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Porque eres una nina>> nunca es una razon para nada. Nunca.
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Si no les ponemos a nuestros hijos la camisa de fuerza de los roles de genero les dejamos espacio para que alcancen su maximo potencial.
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Si criticas X en las mujeres pero no lo criticas en los hombres, tal vez no tengas un problema con X, sino con las mujeres.
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En ocasiones [...] se da por hecho que las mujeres se suponen moralmente <> que los hombres. No lo son. Las mujeres son igual de humanas que los hombres.
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The value we give to "Mrs." means that marriage changes the social status of a woman bur not that of a man."
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No todas las mujeres son feministas y no todos los hombres son misoginos.
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Saying no when no feels right is something to be proud of.
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Today, we live in a vastly different world. The person more qualified to lead is not the physically stronger person. It is the more intelligent, the more knowledgeable, the more creative, more innovative. And there are no hormones for those attributes
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Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie |
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Everybody will have an opinion about what you should do, but what matters is what you want for yourself.
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And speaking of shame-never, ever link sexuality and shame. Or nakedness and shame. Do not ever make 'virginity' a focus. Every conversation about virginity becomes a conversation about shame. Teach her to reject the linking of shame and female biology.
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The knowledge of cooking does not come pre-installed in a vagina. Cooking is learned.
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Women must be 'covered up' to protect men. I find this deeply dehumanizing because it reduces women to mere props used to manage the appetites of men.
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When Sister Ibinabo was talking to Christie, with that poisonous spite she claimed was religious guidance, Ifemelu had looked at her and suddenly seen something of her own mother. Her mother was a kinder and simpler person, but like Sister Ibinabo, she was a person who denied that things were as they were.
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ha certas coisas que acontecem e para as quais nao podemos formular um porque, para as quais os porques simplesmente nao existem e para as quais, talvez, eles nao sejam necessarios
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and begin a life in which she alone determined the margins.
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The rude stranger in the supermarket--who knew what problems he was wrestling with, haggard and thin-lipped as he was--had intended to offend her but had instead prodded her awake.
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Ogbenyealu is a common name for girls and you know what it means? 'Not to Be Married to a Poor Man.' To stamp that on a child at birth is capitalism at its best.
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Richard wanted to ask why God had allowed the war to happen in the first place. Yet their faith moved him. If God could make them care so genuinely, God was a worthy concept.
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Yes. He's back at his desk." Blaine paused. "I think he expects this sort of thing to happen." "That's the actual tragedy," Ifemelu said, and realized she was using Blaine's own words; sometimes she heard in her voice the echo of his. The actual tragedy of Emmett Till, he had told her once, was not the murder of a black child for whistling at a white woman but that some black people thought: But why did you whistle?"
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There must be more than male benevolence as the basis for a woman's well-being. Feminism Lite uses the language of "allowing."
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IFEMELU HAD GROWN UP in the shadow of her mother's hair. It was black-black, so thick it drank two containers of relaxer at the salon, so full it took hours under the hooded dryer, and, when finally released from pink plastic rollers, sprang free and full, flowing down her back like a celebration.
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man's ugly body thrusting into his sister's. It
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Teach her to question men who can have empathy for women only if they see them as relational rather than as individual equal humans. Men who, when discussing rape, will always say something like "if it were my daughter or wife or sister." Yet such men do not need to imagine a male victim of crime as a brother or son in order to feel empathy. Teach her, too, to question the idea of women as a special species. I once heard an American politic..
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Um homem pobre ainda tem os privilegios de ser homem, mesmo que nao tenha o privilegio da riqueza.
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Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie |
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So instead of teaching Chizalum to be likeable, teach her to be honest. And kind.
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I know this remarkable Nigerian woman, Angela, a single mother who was raising her child in the United States; her child did not take to reading so she decided to pay her five cents per page. An expensive endeavor, she later joked, but a worthy investment.
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CHAPTER 1 Princeton, in the summer, smelled of nothing, and although Ifemelu liked the tranquil greenness of the many trees, the clean streets and stately homes, the delicately overpriced shops, and the quiet, abiding air of earned grace, it was this, the lack of a smell, that most appealed to her, perhaps because the other American cities she knew well had all smelled distinctly. Philadelphia had the musty scent of history. New Haven smell..
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Nuestra sociedad ensena a las mujeres solteras de cierta edad a considerar su solteria un profundo fracaso personal. En cambio, un hombre de cierta edad que no se ha casado es porque todavia no ha elegido.
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Real potatoes are backward for him. Remember this is our newly middle-class world. We haven't completed the first cycle of prosperity, before going back to the beginning again, to drink milk from the cow's udder.
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Into my heart on air that kills From yon far country blows: What are those blue remembered hills, What spires, what farms are those? That is the land of lost content I see it shining plain, The happy highways where I went And cannot come again.
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Nwunye m, sometimes life begins when marriage ends." "You and your university talk. Is this what you tell your students?" Mama was smiling. "Seriously, yes. But they marry earlier and earlier these days. What is the use of a degree, they ask me, when we cannot find a job after graduation?" "At least somebody will take care of them when they marry." "I don't know who will take care of whom. Six girls in my first-year seminar class are marrie..
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It's true. And they don't just spend a lot, they expect to spend a lot. I met this guy the other day, and he was telling me how he started his satellite-dish business about twenty years ago. This was when satellite dishes were still new in the country and so he was bringing in something most people didn't know about. He put his business plan together, and came up with a good price that would fetch him a good profit. Another friend of his, w..
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You must never behave as if your life belongs to a man. Do you hear me?" Aunty Ifeka said. "Your life belongs to you and you alone, soso gi."
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Aunty Ifeoma was silent as she ladled the thick cocoyam paste into the soup pot; then she looked up and said Papa-Nnukwu was not a heathen but a traditionalist, that sometimes what was different was just as good as what was familiar, that when Papa-Nnukwu did his itu-nzu, his declaration of innocence, in the morning, it was the same as our saying the rosary.
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Teach her that the idea of "gender roles" is absolute nonsense. Do not ever tell her that she should or should not do something because she is a girl. "Because you are a girl" is never a reason for anything. Ever. (page 14) -Being a feminist is like being pregnant. You either are or you are not. You either believe in the full equality of men and women or you do not. (page 20) -Because I do not believe that marriage is something we should te..
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Teach her never to universalize her own standards or experiences. Teach her that her standards are for her alone, and not for other people. This is the only necessary form of humility: the realization that difference is normal. Please note that I am not suggesting that you raise her to be "non-judgemental," which is is a commonly used expression these days, and which slightly worries me. The general sentiment behind the idea is a fine one, ..
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Ferdinand had a steely, amoral face; if one examined his hands, the blood of his enemies might be found crusted under his fingernails.
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Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie |
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When Buchi said, "Amen" with that delight, that gusto, Obinze feared she would grow up to be a woman who, with that word "amen," would squash the questions she wanted to ask of the world."
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Teach her never to universalize her own standards or experiences. Teach her that her standards are for her alone, and not for other people. This is the only necessary form of humility: the realization that difference is normal. Please note that I am not suggesting that you raise her to be "non-judgemental," which is a commonly used expression these days, and which slightly worries me. The general sentiment behind the idea is a fine one, but..
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And I said, Ah correct, there is hope. She reads.
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Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie |
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You don't even have to love your job; you can merely love what your job does for you--the confidence and self-fulfillment that come with doing and earning.
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it was absurd how women's magazines forced images of small-boned, small-breasted white women on the rest of the multi-boned, multi-ethnic world of women to emulate.
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Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie |
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parents unconsciously start very early to teach girls how to be, that baby girls are given less room and more rules and baby boys more room and fewer rules.
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Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie |
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that her relationship with him was like being content in a house but always sitting by the window and looking out.
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