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Buduci da je istina da se punoca duse ponekad moze utopiti u potpunoj bljutavosti jezika, jer niko od nas nikada ne moze zaista izraziti tacne mere svojih potreba, misli ili patnji; a ljudski govor je poput razbijenog lonceta, po kom udaramo grube ritmove da bi medvedi uz njih igrali, dok zelimo da stvorimo muziku koja ce razneziti zvezde.
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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byshtr wqth shdmny bsyr Hrf h r dr khwd frw my brd
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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spynwz: hdf mn tGyyr yhwdyt nyst. hdf mn z rstgrbwry frTy z myn brdshtn hmh mdhhb w brqrry mdhhby jhny st khh dr an hmh nsnh z rh fhm khml Tby`t dr jst w jwy dstyby bh rstgry w s`dt hstnd
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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bry dydn dny z dydgh bdyt, byd hwyt khwd r, y`ny dlbstgy bh khwd r khnr bgdhrym w hr chyzy r z chshm ndzy khml mnsb w Hqyqy bbynym. wqty btwnym yn khr r bkhnym, dygr byn khwd w dygrn mrzy Hss nmy khnym w armshy bzrg dr drwnmn jryn my ybd w hych rwyddy m r ngrn nmy khnd. Hty mrg khwdmn tfwty yjd nmy khnd. wqty dygrn bh yn chshm ndz nyl shwnd b ykhdygr dwst khwhym bwd w anchh r bry khwd my khwhym bry dygrn nyz khwhym khwst w b blndnZry `ml kh..
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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actul uitarii este o forma de moarte cu care ne intalnim mereu in viata.
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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Philip doblo, camino junto al puerto de embarcaciones deportivas; luego atraveso Chrissy Field hasta llegar a la bahia y bordeo la orilla del Pacifico, donde las olas serenas que rompian en la playa y el atemporal aroma salino del mar lo serenaron.Tirito y se abotono la chaqueta. En la menguante luz del dia, el viento frio del Pacifico atravesaba el Golden Gate y pasaba por su lado a toda velocidad, asi como las horas de su vida eternamente..
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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wjwdy r khd my nmm khh nmHdwd mTlq bshd, dhty khh z Sft w khwS zyd tshkhyl shdh bshd khh hr ykh z yn Sft mhyt bdy w nmHdwdy r Zhr my szd
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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br thr `lt bkhSwSy, ngzyr, thr y f`ly Zhr my shwd, bh `khs, gr `lt khSy nbshd, mmkhn nyst khh f`ly sr bznd. shnkhtn thr y m`lwl, tb` shnkhtn `lt st w sbb shnsyy `lt my shwd
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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khlm khtb mqds r nmy twn tHt llfZy fhmyd. byd dr bstr zmn khwd, an r drkh khrd
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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From the beginning, of course, I had known that the pure forcefulness of my argument would not penetrate deep enough to effect any change. It almost never does. It's never worked for me when I've been in therapy. Only when one feels an insight in one's bones does one own it. Only then can one act on it and change. Pop psychologists forever talk about "responsibility assumption," but it's all words: it is extraordinarily hard, even terrifyin..
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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What have your scholarly investigations shown you?" No"
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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qnwn lhy, <> st, <>. m`rft Hqyqy, bh m`ny bh khml rsndn <> st khh bh m mkhn my dhd khd r khml tr bshnsym. mn `shq skhnn slymni pymbr hstm khh my gwyd: wqty khrdmndy wrd qlbt my shwd w rwHt z shnkht ldht my brd angh <> w hmh y msyrhy khyr r drkh khwhy khrd
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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spynwz my gwyd: khd Tby`t st w Tby`t khd mnZwrm z Tby`t, drkht y jngl y chmn y qynws nyst. mnZwrm hr chyzy st khh wjwd drd: wHdt wjwd mTlq Tby`t y`ny anchh by nhyt, ykhprchh, khml, `qlny w mnTqy st `lti dhtyi hmh y chyzh. w hrchyzy khh <> drd, bdwn stthn br ss qwnyn Tby`t khr my khnd
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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ayndh b anchh dr gdhshth njm yfth st b khlq w khwy jsmy w rwny, `Tfh h, trs h, hdf h, srsht, `shqi bh khwd w Trz tlqy m z dygrn t`yyn my shwd
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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spynwz: shm mqmt mdhhby dr hmh j md`y HfZt z khlydhy zndgy ps z mrg hstyd w z an khlydh bry hdyt sysy khwd stfdh my khnyd
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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You are not a cow, and I am no apostle of cud chewing.
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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hmh khlyshy msyHyn, nqshy h y shyshh khryhy rngy z `ysy msyH drnd khh nshn my dhd yshn r bh Slyb khshydnd. hych khlysyy tSwyrhyy z msyH qdrtmnd w dlyr nshn nmy dhd. `ysy msyH khh jrt khrd khkhm hy fsd r bh mbrzh bTlbd, `ysy msyH khh ykh tnh Srfn r z m`bd byrwn khrd
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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You say that imperishable happiness lies elsewhere. Tell me about this 'elsewhere.'" "I only know that it does not lie in perishable objects. It lies not outside but within. It is the mind that determines what is fearful, worthless, desirable, or priceless, and therefore it is the mind, and only the mind, that must be altered." "What"
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Habia seguido la senda de Zaratustra: habia compartido su estado de madurez, habia trascendido de si mismo tendiendo la mano a otros y vivido de una manera que habria estado dispuesto a repetir una y otra vez por toda la eternidad.
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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though the physicality of death destroys us, the idea of death saves us.
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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Kutsal olan hakikat degil, kisinin kendi hakikati icin ciktigi arayistir!
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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Olum varken ben yokum. Ben varken olum yok. O halde uzulecek ne var?
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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Tabii aci cekeceksin, gormenin bedelidir bu. Tabii icin korkuyla dolacak, yasamak demek tehlike icinde olmak demektir. Buyumek zordur!!" diye haykirmisti. "Sen bir inek degilsin, ben de gevisgetirenlerin havarisi degilim"
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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Suntem indragostiti mai mult de dorinta decat de fiinta dorita.
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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Nu crea copii pana cand nu esti gata sa fii un creator si sa dai nastere la creatori. E gresit sa faci copii din nevoie, e gresit sa folosesti un copil pentru a-ti alina singuratatea, e gresit sa-ti creezi un scop in viata din a reproduce o copie a ta. E gresit sa cauti nemurirea varsandu-ti samanta in viitor, ca si cum sperma ti-ar contine constiinta.
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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Seymour a Ernest: "A veces el destino nos coloca en una posicion donde lo correcto resulta equivocado"
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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qyd skhtgy, aswdgy skhtgy w shkhnndh dr py drd
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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mn an chyzy r t`ql my khnm khh `lt wjwdsh dr khwdsh bshd w dhtsh mstlzm wjwd st. chyzy khh Tby`t an r bh jz mwjwdbwdn bh Trz dygry ntwn t`ql khrd
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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dht y jwhr, chyzy st khh bh khwdy khwd mwjwd bshd w bh khwdy khwd tSwr shwd, y`ny t`qli an, mHtj bh t`ql chyz dygry nbshd khh z an chyz, tSwri wjwd dht dst dhd
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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Sfty r STlH my khnm, khh z t`ql drbrh y dht drkh my shwd, mnnd chyzy khh tshkhyl mhyt w r bdhd
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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wD` dht r Hlt my nmm, wD`y khh dht dr chyz dygry tjly my khnd w bwsylh an chyz drkh my shwd
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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m nmy twnym khtb mqds r b zbn mrwz drkh khnym. m byd an r b aghy z zbn `rf dwrny khh nwshth w tdwyn shdh st, bkhwnym w yn zbn Hdwd dwhzr sl pysh st
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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z dydgh flTwn, dst yby bh blndpyh tryn shkhl z shnkht w aghy <> bwd khh hmh rzshhy dygr z an nshy my shwnd w fqT an hngm my twnym bh <> dst ybym
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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rsTw my prsyd chh chyzy hdf zndgy st? w `tqd dsht hdf zndgy tHqq bkhshydn bh drwny tryn `mlkhrd mnHSr bh frd m st. w my prsd: <>... ... twnyy mnHSr bh frd m dr <> st
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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khwhn jm`h y hstm, khh syr bwrhy GlT nbshd
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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m`jzh h fqT bh wsTh y <> nsn wjwd drnd. dr dwrn bstn, hr rwyddy khh mmkhn nbwd b `lthy Tby`y an r twDyH dd, an r m`jzh dr nZr my grftnd. hrchh jhl twdh h, drbrh khr Tby`t byshtr bwd, shmr m`jzh h hm byshtr my shd. drbrh m`jzh h, hr chh t`dd byshtry d` khrdnd an r dydh nd, an rwydd khmtr bwrpdhyr st
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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spynwz/ sl 1656 myldy: mqmt mdhhby, z hmh rngsh, my khwhnd mn` rshd twnyy h w st`ddhy <<`qlny>> shwnd rhbrn mdhhby, rh <> khwd r b dkhlt dr mshGlh hy sysy gm khrdh nd mdhhb w khshwrdry byd z hm jd bshnd. tSwrpdhyrtryn Hkhm, rhbry st khh azdnh w r ntkhb khnnd w bwsylh shwry mntkhb mstqly qdrthysh mHdwd shwd khsy khh btwnd bry <> `mwm w mnyt w rfh jtm`y `ml khnd
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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jzh bdh z qwl ipykhwr khrdmnd ywnn bstn bh tw chyzy bgwym hdf z zndgy chyst pskh w yn st khh m byd jwyy atrkhsy bshym trjmh sh my shwd <> y rhyyi z drd w rnj hyjny pykhwr gfth: dr bkhshy z jtm` j bgyr khh khmtryn fshr rwny r bryt pdyd my awrd b khsy khh Hssty shbyh khwdt drd zdwj khn pykhwr khwd r fylswfy pzshkh my dnst khh bh bymry hy rwHy my prdkht. w gfth st: flsfh y khh rwH r shf ndhd bh ndzh y drwyy khh bdn r drmn nkhnd,..
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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Kendini iyi biri olarak gosteriyor, kimseye zarar vermiyor; kendinden ve dogadan baska hicbir seye! Sirf penceleri yok diye kendilerine iyi diyenlerden biri olmaktan vazgecirmeliyim onu
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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Bizler arzu edilenden cok arzu etmeye asigizdir!
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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Amor fati, yazgini sev!
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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Existential isolation, a third given, refers to the unbridgeable gap between self and others, a gap that exists even in the presence of deeply gratifying interpersonal relationships. One is isolated not only from other beings but, to the extent that one constitutes one's world, from world as well.
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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When we wake discouraged in the middle of the night, enemies that we had defeated long ago come back to haunt us.
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Irvin D. Yalom |
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While there is no solution to existential isolation, therapists must discourage false solutions. One's efforts to escape isolation can sabotage one's relationships with other people. Many a friendship or marriage has failed because, instead of relating to, and caring for, one another, one person uses another as a shield against isolation.
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