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80483cf Sin is the self curved in on the self. Nadia Bolz-Weber
844732f We met the next day for coffee and when I asked her what was up she said, "I think I'm having a crisis of faith." To which I thought, "Yeah," she continued, "I-I think I believe in Jesus." " Nadia Bolz-Weber
c63257a And anyway, it has been my experience that what makes us the saints of God is not our ability to be saintly but rather God's ability to work through sinners. Nadia Bolz-Weber
0894357 Maybe we want the people who care for us and lead us to not be like us, to not struggle like us, because if we realize they, too, are hurting and needy, then maybe the spell -- the illusion that we're okay, that we're in good hands -- breaks. Nadia Bolz-Weber
92d3f60 makes me wonder if our need for pure black-and-white categories is not true religion but maybe actually a sin. Nadia Bolz-Weber
5484c4a Maybe the Good Friday story is about how God would rather die than be in our sin-accounting business anymore. The Nadia Bolz-Weber
82726a5 pas * triks) noun 1). A term of insult used by unimaginative sections of the church to define female pastors. 2). Female ecclesiastical superhero: Trinity from The Matrix in a clerical collar. "What on earth was that noise?" "A pastrix just drop-kicked a demon into the seventh circle of hell!" 3). Cranky, beautiful faith of a Sinner & Saint. --NewWineskinsDictionary.com" -- Nadia Bolz-Weber
335e70b Personally, I think knowing the difference between a racist and a saint is kind of important. But when Jesus again and again says things like the last shall be first, and the first shall be last, and the poor are blessed, and the rich are cursed, and that prostitutes make great dinner guests, it makes me wonder if our need for pure black-and-white categories is not true religion but maybe actually a sin. Knowing what category to place heml.. judgment Nadia Bolz-Weber
8d8c77c Sometimes God needs some stuff done, even though I can be a real asshole. There is absolutely no justice in the fact that Larry loved me and that church. But if I got what I deserved in this life, I'd be screwed -- so instead, I receive that grace for what it is: a gift. Nadia Bolz-Weber
48edd88 My outrage feels empty because what I am desperate for is to speak the truth of my burden of sin and have Jesus take it from me, yet ranting about the system or about other people will always be my go-to instead. Because maybe if I show the right level of outrage, it'll make up for the fact that every single day of my life I have benefitted from the very same system that acquitted George Zimmerman. My opinions feel good until I crash from .. outrage self-righteousness Nadia Bolz-Weber
7bdcfd4 The fact is, we are all, at once, bearers of the gospel and receivers of it. We meet the needs of others and have our needs met. And Nadia Bolz-Weber
f67097d the thing about grace, real grace, is that it stings. It stings because if it's real it means we don't "deserve" it. No" Nadia Bolz-Weber
c9fdd31 I looked harder at Matthew 25 and realized that if Jesus said "I was hungry and you fed me," then Christ's presence is not embodied in those who feed the hungry (as important as that work is), but Christ's presence is in the hungry being fed. Christ comes not in the form of those who visit the imprisoned but in the imprisoned being cared for. And to be clear, Christ does not come to us as the poor and hungry. Because, as anyone for whom th.. romanticizing-poverty service Nadia Bolz-Weber
2d7bef8 There are some Christians who talk about the rapture as if the good people in heaven will be given these awesome box seats from which to watch the bad people suffer on earth. This is the good people's reward for never having any fun while in this earthly existence. This sort of fear-mongering bullshit sells like hot cakes. People eat it up. And why wouldn't we? It panders to the selfish, hateful, vengeance-seeking parts of ourselves, like G.. rapture Nadia Bolz-Weber
2bdb745 We often behave as though Jesus is only interested in saving and loving a romanticized version of ourselves, or an idealized version of our mess of a world, and so we offer to him a version of our best selves. With our Sunday school shoes on, we sing songs about kings and drummers at his birth, perhaps so we can escape the Herod in ourselves and in the world around us. But we've lost the plot if we use religion as the place where we escape .. self-presentation Nadia Bolz-Weber
8543b9d On All Saints' Sunday, I am faced with sticky ambiguities around saints who were bad and sinners who were good. Nadia Bolz-Weber
529b8d0 I often think that the effort we put into trying to pretend something about us is true -- that we are less than we are or more than we are or that one aspect of ourselves is the whole story -- is based in a fear of being really known, of being truly seen, as we actually are. Perhaps we each have a wound, a vulnerable place that we have to protect in order to survive. And yet sometimes we overcompensate so much for the things we are trying.. vulnerability Nadia Bolz-Weber
1b3b0c8 I'm more haunted by how what I've said and the things I've done have caused harm to myself and others than I am worried that God will punish me for being bad. Because in the end, we aren't punished for our sins as much as we are punished by our sins. sin Nadia Bolz-Weber
cb9dcb8 When all of it is given meaning in the larger story of Jesus Christ, it destroys us, then pours our melted selves back into another form that still bears the marks of how we got there. Then we become something that can bear light, the brightness of which is not diminished, even when divided and borrowed. light Nadia Bolz-Weber
3200df3 when Jesus again and again says things like the last shall be first, and the first shall be last, and the poor are blessed, and the rich are cursed, and that prostitutes make great dinner guests, it makes me wonder if our need for pure black-and-white categories is not true religion but maybe actually a sin. Nadia Bolz-Weber
05bda79 There are many reasons to steer clear of Christianity. No question. I fully understand why people make that choice. Christianity has survived some unspeakable abominations: the Crusades, clergy sex-scandals, papal corruption, televangelist scams, and clown ministry. Nadia Bolz-Weber
17812d9 Because, after all, it was Jesus who had all the powers of the universe at his disposal but did not consider his equality with God something to be exploited. Instead, he came to us in the most vulnerable of ways, as a powerless, flesh-and-blood newborn. As if to say, "You may hate your bodies, but I am blessing all human flesh. You may admire strength and might, but I am blessing all human weakness. You may seek power, but I am blessing all.. Nadia Bolz-Weber
653105f being loved, really loved, can sting a little, reminding us of all the times we have loved poorly or not at all, all the ways in which we have done things that make us feel unworthy of real love. Nadia Bolz-Weber
d6295fc But as much as being the person who is the best Christian, who "follows Jesus" the most closely can feel a little seductive, it's simply never been who I am or who my parishioners need me to be. I'm not running after Jesus. Jesus is running my ass down." Nadia Bolz-Weber
765dced I told them that when I heard Billy was bright, an artist and musician, and when I heard that he loved his family and loved people through difficulty in relationships, and when I heard that he struggled with heroin and booze addictions and an unhelpful brain chemistry, and when I heard that he was beautifully queer and passionate and sometimes played piano in his sister's dresses, I knew. I knew that Billy was pretty much exactly the kind o.. Nadia Bolz-Weber
78120a5 Many of us would pray not to die in a car crash before we were baptized, like other people pray to not get sick before their employee benefits kick in. fundamentalism humor Nadia Bolz-Weber
cf41c61 The Bible is not God. The Bible is simply the cradle that holds Christ. Nadia Bolz-Weber
e5566d1 I remembered that, at one point in my life, my own depression had felt so present, so much like a character in my life, that it had actually felt right to go ahead and give her a name. I named my depression Frances Nadia Bolz-Weber
ceed1f4 All fiction may be autobiography, but all autobiography is of course fiction. Autobiography
55d83a1 I need to be broken apart and put back into a different shape by that merging of things human and divine, which is really screwing up and receiving grace and love and forgiveness rather than receiving what I really deserve. I Nadia Bolz-Weber
c5d4d32 what if God's Word is so much more powerful than our ability to become worthy of God? I mean, not for nothing, but if God can create the universe by speaking it into existence, then I think God can make us into God's beloved by simply saying it is so. This, it seems to me, is a vital and overlooked miracle of the Annunciation story. Nadia Bolz-Weber
fa02656 A lot of people don't experience that kind of freedom, and they're hungry for it. Yet instead, people have been fed spoonfuls of nonsense and told it was Jesus. Nadia Bolz-Weber
3d89907 We have to hear again and again who God is for us and what God has done on our behalf. We must free each other from bondage through our confession and forgiveness. Nadia Bolz-Weber
4ecefdf But around God's table, and around God's people, you don't have to pretend or overcompensate. You can just be. And in just being, you can, in the fierce and loving eyes of God, be known, be whole, and maybe even find a little rest. Because keeping it all going is just exhausting. Nadia Bolz-Weber
c7014af Che Guevara, since Nadia Bolz-Weber
581097a even though this is often how we treat Jesus, like we are trying to shelter him from reality. We often behave as though Jesus is only interested in saving and loving a romanticized version of ourselves, or an idealized version of our mess of a world, and so we offer to him a version of our best selves. With our Sunday school shoes on, we sing songs about kings and drummers at his birth, perhaps so we can escape the Herod in ourselves and in.. Nadia Bolz-Weber
612c41b McPreachy's Kool-Aid fountain of positive thinking. Nadia Bolz-Weber
1cb1d09 to say "Lord have mercy, Christ have mercy, Lord have mercy" is to lay our hope in the redeeming work of the God of Easter as though our lives depended on it. Because they do. It means that we are an Easter people, a people who know that resurrection, especially in and among the least likely people and places, is the way that God redeems even the biggest messes we make " Nadia Bolz-Weber
87287b2 How is it that Judas, who betrayed Jesus once and was filled with remorse, became the villain, while Peter, who denied Jesus three times and wept bitterly, became the rock on which the church was built? When it comes down to it, what is the difference between Peter and Judas? Well, maybe nothing. And maybe there's not a whole lot of difference between us and them too. Nadia Bolz-Weber
db8d5c1 Jesus could have hung out in the high-end religious scene of his day, but instead he scoffed at all that, choosing instead to laugh at the powerful, befriend whores, kiss sinners, and eat with all the wrong people. He spent his time with people for whom life was not easy. And there, amid those who were suffering, he was the embodiment of perfect love. Nadia Bolz-Weber
091d389 God is always present in love and in suffering. Nadia Bolz-Weber
179b3c2 I can, however, talk endlessly about the way I've been thrown on my ass over and over by the Bible, the practices of the church, and the people of God. That is to say, by religion. Nadia Bolz-Weber
879c75e Of course if no one had ever been exposed to dangerous ideas from scandalous women, Christianity itself would not have had its unique beginning nor its glorious history, but whatever. Nadia Bolz-Weber
fdd9b2a Good Friday is a stark and unapologetic display of remorse. Remorse for the way in which humanity kills ourselves and the creation and love and God him/herself. Nadia Bolz-Weber