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b12b1ba Remember, emotions themselves are neither good nor bad. They are simply our psychological responses to the events of life. Gary Chapman
0730458 It may surprise you that the primary lifetime threat to your child is his or her own anger. Gary Chapman
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48b1fff What we dislike in others is often a weakness in our own lives. Gary Chapman
bc69eb1 life's deepest meaning is not found in accomplishments but in relationships. Gary Chapman
388c12f Unconditional love is a full love that accepts and affirms a child for who he is, not for what he does. No matter what he does (or does not do), the parent still loves him. Sadly, some parents display a love that is conditional; it depends on something other than their children just being. Conditional love is based on performance and is often associated with training techniques that offer gifts, rewards, and privileges to children who behav.. Gary Chapman
156ef34 Welcome to the real world of marriage, where hairs are always on the sink and little white spots cover the mirror, where arguments center on which way the toilet paper comes off and whether the lid should be up or down. It is a world where shoes do not walk to the closet and drawers do not close themselves, where coats do not like hangers and socks go AWOL during laundry. In this world, a look can hurt and a word can crush. Intimate lovers .. Gary Chapman
4f1c877 Forgiveness is not a feeling; it is a commitment. It is a choice to show mercy, not to hold the offense up against the offender. Forgiveness is an expression of love. "I love you. I care about you, and I choose to forgive you. Even though my feelings of hurt may linger, I will not allow what has happened to come between us. I hope that we can learn from this experience. You are not a failure because you have failed. You are my spouse, and t.. Gary Chapman
241a125 Parents who treat the teenager in the same manner in which they treated the child will not experience the same results they received earlier. When the teenager does not respond as the child responded, the parents are now pushed to try something different. Without proper training, parents almost always revert to efforts at coercion, which often lead to arguments, loss of temper, and perhaps, verbal abuse. Such behavior is emotionally devasta.. Gary Chapman
7744308 Gifts are visual symbols of love. Gary Chapman
404acde You can't buy what you want. It all comes as a gift. love Diane Mott Davidson
798a6c8 Death doesn't hurt," said one of the twins, and a light came into his silver eyes. "Death is dark, death is sweet." The other twin took up the litany. "Death is all that lasts forever. Death is eternal beauty." "Death is a lover with a thousand tongues--" "A thousand insect caresses--" "Death is easy." Poppy Z. Brite
d7c5deb I've never been a big fan of exercise. I just can't think of any other way to feel good." Kinsey Milhone" Sue Grafton
8a22785 While I'm not a big fan of nature, its intractability amuses me to no end. (Kinsey Millhone) nature Sue Grafton
40efbaa You can believe anything you like. Sue Grafton
5efda2e Death is insulting, and I resented its sudden appearance, like an unannounced visit from a boorish relative. Sue Grafton
3ac53dd I thought about the current contamination of beaches, raw sewage spilling into oceans and streams, the hole in the ozone, forests being stripped, the toxic-waste dumps, the merry plunder of mankind added to the drought and the famine that nature dishes up annually as a matter of course. It's hard to know what's actually going to get us first. Sometimes I think we should just blow the whole planet and get it over with. It's the suspense that.. suspense Sue Grafton
880a560 The Latin term pro bono, as most attorneys will attest, roughly translated means for boneheads and applies to work done without charge. Sue Grafton
0663237 Nico twisted his skull ring. Around him, bones began to quiver as if they were trying to form a new skeleton. Whenever he got moody, Nico had that effect on the dead, kind of like Hazel's curse. Between them, they represented Pluto's two spheres of control: death and riches. Sometimes Hazel thought Nico had gotten the better end of the deal. Rick Riordan
78b8742 Fucking family. Feeble and forlorn and floundering and foolish and frustrating and functional and sad, sad. Fucking family. Fiend or foe. Rick Moody
e9fd976 There was one major fact that kept the balance steady between us: I still needed my mother. I needed her shoulder to lean on; I needed her wisdom and advice. I used to come home from a long day in the Senate--or, in 2007 and 2008, from a day on the campaign trail--and slide in next to her at our kitchen table and let all my frustrations and worries tumble out. Mostly, she just listened. When she gave advice, it always came down to the same .. Hillary Rodham Clinton
88ec923 While there are few problems in today's world that the United States can solve alone, there are even fewer that can be solved without the United States. Everything that I have done and seen has convinced me that America remains the "indispensable nation." Hillary Rodham Clinton
e808389 Donald Trump didn't invent sexism, and its impact on our politics goes far beyond this one election. It's like a planet that astronomers haven't precisely located yet but know exists because they can see its impact on other planets' orbits and gravities. Sexism exerts its pull on our politics and our society every day, in ways both subtle and crystal clear. Hillary Rodham Clinton
cbc7aee Do all the good you can, by all the means you can, in all the ways you can, in all the places you can, at all the times you can, to all the people you can, as long as ever you can. Hillary Rodham Clinton
0eb40dd It hurts to be torn apart. Hillary Rodham Clinton
6d8a838 I feel safer when you're here. You're so big and sturdy, like a beautiful tree I can lean on and not knock over. tree Karen Cushman
82244de Men are inventing ideas every day to justify for themselves and others their actions and needs. Richard Wright
4f595d3 And if Poe were alive, he would not have to invent horror; horror would invent him. Richard Wright
ca77a0e Having been thrust out of the world because of my race, I had accepted my destiny by not being curious about what shaped it Richard Wright
0aa92bb Every man, it seems, interprets the world in the light of his habits and desires ideas interpretation Richard Wright
cd17020 to see was not to control, that self-understanding was far short of self-mastery. He was afraid of himself. Richard Wright
a23c935 A man will seek to express his relation to the stars; but when a man's consciousness has been riveted upon obtaining a loaf of bread, that loaf of bread is as important as the stars. poverty Richard Wright
7734d69 Hence, there is no such thing as an absolute objectivity of attitude. The most rigorously determined attitude of objectivity is, at best, relative. We are human; we are the slaves of our assumptions, of time and circumstance; we are the victims of our passions and illusions; and the most our critics can ask of us is this: Have you taken your passions, your illusions, your time, and your circumstance into account? Richard Wright
a385bb5 I felt that it was unfair that my lack of a few pounds of flesh should deprive me of a chance at a good job but I had long ago emotionally rejected the world in which I lived and my reaction was: Well, this is the system by which people want the world to run whether it helps them or not. To me, my losing was only another manifestation of that queer, material way of American living that computed everything in terms of the concrete: weight, c.. american-culture categorization materialism restrictions Richard Wright
9243fdd I had tasted what to me was life, and I would have more of it, somehow, someway. Richard Wright
1f7eb3d If only ten or twenty Negroes had been put into slavery, we would call it injustice, but there were hundreds of thousands of them throughout the country. If this state of affairs had lasted for two or three years, we could say that it was unjust; but it lasted for more than two hundred years. Injustice which lasts for three long centuries and which exists among millions of people over thousands of square miles of territory, is injustice no .. racism-in-america Richard Wright
09f6c0e At the age of twelve, before I had had one full year of formal schooling, I had a conception of life that no experience would ever erase, a predilection for what was real that no argument could ever gainsay, a sense of the world that was mine and mine alone, a notion as to what life meant that no education could ever alter, a conviction that the meaning of living came only when one was struggling to wring a meaning out of meaningless suffer.. life meaning meaning-of-life Richard Wright
898457f They lived on the surface of their days; their smiles were surface smiles, and their tears were surface tears. Negroes lived a truer and deeper life than they, but I wished that Negroes, too, could live as thoughtlessly, serenely as they. Richard Wright
e7fb5f3 You look like an accident going somewhere to happen Richard Wright
f6f69a9 A man walked across the moors from Razorback to Lancre town without seeing a single marshlight, head-less dog, strolling tree, ghostly coach or comet, and had to be taken in by a tavern and given a drink to unsteady his nerves. humor magic Terry Pratchett
cdfcb95 And still the storm approaches. And there's nothing I can do. So I wait and watch and feel his breath against my face, cool and brave. His salt licks my skin, his promise brushes my hair. His fury drives the wind to touch my cheek and whisper something I can't hear. I think he loves me. I think he comes to see me. I am young. I will learn Terry Moore
0d0a25e Kiowa who saw it happen said it was like watching a rock fall, or a big sandbag or something-Just Boom-then down. Not like in the movies where the dead guy rolls around and does fancy spins and goes ass over teakettle-not like that. Kiowa said. The bastard just flat fuck fell. Boom down. Nothing else. Tim O'Brien
804e721 Her white skin and those dark brown eyes and the way she always smiled at the world - always, it seemed - as if her face had been designed that way. The smile never went away. Tim O'Brien
f493af7 It's sad when you learn you're not much of a hero. Tim O'Brien