default setting for attempting to engage a new person. Spice it up and try something new. Instead, ask "What do you do for fun?" Your creativity will make you more memorable and help you stand apart from the crowd." trust best-keynote-speakers best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
9fa330f I recently heard of a real estate professional who LOVES to cook. So, her niche market? Foodies. She attends local restaurant events and cooking classes and turns strangers into friends and clients. Her closing gift to new homeowners? A recipe box. Then she sends new recipe postcards every month to tuck inside. Isn't that a smart way to stay connected in a meaningful way? trust emotional-intelligence best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
0c9d53a Once you start looking, you will discover unlimited links and openers for nurturing camaraderie. Do you drive the same car? Did you attend the same college? Do you both write with your left hand? Love vacationing in Paris? Prefer sushi over pasta? Both have twins? Attend the same church? Each run marathons? Enjoy the same television shows? Have the same breed of dog? While downright basic, these shared commonalities can often bring a sense of familiarity and affection even for people whom you have never met. trust emotional-intelligence best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
37c192f So, how can you move beyond awkward silence with virtual strangers to becoming new friends? By asking great questions! Once a few inquiring questions were placed, I would let them do all the talking. trust best-keynote-speakers best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
98e49ea The leaders at that time believed so much in protecting the name and the reputation of the gang, that I along with one or two other individuals who were still in school who were trusted, responsible, and ready were given weapons to take to school to make sure that if anything arises, the matter would be dealt with properly. They made sure that even if their presence were not there during a fight, we were in a position to properly defend ourselves. Troit Lynes, former death row inmate of Her Majesty Prison trust brand-name carrying-weapons forward-thinking gang-addiction gang-leaders gang-pride position-to-win protecting-your-name ready-for-action reliable school-gangs turf-wars violence-addiction gang-intervention gang-members rebellion-raiders community-policing ready reputation support strong strategy protection Drexel Deal
b386408 Socrates would teach his pupils by asking them intelligent and probing questions. By using their critical thinking skills and problem-solving abilities, they could discover the answers for themselves and retain their lessons longer. By using this same approach for Socratic Selling or Socratic Communication, there is no telling how much you might teach and solve for another person, all the while creating a memorable encounter. trust best-keynote-speakers best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
b6fdc05 When you sincerely want to connect on deeper levels and encourage other people to talk about themselves, use open-ended questions to stimulate your conversation and get the ball rolling. trust best-keynote-speakers best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
ff936bd Instead of vacillating, we need to value, acknowledge and trust our intuition for what it is, a sense of truth. trust inspirational-quotes intuition-quotes truth-quotes laurie-nadel laurie-nadel-quotes quote-about-life quote-of-the-day quote-of-the-week quotes-twitter wayne-dyer intuition power-of-thoughts Laurie Nadel
4ebd1f2 Usaldus pole mitte uksnes juhtimissuhete, vaid koigi suhete vundament. Sa ei saa mojutada inimesi, kes sind ei usalda. Sa ei saa rajada positiivseid suhteid inimestega, kui neil on sinust negatiivne pilt. Usaldus on liim, mis hoiab inimesi koos. relationships trust usaldus John C. Maxwell
a64102f "A closed-ended question, however, is one which could be answered with a one-word answer or a simple "yes" or "no." It can bring a dynamic dialogue to an awkward halt or stalemate. You can easily flip the encounter around by making a little more effort." trust best-keynote-speakers best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
bac4e57 "Encouraging quality communication will make it easier for you to establish rapport, gather information, and increase understanding. You can use this "fishing" technique for personal relationships, social events, sales calls, and professional correspondence." trust best-keynote-speakers best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
799c4cc When you ask people about themselves, are you just being polite or do you truly want to know? When you focus your intention and questions on them, it makes them feel special and valued. However, if you don't sincerely want to know, it can backfire as appearing insincere. trust showing-interest best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
c233530 If you truly want to impress someone, remember points they shared in previous conversations and mention it when you reconnect. trust showing-interest best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
494c919 ASK YOURSELF: Your closest friends want to know all about the details of your life and want to hear what is happening in your life. How can you be that type of person for others? trust best-keynote-speakers best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
39950bc By taking a personal interest in other people's lives, you are demonstrating selflessness, grace, and respect. trust personable-and-friendly best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
9a7a8b2 Most people want, need, and respond positively to gestures of kindness and goodness. This universal friendliness connects humanity. trust personable-and-friendly best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
0982442 It can be a mean world; sadly, there is no shortage of rude people. Throughout my travels, I pleasantly discovered that if you are friendly to others, they will usually mirror the same in return. Regardless of which cities or countries I visit, the majority of people I encounter tend to be friendly, personable, and caring. trust personable-and-friendly best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
05061c8 We all know that person--the one who wakes up on the right side of the bed; the one who surely consumed a bowl of sunshine for breakfast; the one who asks how you're doing and means it. How do they emanate that much light? How can we also appear more friendly and personable? How can we be that light for others? trust personable-and-friendly best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
19c1c06 The Gift that Keeps on Giving I once had a lovely real estate client named Jane who was an elderly lady living alone. Her sons lived far away in the Pacific Northwest and she rarely saw them. I became her Realtor when she decided she needed to down-size from her larger home and buy a smaller one. Throughout this transition, we would talk, laugh, share, and bond. After we successfully completed her transactions and got her comfortably situated in her new home, I stayed in touch to nurture our friendship. Over a year later, I got a call from her son in Seattle who was calling to inform me that his mother had passed away. And at the reading of her will it was revealed she had requested that when it the time came to sell the property in her estate, they were to call Susan Young. By making her feel special and important, I earned not only her friendship, but her loyalty and continued business. trust emotional-intelligence best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
1e328f5 "We all have an innate desire to feel important, be special, and feel appreciated. Considering the universal drive to have those needs met, it is one of your best ways to move past making a positive first impression and turn it into a lasting one"." trust emotional-intelligence best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
9bb543a People consider trust differently. Some approach a new relationship with a degree of skepticism and want the other person to earn their trust before it is freely given. Their reluctance is often influenced by a previous experience when they were hurt, betrayed, or let down by others. trust best-motivational-speakers build-rapport customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
0a85183 When we trust someone or something, we place our faith and confidence in their word, reliability, and deeds. Without trust and rapport, a relationship can be cut short before it ever gets started. trust best-motivational-speakers build-rapport customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
547f276 How Can You Show You Are Interested? * Pay close attention. * Ask how you can help. * Ask probing questions. * Practice great listening. * Invite people to participate. * Express curiosity without judgment. * Find a way to help others achieve their goals. * Keep your mind open to innovative ideas. * Make introductions and connect like-minded people. * Get to know people first before talking about yourself. * Consider how and why they feel/think/believe as they do. trust best-keynote-speakers best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
f5101e8 For leaders, trust can make all the difference in the viability of their teams. When there is mistrust or low connectivity, teams can falter and fight--making productivity and profitability suffer. trust best-motivational-speakers build-rapport customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
8d427e9 As you rock rapport, you will open doors, earn loyalty, establish long-term relationships, and promote mutually respectful interaction. How can you break the ice and move toward creating a positive connection? trust best-motivational-speakers build-rapport customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
16cd797 "While some may consider being friendly an appealing personality trait, I challenge you to see it as a valuable skill. In a world where we are continuously bombarded with negativity and anxiety is at an all-time high, a warm and friendly person is a welcome relief. Training yourself to be the friendly "calm in the storm" makes you a true asset to your business, your family, and your community." trust personable-and-friendly best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
b5ad591 10 Ways to Be More Personable and Friendly 1. Listen more than you speak. 2. When you do speak, ask questions of the other person before volunteering your own story. 3. Show a genuine interest in what the other person has to share. 4. Keep the focus on the other person. People love to talk about themselves--their kids, their significant other, their pets, their job, etc. 5. Keep a positive attitude, a smile, and eye contact. 6. Be the glue that holds the conversation together. And learn to be the glue that keeps other groups of people together. 7. Laugh at other people's jokes. 8. Take the initiative to say hello and introduce yourself. 9. Get in tune with other people's emotions. 10. Embrace small talk as a positive way to begin new conversations. trust personable-and-friendly best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
b6b539b "Going with Your Gut Your natural instincts are a great barometer for a person's trustworthiness. Listen to your gut when something feels amiss. When your natural "Spidey-Sense" kicks in, it may alerting you to red flags you would not see on the surface otherwise." trust best-motivational-speakers build-rapport customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
0839743 "In our digital world today, handwritten notes are an "old school" way to make people feel important. Email is easy and Facebook birthday messages are now the norm, however, taking that extra step makes your efforts extra special. Whether it is a thank you note, birthday greeting, or a card of congratulations, taking the time to extend this personal consideration makes a person feel like you care. Be the surprise in someone's day and make them feel important." trust emotional-intelligence best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
51d7606 I've Got to Trust You to Like You People want to do business with people whom they like and trust. If anything in a business presentation raises concerns or doubt about your trustworthiness, everything shuts down. And then there's little hope of moving forward in a positive way--you're done. trust best-motivational-speakers build-rapport customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
24f77c6 As soon as someone believes you cannot be trusted, you are stopped dead in your tracks. Whether this perceived loss of trustworthiness is true or false, the perception alone can be damaging. trust best-motivational-speakers build-rapport customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
79e8e21 Wise leaders know that being personable ad friendly is the highly-prized personality for employees who are meeting, greeting, and engaging on the front lines with customers. They are the real ambassadors of good will who make positive first impressions for the organization. Their affinity for being personable and friendly can boost the attractor factor for winning business, loyalty, and rave reviews. trust best-motivational-speakers build-rapport customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
858c045 Fine-tune your rebounding and resiliency skills. Teach yourself different ways to stay mentally in the moment by projecting a friendly and positive vibe in everything you do. Remember, your vibe attracts your tribe. So be conscientious of your impact--it's powerful! trust personable-and-friendly best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
414bacc What About the Social Introvert? Perhaps you don't want to talk! Maybe you prefer to speak only when responding to another person. If you tend to be more reserved and less gregarious, the expression on your face will speak volumes. A pleasant expression and a genuine smile communicate friendliness and approachability that will lead you to a positive experience. Your body language engages--without words. trust personable-and-friendly best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
fa0f7ff "The South is known for its "Southern Hospitality," and I feel fortunate to have grown up in such a friendly and caring culture. Our remarkable mother has always exemplified these qualities and has been a consistent role model for making other people feel valued and important. She will approach new people in most any situation to gift them with a smile and a moment of her time. Regardless of their role, position, or stature, she confidently engages others with animation, enthusiasm, and interest. Her gentility makes people feel emotionally safe and cared for. This degree of friendliness melts resistance, lowers barriers, and opens hearts by valuing humanity. Almost always, her personal connections develop with feelings of mutual respect, appreciation, and friendship." trust best-motivational-speakers build-rapport customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
2c2b1f2 "Can I Trust You? Years ago, I heard Lou Holtz speak at a national conference. His rock-solid reputation preceded him--he is the only coach in the history of college football to take six different football teams to a bowl game. He is not only well-respected for his ability to elevate football programs, but to elevate individuals as well. During his humorous and entertaining keynote, he taught a few small lessons which carried big meanings. He shared that every person you meet is privately asking themselves three questions: 1. Do you care about me? 2. Do I like you? 3. Can I trust you? When you make an authentic, sincere, and dignified effort to create a positive first impression, you increase your chances of receiving a "Yes!" to those questions. Unfortunately, if someone you meet answers "No!" you've got an uphill battle to earn their business or develop a friendship." trust best-motivational-speakers build-rapport customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
6480b92 Strengthen your first impressions by making the intentional effort to first earn people's trust, and rapport will naturally follow. trust best-motivational-speakers build-rapport customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
9614ea0 "Years ago, my mentor, Mary Seals and I shared a mutual acquaintance who was successful in sales, but had a questionable reputation. I told her, "I really like him, but I can't trust him as far as I can throw him." Mary bluntly replied, "Susan, if I can't trust someone, I don't like or respect them. Her comment caused me to reconsider always giving people the benefit of a doubt and to instead be wary when someone demonstrates a lack of integrity." trust best-motivational-speakers build-rapport customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
8010b6a When you are genuinely interested, your authenticity reveals itself in your body language, attitude, facial gestures, eye contact, and overall responsiveness. trust best-keynote-speakers best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
bb6e850 If you want to impress someone with how much you know, the best thing you can do is talk to them about . . . them. People typically love to share their stories and are delighted when others show genuine interest in hearing about: their families, what they do for fun, their opinions, where they are going on vacation, their happiest memories, their hobbies, or even where they grew up. trust personable-and-friendly best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
9eb9ef6 "Is it possible to be friendly and engaging every day? Of course not. Everyone has their moments. I once read a quote from an anonymous author who said, "It's okay to have a bad day-- just don't unpack and live there." I love that. As an example, imagine waking up and stubbing your toe as you get out of bed. You can respond in one of two ways. You can allow it to start your day off on the wrong foot and go through the rest of your day in a bad mood--souring everything and everyone in your path. OR . . . you can say, "Oh great--sh*t happens, the day's got to get better from here!" Then set your intention to look for the good things that head your way for the rest of the day. You have the power to pick." trust personable-and-friendly best-motivational-speakers customer-service-quotes first-impressions-quotes speaker-susan-young quotes-by-susan-c-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
51f8902 Your integrity is your personal code of honor and has the power to build your reputation or destroy it, establish credibility or crumble it--in one swift move. integrity confidence trust communication-quotes first-impressions motivational-speaker susan-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
b17e203 "7. "When a foundation is built following sound structural principles, with solid, high-quality materials, anything that is layered on top is more secure, durable, and resilient. Your integrity works the same way." integrity confidence trust communication-quotes first-impressions motivational-speaker susan-young relationship-quotes communication-skills Susan C. Young
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