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We tell ourselves that we need the right setup before we finally buckle down and get serious. Or we tell ourselves that some vacation or time alone will be good for a relationship or an ailment. This is self-deceit at its finest. It's far better that we become pragmatic and adaptable--able to do what we need to do anywhere, anytime. The place to do your work, to live the good life, is here.
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How much more harmful are the consequences of anger and grief than the circumstances that aroused them in us!" --MARCUS AURELIUS, MEDITATIONS, 11.18.8"
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shouldn't we be just as invested in building ourselves as we would be to any company?
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In your actions, don't procrastinate. In your conversations, don't confuse. In your thoughts, don't wander. In your soul, don't be passive or aggressive. In your life, don't be all about business." --MARCUS AURELIUS"
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Respect the craft and make something beautiful.
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Pride takes a minor accomplishment and makes it feel like a major one.
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An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.
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Apply yourself to thinking through difficulties--
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Success is intoxicating, yet to sustain it requires sobriety. We can't keep learning if we think we already know everything.
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One might say that the ability to evaluate one's own ability is the most important skill of all. Without it, improvement is impossible.
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self-improvement
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We're not trying to ace tests or impress teachers. We are reading and studying to live, to be good human beings--always and forever.
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It takes a special kind of humility to grasp that you know less, even as you know and grasp more and more.
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Humility engenders learning because it beats back the arrogance that puts blinders on. It leaves you open for truths to reveal themselves. You don't stand in your own way. . . . Do you know how you can tell when someone is truly humble? I believe there's one simple test: because they consistently observe and listen, the humble improve. They don't assume, 'I know the way.
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Take it. Eat it until you're sick. Endure it. Quietly brush it off and work harder. Play the game. Ignore the noise; for the love of God, do not let it distract you. Restraint is a difficult skill but a critical one.
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The market was inherently unpredictable and often vicious--
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only the rational and disciplined mind could hope to profit from
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For the rest of his life, the greater the chaos, the calmer Rockefeller would become,
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Not many had trained themselves to see opportunity inside this obstacle,
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that what befell them was not unsalvageable misfortune but the gift of education--
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You will come across obstacles in life--fair and unfair. And you will discover, time and time again,
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You must realize: Nothing makes us feel this way; we choose to give in to such feelings.
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Or, like Rockefeller, choose not to.
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And it is precisely at this divergence--between how Rockefeller perceived his environment
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The more you say," Robert Greene has written, "the more likely you are to say something foolish."
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It's that kind of energy and creativity and above all faith in yourself that you need right now.
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Whether you live in the snake pit of Washington, D.C., work among the materialism of Wall Street, or grew up in a closed-minded small town, you can live well. Plenty of others have.
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Don't let perfect be the enemy of good enough"?"
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Perfectionism rarely begets perfection--only disappointment.
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every rational person can convert any obstacle into the raw material for their own purpose.
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to separate reliable signals from deceptive ones, to filter out prejudice, expectation, and fear.
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He was inclined to see the opportunity in every disaster. To that
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He had the strength to resist temptation or excitement, no matter how seductive, no matter the situation.
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that what matters most is not what these obstacles are but how we see them,
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how we react to them, and whether we keep our composure.
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You will learn that this reaction determines how successful we will be in overcoming--
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or possibly thriving because of--them.
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Where one person sees a crisis, another can see opportunity.
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Where one is blinded by success, another sees reality with ruthless objectivity.
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Where one loses control of emotions, another can remain calm.
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We can learn to focus on what things really are.
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Our brains evolved for an environment very different from the one we currently inhabit.
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As a result, we carry all kinds of biological baggage.
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Humans are still primed to detect threats and dangers that no longer exist--
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it certainly feels that way sometimes.
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