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i have a friend request from some stranger on facebook and i delete it without looking at the profile because that doesn't seem natural. 'cause friendship should not be as easy as that. it's like people believe all you need to do is like the same bands in order to be soulmates. or books. no we're not. it's like we have the same english teacher. there's a difference.
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David Levithan |
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Most neuroses and some psychoses can be traced to the unnecessary and unhealthy habit of daily wallowing in the troubles and sins of five billion strangers.
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Robert A. Heinlein |
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The internet is where some people go to show their true intelligence; others, their hidden stupidity.
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Criss Jami |
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All media work us over completely.
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Marshall McLuhan |
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I liked the thought that the book I was now holding had been held by dozens of others.
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Doris Kearns Goodwin |
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Six degrees of separation doesn't mean that everyone is linked to everyone else in just six steps. It means that a very small number of people are linked to everyone else in a few steps, and the rest of us are linked to the world through those special few.
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F. Scott Fitzgerald believed inserting exclamation points was the literary equivalent of an author laughing at his own jokes, but that's not the case in the modern age; now, the exclamation point signifies creative confusion. All it illustrates is that even the writer can't tell if what they're creating is supposed to be meaningful, frivolous, or cruel. It's an attempt to insert humor where none exists, on the off chance that a potential reader will only be pleased if they suspect they're being entertained. Of course, the reader isn't really sure, either. They just want to know when they're supposed to pretend to be amused.
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"Face-book has all the social graces of a nose-picking, hyperactive six-year-old, standing at the threshold of your attention and chanting, "I know something, I know something, I know something, won't tell you what it is!"
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Not everyone is always going to like you. What impresses one person may turn another away. To thine own self be true.
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Being comfortable with online contact is a central part of netiquette. Stay in your zone. NetworkEtiquette.net
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It's good netiquette to look for every opportunity to compliment others online. NetworkEtiquette.net
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It's good netiquette to provide links in updates. Everyone does not know what you know. NetworkEtiquette.net
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Your success and legacy, personally and professionally, are built through the impressions you make one encounter at a time.
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Susan C. Young |
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The discovery that making great first impressions can be a learned skill helped me to understand that we can and do have power over how we affect and impact others and on how well we are received in this world.
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Susan C. Young |
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The Art of Being lays the foundation for your first impressions, because if you get this part wrong not much else matters. All other efforts may be diminished or wasted.
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Susan C. Young |
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Someone who is being gracious, kind, and passionate is more likely to achieve what they want in life than someone who is being petty, cruel, or resistant.
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Susan C. Young |
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Your way of being sets the tone for how people relate to you, behave toward you, and engage. How is it working for you?
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Susan C. Young |
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Becoming the person you want to be draws from being your best and doing your best as you allow your personality, passions, and purpose to shine through.
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Susan C. Young |
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Being authentic is key to living a happy life and enjoying healthy relationships.
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Susan C. Young |
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Are you being real? When people meet you, are you straight up and natural--the real deal? If you are, then you will appreciate what it means to approach life always being YOU.
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Susan C. Young |
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Standing in your personal truth enables you to transcend social layers of happenstance and get to the heart of matters--revealing what is raw and real.
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Susan C. Young |
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Human resource directors and hiring managers tell me they usually know within the first thirty seconds of a job interview whether or not the person is even a viable candidate.
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Susan C. Young |
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"Why is a first impression so important?" Because these brief seconds can be the make-or-break, live-or-die, or yes-or-no basis for building rapport, earning trust, winning friends, or making the sale."
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Susan C. Young |
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"1. "Whether a first impression is made by way of a mere glance, a warm smile, a visit to your website, your poise and speech, or a formal introduction, it sets the stage for your relationships, personally and professionally."
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Regardless of the venue, there are skills you can learn and special qualities you can adopt which can help you optimize social encounters.
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Susan C. Young |
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The number 8 is well-rounded, circular, continuous, consistent, connected--and eternal. These are the same outcomes you can create and enjoy when you turn a positive first impression into a constructive and lasting one.
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Susan C. Young |
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Why would you be anything other than your unique and best self?
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Susan C. Young |
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Life's most amazing moments between people are built on trust, communication, acceptance, and love.
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Susan C. Young |
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As we observe and experience varying degrees of difficulty, negativity, loss, hurt, anxiety, and fear in life, we yearn for the reassurance that our relationships are safe.
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Susan C. Young |
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The days of the pushy salesmen and self-serving narcissists are over. That type of behavior quickly alienates and pushes people away because it offends and can't be trusted.
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Susan C. Young |
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People must believe that you are real and are who you say you are, otherwise they will not want to do business with you, much less make the effort to move forward in starting and building a relationship.
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Susan C. Young |
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"We are each a work in progress--special and unique. By learning and living the "Art of First Impressions," you can design a masterpiece of which you can be proud." --
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Susan C. Young |
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We crave real people and are delighted when we find them.
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Susan C. Young |
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Own your truths--all of them. Be honest. Be genuine. Be straightforward. Be refreshing!
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Susan C. Young |
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Allow your natural personality to shine through without pretending to be someone you're not, or you may be stuck with that label forever.
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Living in alignment with your true self enables you to cultivate transparency and unshakable authenticity.
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Admittedly, there will be times when you must interact on a superficial level and adjust your behavior to fit in, go along and get along.
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Interestingly, being yourself allows others to be themselves. Even with crazy imperfections, being a bona fide genuine person is the best any of us can be--messy flaws and all!
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Susan C. Young |
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Do you generally feel uncomfortable around people whom you perceive to be perfect? Is there really such a thing as the perfect person? Of course not! Our flaws are often what differentiates us from each other, and no person is perfect.
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Susan C. Young |
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I am a recovering perfectionist, and like all in recovery, I do better some days than others!
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"Authenticity isn't just about saying "this is who I am"--it is also about being flexible enough to recognize and appreciate the uniqueness in others--honoring the mutual respect for being authentic and true."
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Susan C. Young |
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Why did I think that the mask was a better portrayal than my authentic self? We can get hidden under layers of illusion, can't we?
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Susan C. Young |
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As a young girl, I allowed my self-esteem to be determined by others' opinions, and I devoted incredible energy tuning into how everyone else felt.
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Susan C. Young |
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What impresses you when you meet someone new? What is it about some people that makes you remember them for the rest of your life, even though your interaction lasted only a few moments?
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Susan C. Young |
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Throughout your life, thousands of people will cross your path. Some you will remember fondly. Some you will remember negatively. Others will slip by unnoticed, perhaps because they were neutral, unengaged or, quite frankly, unimpressive.
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Susan C. Young |
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What can you do, beginning TODAY, to be the one who makes your mark and leaves others in awe?
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Susan C. Young |
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There are times when making a great first impression is essential and you need to do everything in your power to be diligent, deliberate, and dedicated to making the connection count.
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Susan C. Young |
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To 'up your game' means, simply, to make the effort to improve what you are doing--to amplify, boost, or strengthen your talents or performance.
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Susan C. Young |
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Applied in ways that are authentic to you, these concepts are powerful and can positively impact and influence every type of relationship.
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Susan C. Young |
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Knowing how to make a great first impression will enable you to more easily achieve your goals and live out your hopes and dreams to become a happier, more content you.
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Susan C. Young |
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Attitude. Personality. Mindset. Spirit. Essence. Perspective. Regardless of how you define your state of being, your mental, intellectual, emotional, and spiritual approaches are the basis for your existence and how you experience life.
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Susan C. Young |
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Your way of being impacts your happiness and outcomes--the wisdom of your choices, your confidence and courage, your self-esteem, how you are perceived and received by others, and the quality of your relationships.
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The more positively centered and grounded you are in your authentic being, the more people may be drawn to you.
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Susan C. Young |
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When I meet someone who is truly genuine, I am drawn to their personality and find them easier to approach, engage, and interact with. They have no hint of false pretense, nor do I worry about hidden agendas.
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Authentic people are instantly more likable and trustworthy, which makes building rapport with them a pleasure.
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Susan C. Young |
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Walking in alignment with your integrity will help you stay on the right track.
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Susan C. Young |
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There is a reason that the words natural, wholesome, and organic resonate throughout our culture today. Aim to be natural and truly who you are one-hundred percent of the time.
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Susan C. Young |
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We've all met people who are beautiful on the outside, however, when they open their mouths to speak, they have nothing of substance to contribute.
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Susan C. Young |
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Sometimes we meet folks who appear rather plain, yet when they speak from a heart of service, love, compassion, and wisdom, they instantly become respected favorites.
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Authenticity is the litmus test for the honesty, transparency, and trust which are necessary for healthy relationships.
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Susan C. Young |
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Authenticity respects the ebb and flow between positive and negative. The people who really know you will understand that you are not always going to be in a happy place and an occasional bad mood is acceptable.
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By authentically sharing when things aren't right you allow the people you care about to offer the support you may need.
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Susan C. Young |
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She is so secure in her beautifully imperfect self that she would welcome you with open arms, no judgment, and complete acceptance.
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Susan C. Young |
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Positive impressions have staying power, so make them great. You can transform your connections and your relationship results!
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Susan C. Young |
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Do you really want people to like you for something that you're not? It takes a lot of energy to pretend to be someone else for the sake of pleasing others.
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Authentic people are so comfortable in their own skins they make us more comfortable in our own.
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If he could not go out into the world, the world could come to him.
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As a lifetime people pleaser, I remember trying to mold myself into the person I thought other people wanted me to be--all for the sake of being liked and accepted. It caused more pain than gain.
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"Every one of your first encounters begins with a "blank canvas" which provides you with unlimited opportunities to color your world in the ways you most desire."
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Susan C. Young |
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As with art, first impressions are not rigid or carved in stone. Rather they are agile and adaptable, depending on the inspiration, the artist, the observer, the medium, and the circumstance.
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Susan C. Young |
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Making an excellent first impression may seem old-fashioned to some, but the realities of life confirm that the first impression is a lasting one--impactful enough to change your life and even outlive you altogether.
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