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That's Stoic joy--the joy that comes from purpose, excellence, and duty. It's a serious thing--far more serious than a smile or a chipper voice.
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Who wants to be the person who can never let go? Is there so little meaning in your life that your only pursuit is work until you're eventually carted off in a coffin? Take pride in your work. But it is not all.
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There was always the allure of another, better house. There were always distractions, always so many things to do--and the writer's block and insecurity that plagues creative types traveled with him wherever he went.
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We tell ourselves that we need the right setup before we finally buckle down and get serious. Or we tell ourselves that some vacation or time alone will be good for a relationship or an ailment. This is self-deceit at its finest. It's far better that we become pragmatic and adaptable--able to do what we need to do anywhere, anytime. The place to do your work, to live the good life, is here.
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How much more harmful are the consequences of anger and grief than the circumstances that aroused them in us!" --MARCUS AURELIUS, MEDITATIONS, 11.18.8"
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shouldn't we be just as invested in building ourselves as we would be to any company?
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In your actions, don't procrastinate. In your conversations, don't confuse. In your thoughts, don't wander. In your soul, don't be passive or aggressive. In your life, don't be all about business." --MARCUS AURELIUS"
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Respect the craft and make something beautiful.
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Pride takes a minor accomplishment and makes it feel like a major one.
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An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.
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Apply yourself to thinking through difficulties--
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Success is intoxicating, yet to sustain it requires sobriety. We can't keep learning if we think we already know everything.
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One might say that the ability to evaluate one's own ability is the most important skill of all. Without it, improvement is impossible.
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self-improvement
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We're not trying to ace tests or impress teachers. We are reading and studying to live, to be good human beings--always and forever.
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It takes a special kind of humility to grasp that you know less, even as you know and grasp more and more.
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Humility engenders learning because it beats back the arrogance that puts blinders on. It leaves you open for truths to reveal themselves. You don't stand in your own way. . . . Do you know how you can tell when someone is truly humble? I believe there's one simple test: because they consistently observe and listen, the humble improve. They don't assume, 'I know the way.
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Take it. Eat it until you're sick. Endure it. Quietly brush it off and work harder. Play the game. Ignore the noise; for the love of God, do not let it distract you. Restraint is a difficult skill but a critical one.
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The market was inherently unpredictable and often vicious--
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only the rational and disciplined mind could hope to profit from
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For the rest of his life, the greater the chaos, the calmer Rockefeller would become,
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Not many had trained themselves to see opportunity inside this obstacle,
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that what befell them was not unsalvageable misfortune but the gift of education--
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You will come across obstacles in life--fair and unfair. And you will discover, time and time again,
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You must realize: Nothing makes us feel this way; we choose to give in to such feelings.
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Or, like Rockefeller, choose not to.
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And it is precisely at this divergence--between how Rockefeller perceived his environment
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The more you say," Robert Greene has written, "the more likely you are to say something foolish."
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It's that kind of energy and creativity and above all faith in yourself that you need right now.
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Whether you live in the snake pit of Washington, D.C., work among the materialism of Wall Street, or grew up in a closed-minded small town, you can live well. Plenty of others have.
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Don't let perfect be the enemy of good enough"?"
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Perfectionism rarely begets perfection--only disappointment.
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every rational person can convert any obstacle into the raw material for their own purpose.
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to separate reliable signals from deceptive ones, to filter out prejudice, expectation, and fear.
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He was inclined to see the opportunity in every disaster. To that
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He had the strength to resist temptation or excitement, no matter how seductive, no matter the situation.
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that what matters most is not what these obstacles are but how we see them,
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how we react to them, and whether we keep our composure.
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You will learn that this reaction determines how successful we will be in overcoming--
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or possibly thriving because of--them.
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Where one person sees a crisis, another can see opportunity.
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Where one is blinded by success, another sees reality with ruthless objectivity.
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Where one loses control of emotions, another can remain calm.
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We can learn to focus on what things really are.
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Our brains evolved for an environment very different from the one we currently inhabit.
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