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Most things break, including hearts. The lessons of life amount not to wisdom, but to scar tissue and callus.
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life-lessons
wisdom
wounds
hurt
scars
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Wallace Stegner |
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Touch. It is touch that is the deadliest enemy of chastity, loyalty, monogamy, gentility with its codes and conventions and restraints. By touch we are betrayed and betray others ... an accidental brushing of shoulders or touching of hands ... hands laid on shoulders in a gesture of comfort that lies like a thief, that takes, not gives, that wants, not offers, that awakes, not pacifies. When one flesh is waiting, there is electricity in the..
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infidelity
longing
touch
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Something will have gone out of us as a people if we ever let the remaining wilderness be destroyed ... We simply need that wild country available to us, even if we never do more than drive to its edge and look in.
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nature
wilderness
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Wallace Stegner |
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T]hat old September feeling, left over from school days, of summer passing, vacation nearly done, obligations gathering, books and football in the air ... Another fall, another turned page: there was something of jubilee in that annual autumnal beginning, as if last year's mistakes had been wiped clean by summer.
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back-to-school
new-beginnings
september
fall
summer
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Wallace Stegner |
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Home is a notion that only nations of the homeless fully appreciate and only the uprooted comprehend.
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homelessness
belonging
attachment
roots
home
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You can plan all you want to. You can lie in your morning bed and fill whole notebooks with schemes and intentions. But within a single afternoon, within hours or minutes, everything you plan and everything you have fought to make yourself can be undone as a slug is undone when salt is poured on him. And right up to the moment when you find yourself dissolving into foam you can still believe you are doing fine.
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Wallace Stegner |
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Wisdom. . .is knowing what you have to accept.
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wisdom
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Wallace Stegner |
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It is the beginning of wisdom when you recognize that the best you can do is choose rules you want to live by, and it's persistent and aggravated imbecility to pretend you can live without any.
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life
conduct-of-life
society
rules
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Wallace Stegner |
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The lessons of life amount not to wisdom, but to scar tissue and callus.
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life-lessons
wisdom
wounds
scars
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Wallace Stegner |
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There is a sense in which we are all each other's consequences.
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each-other
we
sense
consequences
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Wallace Stegner |
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He used to tell me, 'Do what you like to do. It'll probably turn out to be what you do best.
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Wallace Stegner |
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She had rooms in her mind that she would not look into.
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Wallace Stegner |
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Friendship] is a relationship that has no formal shape, there are no rules or obligations or bonds as in marriage or the family, it is held together by neither law nor property nor blood, there is no glue in it but mutual liking. It is therefore rare.
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Wallace Stegner |
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There it was, there it is, the place where during the best time of our lives friendship had its home and happiness its headquarters.
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Wallace Stegner |
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I wonder if ever again Americans can have that experience of returning to a home place so intimately known, profoundly felt, deeply loved, and absolutely submitted to? It is not quite true that you can't go home again. I have done it, coming back here. But it gets less likely. We have had too many divorces, we have consumed too much transportation, we have lived too shallowly in too many places.
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shallowness
familiarity
depth
home
intimacy
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Wallace Stegner |
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The modern age] knows nothing about isolation and nothing about silence. In our quietest and loneliest hour the automatic ice-maker in the refrigerator will cluck and drop an ice cube, the automatic dishwasher will sigh through its changes, a plane will drone over, the nearest freeway will vibrate the air. Red and white lights will pass in the sky, lights will shine along highways and glance off windows. There is always a radio that can be ..
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loneliness
silence
shallowness
modern-society
stillness
isolation
peace
noise
technology
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Wallace Stegner |
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Youth hasn't got anything to do with chronological age. It's times of hope and happiness.
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Wallace Stegner |
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Towns are like people. Old ones often have character, the new ones are interchangeable.
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town
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Wallace Stegner |
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You'll do what you think you want to do, or what you think you ought to do. If you're very lucky, luckier than anybody I know, the two will coincide.
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Wallace Stegner |
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One cannot be pessimistic about the West. This is the native home of hope. When it fully learns that cooperation, not rugged individualism, is the quality that most characterizes and preserves it, then it will have achieved itself and outlived its origins. Then it has a chance to create a society to match its scenery.
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optimism
conservation
cooperation
environment
individualism
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Wallace Stegner |
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I shall be richer all my life for this sorrow
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Wallace Stegner |
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Do we respond only to people who seem to find us interesting?
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Wallace Stegner |
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Our last impression of her as she turned the corner was that smile, flung backward like a handful of flowers.
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Wallace Stegner |
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It is love and friendship, the sanctity and celebration of our relationships, that not only support a good life, but create one. Through friendships, we spark and inspire one another's ambitions.
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Wallace Stegner |
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Some people, I am told, have memories like computers, nothing to do but punch the button and wait for the print-out. Mine is more like a Japanese library of the old style, without a card file or an indexing system or any systematic shelf plan. Nobody knows where anything is except the old geezer in felt slippers who has been shuffling up and down those stacks for sixty-nine years. When you hand him a problem he doesn't come back with a cart..
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Wallace Stegner |
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wherever you find the greatest good, you will find the greatest evil, because evil loves paradise as much as good.
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good
philosophy
paradise
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Wallace Stegner |
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In a way, it is beautiful to be young and hard up. With the right wife, and I had her, deprivation became a game.
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Wallace Stegner |
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How do you make a book that anyone will read out of lives as quiet as these? Where are the things that novelists seize upon and readers expect? Where is the high life, the conspicuous waste, the violence, the kinky sex, the death wish? Where are the suburban infidelities, the promiscuities, the convulsive divorces, the alcohol, the drugs, the lost weekends? Where are the hatreds, the political ambitions, the lust for power? Where are speed,..
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Wallace Stegner |
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You can't retire to weakness -- you've got to learn to control strength.
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strength
weakness
power
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Wallace Stegner |
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Civilizations grow by agreements and accomodations and accretions, not by repudiations. The rebels and the revolutionaries are only eddies, they keep the stream from getting stagnant but they get swept down and absorbed, they're a side issue. Quiet desperation is another name for the human condition. If revolutionaries would learn that they can't remodel society by day after tomorrow -- haven't the wisdom to and shouldn't be permitted to --..
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rebellion
humanity
human-condition
civilization
growth
society
revolution
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Wallace Stegner |
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Something will have gone out of us as a people if we ever let the remaining wilderness be destroyed; if we permit the last virgin forests to be turned into comic books and plastic cigarette cases; if we drive the few remaining members of the wild species into zoos or to extinction; if we pollute the last clear air and dirty the last clean streams and push our paved roads through the last of the silence . . .
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inspirational
wilderness
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Wallace Stegner |
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If there is such a thing as being conditioned by climate and geography, and I think there is, it is the West that has conditioned me. It has the forms and lights and colors that I respond to in nature and in art. If there is a western speech, I speak it; if there is a western character or personality, I am some variant of it; if there is a western culture in the small-c , anthropological sense, I have not escaped it. It has to have shaped m..
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Wallace Stegner |
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No life goes past so swiftly as an eventless one, no clock spins like a clock whose days are all alike.
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time
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Wallace Stegner |
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Ambition is a path, not a destination, and it is essentially the same path for everybody. No matter what the goal is, the path leads through Pilgrim's Progress regions of motivation, hard work, persistence, stubbornness, and resilience under disappointment. Unconsidered, merely indulged, ambition becomes a vice; it can turn an man into a machine that knows nothing but how to run. Considered, it can be something else -- pathway to the stars,..
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Wallace Stegner |
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Hard writing makes easy reading.
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writing
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Wallace Stegner |
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There is another physical law that teases me, too: the Doppler Effect. The sound of anything coming at you- a train, say, or the future- has a higher pitch than the sound of the same thing going away. If you have perfect pitch and a head for mathematics you can compute the speed of the object by the interval between its arriving and departing sounds. I have neither perfect pitch nor a head for mathematics, and anyway who wants to compute th..
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Wallace Stegner |
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What ever happened to the passion we all had to improve ourselves, live up to our potential, leave a mark on the world? Our hottest arguments were always about how we could contribute. We did not care about the rewards. We were young and earnest.
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passion
youth
contributions
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Wallace Stegner |
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You married me...but you didn't marry what you could make out of me.
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Wallace Stegner |
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It's easier to die than to move ... at least for the Other Side you don't need trunks.
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death
moving
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Wallace Stegner |
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Faith can reclaim deserts as well as move mountains.
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Wallace Stegner |
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A writer is an organism that will go on writing even after its heart has been cut out.
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Wallace Stegner |
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By his very profession, a serious fiction writer is a vendor of the sensuous particulars of life, a perceiver and handler of things. His most valuable tools are his sense and his memory; what happens in his mind is primarily pictures.
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writing
imagination
senses
images
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Wallace Stegner |
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We made plenty of mistakes, but we never tripped anybody to gain an advantage, or took illegal shortcuts when no judge was around. We have all jogged and panted it out the whole way.
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Wallace Stegner |
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Hope was always out ahead of fact, possibility obscured the outlines of reality.
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