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| Link | Quote | Stars | Tags | Author |
| 6fecfcb | suffered, to forgive the one who inflicted it. And yet, there is no peace without forgiveness. --MARIANNE WILLIAMSON | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| 932ff8b | Today's practice is about clearing and releasing the hurts, wounds, and judgments you may hold about or against women. Our experience and expectations of women begins with our mothers. Chances are if we have any judgments about our mothers, they will extend to other women. | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| 0226464 | NO CHOICE IS A BAD CHOICE; EVERY CHOICE IS AN OPPORTUNITY FOR LEARNING TO UNFOLD. | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| 49e32f5 | A MOTHER IS HER CHILDREN'S FIRST TEACHER. HER RELATIONSHIP WITH HER CHILDREN BEGINS WHEN THEY ARE IN THE WOMB. | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| dc77c90 | Open yourself to consider the glorious possibilities that lie just beyond how you have seen, held, and related to the masculine energy of the Creator that is embodied in all men. | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| 707892c | THE MEN YOU HAVE LOVED OR THOSE WHO REFUSED TO LOVE YOU | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| 0518066 | Today's Forgiveness Practice is about forgiving the judgments, hurts, and wounds that may be buried in your consciousness and are engraved into your mother's name. You will be forgiving all thoughts, beliefs, memories, and experiences you may have judged as wrong, unfair, unkind, or unloving. | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| 8966e3c | for the supervisor's failure to promote us, for Boo-Boo's cheating, and for the fact that we just can't seem to get our lives | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| d71ae10 | I WONDER IF PEOPLE REALIZED THE PAIN THEY CAUSE WITH THEIR MEAN SPEAKING AND JUDGMENTS | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| bc3ed71 | the form of gossip, betrayal, and unwarranted judgment. Women are also more prone than men to compare themselves to one another. | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| ccad9b9 | Although frustrated and angry, I was determined not to give up on forgiveness or myself. | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| 39804ca | What if forgiving my mother also means forgiving myself? | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| ca31a2b | Surrender is a state of mind and being that opens the mind and heart to divine revelation. | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| 773f7f7 | forgive myself; and ask them for forgiveness. More important, I had to see the best in them, no matter what they chose for themselves. | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| 05d5ab3 | thinking that I had done something | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| cba0b51 | possibilities You have in store for me.Today, | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| c034d7b | The story was no longer important to tell. | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| 1c521ac | dislike in ourselves. | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| f41ddf3 | there comes a point where a person's psycho-social history is of little or no consequence. | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| 9d6e171 | DREAMS THE CHILDREN HAVE FOR | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| 73ae05f | I had watched my father, my uncles, my brother, and even my son--only on occasion--treat the women in their lives less than honorably. | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| 1df973d | INCREASES OUR CHANCES TO RECEIVE WITHOUT DOING ANYTHING. | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| 31aa4b4 | and over, the job you go to day in and day out, the status of your bank account. Now consider what you believe is missing in your life . . . Everything you are experiencing is a function of your files, or what you are thinking. Another way to increase your awareness of your dominant negative thought patterns is to closely examine what you think about other people. Here is a series of truths that is often difficult for people to recognize or.. | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| 17b9d18 | ACCEPT ABOUT OURSELVES. | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| b033e7c | we really want to see change in the world and find a common, sacred meeting place, we can practice forgiveness rather than against-ness. | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| 50cb66c | The greatest service I can offer is ... willingness to do things in a new way. Some of us are given the awesome task of breaking our family's pattern of poverty, pain, suffering, ignorance and fear. Some of us come into life for the sheer purpose of guiding our family into a new way of thinking, living and being. For this reason, your family may think you are weird or different. They may accuse you of doing things that are not right. They m.. | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| bb14e82 | Anything and everything we experience is a function of what and how we think. How we think determines our feelings and behavior. How we behave determines the nature and quality of our lives. This also means that any emotional investment (i.e., feelings) that are attached to a particular thought pattern will resurface each time the pattern is engaged or entertained. To neutralize and eventually eliminate an unconscious, unproductive pattern .. | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| 9ddd3c0 | Prayer is the way we communicate with God. Affirmation is the way we reprogram the mind. | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| 2954a88 | opinions, and convictions when they do not mirror what I believe. | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| 7cf1dbc | If it's not your story to tell, you don't tell it.' - Iyanla Vanzant | Emma Sadleir | ||
| 742bd58 | JEALOUSY, AND RIDICULE. | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| ee62d8b | yourself, from whom you need forgiveness. Once you have completed the letter, you are encouraged to transform it by burning it, burying in, tearing it into pieces, flushing it, or deleting it from your computer. With any of these actions, you are not destroying the letter. Instead, you are transforming it and the energy it carries. | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| 785aa55 | But then again, if I can only attract what I expect, what was I to do with all of the hurt, sadness, sorrow, anger, and fear that had built up as a result of what I had seen | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| ec515e2 | Take a few deep breaths. Ask your anger to speak to you. Write down the thoughts. Write about the feelings. When you are finished, forgive yourself for holding on to the anger for so long. Then, ask the Holy Spirit to transform the anger into a passion for life. Today I am devoted to healing unresolved and unexpressed anger! | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| 0e49169 | my freedom. And So It Is! | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| 5d9e2d0 | aggressive, or fine but the timing was just not right. | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| 8da6bf8 | longer than it was necessary or productive to do so. | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| ccc635d | darkness, you bring in the light. | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| 62dd2f7 | used the sordid details of my stories as an excuse to talk badly about men, judge them, mistrust them, expect little from them, and give of myself begrudgingly as I waited for the axe to fall on my neck. | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| 3cbd918 | Every thought you think is a prayer. Every word you speak is a prayer. Every act in which you engage is a prayer, because the Spirit of God lives in you.' Now, how awesome is that?" -- Iyanla Vanzant 56." -- | Stephen W Gardner | ||
| f5a80c0 | Sooner or later, we must all accept the fact that in a relationship, the only person you are dealing with is yourself. Your partner does nothing more than reveal your stuff to you. Your fear! Your anger! Your pattern! Your craziness! As long as you insist on pointing the finger out there, at them, you will continue to miss out on the divine opportunity to clear your stuff. Here is a meantime tip--we love in others what we love in ourselves... | Stephen W Gardner | ||
| 2b256aa | WALLY AMOS ONCE said, "If you're going through hell, don't stop to take pictures!" But that's exactly what we do, isn't it? We maintain a mental catalog of every detail of what has happened. When the situation is over, we show off our mental pictures by telling the story over and over, embellishing the worst details. It creates pain in the brain and drama in life. We hate it, but we do it, unconsciously. When we hold on to and mentally reli.. | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| 0899ec3 | Courage is a tool and a weapon. With just a little, you can build your life and use it to fend for yourself in the world. It | Iyanla Vanzant | ||
| 66d9c1c | Truth is love's mother, and we all know it is not wise to lie to anyone's mother. Somehow, some way, Mother always finds out that you are lying. When she does, there is hell to pay! | Iyanla Vanzant |