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I'd like to repeat the advice that I gave you before, in that I think you really should make a radical change in your lifestyle and begin to boldly do things which you may previously never have thought of doing, or been too hesitant to attempt. So many people live within unhappy circumstances and yet will not take the initiative to change their situation because they are conditioned to a life of security, conformity, and conservatism, all of which may appear to give one peace of mind, but in reality nothing is more damaging to the adventurous spirit within a man than a secure future. The very basic core of a man's living spirit is his passion for adventure. The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun. If you want to get more out of life, Ron, you must lose your inclination for monotonous security and adopt a helter-skelter style of life that will at first appear to you to be crazy. But once you become accustomed to such a life you will see its full meaning and its incredible beauty. And so, Ron, in short, get out of Salton City and hit the Road. I guarantee you will be very glad you did. But I fear that you will ignore my advice. You think that I am stubborn, but you are even more stubborn than me. You had a wonderful chance on your drive back to see one of the greatest sights on earth, the Grand Canyon, something every American should see at least once in his life. But for some reason incomprehensible to me you wanted nothing but to bolt for home as quickly as possible, right back to the same situation which you see day after day after day. I fear you will follow this same inclination in the future and thus fail to discover all the wonderful things that God has placed around us to discover. Don't settle down and sit in one place. Move around, be nomadic, make each day a new horizon. You are still going to live a long time, Ron, and it would be a shame if you did not take the opportunity to revolutionize your life and move into an entirely new realm of experience. You are wrong if you think Joy emanates only or principally from human relationships. God has placed it all around us. It is in everything and anything we might experience. We just have to have the courage to turn against our habitual lifestyle and engage in unconventional living. My point is that you do not need me or anyone else around to bring this new kind of light in your life. It is simply waiting out there for you to grasp it, and all you have to do is reach for it. The only person you are fighting is yourself and your stubbornness to engage in new circumstances.
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joy
life
conformity
security
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Jon Krakauer |
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Any fool can make a rule And any fool will mind it.
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humor
conformity
law
rule
foolishness
fool
rules
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Henry David Thoreau |
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We all know that any emotional bias -- irrespective of truth or falsity -- can be implanted by suggestion in the emotions of the young, hence the inherited traditions of an orthodox community are absolutely without evidential value.... If religion were true, its followers would not try to bludgeon their young into an artificial conformity; but would merely insist on their unbending quest for truth, irrespective of artificial backgrounds or practical consequences. With such an honest and inflexible openness to evidence, they could not fail to receive any real truth which might be manifesting itself around them. The fact that religionists do not follow this honourable course, but cheat at their game by invoking juvenile quasi-hypnosis, is enough to destroy their pretensions in my eyes even if their absurdity were not manifest in every other direction.
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emotion
truth
brainwashing
cheat
falsity
orthodox
religionists
bias
indoctrination
conformity
value
evidence
atheism
atheist
honor
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H.P. Lovecraft |
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It is when we think we can act like God, that all respect is lost, and I think this is the downfall of peace. We lie if we say we do not see color and culture and difference. We fool ourselves and cheat ourselves when we say that all of us are the same. We should not want to be the same as others and we should not want others to be the same as us. Rather, we ought to glory and shine in all of our differences, flaunting them fabulously for all to see! It is never a conformity that we need! We need not to conform! What we need is to burst out into all these beautiful colors!
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color
conformism
humanism
freedom
human
humanity
inspiration
inspirational-life
inspirational-quotes
living
life
inspirational
differences
conformity
difference
race
respect
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C. JoyBell C. |
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Plants are more courageous than almost all human beings: an orange tree would rather die than produce lemons, whereas instead of dying the average person would rather be someone they are not.
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be-yourself
acting
adage
adages
aphorisms
audacity
axiom
axioms
balls
cojones
conforming
courageousness
dictum
dictums
fit-in
hardihood
heroism
herself
human-being
intrepidity
made-me-think
make-you-think
maxims
motivated
moxie
murder
murdered
oneself
persons
pluckiness
pretender
pretenders
profound
provoke-thought
quotation
spunk
standout
themselves
true-grit
daring
humour
bravery
courage
inspired
people
human
fear
quote
inspiration
inspire
death
motivational
humor
inspirational
fearful
actor
saying
lemons
conform
animal
pluck
courageous
lemon
plants
nerve
boldness
motive
plant
words-to-live-by
killed
gnomes
nonconformity
orange
maxim
tree
brave
actors
façades
act
grit
epigram
epigrams
gnome
produce
deep
fitting-in
valour
proverbs
facade
aphorism
pretending
quotations
sayings
pretend
conformity
gallantry
peoples
guts
standing-out
trees
animals
satire
satirical
self
thought-provoking
person
himself
yourself
quotes
human-beings
thoughtful
insightful
proverb
humans
kill
fearlessness
dead
fruit
fruits
die
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Mokokoma Mokhonoana |
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But human beings are not machines, and however powerful the pressure to conform, they sometimes are so moved by what they see as injustice that they dare to declare their independence. In that historical possibility lies hope.
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individuality
hope
non-conformity
resolves
declaration-of-independence
self-assurance
conformity
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Howard Zinn |
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The surface of the earth is soft and impressible by the feet of men; and so with the paths which the mind travels. How worn and dusty, then, must be the highways of the world, how deep the ruts of tradition and conformity! I did not wish to take a cabin passage, but rather to go before the mast and on the deck of the world, for there I could best see the moonlight amid the mountains.
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conformity
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Henry David Thoreau |
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What editors are obliged to appear to say that want from women is actually what their want from women.
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equality
feminism
beauty
body-image
sexual-violence
cosmetic-surgery
diet-industry
fashion-industry
mass-culture
objectification
plastic-surgery
cosmetics
images
marketing
conformity
pornography
society
culture
double-standards
magazines
sexuality
eating-disorders
self-esteem
aging
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Naomi Wolf |
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If New Orleans is not fully in the mainstream of culture, neither is it fully in the mainstream of time. Lacking a well-defined present, it lives somewhere between its past and its future, as if uncertain whether to advance or to retreat. Perhaps it is its perpetual ambivalence that is its secret charm. Somewhere between Preservation Hall and the Superdome, between voodoo and cybernetics, New Orleans listens eagerly to the seductive promises of the future but keeps at least one foot firmly planted in its history, and in the end, conforms, like an artist, not to the world but to its own inner being--ever mindful of its personal style.
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present
time
history
future
past
mainstream
new-orleans
conformity
timelessness
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Tom Robbins |
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Evil would always come to me disguised in systems and dignified by law.
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conformity
law
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Pat Conroy |
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Ought one to surrender to authority even if one believed that that authority was wrong? If the answer was yes, then I knew that I would always be wrong, because I could never do it. Then how could one live in a world in which one's mind and perceptions meant nothing and authority and tradition meant everything? There were no answers.
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autism-spectrum
black-and-white
conformity
right-and-wrong
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Richard Wright |
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I meant does it hurt when you hide every last shred of your individuality and self worth behind acres of silk and cups of powder and smiles that never, no matter how hard you try, reach your eyes?
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conformity
fakeness
burn
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Melissa de la Cruz |
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Nowadays, ads don't just sell a product. They sell an attitude! Look at this one! Here's a cool guy saying nobody tells him what to do. He does whatever he wants and he buys this product as a reflection of that independence. So basically, this maverick is urging everyone to express his individuality through conformity in brand-name selection?
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individuality
independence
conformity
peer-pressure
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Bill Watterson |
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"What kind of men, then, does our society need? What is the "social character" suited to twentieth century Capitalism? It needs men who co-operate smoothly in large groups; who want to consume more and more, and whose tasks are standardized and can easily be influenced and anticipated. It needs men who feel free and independent, not subject to any authority, or principle, or conscience - yet willing to be commanded, to do what is expected, to fit into the social machine without friction."
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herd-mentality
groupthink
conformity
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Erich Fromm |
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Wild birds will kill exotic ones: the budgies and the lovebirds and the yellow canaries-- escaped from their cages and hoping to get a taste of the sky -- usually end up back on the ground, plucked raw by their more conformist cousins
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conformists
wildness
conformity
standing-out
difference
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Joanne Harris |
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Convention (is) so often a mask for injustice.
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education
conventional-wisdom
conformity
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Edith Hamilton |
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Emily Dickinson sublimely unnames even the blanks.
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word-choice
conventional-wisdom
innovation
conformity
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Harold Bloom |
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I expected, as I approached the corporate world, to enter a brisk, logical, nonsense-free zone, almost like the military - or a disciplined, up-to-date military anyway - in its focus on concrete results. How else would companies survive fierce competition? But what I encountered was a culture riven with assumptions unrelated to those that underlie the fact- and logic-based worlds of, say science and journalism - a culture addicted to untested habits, paralyzed by conformity, and shot through with magical thinking.
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bias
biased
corporate-america
corporate-culture
corporate-world
military
conformity
logic
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Barbara Ehrenreich |
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"When critics surrender to the prevailing orthodoxy, the author says they adopt the rhetoric of an occupied country, "one that expects no liberation from liberation."
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romance
bias
conventional-wisdom
conformity
perspective
science-fiction
paranormal
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