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43ea15a The question you should be asking isn't, "What do I want?" or "What are my goals?" but "What would excite me?" Timothy Ferriss
c3ffc2a on a scale of 1-10, 1 being nothing and 10 being permanently life-changing, my so-called worst-case scenario might have a temporary impact of 3 or 4. Timothy Ferriss
684be5b What bullshit excuses do you have for not going after whatever it is that you want? Please, write in, tell us on social media why these are real excuses with #bullshit afterwards. Oh my God, man, that's such a great story. Timothy Ferriss
6747354 If only I had more money" is the easiest way to postpone the intense self-examination and decision-making necessary to create a life of enjoyment--now and not later." Timothy Ferriss
9917c85 I have had so many spectacular failures, but looking back, I can see how each of them led me a little closer to doing what I actually wanted to do. Years before I was ready to write a book of my own, I bungled two opportunities to co-write cookbooks with other people. These mistakes haunted me, and I was sure I'd never get to write another book. But I waited, and I persisted, and after 17 years I wrote the book I'd always dreamt of. Timothy Ferriss
ab3f87c Emphasize strengths, don't fix weaknesses. Timothy Ferriss
2cf0382 Tim's TED Talk, "Inside the Mind of a Master Procrastinator," Timothy Ferriss
a7ac0f5 It's always the hard part that creates value. Timothy Ferriss
e763ed4 If the best in the world are stretching their asses off in order to get strong, why aren't you? Timothy Ferriss
bd08d07 As I detailed in my TED Talk, I think we all have two main characters in our heads: a rational decision-maker (the adult in your head) and an instant gratification monkey (the child in your head who doesn't care about consequences and just wants to maximize the ease and pleasure of the current moment). For me, these two are in a constant battle, and the monkey usually wins. But I've found that if I turn life into a yin-yang situation--e.g.,.. Timothy Ferriss
32694e0 Dreamlining is so named because it applies timelines to what most would consider dreams. Timothy Ferriss
a66c7d3 Happiness is a choice you make and a skill you develop. Timothy Ferriss
f8162eb The single book that has influenced me most is probably the last book in the world that anybody is gonna want to read: Thucydides' History of the Peloponnesian War. This book is dense, difficult, long, full of blood and guts. It wasn't written, as Thucydides himself attests at the start, to be easy or fun. But it is loaded with hardcore, timeless truths and the story it tells ought to be required reading for every citizen in a democracy. Th.. Timothy Ferriss
103418f Self-esteem is just the reputation that you have with yourself. You'll always know. Timothy Ferriss
28a37ca you should never publicly criticize anyone or anything unless it is a matter of morals or ethics. Anything negative you say could at the very least ruin someone's day, or worse, break someone's heart, or simply change someone from being a future ally of yours to someone who will never forget Timothy Ferriss
4db0aa8 If you set your goals ridiculously high and it's a failure, you will fail above everyone else's success." --James Cameron "If you find yourself in a fair fight, you didn't plan your mission properly." --Colonel David Hackworth "Not my circus. Not my monkeys." --Polish proverb" Timothy Ferriss
04310ed For a long time, I've known that the key to getting started down the path of being remarkable in anything is to simply act with the intention of being remarkable. "If I want a better-than-average career, I can't simply 'go with the flow' and get it. Most people do just that: they wish for an outcome but make no intention-driven actions toward that outcome. If they would just do something most people would find that they get some version of .. Timothy Ferriss
fa4c61f Busy is a decision." Here's why: Of the many, many excuses people use to rationalize why they can't do something, the excuse "I am too busy" is not only the most inauthentic, it is also the laziest. I don't believe in "too busy." Like I said, busy is a decision. We do the things we want to do, period. If we say we are too busy, it is shorthand for "not important enough." Timothy Ferriss
5505e1a What would this look like if it were easy? "This" could be anything. That morning, it was answering a laundry list of big questions. What would this look like if it were easy? is such a lovely and deceptively leveraged question. It's easy to convince yourself that things need to be hard, that if you're not redlining, you're not trying hard enough. This leads us to look for paths of most resistance, often creating unnecessary hardship in the.. Timothy Ferriss
d54106e 18. Notice how I take "you" out of the sentence to avoid finger-pointing, even though it's implicit. "Normally, you make priorities clear" sounds like a backhanded insult. If this is a significant other, you can skip this formality, but never use "you always do X," which is just a fight starter." Timothy Ferriss
e8b2ca7 Doing less meaningless work, so that you can focus on things of greater personal importance, is NOT laziness. This is hard for most to accept, because our culture tends to reward personal sacrifice instead of personal productivity. Timothy Ferriss
22ed584 Serving the customer ("customer service") is not becoming a personal concierge and catering to their every whim and want. Customer service is providing an excellent product at an acceptable price and solving legitimate problems (lost packages, replacements, refunds, etc.) in the fastest manner possible. That's it." Timothy Ferriss
3fa6ce1 Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect. Timothy Ferriss
ee5a114 This is the best thing you're ever going to learn in SEAL training.' We were excited to learn what it was, and he told us that when you're a leader, people are going to mimic your behavior, at a minimum. . . . It's a guarantee. So here's the key piece of advice, this is all he said: 'Calm is contagious. Timothy Ferriss
2a3ee04 Advice to your 20-year-old self? "I would say, 'Write everything down because it's all very fleeting.' I would say, 'Keep a journal,' which I have but I would have been more meticulous. Then I would say, 'Don't bow to the gatekeepers at the head of, in my case, show business, but at the gate of any business or any endeavor.' Don't bow to the gatekeepers because I think, in essence, there are no gatekeepers. You are the gatekeeper. . . . "Do.. Timothy Ferriss
d15893f even. By the time things were done, I was exhausted and depressed and just really, really unhappy. We all were. But it didn't have to be that way. That experience taught me to take agency in my own professional narratives, and that endings don't have to be failures, especially when you choose to end a project or shut down a business. Shortly after the restaurant closed, I started a food market as a small side project, and it ended up being .. Timothy Ferriss
8038de7 The concept of lifestyle design as a replacement for multi-staged career planning is sound. Timothy Ferriss
532209f Botnets are supremely powerful, since they can comprise thousands, even hundreds of thousands of computers, scattered all over the Internet, connected to juicy high-speed connections and running on fast home PCs. Those PCs normally function on behalf of their owners, but when the botmaster calls them, they rise like zombies to do his bidding. Cory Doctorow
b542e49 If you have a strong informed opinion, don't keep it to yourself. Try to help people and make the world a better place. If you strive to do anything remotely interesting, just expect a small percentage of the population to always find a way to take it personally. F*ck 'em. There are no statues erected to critics. Timothy Ferriss
f11eb33 Person A: What happens when Bill Gates walks into a bar of 55 people? Person B: I don't know. What? Person A: The "average" net worth jumps to more than a billion dollars!2" Timothy Ferriss
4ae0aba sometimes it pays to model the outliers, not flatten them into averages. This isn't limited to business. Timothy Ferriss
0d0c838 As Bruce Lee said, "Adapt what is useful, reject what is useless, and add what is specifically your own." Timothy Ferriss
bd31211 An expert is a person who has made all the mistakes that can be made in a very narrow field." -Niels Bohr" Timothy Ferriss
2686d2c Most people will choose unhappiness over uncertainty. Timothy Ferriss
ca714df Oftentimes, in order to do the big things, you have to let the small bad things happen. Timothy Ferriss
8e9d184 I used to resent obstacles along the path, thinking, 'If only that hadn't happened life would be so good.' Then I suddenly realized, life is the obstacles. There is no underlying path." Janna Levin TW/IG: @jannalevin" Timothy Ferriss
03cf813 How has being "realistic" or "responsible" kept you from the life you want? 2. How has doing what you "should" resulted in subpar experiences or regret for not having done something else? 3. Look at what you're currently doing and ask yourself, "What would happen if I did the opposite of" Timothy Ferriss
eac29fb Wasn't it Bill Clinton who said that when dealing with anyone who's upset, he always asks, 'Has this person slept? Have they eaten? Is somebody else bugging them?' He goes through this simple checklist. . . . When we're handling babies and the baby is kicking and crying, we almost never once say, 'That baby's out to get me' or 'She's got evil intentions. Timothy Ferriss
e1e9bb6 To find the right things, we'll need to go to the garden. Timothy Ferriss
f941a1b Most who avoid quitting their jobs entertain the thought that their course will improve with time or increases in income. This seems valid and is a tempting hallucination when a job is boring or uninspiring instead of pure hell. Pure hell forces action, but anything less can be endured with enough clever rationalization. Do you really think it will improve or is it wishful thinking and an excuse for inaction? If you were confident in improv.. Timothy Ferriss
85c30f0 1. Doing something unimportant well does not make it important. 2. Requiring a lot of time does not make a task important. Timothy Ferriss
42bfab4 Creation is a better means of self-expression than possession; it is through creating, not possessing, that life is revealed. --VIDA D. SCUDDER, The Life of the Spirit in the Modern English Poets Timothy Ferriss
ae82f12 Do your own thinking independently. Be the chess player, not the chess piece. --RALPH CHARELL Timothy Ferriss
e1764dd Losers react, leaders anticipate. Timothy Ferriss